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Elfrieda Staehler Obituary

Elfrieda B. Staehler

Fortville - 80, passed away October 21, 2018. She was born June 27, 1938 in Washington County, WI, to the late Herman and Rosalia Vollmer. Elfrieda was a 1956 graduate of Kewaskum High School, WI. She was employed as a purchasing agent for the Department of Defense, Fort Benjamin Harrison for 38 years, retiring August of 2018. Elfrieda was a longtime member of St. Lawrence Catholic Church.

Visitation will be Thursday, October 25, 2018 from 5:00 p.m. until 9:00 p.m. at Shirley Brothers Fishers-Castleton Chapel, 9900 Allisonville Rd. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Friday at 10:00 a.m. at St. Lawrence Catholic Church, 6944 E. 46th St.

Elfrieda is survived by her children, Charles "Chuck" Staehler (Sandy), James M. Staehler (Jeannie), Cynthia J. Beckman (Daniel) and Jay D. Staehler (Carol); grandchildren, Ashley Elrod (Zachary), Wesley Richter (Brooke), Benjamin J. Richter (Cailee), Todd Staehler, Allyse Staehler, Colton Romanyk, Jacob Romanyk, Madison Romanyk, Joseph Romanyk, Joshua Staehler, Gracen Staehler and Alexandra Staehler; great-grandchildren, Drake, Avery, Amelia and Landon; and sisters, Althea Falter (Frank), Lavila Wilson, Rosalie Follmann (Reiney) and Caroline Dahlem. Three brothers-in-law, Larry Wilson, Bruce Dahlem and Al Bremser, preceded her in death.

Memorial contributions are suggested to St. Lawrence Catholic Church and/or the American Cancer Society. www.shirleybrothers.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Indianapolis Star on Oct. 24, 2018.

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MaryLee Hensley

October 25, 2018

So sorry for your loss. Frieda was such a nice lady. God bless.

October 24, 2018

So sorry for your loss at this time. May your family draw comfort in knowing that those who pass on are precious in God's eyes. Ps. 116:15

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Nancy Stagno

October 24, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. She was such a kind Lady to everyone. Rest In Peace Frieda.

Robin Spancake

October 23, 2018

Freida was a great lady. My thoughts are with you

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Oct

25

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Shirley Brothers Fishers-Castleton Chapel

9900 Allisonville Road, Fishers, IN 46038

Oct

26

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

t. Lawrence Catholic Church

6944 E. 46th St., Elfrieda, IN

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Shirley Brothers Fishers-Castleton Chapel

9900 Allisonville Road, Fishers, IN 46038

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