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Bret Mattingly Obituary
Austin, TX - Bret Oliver Mattingly Jr.,
27, passed away on Monday, February 18th in Austin, Texas. Bret, a resident of Austin for a year and a half, was born in Zionsville, Indiana to parents Bret "Chi" and Mary "Toni" Mattingly, and was the eldest sibling of brother Mark and sister Hannah.
Bret graduated from Butler University in 2016 where he received a Bachelor's of Science in Computer Science and Software Engineering. Bret was more known for being a student of life. His appetite for knowledge and adventure came sooner than his ability to walk.
After graduation, Bret worked for NextGear as a Software Engineer in Indianapolis for nearly a year and a half before moving to Austin in August of 2017. There he received a great opportunity to work for Indeed as an Application Security Engineer, a role that he was passionate about and perfect for.
Throughout Bret's entire life, he always had a desire to create. This was most notable through his music, which started at an early age. Bret, in his lifelong quest to go against the grain, decided to choose the largest instrument to play in the middle school band, the baritone saxophone. Bret started with the saxophone and continued to write and produce music throughout his childhood all the way through the end of his adult life.
Most recently, Bret was in the works of producing his first electronic album, was a frequent participant of poetry slams, concerts, local music events and much more. Bret was a very talented singer, piano player and producer, but his ability to make music out of anything that made noise was what separated him from the rest.
One of Bret's many great traits was his selflessness. In summer of 2013, Bret volunteered for the Be The Match program, where he was selected to be a bone marrow donor. Through several months of rigorous and painful procedures, Bret's commitment to putting others first resulted in saving another person's life. Despite there being a low probability to find a match once, Bret, through incredible odds, was matched twice in the program. He underwent the same donation procedures a second time a few years later.
Bret truly loved his family and friends. He was known for his intelligence, eagerness to learn, fearlessness to try anything new, entrepreneurial spirit, compassion for everyone and being able to fix any broken computer.
Bret is preceded in death by his three grandfathers, James Clements, William Mattingly II & Edward Gnip. He is survived by his parents, siblings, his large and loving extended family and many friends near and far.
He will be dearly missed by all.
Visitation will be held on Friday, February 22nd from 4 - 8 pm and Saturday, February 23 from 9:30 -10:30 am at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church located at 14598 Oak Ridge Rd, Carmel, IN 46032. Eulogies will begin at 10:30 am followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11 am.
In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in Bret's name to The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention or the Be The Match Foundation.
Arrangements entrusted to A.R.N. Funeral & Cremation Services. Friends may leave a memory or message of condolence at www.arnmortuary.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Bret Mattingly
Brent Ervin-Eickhoff
March 1, 2019
So saddened by this news. I first met Bret at The Game Preserve in Indianapolis and have fond memories of playing various games with him and others there. A few times we even carpooled to different events, including one memorable roadtrip to Chicago. I'd had a rough start to my summer and getting to spend time with Bret for that extended period of time was such a positive thing for me and helped me know that I had people around me who cared about me. Bret always made everyone feel that way: welcomed, seen, and valued. Whether we were cracking jokes or making up raps together, I always had a good time when I spent time with him. One time after he got off work we wound up having a Nerf battle in the parking lot--I'd come home from my first year in undergrad and had the toys in my trunk. About a year ago he came up to Chicago, and I got to meet up with him for pizza. It was great to get to reminisce and reconnect. I'd really enjoyed getting to follow his adventures via Instagram, too. He had such a positive presence online and offline and served as a great example for everyone who knew him. He will be dearly missed by many, I'm sure.
Rita Stout
February 27, 2019
Brett, Toni and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about Brett's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you...
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Jason Ferguson
February 27, 2019
Great guy...knew him from working at The Game Preserve....then one day I walk into work and now I am working with him at NextGear. Bret will be missed. Will be praying for his friends and family.
Miranda (Snider) Guillen
February 26, 2019
Bret was a friend in high school choir and musical. He always had such an infectious energy and was so talented. I am heartbroken to know he's left us so soon. My deepest sympathies to those closest to him.
Kim Burcham
February 26, 2019
Our hearts are so heavy with the loss of Bret. He touched so many people and will continue to do so from up above. Keep shining Bret! Love always, Chad and Kim Burcham
Xavier Toefield
February 25, 2019
I was a fellow coworker of Bret. He inspired me to be a better person in my life and I look forward to the memories I have of such an amazing, selfless individual.
Lorraine Covert
February 24, 2019
Thinking of you and your family.
Erica DeCosta
February 24, 2019
May he rest is peace and fly high with the Angels. I didn't know him personally but by reading his Obituary, he was a kind and beautiful soul that had so much love to give. God Bless you all in this time of sorrow.
Donna Lisle
February 23, 2019
Dear Chi, Toni, & all the Mattingly family,
Cliff & I were so saddened to learn of Bret's passing. May you find comfort in the memories of the wonderful times all of you shared with him and may God continue to wrap you in his arms and bring you peace in the days ahead.
Most Sincerely,
Clifford & Donna Lisle
Joe Collins
February 23, 2019
My heart hurts for the loss of a wonderful person. I will always remeber the fun times we had and the passion you had for life.
Trish Be The Match
February 23, 2019
Brets life made a difference to so many others. However, his previous gift of bone marrow gave life and hope to those in their darkest hours. I know he is in heaven because of this selfless act of kindness. The world is a better place because he was in it.
Wendy Konstant
February 23, 2019
Hannah,
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers and hopes of peace to you and all that are affected by this loss.
Zate Berg
February 22, 2019
Bret was much loved, much respected, very talented and an integral part of our team at Indeed. We are all going to miss him very much.
Karen Hand
February 22, 2019
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Toni and family. Praying for peace, strength and comfort during this difficult time.
Diane Neal
February 22, 2019
Toni, praying for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Please feel the love your Butler family, has for you, at this difficult time.
Mastroianni Family
February 22, 2019
Sending love to all of you at this heartbreaking time.
Mark and Susie (Rhein) Swanson
February 22, 2019
I'm so sorry to see that Bret has passed. I've never met him but I grew up next door to Bill and Louise for many years and knew all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this sad time.
Rhonda & Dave Smith
February 22, 2019
Bret you will be deeply missed. Our Deepest Sympathies.
Rhonda & Dave Smith
February 22, 2019
Our deepest sympathies to your family and Bret's friends. We had the privilege to meet Bret when he visited our home last December with our daughter, Allison. What a dear, dear, sweet, kind, funny, intelligent young man. He had so many friends here in Texas and they/we loved him so much. May the Peace of God heal the brokenness and we are praying for you. Bret will be deeply missed.
Harrison L
February 22, 2019
I'm am incredibly sorry to hear of Bret's passing. He was a good friend to me during our short time as students at Butler and I looked up to him; he was smart, funny and kind to his peers. He will be missed by many.
Elise Coates
February 22, 2019
I met Bret in person only a handful of times in the past 5 years, and yet he had the incredible power to make you feel like you had been a part of the group as much as anyone else. He sincerely cared about every single person. People who'd met him only once were left hoping they'd get more opportunities to spend time with him and get to know him even more. He was the type of person that everyone wants to be friends with, not just because he was cool or funny (both true), but because his big heart and passion for life were so evident on him in every moment. He was the friend you want to be. He inspired others to be better, to try harder, to strive for more, just by being himself. There's so much more to say and not enough words to express all the significance and wonder which were expressed on their truest essence in Bret's life. My deepest condolences to everyone he left behind. May you find comfort in his memory, in his creations, and in the network of amazing people he found and brought together. <3
February 22, 2019
Rhonda Louks
February 22, 2019
My prayers are with you Toni and family. Praying for strength and peace in this very hard time. What a joy Bret was to all he met. His heart and passion touched many!
Kelly Brown
February 21, 2019
Toni,
I dont have adequate words ... I am so sorry for your familys loss.
Praying for peace ,
Kelly Brown (Bill & Bailey too)
Lee Rector
February 21, 2019
His former teammates at NextGear are saddened by such news. Bret had a great sense of humor around us and made the days challenges more enjoyable. - Lee
Luke S
February 21, 2019
A candle burns bright for Bret in Louisville. Just as his personality lit up every room and put a smile on everyone's face. I know God hears our prayers, and works outside of time and space. I will pray for Bret every day, in my heart his memory will forever stay. God bless you, Bret, and your family.
Michelle Hamamouche
February 21, 2019
I'm so sorry to learn of Bret's passing and am praying that your loving memories will help you through this time of mourning. Bret has touched so many lives and his spirit will live on through his loved ones. May God comfort you and may Bret forever rest in peace.
Mark & Pam Hunter
February 21, 2019
May your family find comfort in your faith. We are deeply sorry for your loss.
Brett will live on forever in all of your hearts.
May God Bless you!
Emily Robison
February 21, 2019
I'm so very sorry to hear of Bret's passing. I have fond memories of him spending time with my daughter Abby and as a transfer student at Butler. He was a wonderful young man and will be deeply missed.
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