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David Alban
November 15, 2008
Hey Dad,
So it's been a year now since you've gone home. Things are tough, life is tough. I miss your guidance and friendship. Life is different w/o you here. I'll always love you. It's so tough to know you won't be around for the rest of my life. I miss you Dad, I miss you dearly. A huge part of me died along with you. I still can't believe it. But don't worry Dad, we sung take me out to the ballgame at your funeral, you would have loved it. I just didn't want to sing it so soon. I plan on being there Dad. Love, Your Deuce.
Mark Gross
February 6, 2008
Dear Jennifer,
I was surprised to learn of Jack's passing today; may light perpetual shine upon him, and may the Lord strengthen you and your family.
I have very fond memories of the time he spent counseling my children, in many ways he was a giant of a man. I will truly miss him while praising the Lord that He Who is Mighty, shared Jack with us.
Pat & Rich Bleau
December 18, 2007
Dear Jennifer,
I found out about Jack's passing today in your Christmas letter.
Pat & I are sorry for you and your childrens lost.
Susan (Krauss) Cohen
December 17, 2007
Dear Jennifer,
I just found out about Jack's passing today in your Christmas letter. No, I wasn't ready for that kind of news. There's a hole in my heart too. I remember coming to your house in Lakeside when you were pregnant and then to the birthday parties for your little boys. Jack always kept the fun going. I'm so glad Joe and I stopped by to see you and Jack before you sold your house. The next time I see him it will be in heaven. Jack is more alive now than ever. God bless you and comfort you, Jennifer. Love & prayers,
Tricia-Ann (Dowd) Fiondella
December 16, 2007
Jennifer,Daniel & David,
All who knew Jack are deeply saddened by his unexpected passing. My deepest condolances to you and all the many family and friends that have loved and admired Jack for his unfailing love that he showed to all that came into his life. My friendship with Jack has expanded for over forty years and it is so hard to believe that he has passed over to be with Our Lord at such a young age. I wish that I had more time and less miles between us over the years to get to know his loving family. As you know we kept in touch about our families by your wonderful Christmas letters and the occasional phone calls and e-mail. I thank you for keeping my mother(Jack's mother's best friend) and I a part of your family. At our time to pass over we will all see Jack again. Jack will be there to welcome us to God's glorious kingdom. May you know that God is walking at your side and holding you in His embrace and giving you peace and strength in the knowledge that Jack is in His loving arms. God Bless you and may the peace of our Lord be with you all.
Sharon Canon
December 14, 2007
Jennifer,
I have been in Sunday School with Jack and you for one year. I appreciate the total acceptance both you and Jack demonstrated to each person you came in contact with.
You both made everyone feel welcome and a part of this Sunday School Class. I appreciate "the family atmosphere" you both encouraged with our class. I felt a part of this small community since the first day I attended. It has been refreshing to see both of you work together so well, as our team leaders.
I appreciate Jack's Bible knowledge and his presentation of each lesson to us. He taught us the history and then taught us present day application, without any legalism. He allowed us to share our own thoughts and encouraged us to check things out for ourselves in the Bible. He connected us with those in Biblical times, with each other, and with himself.
I am sorry we all did not have more time of learning together and having fun together.
I share your sadness. Although, Jack frequently said, "He is the lucky one."
Jennifer, I pray for God's deep comfort and healing for you, Daniel, and David. I am thankful that you continue to be a part of us and a team leader in Sunday School…..the family of God.
John Beirne
December 9, 2007
Dear Jennifer & family,
We were very saddened to hear of Jack's passing. He helped us out in a really bad time in our lives and we will never forget that. He was a great communicator and we will miss him. We were happy and grateful to be part of Jack & Jennifer's life. Signed, the Beirne Family.
Robin
December 5, 2007
I was quite saddened to hear of Jack's sudden passing. Jack counseled my husband and I in 2002 and diagnosed my husband with severe depression. Now, 5 years and 2 children later we are doing fantastic. Jack not only saved our marriage but most likely saved my husband's life by diagnosing his depression. I am so grateful for Jack. He was an answer to a prayer and he made a profound impact on our lives.
stephanie watkins (shenk)
December 5, 2007
Dear Jennifer and family, it is beautiful to read all of the letters of love and admiration that people have written for Jack and you. I was also so shocked to hear that Jack passed so suddenly. I pray that God will comfort your whole family and give you the strength and hope you need. I have many fond memories of being with your family in my teen years. Jack's energy was contagious. Peace.
Barb & Brian Vance
December 3, 2007
Jennifer and family,
We were so sorry to find out about Jack's passing. Your family was always highly regarded during our time in Nampa. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Tim and Janice Howard
December 2, 2007
Dear Jennifer, Dan, David and Lyndsey,
It's an honor to be able to share our feelings about Jack, because we felt honored whenever we were with you. We only knew Jack a relatively short time, of course, but we felt that with Jack, no one was a stranger. He made us feel welcome right from the start, and we looked forward to those occasions when we could be together. Jack's sense of adventure, his energy, his enthusiasm and his wide range of interests made every day a great experience. He was always so willing to share his knowledge and his life, and we very quickly came to appreciate his wisdom and insight. Jack was truly unique - we would say one in a million, but that doesn't capture it. We want you to know that we grieve with you, even though our sense of loss is only a small part of what we know you feel. Our thoughts and prayers are with you constantly. With love, Tim and Janice Howard
William Hillix
December 2, 2007
I was shocked to hear of Jack's sudden death, especially because it reminded me of the death of my best graduate school friend at the age of 52, probably caused by the same event. Jack and I played tennis together, and in 1967 won the intramural doubles tournament at San Diego State University. Jack was a true gentleman, but at the same time he refused to play the role of victim. In the final, we were calling our own lines, and the opponents were repeatedly calling our shots out when they were clearly in, while we were being perfectly honest. When Jack saw what was happening, he waited until one of their out-of-reach shots was in by about 6 inches, and he shouted "out"! Our opponents got the picture, and we beat them easily. That same year Jack placed second in the New Hampshire state tournament and sent me a newspaper account of the match, in which he was described as "the colorful Californian." That he was, and he was one of my favorite students, maybe the very top one in my teaching career of over 50 years.
Bob Gruel
December 1, 2007
Jennifer & Family,
I was so saddened to hear of Jack's death. His wit and charm made him one of my most favorite cousins. I have fond memories of the many Pinochle games we played (most of which I lost), and have a vivid memory of a time I spent with him (in California?) when I was likely in my early teens. He took me out for pizza, and asked what I wanted. I said I'd eat anything, and he got this mischievous look and ordered an anchovy pizza (likely thinking he had me). Was the first one I ever had, but I've been hooked on 'em ever since! He taught me to get out of my box and try new and different things, and I've tried to apply that life lesson ever since. I sure do miss him!
Anna Marie Frier (Gruel)
November 29, 2007
I have fond memories of Jack, playing pinochle and other games at Paul and Norma's and at my home in Spokane. (Lawrence & Doris' Gruel)
Dan & Sandy Wollenschlaeger
November 27, 2007
Jennifer, we are so thankful that we had 20 years of Jack's teaching. He was a wonderful teacher and friend. I admired his passion for life, his ability to make everyone feel accepted, and his kindness. We will miss him!
Jill Moughamian
November 26, 2007
Initially we were so hurt and felt so much poorer for having lost Jack. Now we are so thankful to have known him the short time that we did. We are thankful for the time he spent with our kids supporting them and being a friend, esp. James, but also Sarah and Paul. We still can't help thinking that God made a mistake and we need more people like Jack in the world, not fewer, but count it a privilege to have known him.
Martha Wasson (Shepherd)
November 26, 2007
To the Alban Family:
I recently saw Jack had joined Classmates.com and sent him an e-mail to say hi. We went to high school together at El Capitan and graduated in the same class-1963. His dad and my mother were acquainted through the insurance business as well. Just sent a note to say hi - usually don't do that sort of thing. I am so saddened by your loss. Although I only knew Jack in our younger years, he always, always had a smile on his face and never was without a humerous but always intelligent anecdote/remark about things. He really made me laugh. He was highly respected by all of his classmates for his intelligence, his humor and because he was such a decent person. Again, please accept my sincerest regrets at Jack's untimely passing. I am deeply saddened also I didn't send an e-mail sooner just to have heard once from Jack - I know it would have been entertaining and humorous. A good lesson to always reach out when we think of it - don't hesitate. May God's blessings be a comfort to all of the Alban family.
Aubrey Fautheree
November 26, 2007
I feel such a sense of loss at this tragic news. I only knew Jack through our shared hobby of birdwatching but I thoroughly enjoyed every minute I spent with him! He was so gracious and kind to help me with my high school students as we introduced them to this wonderful hobby. Even tho' I no longer live in the area the birds song is a little less sweet now. I pray for your family and hope God's peace will fill your life during this difficult time.
Family Kramer
November 25, 2007
We are very thankful for GOD to gave us the possibility to knew Jack in almost the last month in his life.It was a present for us and also for our children.We met him when we stood disappointed in Vienna at the airport because of our sunk travel to St.PETERSBURG.We were disconsolate.In this moment God sent us Janifer and JACK.In few minutes we got the feeling that we knew them for years.We had a great time in our beautiful Budapest and Gödöllo.WE were laughing and talking similar as a family.We made a plan to visit Janifer and Jack in the next years.
Our heart has broken when we heard the news.We can't believe it.Our door is always open for Janifer and Jacks family.
Jeannine Howard
November 24, 2007
Jennifer,
I would just like you and your boys to know how much we appreciated Jack for letting you open up your home for all the years of the Bible Study. I so enjoyed the years I was able to attend. Many husbands would not have allowed their wives to use their home in such a way or if they did, would be a "schmuck" about it.
Jack was/is a great guy!
Jeannine Howard
Deann Wilken
November 22, 2007
Jenny, Dan and David,
On Thanksgiving we'd like to give thanks for the great life force that was Jack. The inspiration he was to so many is evident in the letters that we have read here.
We remember his great competitive spirit and how we looked forward to visiting, back in the old days at UCLA and San Diego. We were always anticipating what wonderful game or sport Jack would have us playing (Rich especially loved the handball games).
We love you all and miss you. Wish we could have been there last weekend.
Love,
Deann and Rich
Joy Lewis
November 21, 2007
Jennifer and family,
We just want to tell you again how much of an inspiration Jack has been to us. He helped me see beyond the pain of divorce and provided hope when my children were in turmoil. I trusted his wisdom when it came time to think about re-marriage. He was concerned beyond the part of a counselor and even called me at work after one visit! Jack wanted to make sure I wasn't making a huge mistake. I guess that's why it meant even more to me when he gave Herb the "nod of approval"! His words of affirmation warm my heart even now.
To watch the two of you so beautifully perform the "dance of marriage" has been a blessing. Not often do we get to see a couple close up who give us such a clear picture of what God desires in the union of husband and wife; His picture here on earth of Christ and the church. I'll never forget how sweet it was to see you guys dance at your son's wedding and think, "It's just how they do life; close and in a rhythm all their own". You worked together, played together and ministered together. And in doing all that for God, you have blessed us and many others. Thank you so much.
Lillian & Paul Harris
November 21, 2007
I shared most of this in the card we sent. Jack was there when I had the accident on 12th and Greenhurst. What a comfort to see a friendly face. He was so patient with all the ladies invading his home on Thursdays and then Tuesdays. The shock is still with us day by day. How he will be missed.
Carolyn Pitman
November 21, 2007
Jack helped me at a time in my life I needed extra help. He was someone you could trust and he obviously loved his wife and sons. He gave me hope for a future.
Roxie Tracy
November 21, 2007
My heart goes out to you and your family. I have so enjoyed visiting with Jack about your wonderful travels. What wonderful memories you must have. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sherri Moro-Whitted
November 21, 2007
I will always enjoy remembering talking with Jack and Jennifer at the Rec Center about their children and our shared experiences with traveling lightly through Europe, especially Italy!
Sandra Eggebraaten
November 21, 2007
Jennifer, Jack will always hold a special place in my heart because he was the one man and Sunday School Teacher that could reach my husband. Because of that my family had finally found a church home that Don loved. Don (and me) respected him oh so much. My heart aches for you and I am deeply saddened about what you are facing. I thank God that you do have two wonderful sons, true friends, and the love and understanding of God to help you through this. In the middle of all the heart ache when Don passed away, I also found joy knowing that my husband loved Jesus and was truly saved, in a large part due to Jack and his wonderful ability to reach and teach and show his joy of life. May God bless you during this difficult time.
The Vargas Family
November 21, 2007
Thank you for all you done, and teach to our family.
We miss you.
Gena Cowen
November 21, 2007
Dear Jennifer & Family,
I can't even imagine the shock and grief you must be feeling, but I just wanted to share a few memories that I have of Jack. He was a mentor and a friend to me when I need one the most. He always had a quick wit and a way of seeing situations that gave a glimer of hope no matter what the circumstance. He had an unbelievable faith and clarity of mind and the love he had for his family was evident in every conversation. Even though I have moved from the area, I carry Jack & Jennifer's friendship with me in my heart.
May the Lord hold you in His comforting arms until you can be re-united in the Kingdom once again!
Kathy Van Schyndel
November 20, 2007
Jennifer, Dan and David,
Jack was a very special person, to me personally, and to many, many others. He was an example of acceptance of each person and their worth. Whatever he did, he did whole-heartedly. His special gift was connecting with people and then helping them to connect with one another. He was a true teacher in all areas of life and living. I'll never look at birds again and not think of Jack. It was a gift knowing him and he will be sorely missed.
Tracy Johns
November 20, 2007
Thank you for helping our son! Thank you for helping us.
We will miss you so much.
Anna Wood
November 18, 2007
Dear Jennifer and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Jack will always hold a special place in our hearts. I will forever be grateful for his friendship and guidance with my son, Nathan, during some of the roughest days of his life. He gave my son some wonderful memories of times fishing and playing basketball. He is a special angel for all of us. May God give you comfort during this time of sorrow.
Anna and Nathan Wood
Ali Tiegs
November 16, 2007
To Jennifer, David and Daniel, it has been many years since our families were in company together and I am truly saddened to hear this news. Jack was a special friend to our family, always had a ready smile, positive outlook and made people feel appreciated. My heartfelt sympathies to you.
Therese Jankowski
November 16, 2007
Jack will be missed by all. He was a good friend and mentor to the young kids. Even though it's been years since we've seen you, we still speak of the times we spent together. Jack was so helpful in our time of need, I wish I were there to tell you how much he and all of you meant to my family. God bless.
Jim Moore
November 16, 2007
Jack's smile and gregarious laughter were contagious and inspiring to those around him. One of my favorite memories of Jack is watching him sit in a spartan cabin in rural Illinois during the dead of winter, to which he had traveled to be near his son, Dan, and completely mesmorize a group of 20 year old college students with his natural charm and love of Spades. I am proud to have known Jack and his family, and to count him among my friends.
Ali Pyle
November 16, 2007
I will miss you, Dr. Jack!
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