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Joy DeLay Obituary

Joy DeLay

83, Indianapolis, passed away on March 21, 2015. She was born in Chicago, IL on November 26, 1931 to the late Gilbert and Sara Craig Richey.  Joy graduated from Howe High School and attended Butler University.  She was a devoted wife and mother and enjoyed cross stitch and embroidery.  She was a member of Faith Presbyterian Church, Pi Beta Phi Sorority at Butler University and former member of Mud Creek Players.

Visitation will be held Friday, March 27, 2015 from 1:00 p.m. until the time of the Memorial Service at 3:00 p.m. at Shirley Brothers Fishers-Castleton Chapel, 9900 Allisonville Rd.

Joy is survived by her husband of 63 years, Tom DeLay; children, Tad (Linda), Dan (Julie), Debbie Parrish, and Andy (Monica); sister-in-law, Mary Richey; 11 grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.

Her brother, Gilbert Richey and grandsons, Jordan and Gabriel DeLay preceded her in death.

Memorial contributions may be made to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, 3500 DePauw Boulevard, Suite 1040, Indianapolis, IN  46268.                 

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Published by The Indianapolis Star on Mar. 25, 2015.

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Craig & Brenda DeLay

March 26, 2015

Rest in peace memaw.

Bill Linder

March 26, 2015

Tom
Our sincere sympathy to you and your family for your loss. We will not be back in Indy till mid April and were notified of Joy's passing by Bob Highfield. Joy was always outgoing and had a smile and a kind word for all.
Bill & Ginny Linder

Forba Shepherd

March 26, 2015

My heartfelt sympathies to the entire Delay family. Joy was the epitome of her name. That smile and infectious laugh will be remembered. She was very special. Peace and strength to all of you.

March 26, 2015

Dear Tom, Debbie, and family. We are so
sorry to hear about your loss. We will all miss her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Sincerely, Dennis and Adriane Jourdan

Anne Nelson

March 26, 2015

Tom and Debbie - I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Joy was loved by so many! My thoughts are with you and with the entire DeLay family.

Bonnie Marcy

March 25, 2015

Such a dear lady, always cheerful even in the face of declining health. You will be missed

Terri Wall

March 24, 2015

Dan and Julie, very sorry to hear about your mom.

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