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Thomas Wilson

1941 - 2019

Thomas Wilson obituary, 1941-2019, Houston, TX

BORN

1941

DIED

2019

Thomas Wilson Obituary

Thomas Redyard Wilson
1941-2019
Tom Wilson's quiet strength, humor, and kindness gave great happiness to many, especially his wife, sons, and grandchildren. His integrity, unwavering vision of what was important and right, and courage were for us, his family, a rock. A distinctive legacy is his architectural work for over 300 clients, individuals and families, for whom he designed houses. His architectural vision and sensitivity to their desires and needs have enhanced their lives.
Tom was born in Old Hickory, Tennessee, on January 8, 1941. His family moved to Chattanooga during WWII, where his father worked in the Dupont nylon plant. There, as a teenager, Tom did shift work as a bobbin tester in the summer. After graduating from Chattanooga High School, he rode the train to Houston to attend Rice (Institute), majoring in architecture. The choice of Rice was inspired in part by architect cousin Talbott Wilson. (A beloved junior high art teacher, Miss Mennen, had encouraged him to pursue an art-related field.) Other influences included Andy Todd, professor of architecture, and Jasper Rose, an Englishman who taught painting at Rice. Tom set up his easel from time to time over the years producing canvases inspired by travel and photographs. Some of these hang in his and his sons' homes. He preferred not to sign them: "If they see your name people feel they have to make positive comments." A member of Baker College, he was elected chairman of the Honor Council, chosen Outstanding Senior, and designed the costume for the Queen of Archi-arts. In pursuing architecture, Tom found a way to pursue his passion while making a difference in others' lives.
In 1964, after graduating from Rice, he married classmate Diane (Del) Lohr. He persuaded her to join the Peace Corps, and they served for two years in Kef, a small mountain town in western Tunisia. Working at the local Travaux Publics office, Tom tried to insert traditional Arab elements in the design of his projects over the resistance of local officials, who wanted their new buildings to look "modern." (Like the 60's drive-in restaurants they saw in American movies.) The two year-stint was a stimulating, adventurous time, allowed for travel to Algeria and Sicily, and introduced them to French friends they still have. They later traveled extensively, usually on their own, relying on the resourcefulness and grit that served them in the Peace Corps.
After a two-year stint in North Africa, Tom returned to Houston to work for Preston Bolton. Though the job provided little opportunity to design, he was given full responsibility for Bolton's remodeling projects. He later said this experience was key to the knowledge and skills needed in residential work. His patience in dealing with planning clients' homes was legendary, with some projects spanning five years or more and with many repeat clients. In 1966, the year his first son was born, Bill Anderson proposed that they open their own practice, and they settled into a small modular building they built on Virginia Street. He built a townhouse for his family on Bissonnet, in West University Place. A later house in West U followed on Sewanee Street, where the family lived for the remainder of the boys' childhoods.
During a 50-year career, Tom's houses and interiors were published in magazines and newspapers and garnered numerous awards. Most of his houses were in Houston, but he also did projects in the Texas Hill Country, Dallas, Oklahoma City, and Canada. Though his designs appear "traditional" to many, he was fundamentally a modernist as evidenced by the Sewanee house. A signature design element that had fallen out of fashion and that he felt was key to being able to be outdoors in Texas was the screen porch. Unusual design details like interior windows and surprising level changes reflect his imagination and eclectic aesthetic. Richard Rivera and Marylin Thompson were long-standing colleagues in Tom's Houston practice who contributed greatly to his success, and Karen Graul was a frequent interior design partner.
Tom passed away in his sleep at home in Savannah, Georgia, on the morning of March 25, 2019. The cause was complications of a form of Parkinson's Disease. He leaves his wife Diane, sons Kef and Gavin, and four grandchildren: Madeleine Corum of Austin; and Eamon, Fiona, and Eoin Wilson of Savannah. Other family include his brother John Wilson (Marsha), sister Anne Simms (Mike), sister-in-law Kathy St. Gil of Houston, and several nieces.
Tom was greatly loved. His calm strength was a gift to all his family and friends and will be terribly missed.
For their loving care and support the family is grateful to many friends, caregivers Marlene Kears at Hospice Savannah, Linda Jackson from THA Group, and our new Landings neighbors. Tom's work can be seen online at www.tomwilsonarchitect.com. Tributes in his honor may be made to CurePSP, Hospice Savannah, Savannah Country Day School, or a charity of your choice.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Mar. 31, 2019.

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Karen Wilson

June 13, 2019

We just learned of Tom's passing. We were surprised and saddened. Even though Diane and I are first cousins, we did not see each other since childhood. My husband was also a residential architect but not of the same caliber. Jim and I send our love to you, Diane, and the family. May you find comfort in knowing that God has a plan for each of us and we will meet some day in heaven.

Raina Pelofsky

June 8, 2019

When I think of Tom, I remember his tall presence. His welcoming smile revealed his keen sense of humor and opened a path for the two of us to have many enjoyable conversations about historic preservation, travel, neighborhood politics, or whatever happened to come up. He always seemed to "get" me, and to respect my points of view. Tom and Diane were classy additions to Mesta Park neighborhood in Oklahoma City, where they restored one of our beloved historic houses on 16th Street and called it home for several years. Even now, when I pass that house on my morning walks, I consider it to be Tom and Diane's house and appreciate the care they took in its restoration. I'm so very saddened to hear of Tom's passing. His memory will continue to live in me, and I'll keep that memory alive each morning as I give him a little wave while I walk by 16th and Dewey. Be at peace, Tom.

Jim & Claudia McDonald

April 4, 2019

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Diane and all your family.

We have many warm memories of you and your caring and understanding.

April 1, 2019

Please accept our sincere condolences to the family and friends. Losing a loved one in death is never easy. May the hope of everlasting life sustain and comfort you during this difficult time. (John 17:3).

April 1, 2019

Tom Wilson showed a special kindness to my husband and I. We also lived in West University and built a new house about the same time as Tom built his house in WU. Years later Tom helped up remodel our late 70's vintage house with a more updated look. We loved his work. We send our deepest heart-felt sympathy to his wife and family.

Ed and Carol Billups

Walter Murphy

April 1, 2019

Tom was a great architect and a consummate gentleman. He will be missed but remembered through his work.

Linda Lewis

April 1, 2019

Twenty seven years after it was completed, our house stands as a timeless testament of Tom's talent and his love of modern architecture. He was a friend who will be missed, however, the Tom Wilson birdhouse is a daily reminder of his presence. Our love to you, Diane, and your family.

Dalia Stokes

March 31, 2019

What a lovely tribute to a wonderful man. We are so grateful to have gotten to know Tom first as our architect, and later as a friend. He is one of the few of whom it truly can be said "he left the world a better place."

March 31, 2019

Working for Tom had a profound impact on how I practice architecture. He walked the fine line of listen to the client's desires and needs while pushing for the very best design. Always a gentleman in the best sense of the word. Houston's residential architecture today owes much to Tom.

Virginia Kelsey

Stephen James

March 31, 2019

I'm sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I haven't talked with him in a long time but won't forget his laugh or his quick smile. He was a wonderful man and a very talented architect.

March 31, 2019

My sincere condolences to the family. May your faith and confidence in the God of all comfort strengthen and console your hearts.

Psalm 27:14

March 29, 2019

We are saddened to learn of the passing of Tom, but grateful for his (and Diane's) service to our nation with the Peace Corps in Tunisia.

Our Condolences,
The National Peace Corps Association

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