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susan mckay
August 15, 2025
every day i think of you and miss you the world is not the same without you. you were a special person, smart, brave, and very funny like your father i know he is taking care of you and you taking care of him i know the blessed mother took you that day i had a vision of her putting her arms around you, it is the only way i dealt with my grief love and miss you always my beautiful blonde hair and blue eyes daughter
susan mckay
August 15, 2024
I dont care how long you have gone I still grieve your passing every day I miss you always love you your mother
susan mckay
January 29, 2024
I miss you so much my beautiful daughter
susan mckay
August 16, 2023
i miss you as if it was yesterday when you went to our lord. I love you honey
your mother always and forever
Her Mother
August 15, 2022
I cant believe it is 11 years and I still mourn you as if it was yesterday. I miss your smile and wit and caring nature love you and miss you more
susan mckay
August 15, 2021
it is almost 10 years since you left our family, and went on a journey to heaven i miss you every day. my grief only gets worst. love you forever until we meet again.
susan mckay
August 22, 2020
I will always miss you love moma
susan mckay
August 16, 2019
in two days you will have been gone for 8 years the years have flown by i miss you so much i will always miss you i will love you forever
April 17, 2016
well tomarrow you would have been 43 years old i remember the day i took you home from the hospital you were so beautiful. in a homemade knited hat and sweater of pink and blue, we took you to see grammom aggie before we took you home. i miss you so much i wish i could talk to you. i love you and i know you love me more.
August 18, 2015
its been 4 long years i miss you all the time love you i hope you and daddy are together and having a good time love you always my baby
April 19, 2015
happy birthday baby miss you love you always give daddy a big kiss for me and heres one for you
February 14, 2015
happy valentines day honey you are missed by all of us love you honey. say hi to daddy
Carrie Scott -Bieler
September 4, 2014
Ally I know this is a horrible time for your mom & brothers&sister I'm soooo deeply sorry your parents were always good to me I know it was way to soon for you to pass I miss you so much it still hurts&now your daddy is home again with you I know you were standing at St Peter 's Gate with your arms wide open ,my heart is soooo sad for your family I love you always will never forget you REST IN PEACE ALLY & MR McKAY <3 :( :(
Carol McLean
April 18, 2014
Happy Birthday to a Beautiful Angel.We all love and miss you so very much. You will always remain "Forever in Our Hearts". Until we meet again Sweetheart. Love You, Aunt Carol
Rick Steele
June 9, 2013
Allison have the best childhood memories growing up with you..glad our paths crossed.Cousin Rick
Carol McLean
April 18, 2013
In Loving Memory on your Birthday Allison. We All Love and Miss You.
Carol McLean
August 18, 2012
A year has passed already since you went to Heaven to live with Our Lord. Your Mother's Birthday took on a whole new meaning. We all love you and miss you very, very much. You will always remain FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS. Til we meet again. Love, Aunt Carol
Kelly Burns
August 14, 2012
Thinking of you so much these days girl. I see your pic on the frig everyday: Me, You, Sadie & Andy in the park. I NEED to dig out the video camera & tape of the Halloween party at the barn, when you sang "Walk This Way"
Alley Cat, I love & miss you more than words can express Luv Ya, Burnsie
April 19, 2012
happy b-day allison i hope you like the flowers hugs and kisses debbie
April 18, 2012
happy birthday allison you were always so sweet and nice to every one miss you.love your great aunt lucille hugs and kisses sent to you in heaven
April 18, 2012
Happy Birthday girlfriend! you left us too soon, but are NEVER far from our hearts & thoughts. I just wish we had more time together...the times we did have were so great, i'd give anything to get another chance to just "hang out" like we used to...life was much simpler back then. Always ended up under the pool table sleeping at your house LOL
I Miss you every day, but know you're looking after all of us from above.
Until we meet again....I love you,
Burnsie
mike mcdowell
April 18, 2012
Hey Allison, It's your birthday. You are so very missed, I just wanted to say happy birthday kid.
Carol McLean
April 18, 2012
Allison, I know you have seen me come to this page many times, attemping to write, but was unable. Today I want to say Happy Birthday to you and tell you that you are always in our thoughts and are missed dearly. Only God Himself knows why He had to take you so soon. He surely has ONE BEAUTIFUL ANGEL. You will always remain FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS, til we meet again, I Love You, Aunt Carol
wendy leiby
December 18, 2011
Paul , Andrew & Family , I'm sorry to hear this sad news . Allison had so much love to share and always had a smile.
Your all in my prayers .
DEBBIE MC LAUGHLIN
November 23, 2011
THINKING OF YOU....TELL MY MOM & LIZZY I SAID HI....LOVE DEBBIE
November 22, 2011
allison I miss you so much. your smile and voice I can see and hear you say I love you more I wish I could see you one more time to hold you.
love your mom
October 4, 2011
HI HONEY MOMACITA MISSES YOU SO MUCH. I WISH I COULD HEAR YOU SAY OLAH AGAIN. AND THAT YOU LOVED ME MORE WHEN I SAID I LOVE YOU. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART AND MIND AND SOUL LOVE YOU FOREVER MOMMY
Allison and Paul
Carol McLean
October 3, 2011
Allison's Baby Shower
Carol McLean
August 25, 2011
Jennifer Hoey
August 25, 2011
Alison was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed! Jen and Joan Hoey
August 24, 2011
Dear Paul & Andrew,
Please know that our prayers are with you and you are Loved. We are so very sorry Allison was called Home so young, so early. I feel my words are inadequate to express our love and concern for you, please know we hold you in our hearts, thoughts and prayers, and our love is always with you. Remember and keep her Love with you always.
All our Love, The Pomo Family
lizanne stewart
August 24, 2011
my dear cousin ALLILSON!! YOUR FAMILY IS HURTING KEEP US STRONG..LOVING COUISIN.... YOU ALWALYS MADE ME SMILE WHEN I SEEN YOUR FACE!!!RIP MY ANGEL FOREVER!!! LOVE LIZANNE XOXO
Laura Roland
August 23, 2011
I am sorry to learn about your loss of Allison. I hold many great memories of her in my heart.
Mark & Mariana Piton
August 23, 2011
So sorry for your loss. Our condolences to the McKay and Fiorelli families during this difficult time.
Nancy&Shawn Lynch
August 23, 2011
Dear Paul, Andrew and Family,
We are broken at the loss of Allison. Words cannot express the pain and sadness we feel. Allison was a fun-loving, life loving person and we are so horribly shaken by this loss. You are in our prayers. Love always. Nancy & Shawn Lynch
August 23, 2011
Eternal flame for Alli Cat
Tanesa Sanchez and family
August 23, 2011
Its never easy to lose someone my condolences go to all who had the pleasure of being blessed with you in there life. Beautiful lady your with God now and an everlasting smile upon your face. I know one day we will meet again. You are a wonderful lady,so beautiful to the core of your heart. When you look down upon us as you stand beside the Lord know that we all carry a part of you and you will continue on through us. Until we meet again dear Allison my friend im sorry that your gone
August 22, 2011
So sorry to hear of your loss Our prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow. Joanne and Jack Warren
Kerry & Georgiann O'Callaghan
August 22, 2011
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Jack & Regins McDermott
August 22, 2011
Harry & Sue sorry for your loss. We never knew your daughter but accept our deepest condolences during this troubling time.
Shirley (Clegg) Worrell
August 22, 2011
To the McKay and Fiorelli families,
May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead. Allison was a GREAT person and always had a smile, I went to St. Ambrose with her and spoke with her on Facebook. She will shine down upon us now until we will meet again. RIP
Jane Durkin
August 22, 2011
Every time I ever thought of Allison, only good things entered my mind. She was so sweet and extremely likable and anyone who ever came in contact with her were truly blessed. God bless the Fiorelli and Mckay family, my prayers are with you. I feel grateful to have known her.
August 22, 2011
Paul & Andrew, So sorry for your sudden loss,I'm at a loss for words. Are prayers are with you! Lew, Sharon and Shane
bobby and debbie mc gee
August 22, 2011
harry and sue we are so very sorry for your loss your grandson,son inlaw and entire family are in our thoughts and prayers...
Cailin Bray
August 22, 2011
Paul and andrew I miss Aunt Alison so much. She was always there for all of us. She was full of laughter and kindness.
missy colfer
August 22, 2011
i am still so stunned and saddened by this...i will never forget all the great times we had together..she was such a great person..i will miss you..
What An Angel
Carol McLean
August 22, 2011
Carrie (Scott) Bieler
August 22, 2011
Dear Paul,Andrew,Mr&MrsMcKay,Derick,Dougie,Lizzy&Pat,
I am at lost for words,Aly& I go way back to our cazy fun childhood we were two pees in a pod we never left eachother God my heart is broke She had the warmest smile great laugh and always new the right words to say to me when I was down.She was alway's down for me,over the years off & on we would talk we had our own little famlies so we did'nt stay in contact like i really regret now,Allison Rose Thersa McKay Fiorelli I will Chreish every moment we had forever.Give Mark Jann & Mike Crompton a big hug & kiss until we meet again,I Love You!
Charles&Colleen Daehling Family
August 22, 2011
To the whole Mckay ad Fiorellis Family,You are in our prayers,and thoughts.
COLLEEN CHARLES DAEHLING
August 22, 2011
To the Mckay:Fiorellis,Were soooo sorry about losing Allison so quickly.You all are in our prayers.If need anything please were just down the block even if its just having Liz and Matty sleepinng over my house.Love u guys!!!!
Colleen Daehling
August 22, 2011
To the Mckay Family:You are in our prayers.If you need anything were right down the block.I became really good friends with Liz over the years also cause her Daughter and my 3 Children are Realated,Liz if you want to get away and spend the night alone,or with Matty my door is open.I love you and is here ALWAYS.Allison is a Beautiful Angel in Heaven,in peace and is gona be missed by many esp. her husband Paul and Son Andrew.You are all in our Prayers.The Daehling Family.....Charles@Colleen....
Peg McNally
August 22, 2011
So sorry I will miss Alis laughter and caring nature. She was a great mother to Andrew. God bless all. Love Peg @ Jack McNally
Jillian Kruger
August 22, 2011
To the McKays: I am soooo sorry for your lose. I just want you to know that the family is thinking of you and if you need anything let us know. We may be far away, but again if there is anything we can do. The family is in our prayers....Jillian North/Kruger and Clan (Virginia Beach, VA)
NICHOLE NICKERSON
August 22, 2011
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF THIS IT ABSOLUTLEY BREAKS MY HEART!!! MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY!!! WE WILL MISS YOU ALISON VERY MUCH!! I HAVE ALOT OF GREAT MEMORIES THAT HOLD YOU IN THEM!!! REST IN PEACE SWEETHEART!!!
Michael Lohr
August 22, 2011
To the Mckay & Fiorelli Family,My Heart & Prayers goes out to you.I will miss her dearly.Allison will be in my heart & mind.The times we shared in Kempsville High School,The songs we listen to.The places we hang out in Arrowhead.Like the White House and the hunting club in Pungo and who can never forget Bud Lake.Allison Mckay Fiorelli is a strong,outgoing and careing person who loves her Family & Friends.Allison never put me down & always had my back in school.Your like a sister to me. I will always love u!! REST IN PEACE ALLISON.Only the good die young..@-{---WHITE x24
Deborah Schmidt-Aliff
August 21, 2011
To the Family, My heart is sad to hear of your loss. Allison was a good friend. She will be missed dearly by all. Sending you hugs and prayers from Virginia.
Debbie Hayes
August 21, 2011
I'm glad that I had the chance to get to know you through Kelly and Terri. You were always a warm and kind person, and truly a joy to be around. Even as we sat in the rain at the concert last summer, we all still had laughs. I'll always remember you. My deepest condolences and prayers go out to your Family and Friends. Rest In Peace Allison.
linda&phil scherer
August 21, 2011
To the McKAYS & Fiorellis.allison you left us to soon.you will be missed so very much.i still cannot believe you are gone,you we're such a sweet young child and a sweet young woman, i no god will be there for your family through these hard times ,. rest in piece allison god bless you...god bless your family. our love and prayers to you all.always
Michelle Rush
August 21, 2011
You so quickly went from being a neighbor to being a great friend. We shared so many laughs and so many memories together over the years. It's hard to believe that you are really gone. We were just saying how we were going to get together again soon, I never could have guessed that would have been the last time we would see each other. I'm really going to miss you! Rest In Peace Allison <3 We will never forget you!
mike mcdowell
August 21, 2011
To the McKay's & Fiorelli's,
A facebook friend will be missed. I'm sad for you all. More importantly a old 80's cherished friend for a minute. But the bond lasted a lifetime. Our deepest condolences and prayers at this hard time. Much love and respect.
Love, the McDowell's (mike)
August 21, 2011
Paul, Andrew and extended family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May beautiful memories of Allison keep you moving forward. God bless!
Bob and Diane Vernon
Debbie & PAUL McLaughlin
August 21, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
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