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Laura Louise Fender

1954 - 2025

Laura Louise Fender obituary, 1954-2025, Meridian, ID

BORN

1954

DIED

2025

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Nampa Funeral Home Yraguen Chapel

415 12th Avenue South

Nampa, Idaho

UPCOMING SERVICE

Memorial Service

Sep. 26, 2025

11:00 a.m.

Valley Shepherd Church of the Nazarene

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Laura Fender Obituary

Laura Louise Fender

April 27, 1954 - September 8, 2025

Meridian, Idaho - Laura Louise (Mathisen) Fender "Laurie" passed from the arms of her family into the loving arms of Jesus on September 8, 2025, after a recent diagnosis of pancreatic cancer.

Laurie was born in Emmett, Idaho on April 27, 1954, to William and Barbara Mathisen. She spent her formative childhood years in Emmett, Nampa, Boise, and Yakima, Washington until moving back to Nampa her junior year of high school and graduating from Nampa High School in 1972. She attended and graduated from The University of Idaho in 1976 with degrees in Elementary and Special Education.

Laurie met her future husband Fred Fender at Nampa High during their junior year. They both played cellos together in the orchestra and it soon became apparent they were to spend the rest of their lives together in a harmonious relationship that was to last fifty years, with the recent celebration of their 50th wedding anniversary on August 23, 2025.

After graduation and marriage, Laurie taught school in several locations including a second and third grade combination class in Lewiston, started a special education resource room in both Spirit Lake and Athol, Idaho, and taught special education in the Shoreline School District in Seattle, Washington. After her husband Fred graduated from medical school, it was decided that Laurie would stay home and take on the most prestigious and challenging job in the world: being a mother. Soon after this decision was made, first daughter Anna Marie was born in 1981, followed by Katie in 1983, and completed by Diana in 1986. Despite the around the clock business of raising three daughters, Laurie somehow found time to engage herself with many community and church activities. She attended Valley Shepherd Church of the Nazarene for many years and served the church many ways including heading up Women's Ministries, various Bible studies, teaching, and playing her cello in the orchestra. She was also very active in her community by serving in the local PTA at her daughters' school, serving as an election volunteer, and playing her cello in the early years of the Meridian Symphony. She was also a lay chaplain in Marketplace Ministries, USA. After grandchildren arrived on the scene she poured much of her time, effort, and love into the job of being a grandma, which was probably her favorite job of all.

Despite being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2003 and more recently pancreatic cancer, Laurie was still able to carry out God's calling in her life which was to bring the Kingdom of God to her community and those she intersected with. Loving God and loving others were things she did faithfully to the end, by the work of the Holy Spirit in her life. Her impact on the lives of those she touched is immeasurable.

She is survived by her husband, Fred W. Fender, daughters Anna Marie Laurance (Dennis), Katherine Elizabeth Howard (Drew), Diana Christine Shafer (Joseph), siblings Betsy Howard (Joel), Luke Mathisen (Colleen), Janet Hascall, and Harley Mathisen, her five grandsons Ty Laurance, Colt and Graham Howard, and Sinclair and Lewis Shafer as well as multiple cousins, nieces, and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, donations in honor of Laurie may be made to the Backpack Program of the Meridian Food Bank, 133 W. Broadway Ave, Meridian, Idaho.

A private family internment service will be held at the Meridian Cemetery, and a memorial service will take place at Valley Shepherd Church of the Nazarene, 150 W. Maestra St, Meridian, Idaho, at 11:00am, Friday September 26th, 2025. Arrangements are by Nampa Funeral Home. An online guestbook and full obituary can be found at www.NampaFuneralHome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Idaho Statesman from Sep. 10 to Sep. 14, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Laura Fender

Sep

26

Memorial service

11:00 a.m.

Valley Shepherd Church of the Nazarene

150 W Maestra St, Meridian , ID 83642

Funeral services provided by:

Nampa Funeral Home Yraguen Chapel

415 12th Avenue South, Nampa, ID 83651

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Ron Ptacek

Yesterday

My condolences to Fred and their entire family. It's always sad to lose a fellow 1972 bulldog. Ron Ptacek

Lynn Popplewell

September 10, 2025

Always fun, positive, and kind! Laurie was an exemplary person and much loved by her Kappa sisters at the U. of I.

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