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Tobin Scott O'Donnell

1979 - 2025

Tobin Scott O'Donnell obituary, 1979-2025, Houston, TX

Tobin O'Donnell Obituary

Tobin Scott O'Donnell
09/17/1979 - 07/02/2025
Tobin Scott O'Donnell of Houston, Texas unexpectedly passed away on the 2nd of July 2025, leaving behind a legacy of faith, love, and unwavering devotion to family and friends.
Born on the 17th of September 1979, in Houston, Texas, Tobin was the cherished youngest child of Janet and Kenneth O'Donnell, and beloved brother to Denise O'Donnell Evans and Kenneth O'Donnell, Jr. Growing up in Tanglewood, Tobin spent his childhood exploring the bayous and ravines with his close-knit group of friends, bonds he maintained throughout his life.
A devoted follower of Christ, Tobin's life was guided by deep faith, compassion, and integrity. He attended St. Michael Catholic School until sixth grade and graduated from The Kinkaid School. After two years at SMU, he transferred to the University of Texas at Austin, joining his future wife, Heidi Neusel of Beaumont, Texas, whom he met during his freshman year. They married in 2004 and built a beautiful life together.
Tobin began his professional journey in finance, development, and operations at Ley Wilson Development, where he led the construction of multiple subdivisions. He later earned his MBA from Rice University and joined Oceaneering International, Inc. With his brother Kenny, Tobin co-founded Colton Capital Partners, where he played a key role in building several successful oilfield service companies. After exiting those ventures, he shifted Colton's focus to investing in independent sponsors, searchers, and various funds. Always humble, Tobin never sought recognition for his hard work and accomplishments.
Above all, Tobin's greatest joy was his family. He was an unconditionally loving husband, devoted father, loyal brother, and steadfast friend. He was immensely proud of his children, Lawson and Hudson, and was their biggest supporter-coaching, cheering, and advocating for them in every aspect of their lives. Whether hunting, fishing, or simply spending time together, Tobin cherished every moment with his family.
As a friend, Tobin was honest, kind, and endlessly generous. He had a unique ability to make everyone feel special, and those who met him often left saying he was their new favorite person. Tobin was always the first to offer help, a fierce defender, and the most loyal companion anyone could hope for.
Tobin's legacy of faith, humility, and love will live on in all who were fortunate to know him.
Left to cherish his memory are Tobin's devoted wife, Heidi Neusel O'Donnell; their two children, Lawson and Hudson; his mother and father, Janet and Ken O'Donnell; his sister Denise and her husband, Ramsey Evans; and his brother Kenny O'Donnell and his wife, Katie. Also surviving Tobin are his in-laws, Sharon and Edward Neusel; five nieces, seven nephews, and numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins.
A memorial service is to be conducted at one o'clock in the afternoon, on Friday, the 11th of July at St. Martin's Episcopal Church, where The Rev. Martin J. Bastian is to officiate.
In lieu of customary remembrances, memorial contributions can be made to St. Martin's Episcopal Church, 717 Sage Road, Houston, TX 77056 or online at www.stmartinsepiscopal.org/give-main/memorial-gifts/honorarium-or-memorial-information; re:MIND online at www.remindsupport.org; or Texas Children's Hospital, Office of Philanthropy, Suite 6226, PO Box 300630, Houston, TX 77230-0630 or online at www.texaschildrens.org/givetoday. Please note Tobin O'Donnell in the memo line or online.
Please visit Mr. O'Donnell's online memorial tribute at GeoHLewis.com, where memories and words of comfort and condolence may be shared electronically with his family.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Jul. 10, 2025.

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Karen and Byron Hood

July 15, 2025

To the entire family, please accept our sympathy and best wishes.

Sherry Crossin

July 14, 2025

I never knew Tobin, but I knew of him through my daughter, Lindsay Crossin McConn. She and Tobin were at Rice together, getting their MBAs. She described him as a dear friend, and she was devastated at his loss. I am sure he was a very special person, and I wanted to send my condolences to his family. May you find peace and comfort. In sympathy, Sherry Crossin

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