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Dennis M. Gray 1937 ~ 2012 Dennis M. Gray, 75 of Boise, passed away at his home with Jill, his wife of 42 years, their dog and cat at his side. He was raised in Nampa by his parents, Houston and Inez Gray. He was a graduate of Nampa High School and the University of Idaho. He was a teacher for 36 years, retiring in 1995. He is survived by his wife, Jill and his brother, Keith and sister-in-law, Sydney of Parowan, Utah; two special aunts, Catherine Eaton of Boise and Doris Brown of Nampa; three beloved cousins, Vickie, Gayle, and Gary; his brother-in-law, Jon Frye and sister-in-law, Sharon of Caldwell. At his request, Dennis will be cremated and there will be no services. His suggestion for donations are Idaho Youth Ranch, Boise Humane Society, or a charity of choice. Written above is all Dennis had to say about himself. But, he was a good man. He was gentle, kind, caring, and interested in everyone. He had no religious affiliation. He appreciated life and everyone in it. Inez and Houston would be so proud. He was a good man.

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Published by Idaho Statesman on Jun. 10, 2012.

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Artell Amos

October 30, 2012

Dennis, you will always be remembered by me. We were room mates at Willis Sweet Hall, as freshman at the University of Idaho in 1955. At the time I had no idea how great a teacher you would turn out to be, I am proud to say I knew you as a friend. God Bless.....

Larry & Lou Ann Sutton (Martin)

June 18, 2012

Our heartfelt sympathy at the loss of Dennis.

June 16, 2012

Dear Jill,
Where has the time gone? How can you and Dennis have been married for 46 years? I am so happy that you were blessed with sharing your lives together and that you have made such a positive impact on so many lucky people. My respect as well as my sympathy. Netti Davis EHS

Connie Pingel

June 15, 2012

Jill, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope that you will find much joy in all of your memories with Dennis. Please le me know If I can be of any help

David Pratt

June 15, 2012

I didn't know it at the time, but Dennis Gray taught me how to communicate through writing and that skill followed me through a successful 22 year career in the U.S. Navy, as an instructor for six years and sixteen years with the Idaho Department of Labor. Jill and family, I am sorry for your loss. Dave

Jane DeChambeau

June 15, 2012

Rest in peace, Mr. Gray. You were a humble educator that made a big impact on me.

Riley and Carol Cutler

June 13, 2012

We were both fortunate to have Mr. Gray as our Senior Composition teacher at Borah High our senior year early in his teaching career. Even now whenever we are called upon to formally write a paper or an article, in our hearts we thank Mr. Gray for the skills he taught us. What a wonderful surprise it was to have him also teach some of our children at Capital High. He was a gifted and caring teacher.

Kathleen Brassey. McCurdy

June 13, 2012

Dennis was a wonderful teacher and mentor. He was one of the very best English teachers at Borah. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Jill.

Barbara Kohler

June 13, 2012

I have such fond memories of the two of you sitting with us at the BSU football games. Jill, my thought and prayers are with you.

Don Barbour

June 12, 2012

A person can only have one "best teacher ever". Dennis was mine.

Gayle Eaton

June 11, 2012

Dear Jill, your husband of 42 years was a noteworthy influence in my choosing to become a teacher. He exemplified all the traits as an educator that make for greatness. He conducted himself in the most professional manner, demanded excellence from his students, and touched so many lives in positive fashion. I admired his work ethic and his commitment to high performance standards. I am not surprised at the outpouring of praise for Dennis Gray both as a man and as a teacher. His time on this earth was not wasted; he will be long and fondly remembered for his valuable contributions as an educator and as a special person. Dennis was my cousin, and I loved him.
Respectfully,
Gayle R. Eaton, retired teacher

June 11, 2012

Dennis was a wonderful cousin and friend! I loved him so very much. He was always kind and caring. He had a fun laugh and a wonderful sense of humor. I will miss you, Dennis! Love to you Jill as you journey through the days ahead. - Vickie

June 11, 2012

Mr. Gray was a wonderful kind person. I am so sorry. My prayers are with the family.

Nancy Pence

Gloria Totoricagüena

June 11, 2012

Dennis Gray, a TITAN of education and high expectations for human development and learning. My years teaching at Capital High were more joyful because of Dennis and the many many things he taught me about life inside and outside of the classroom. Jill thank you for having shared him with so many people. My heartfelt condolences.

Laura (Felts) Santiago

June 11, 2012

Mr. Gray was one of the few teachers who made an impression on me in high school. His ability to relate to the students and push us to excel beyond what we thought we were capable of was truly inspirational. My warmest thoughts go out to his family.

Margaret Moore

June 10, 2012

Mr. Gray was the best! A gentleman, a scholar, a love for education, and the youth he influenced. God speed Mr. Gray! My condolences to his family. We were all blessed to know him.

Linda Schmidt

June 10, 2012

Hi Jill,
Dennis was a colleague of mine at Capital HS. I taught Choir. I remember him so fondly -- and I always respected him. This world is a better place for having him here. He will be missed and he will be remembered.
Linda Schmidt (Boise, Idaho)

Wesley Bettis

June 10, 2012

Mr. Gray was a gifted educator who showed me that I had the ability to write, all I had to do was write as I spoke. A lesson I have carried with me always. Those of us who had him as a teacher were fortunate indeed. Captial High Class of 1977.

Shelly Houston

June 10, 2012

Mr. Gray, as we called him, was a favorite teacher of mine at Capital High School. He really encouraged me to pursue my aptitude for writing. I've thought of him many times of the years. Rest in peace, dear man. Shelly Houston, Capital High Class of 1981

Margaret (Muffin) Evans

June 10, 2012

I met Dennis in 1970 when he was the Counselor for my FSL summer in Europe. I remember how much fun we had and how kind he was to everyone. I will always remember him fondly, he helped me see the world and grow up a bit. I will keep him and his family in my prayers.

Patrick Cunningham

June 10, 2012

Dennis was a true gentleman and scholar, and a wonderful mentor to me. The world is a sadder place without him. My sincere condolences, Jill.

Melissa Williams

June 10, 2012

I met Mr Gray in 1968, as chaperone for the Foreign Study League trip to Europe, for high school seniors from Treasure Valley. He was kind, watchful when necessary, and such fun. Mr Gray made our adventure to Europe a wonderful experience, and one I remember most fondly. My deepest condolences to his wife and family.

Janet Franden

June 10, 2012

Dear Jill, You are in my warmest thoughts. I have very fond memories of Dennis both as a colleague at Capital and as my high school English teacher at Borah. Peace to you in your sorrow.

Gary Harvey

June 10, 2012

Jill, we will all miss Dennis. He touched so many lives and made education better. Our trhoughts prayers are with you.

Vicki Johnson

June 10, 2012

Jill, my thoughts and prayer are with you.I loved Dennis and the time I spent at Capital teaching with him. I loved his humour and his connection with the students. He was a wonderful teacher and person. His life and accomplishments would take pages to write. Love to you

June 10, 2012

Mr. Gray was an exemplary teacher -- the best one I had at Borah in the 60s.

Bonnie Warren

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