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1974
DIED
2009
Shawn Wilde Obituary
A 1992 graduate of Nampa High School, Shawn stayed true to his fiercely independent spirit and skipped commencement ceremonies, leaving instead for work on a ranch in Battle Mountain, Nev. He had earned his Eagle Scout as a teenager, taught himself to play the piano and guitar, enjoyed making music with neighborhood friends and family, and sang in a couple of small town bands during his years in Nevada.
Shawn served a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints from '93 – '95 in the Cleveland Ohio Mission. In '96, he married Aharon Burton of Gardnerville, Nev., in the Oakland California Temple.
He took pleasure from working with wood and made furniture for their newly-established home out of 2x4's. Fortunately, he devoted time over the years to refining his woodworking skills.
He worked as an EMT and later became a CNA. The family moved to Fort Wayne in 2004. Prior to his death, Shawn was employed as an ironworker with Iron-workers Local 173.
Shawn was proud to be the father of a houseful of sons – Christian (12), Mason (10), Samuel (5) and Quincy (8 months). He was an avid fisherman. He loved the outdoors, the smell of sage brush, quiet hours of solitude, but treasured time spent with his family.
Though he wouldn't want to be credited for it, Shawn cheerfully served others in countless ways. He had a gift for making others feel needed and important, always generous in the giving of his time and kind words. He was well known for his humor and memories of his crazy pranks and antics will keep his family laughing for years to come.
Shawn is survived by his wife and sons; his parents, Howard and Marcha Wilde of Nampa; brothers, Todd (Kim) Wilde of Cedar City, UT and Mark (Katie) Wilde of Nampa; sisters, Marci (Dennis) Durrant of Meridian and Delsi (Jack) Nixon of Salt Lake City, UT; sister-in-law, Cynthia Wilde of Kennewick, WA; 21 nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by a nephew, Michael Nixon and his oldest brother, Kirk.
Funeral services were held in Fort Wayne on Sunday, March 29. An open house will be held in honor of Shawn's life on Monday, April 6, from 7 until 9 p.m. at the home of Brent and Carol Lee, 6415 E. Locust Lane in Nampa. All friends and family are invited. The Wilde family extends their gratitude to the Lees for providing their home to accommodate this gathering. They are grateful to everyone for the outpouring of love and support shown them during this difficult time.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shawn Wilde
Quincy Wilde
November 30, 2019
My mom said he was a great man and she wished that he was not dead.He died when I was 4 months old.From Quincy Wilde
Jeff Cotterell
April 8, 2009
Howard and Marsha,
We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. No words can fill the hole in your hearts but please know of our love and concern for you and your family.
Jeff and Kathie Cotterell and family.
April 5, 2009
The sorrow of hearing of your loss took our breath away. Our heart felt sympathy to your family at this time. Huggs and kisses from us all Daryl & Cheryl Krajnik, Stacy & Sean Wright, Tammie & Carl Haynes, Robert & Amanda Krajnik
Kathy Henderson/Jennings
April 3, 2009
Howard and Marsha,
My goodness I was so sorry to learn of the loss of another one of your son's. Heavenly Father must really need the strength of the young Wilde men. I know this so supposed to be a short time before we see our loved ones and I am so grateful for that knowledge. But I don't think we truly understood how long the separation would seem so those of us left behind. My love and sympathy go to you and your precious family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sasha Takis (Rasmussen)
April 3, 2009
Many prayers go out to all the Wildes. Shawn was not just my good friend's little brother, but also my good friend. I'd never have survived high school speech without him sitting right behind me cracking jokes the whole time. What a great guy with a tremendous sense of humor. I am so sad for his family. I can picture his smile and I'm sure you'll miss him terribly. God bless.
Lyric Payne (Smith)
April 3, 2009
I went to high school with Shawn. Although I did not know him well, I do remember his sense of humor - very dry and hilarious. As someone else has said, he did not seem to sweat the small stuff. He seemed confident in who he was and was very genuine. Not many people are like that in high school, as we are figuring out what is important to us - he already seemed to know. I also remember he and Ben Kern and Klint Keller performing in a band at a school event. I think they only performed Steve Miller Band songs! And if my memory isn't failing me, they sounded pretty good!
Duc Pham
April 2, 2009
I know this guy... wen to school with him.... he always kinda talked from the side of his mouth... always a nice guy.. bless him... Duc Pham
Paula Callan
April 2, 2009
Aharon, My heart goes out to you and your boys during this time. Please know that I am here for you. I love you.
Jens Jensen
April 2, 2009
Howard, I am sorry to hear about your son. He sounds like a wonderful man. God bless you for raising him in the gospel and giving him a sure footing so he could succeed in life.
Joyce Trushenski & Doug Payne
April 2, 2009
The search for the blessing is the hardest part of the healing. We pray that once found, your blessing becomes an anchor for faith in brighter tomorrows and a fertile spot for growth in honoring memory and nurturing the goodness that lies within because of a loved one's presence in our lives. Your family in Florida, upholds you in prayer; seeking God's gift of strength and healing while providing assurance of the joyous reunion awaiting those who rest in Him.
Douglas and Joyce Payne
Sarasota, Florida
LaCrissia Locatelli
April 2, 2009
I only worked with Shawn for a few months at Carson Tahoe, but he always made it a very fun experience. I was sad to see him leave, and even sadder now knowing he has passed away. I am very sorry for your loss and I pray for comfort in this difficult time.
Rachele Eisenhour
April 2, 2009
Aharon, Christian, Mason, Sam & Quincy - please know we all love you, and we are all praying that this time you are all going through right now will get better with every day. It might not seem like it at times, but there will be a smile on your face someday soon. I am so sorry to hear this news and my heart truly does go out to all of you. Aharon, you have 4 wonderful silly boys, and they will be by your side always. And all of your family and friends love you and will be there as you need it. Penelope wanted me to tell you that she hopes you are feeling ok soon. Take care.
DeeDee Mefford
April 1, 2009
Aharon - I know we did not always see eye to eye on things but when I heard about what happened to your family my heart just dropped. I know you love him very much. I hope you and the boys are doing ok. My heart & prayers goes out to you and your family.
Matthew Evans
April 1, 2009
Shawn was a great friend! He was one of the anchors in our drum and bugle corps in Nampa, and always fun to have on scout camp-outs. He will be missed!
jerry jr boyce
April 1, 2009
I am saddend to hear about your loss. take care
Kellie Evans
March 31, 2009
Shawn was a year ahead of me in school. Although, I didn't know him well, there were still fun times in band. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family at this trying time.
O'Dell Peterson
March 31, 2009
I remember Shawn for his early years. I have thought about how you and Chris did many things together in Band. Your family is great. They have had quite a loss in the past couple of years. May all of your family be blessed at this time. Thank goodness for the gospel. I am sure he has a special family here on earth and they will get a chance to see him again. God Bless.
O'Dell Peterson
Chris Peterson
March 31, 2009
Shawn was a great friend. High school would not have been the same without him. No one knew Steve Miller Band like Shawn. You'll be missed old friend.
Diane Primka
March 31, 2009
Aharon - I have not talked to you in awhile but I still think of you often. I was shocked and saddened to hear that Shawn had passed away. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys.
Tina Kuhlman
March 31, 2009
Shawn, We had some great times at CTH. The patients all loved you and so did we( your fellow nurses) we really missed you when you moved to Indiania. I'll never forget when one of our patients made a strange noise, and with a straight face, you said Oh that's only Tina she farts all of the time. I though I would die laughing. Any song I came up with you could sing it with your great voice and tell me the artist and year. You were a true friend, great father, and wonderful co-worker. Sleep well my friend.
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Mrs. Jen Barney
March 30, 2009
My thoughts are with you and your children.
Haley Elementary
Marc Wheeler
March 30, 2009
I am so sad the world has lost such a great man. Shawn is one of the funnest, funniest most pleasent people I have known. I gained a respect for him when we went looking for Carl while the other scouts held down camp. I have missed him since I moved away from home, and will continue to miss him forever. May the Lord bless your beautiful family.
Chad Niblett
March 30, 2009
A&W Root Beer, I have not been able to look at the drink the same. Sean told me a story about him and a family member I think it was a brother enjoying an A&W on a hot summer day together, and how the simple drink would bring him right back to simpler times. He was a great example to me as a young man about not sweating the small stuff. Sean and I were on our way back from delivering some Christmas trees to some folks that needed a little extra help when I had thrown a hatched up on the dash of an old truck, the back of it hitting the windshield causing a small crack, I felt bad at the damage that I had caused, Sean laughed and said that the window was full of cracks already he then struck the window with his hand and caused the cracks to spread the length of the windshield I was a little shocked and then he told me to give it a whack. I have always looked up to Sean and I believe he new that. I was instantly saddened by the news of his passing. I first went to the store and got an A&W and then prayed for Aharon and the kids. I am sorry for your loss and miss you guys. Chad Niblett
Leslie Van Ausdal
March 30, 2009
I am soooo sorry! I have been thinking about you two on and off the past couple of years! I have missed you guys so much! You two were a big influence in my life. I loved Shawn's humor, and I really looked up to you guys a lot growing up. I truely miss you, and Shawn, and my heart, thoughts and prayers are with you at this hard time!
Love Leslie Van Ausdal (Niblett)
angie niblett
March 30, 2009
aharon...im so sorry for your loss...you and shawn were such a big part of my familys life when us kids were growing up. you two impacted me in a way that no other could. you were always the YW leader i knew i could go to. i love you aharon, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your boys.
D & C 121: 7-8
Angie
Becky Simpson
March 30, 2009
Howard, Marsha and family,
My heart goes out to all of you at this tragic loss of a wonderful son, and brother. He was a wonderful guy. Your family is very dear to me and my prayers go out to you. May the Lord's loving arms comfort and bless you in the coming days.
Jan Tarvestad
March 30, 2009
Not a day goes by that I don't think of Jill and Tom. I also wish I had known you and Aleisha better and longer. It would have been so great if our families had been close and loving towards one another. We get so busy with our lives. If you are ever in MN, I live at 2219 Chelmsford Lane, St. Cloud, 56301. I haven't received a photo post card from you in awhile. You are blessed with four children? Wonderful. I am so sorry that Shawn is no longer with you to help raise the boys. You have to be strong and courageous. God does not give you more than you can handle and his grace is with you always.
Jon Trushenski
March 29, 2009
Aharon - I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Troy and Amanda Smothermon
March 29, 2009
Your family is so dear to us. Our thoughts and prayers are covering you in this difficult time. May our Lord and Savior bring you peace. We love you.
Amy Negomir
March 29, 2009
Howard, Marcha and Family,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Jim and Amy Negomir and Family
Parkview CICU
March 29, 2009
From Parkview Hospital, it was a pleasure to know and work with Shawn. He was a wonderful co worker and had a great sense of humor. His passing was a shock to us all. We are so sorry for your loss.
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