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Christie Schrader
August 23, 2020
James,
I literally can’t believe it’s been 8 years since the world lost you. I was looking at my calendar today and as I scanned past the 27th my heart dropped. I wasn’t meaning to think about you but it felt like a punch to my stomach when I looked at that date. I wonder what you’d be doing today... You made a bigger impact on people than you know and I hope you can still feel how loved you were and are. I’m praying for your Mama extra this week. (If you see this, I love you Renee!) XoXo
Mom Renee
April 28, 2016
It's been a long 4 years, but then again, it seems like the time has flown by so quickly with so much happening. I went up to the cemetery yesterday to see you my precious son. It still doesn't seem possible that you are gone from our lives. You are so missed! I can't wait to see you again my James. I Love you so very much!
Wrapping my arms around you in a Big Hug,
Mom
Christie Schrader
June 30, 2015
Today is one of those days that I can't stop thinking about you. I have so many regrets and what ifs that go through my mind, and strange dreams that make me question everything. Saying you are missed doesn't begin to explain this, but you are so missed James. I will see you again.
Natalie N.
June 18, 2015
Happy Birthday in Heaven James. We love and miss you so much.
Natalie Needham
August 27, 2014
It still hurts, not having you here. I love you James and miss you so much. Two years without you is too long. I love you forever little brother.
C Wood
April 16, 2014
I remember you from chevron, you were a regular... if i remember right camel frost i believe... I was just telling my mom about you today, I can't believe it... you were remarkable polite to us cashiers, and didn't have to be... We all remember you because of your kindness... rest in peace, man.
James - You will be loved forever.
Natalie Needham
December 31, 2013
As 2013 closes and we embark upon another year without you, my heart is hurting that I have to leave you again in a year I can never re-live. Another year dawns without you in it, and this brings me great sadness. Another year to face without my baby brother James, who I love so very dearly. I feel that every day I live, I leave you further behind. I wish so much that you were still here with us. You will never be forgotten James. You were a great man and you didn't even know it. I hope Jesus gives you a huge hug from me. I love you and miss you with all of my heart and soul.
Destiny Wallace
August 29, 2013
With heavy hearts and tear filled eyes
family and friends bid you goodbye.
Gathered this day united in sorrow,
yet sure in faith of a brighter tomorrow.
Although you've gone, we feel you neaar.
You are so loved by everyone here.
you touched our lives in numerous ways and brightened many of our days.
Sharing memories of time with you is something that we love to do. We laugh, we cry, with joy and pain.
Goodbye for now until we meet again.
(Author Unknown)
You will never be forgotten James. You will always be our gift of Love. May we continue to live life thru your heart Miss you and Love you James. Jer, Destiny, Daniel, Isabelle and Hannah.
Renee Groat
August 27, 2013
For my precious son James. I will love you forever my darling.
Glenda Hutchison
September 18, 2012
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Kendra McCaulley
September 14, 2012
James,
You were such a great neighbor and friend. :) We miss you so much!!
Jessica Warner
September 6, 2012
James.. I have been thinking of you often since your crushing loss.. my heart breaks for your family as well as my own. It saddens me that you won't be here to share in all of C.J.s accomplishments growing up but I know that you are watching over us all.. please know how deeply you are missed! Rest in Peace!
Destiny Wallace
September 6, 2012
My Heart goes out to James and the Family. Wishing I could be closer to you all. May God fill our hearts with strength and we use this time to grow even closer to him. I miss you James and Love you deeply. God bless you.
Penny Barcklay
September 6, 2012
(((((Prayers))))
Rhonda Bohall
September 5, 2012
James.. My birthday buddy. I will forever remember you and look forward to seeing you in Heaven. Much love .. My heart is broken.. Aunt RHonda
Lee
September 4, 2012
James I always thought of you as a friend, for your son father and family, you will be missed. I know you are with God,I was happy to see you in church. This world is not easy. You did how ever make a diffence. God is a just God and he loves his children.
September 4, 2012
Prayers to your family at this difficult time.
James was a kind and respectful man.
I will remember him as such.
Natalie Needham
September 3, 2012
Dear James, you were so much more than my little brother, you were one of my best friends. You had such a sweet, gentle, and understanding spirit, and you were very, very dear to my heart. My soul aches over your tragic loss, and my life will never be the same without you. We loved you James, all of us, so much more than you ever knew. Your love and light will shine on in this life, and God will continue to touch others through you. I know you are with the Lord now, and so full of peace and joy that never could be attained in this life. I love you little brother, you will always be in my heart.
Debi Jordan-Myers
September 1, 2012
Ranee and family, My heart aches with you in the passing of James. The loss of a loved one unexpectedly is the worst loss-there are so many thoughts, questions and feelings we have. God knows what happened, James is in a better place, safe and worry free now. He will be missed in person, but he will always be in your hearts. Hold on to all those great memories of James, this will help you get through this very difficult loss you all are feeling.
God Bless you all and James is saying "I will see you again in Heaven".
Carol Gale
September 1, 2012
Renee and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bill and I remember the fun times the kids had growing up. We miss having you as neighbors. If there is anything we can do please let us know. We are still in Middleton.
Barry C. Kelso
September 1, 2012
I remember the Groat family very well. I remember when the family was a part of my little church here in Boise, I had deep respect for their family, I also visited their home a few times when they were living in Middleton, when the kids were growing up and being home schooled I do believe. Please rest assure that James is now in the care of our Lord Jesus Christ, and sharing his love with others that have gone before him. May you rest in peace my friend, you will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved you.
Sara Reed
August 31, 2012
To the Groat family; I'm not sure if you remember me but I have thought of you often. I will always remember you taking me in when I needed a place to stay. My heart breaks for you in this time of sorrow. James was a beautiful person. I still remember his kind and gentle soul. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you and bring you comfort in this time of need. Xoxo
August 31, 2012
I'm sorry that I wasn't Able to come to the Funeral today.
August 31, 2012
Prayers to your family in this tragic time. RIP James
~Castillo Family
Angie Carter
August 31, 2012
Renee, I only had the pleasure of meeting James a couple of times and I thought he was a very nice young man. I know how much you love and adore all of your kids and as a mother, I cannot imagine what you are going through. I'm sorry I am unable to attend the funeral but please know you are in my thoughts and I send you my love and many many hugs.
August 31, 2012
Thinking of your family, hoping for strength for you in your faith. The Burkes
Nick Cook
August 31, 2012
Jeremy and family I wanted give you my condolences James will be missed he was a great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all in your time of trying to understand this loss.
Kris Wheeler
August 30, 2012
James, you will be deeply missed. I know you are now at peace. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Please watch over CJ. My love to your family.
Mandi Mullins
August 30, 2012
Jer, Dest, and family I'm so sorry for your loss. My God be with you all at this difficult time. Sending our thoughts and prayers your way.
I was James' Neighbor and Friend
Kendra McCaulley
August 30, 2012
James, you were such a great friend and neighbor. You made everyone's day. We miss and love you. And I know that you are having a great time in Heaven. I hope to see you when it's my time to go up there.
We will be celebrating a life well lived.
Eva
August 30, 2012
You blessed many peoples lives and will be greatly missed. Rest in peace. My condolences to your wonderful family and beautiful son.
Carol Wallace
August 30, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you all at this time, may the Lord confort you all. I love you.
Destiny Wallace
August 30, 2012
I Love you James and have been blessed to be a part of your life. I will carry you close to my heart and never forget the compassion and love that shined with in you. You will never be forgotten. God Bless you..
Holly Lorimor
August 30, 2012
Dear Renee & Family,
My love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!
May the Lord of comfort and peace continue to give you strength. Our Lord is a God of mercy, let him wrap his arms around you and provide you his comfort and peace!
"Cast all your care upon him; for he cares for you." 1Pet5:7
James is in the arms of his savior now with no more pain or sorrow. Someday you will all be together again with James in Heaven.
"And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there you may be also." John 14:3
August 30, 2012
May our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ continue to give you strength, comfort and peace!!
"Cast all your care upon him; for he will care for you" 1Pet5:7.
Remember that James is in the loving arms of his Savior and you will again be together in paradise.
My love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Jan Gates
August 30, 2012
With deepest sympathies and an outpour of love for your family on the loss of James I send my regrets.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Israel Stepphen Pettinger
August 30, 2012
To my aunt Renee and uncle Jeff, Jeremy, Natalie and C.J., I am deeply sorry for your loss and pray you get the answers that you seek.
Stacy Moretz
August 30, 2012
I am sorry for your loss, thought and prayers to friends and family.
Love, your cousin Stephen
Israel Stephen Pettinger
August 30, 2012
I am so very sorry and upset that this happened to you, James. I don't know what else to say. I am sorry. I know that we weren't close, and lived miles apart, but you are still my cousin and I love you. You will always be in my thoughts, and we will find out the truth. You walk with The Lord now, James, and he will make it right. Miss you little buddy.
August 30, 2012
Our hearts and prayers go out to your family and friends. We will miss you! You were a great friend and good man. Rest in peace James. Love, Mitchel & Megan Herron
Barlows
August 29, 2012
We are sorry for your loss.
Racheal
August 29, 2012
Rest in peace James. Please watch over cj.
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