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Patrick O'Connor Obituary
On May 5th, 2017, Patrick J. O'Connor 65 years old, was liberated from his pain and suffering surrounded by his loving family. Devoted to his Rosa for more than 47 years. Loving Pop to Lisa and Ryan (Mandy).
Playful, gentle, joyful, proud Poppo to Noema and Ruby.
Son of Helen and the late Robert O'Connor. Brother of Daniel (Beth).
Rockstar home builder for 25 years. Loyal, generous friend to many.
Private funeral, no visitation or flowers. A Celebration of Life at a later date.
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Memories and Condolences
for Patrick O'Connor
Betsy Field
July 20, 2017
So sorry to hear Pat has passed on and feel truly blessed to have known such a kind and gentle soul. Pat created a wonderful home for my family.
May 25, 2017
So very sad and shocked to learn just today of Pat's death.
He was a special friend and good man.
Patti Richey
Terrie
May 9, 2017
Roe, Lisa, Ryan, Mandy,, Noema, Ruby
Pat was a special person. He sat behind the bar and wanted to hear your story. He welcomed you, he had such a great smile and chuckle. He took satire to new levels.
Creativity became his hobby and work.
But he loved his Rosa.
And proud of his children -Lisa and Ryan and Mandy too. Many aspects of him are in you and that is one way he will live on. He held Noema and Ruby very very close to his heart. Always.
Gary and Linda Quam
May 9, 2017
Dearest Rosa, Ryan, Mandy and Ruby, Lisa and Noema, and Helen, I feel so honored to have met Pat and to know how much he was loved by his family. May you keep his memory alive in your hearts forever and remember how much he loved each and every one of you. To have been a part of such a beautiful person's life is a true gift. I'm sorry for the sadness you are experiencing. May it comfort you somewhat to know he will live on in your hearts forever. God Bless You all and may God's peace be with you
now and always. Much love, Gary and Linda
Narayani
May 9, 2017
Oh Rosa, I am so sorry for your loss of your beloved husband and sweetheart, Pat. You two have been an inspiration to so many! Your love for each other emanated outward to bless all around you. I wish I had known Pat better - only met him a couple times, but could always feel his goodness and the depth of your love.
Karla Becker
May 9, 2017
Dear Rosa, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. - Karla Becker
Ellen carney De long
May 8, 2017
My deepest condolences to you Rosa and your entire family. I'm very sorry for your loss and my prayers are for you now.
CC
May 8, 2017
To the family of Patrick J. O'Connor. May the love of family and friends comfort you. Blessed are they that mourned: for they shall be comforted.
Brad & Sandy Lawson
May 8, 2017
Dear Rosa and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss - Sandy and I loved Pat. He was a wonderful man and a great friend and we will truly miss him.
We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers and pray you find solace in knowing that Pat made such a positive impact on everyone who had the good fortune to know him.
Debbie Hire
May 8, 2017
Dear family,
We met Pat in 2004 when we built our first home, we interviewed several builders and picked Pat because he was honest and always returned our phone calls. Its been 22 years and were still in our beautiful home.
We are so sorry for your loss, he was a great man and will be missed by all that knew him.
Maria Deneau
May 7, 2017
Sending you peace, light and love ❤ Maria Martini Deneau, son Scott Deneau
May 7, 2017
Pat I will always remember the first time you came to the house on Southview to take my sister out. I thought man this guy is big. You gave me and Al transitor radios for Christmas and told us they were rocks. You played checkers with me and took us on the lake at Houston Woods. You gave me books and your stamp collection. You were a great father and husband to my sister. Now you are with your dad and my parents say hello for me.
Shawn Barry
May 7, 2017
You taught me so much in a short time, and helped me to become a good carpenter. I am grateful to have shared a Whiskey with you and many laughs. My deepest sympathies ...I will always cherish your memory.
-Shawn Barry
Al Minniti
May 7, 2017
So many memories- I miss you my brother.
Maria Cottone
May 7, 2017
Rosa,
Your love story inspires me. I'm sorry for the loss and pain you both beared; I pray peace comes to your heart. Your love for each other transcends all.
Sending love your way.
Maria
Mel
May 7, 2017
For the 19 years I have been in the family, you were always a staple. I have many fond memories of family time spent at your home, or abroad. You will be missed greatly.
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