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Jane Van Auker Obituary

Jane Elizabeth (Holden) Van Auker
April 9, 1951 - October 16, 2020
Jane Elizabeth (Holden) Van Auker, also fondly known as Janie, passed peacefully in her home on Friday, October 16, 2020 surrounded by her loving husband and children. Born to Bernard and Beth (Summers) Holden on April 9, 1951 in Caldwell, Idaho; Jane was the only girl, middle child, and sparkle of her family. She was an outgoing and adventurous child, determined to keep up with her brothers. Jane shared a very close and special relationship with her cousins, the sisters she never had; Karen, Lisa, Nancy & Linda DeMond and Jennifer and Dawn Holden. Their adventures between Caldwell, Boise, McCall, and Spokane generally included a lot of creativity, quite a bit of mischief, and a whole lot of fun!
Janie was the spirit of the Class of 1969 at Caldwell High School, a friend to everyone. Her closest friends remember her hilarious antics and her "stand your ground" strength. She graduated from Caldwell High School and attended the College of Idaho for a period of time before starting her family.
Jane is survived by her devoted husband of forty years, Ronald W. Van Auker and three loving children and their families; Cora & Bill (son-in-law), Stephanie & John (son-in-law), and Ron Jr & Amy (daughter-in-law). Jane was exceptionally proud of her eight grandchildren; Matthew, Thomas, Allison, Isabella, Marshal, Alexander, Colby and Anneilese, for whom she made magic happen. Holidays were her unique talent and nothing was spared to ensure traditions were honored as well as created. Whether an Easter egg hunt, complete with the "golden egg" at the bottom of the pool, custom, made-to-order Halloween costumes, or the Christmas prep package containing matching family pajamas, advent calendars and the ornament of the year, Jane took great care in preparing every detail meticulously and repeating those traditions year after year.
An avid golfer with grit and determination, Jane not only loved to compete, she also enjoyed looking spectacular while she did it. Rhinestones were a practical necessity in her eyes – the shinier and the more colorful, the better. Her golf partners dressed the part as well with coordinated outfits that required at least one matching piece. There was an obvious rule to never repeat a tournament outfit, and a credit card bill to prove it! If she was not on the golf course, you were likely to find her behind her sewing machine working on the latest project, in McCall scouting for the best huckleberries, or traveling to visit family and friends. Jane was brave and adventurous, willing to try anything once. She never sat still and patience was most certainly not her virtue!
She lit up a room with her infectious laugh and was never shy about expressing her feelings. Jane made friends fast, she connected with people almost immediately upon meeting them and she was always eager to learn as much as possible about a person. If there was help to give, Jane found (or MADE) a way. It did not matter if she knew you for five minutes or five years, she was intent on making a difference. She believed in people, even when they did not believe in themselves. Ever the optimist and ever the helper, Jane was FIERCE and determined to share her love and her light with all who crossed her path.
Jane joins in heaven her loving mother and father, her brothers; Bo, John and Bill, her beloved Auntie Ellomae and Uncle Melvin and many special angels that touched her life.
The family wishes to express their heartfelt gratitude for the outpouring of love and support from friends and family. We are immensely grateful for the loving and compassionate care from the St. Luke's Cancer Institute, the hospital, and especially from the dedicated hospice team.
In lieu of flowers, please send a donation or consider an annual membership to the Idaho Botanical Garden or to a charity of your choice.
We look forward to celebrating Jane's life with all who love her when it is reasonably safe to do so. We plan to throw "one heck of a party".

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Idaho Statesman from Oct. 20 to Oct. 21, 2020.

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Dennis Meier

October 27, 2020

Ron, I qm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Carol Smith

October 25, 2020

You are now the butterfly that has emerged from the cocoon with beautiful wings that carry you to heaven

Molly Abrohams

October 24, 2020

I can speak for all the ladies at The Hideaway: We Loved Jane! Always upbeat always fun and always willing to join in and lend a hand. We are so sad and will miss her very much.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

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Susan Richey

October 21, 2020

Ron and your family.... we were so shocked and so sad to hear of Janie’s lost battle from cancer! She lit so many lives with all that knew her at the Hideaway! She was the definition of a positive outlook on life! We just don’t have the right words to say how much we will miss her! Please know how much we loved her!!!
Susan and Mack Richey

Mary & Alan Tweed

October 21, 2020

Lovely smile and always fun, Jane will be missed. Our hearts and prayers go out to you Ron and your family,

Karen Johnson

October 21, 2020

Dear Ron and Family,
I was so sad when I heard the news of Jane's passing. May you and your family cherish all the wonderful memories of your time with this beautiful woman. We know that she made every holiday bright! Please try to find comfort in all those years you did had with Jane, as everyday is a gift. You were so blessed to have her. She will be missed by all of us that she touched.
Karen Johnson
from Hideaway

Connie Griffitts

October 21, 2020

My sympathy’s go out to all Jane’s family. Knew Jane all the way back to grade school, always nice, fun and on the go. May she Rest In Peace, taken too soon.
Connie Cates Griffitts

Julia Rundberg

October 20, 2020

I am so sorry that this world has lost Jane, such a vibrant positive force. Sending my love and prayers to the Van Auker family. I know she is already at work planning a Garden Party with her mom.

Julia Rundberg

October 20, 2020

I am so sorry that this world has lost Jane, such a vibrant positive force. Sending my love and prayers to the Van Auker family. I know she is already at work planning a Garden Party with her mom.

Julia Rundberg

October 20, 2020

I am so sorry that this world has lost Jane, such a vibrant positive force. Sending my love and prayers to the Van Auker family. I know she is already at work planning a Garden Party with her mom.

Julia Rundberg

October 20, 2020

I am so sorry that this world has lost Jane, such a vibrant positive force. Sending my love and prayers to the Van Auker family. I know she is already at work planning a Garden Party with her mom.

Alan Giltzow

October 20, 2020

I did meet Jane once when I met with Ron after a softball game, concerning one of his projects. I was impressed by her charm and beauty. I am sure she didn’t think much of me; in my sweaty, muddy softball uniform! Ron was a client and a friend. My condolences to Ron and their families.
Alan Giltzow

Vikki Ascuena

October 20, 2020

Janie certainly reached out to me when I met her and offered her friendship. She was a one-in-a-million whose presence will be missed. Vikki Ascuena

Tom Zabala

October 20, 2020

Ron,
My sincerest condolences to you and your family on Jane's passing. Grief is something you never really get over, but you put it in a place inside you along with all the wonderful memories you had together.

Warmest regards,
Tom Zabala

Kevin and Debbie Eriksen

October 20, 2020

Ron, We are so sorry to hear about your loss of Janey. She was such a wonderful lady. Our prayers are with you and your family

DT

October 20, 2020

Please accept my condolences . I'm so sorry for the loss of your loved one. May the word of God comfort and strengthen you. 2 Thessalonians 2:16,17

Annie Baird

October 20, 2020

I was privileged to be a part of Jane's team of seamstresses for the class of 1992 at Meridian High. I had tremendous respect for her energy and love of life! Her kindness will always be remembered. Love to her family.

Ann Marie Baird

Cheryl Johnson Knox

October 19, 2020

Jane and I have some of the BEST School memories that I could ever wish for.. she always filled ny life with laughter and fun.. The Whole World will miss her

Carla Moore Allen

October 19, 2020

You are missed, sweet friend! Xx

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