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Anastasia Helms Obituary
ANASTASIA M. age 27, suddenly on July 4, 2007. Devoted mother of William McLean III, and Anastasia McLean; loving companion of the late William McLean Jr; beloved daughter of Joseph F Helms Jr. (Diane) and Debra M. Reinert (Thomas); sister of Matthew (Chris), Joseph and Amy Helms, and the late James, and the late Michael Helms; niece of Harry Helms and August Forlano; granddaughter of Anne Sommer; aunt of Lauren and Matthew. Relatives and friends are invited to attend her Viewing and Funeral Tues. 8:30 to 10:30 A.M. at JOHN F. FLUEHR AND SONS INC., 3301-15 Cottman Ave. Funeral Mass St. Matthew Church 11:15 A.M. Rite of Committal Our Lady of Grace Cemetery. No Viewing Monday eve. In lieu of flowers Masses preferred.
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Memories and Condolences
for Anastasia Helms
June 6, 2008
Hey Stac..I can't believe it's gonna be a year next month that you were taken from us. I miss our 2 hour a day phone chats!! I hope your up there with Billy watching over all of us. Miss you both!
May 11, 2008
Happy Mother's Day. You are missed very much.
April 21, 2008
We are still trying to make Stacey a myspace page but we really don't have any pictuers of her. Just some from back in grade school. If you have any pictures can you please send them to [email protected]
Thank you so much.
April 15, 2008
We spoke too soon! We are trying to make Stacey a myspace page but there is a problem. We will let everyone know when it's fixed!
jessica
March 23, 2008
Hey Stac..Just wanted to stop by any say I miss ya!
December 5, 2007
Stacey will always be missed.
September 9, 2007
If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane.
I would walk right up to heaven and bring you back again.
No farewell words were spoken.
No time to say "Goodbye"
You were gone before I knew it and only god knows why.
My heart still aches with sadness and secret tears still flow.
But now I know you want me to mourn you no more:
To remember all the happy times.
Life still has much in stored.
Since you'll never be forgotten.
I pledge to you today a hollowed place within my heart is where you'll always stay.
August 12, 2007
Staey wii always be missed.
August 12, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over,
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
Christina Morio
August 2, 2007
My sympathy to the Helms family and McKean. I so so sorry for your loss. I remember hanging with Stacy in the park with the guys. She will be missed.
Sabrina Suarez
July 31, 2007
My sympathy to the Helms family and McKean. I am so sorry to hear of this horrible loss. And am really at a loss for words. Stacey was such a wonderful person. Although we haven't seen each other as often as we use to, the rare times we did run into each other was always great. Again my greatest sympathy and love to your family. Your families are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bree
July 29, 2007
Missing You
Though i´m missing you
i find a way to get trough
living without you
your were my sister, my strip and my pride
only god made no why
still i will get by
that you had to go
so suddenly so fast
how could it be
not a sweet memory
will be be all
all that we had left
now that you´re gone
every day i go one
but life´s just not the same
i´m so in to your side
and my i tears i cant´hide
but i try. i try to face the pain
though i´m missing you
i find a way to get through
living without you
you were ma sister, ma strip and my pride
only god made no why
still i will get by
there where so many things
that we could have said
if time was on our side
now that you´re gone
i can still feel you near
so i smile with every tear i cry
though i´m missing you
i find a way to get through
living without you
you were ma sister. my strip and my pride
only god made no why
still i will get by
...
when i see you again
alltouhg i miss you
i find a way to get through
July 25, 2007
July 25, 2007
Christy Morgan
July 16, 2007
I ran into Stacey the begining of last summer. I only saw and spoke to her for a minute. I immediately was reminded of how sweet and nice she was when we were younger. I was also saddened by the thought of Billy. I wasn't able to attend his funneral either. I can only say that as years pass and we all grow up and apart we never lose the memories that we all have. She and Billy have left a lasting impression on me. My prayers go out to both their families and their children. I'd like to believe she is now at peace.
July 14, 2007
Just by the thought of you
I find myself all sad again.
I've lost you, but also gained.
I know I must be grateful,
but my soul is sad for you.
I'll remember you always
for the good you have done,
for the seed you have sown,
for the faith you have given me
and for the example you set.
Yet, I find myself all sad again,
in my thoughts,
in my joys.
My thoughts are closed,
cause you don't look there anymore.
The season is over and
I know I must be happy
but the loss is too big
and the pain too intense.
I need to tell you my new story,
see your eyes,
experience your smile
and taste the tea we usually drink.
I just so much wish
you could see the harvest of my life
from the seeds you have sown!
Especially now, when it's full in harvest -
I know your soul would have smiled.
But then again, although I'm sad -
I know I'm glad -
cause I know I've saved you.
I'll rest my heart in that
July 14, 2007
Stacey will always be missed!
Cara McKinney-Broadbelt
July 13, 2007
The brownie incident is the first thing that came to my mind! It's one of the last times I remember us all being together with little Megan, too. Stacy and her brothers, Billy, Megan...they're all together now. I hope your families find peace in that and that their children get to know them for who they really were...before life got complicated and making brownies on Charles St. or singing songs on the cem wall & at Wiss was all we needed to have a good time together. Stacy's as beautiful as the first day I met her at St. Bart's, again...and she's happy. You're in my thoughts.
Megan McKinney
July 12, 2007
I only saw Stacey a handful of times in the last couple of years, but every time it was like it was just yesterday we were hanging out. We always got into "remember when". My favorite memory is making brownies on Charles St. It ended up as a mound of brownie, but we had a blast. We listened to the Dirty Dancing sound track for hours, being silly teenage girls, without a care in the world. When did things become so difficult? I've taken comfort in knowing that she is back with the one and only person I knew her to love. I hope the Helms and McLean families can overcome the pain of the last several years. Read these guest books over and over to be reminded of better times, and how much of an imprint was left on the world by your loved ones. Take care.
Chrissy Graz
July 12, 2007
Hello Mclean and Helms family... i am soooo sorry that i couldn't be at the funeral for Stacie.. I wanted to let ya know that your families are in my prayers for your lose... I remember Stacie as being such a very out going person when we we're growing up... and I am sure that she is watching over B & Anna and making sure that they are safe... I know in my heart that she is at peace.. god bless you all! xoxox
Kelly Carr (Meehan)
July 11, 2007
Sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to the family.
Angie Graziosetta - Carrasquillo
July 10, 2007
I haven't seen Stacy in a long time. She and I were really close in High School and years after when I still lived on Scattergood Street across from the McLean's - when I gave her the nicname "Tiny". About a year and a half ago I ran into her brother's wife at Frankford Torresdale hospital when she was the nurse taking care of my husband and she passed on my phone number to her again. Stacey called me once after that and we talked for over 2 hours on the phone... that was the last time I heard from her. I didn't realize how much I missed her until I no longer had the option to talk to or see her ever again. My heart and my prayers go out to her family... especially B and Anna. I hope that God gives them the strength to get through this. Stacey you were well loved... and you will be very sadly missed by many. Rest in peace "Tiny"
Dawn Stanickyj
July 9, 2007
I haven't seen Stacie in over a year but anytime I would come down to FKd I would always look for her, but I never saw her. I will just remember Stacie comming from the corner store when she lived on Scattergood with a bag full of treats for B and Anna and their friends(my son as well)or running outside to catch the ice cream truck for them and buying all the kids ice cream.
I hope that she is at peace and watching down on everyone especially her kids.
Love Dawn and family (Formerly of Scattergood St. )
Doris Evans
July 9, 2007
So saddened by your passing Dearest Stacy, my consolation is knowing that you are in a safer, happier place amongst your brothers and with our Lord.May your after life be happy and full of love.
Debbie Lee
July 9, 2007
I really don`t know what to say. I am so broken hearted. I watched Stacey grow up as many of us did. So beautiful and so full of life.Everything about her was beautiful ! I so adored everything about her.I saw her not to long ago and as difficult as times were for her she always stopped to say hi and to smile.I know she is at peace now and feels nomore pain but still I will miss her so much.Stacey you will never be forgotten and I will go on remembering you as the beautiful sweet girl that I watched grow up.With much thoughts and prayers to the family . Debbie Lee AND FAMILY ( Brill Street)
Cheri Gemerek
July 9, 2007
My deepest sympathy goes out to everyone who has known Stacey. I am so sorry to hear this bad news. Our prayers are with the family. God bless.
Kristina Blakla
July 9, 2007
I've known Stacey my whole life, and am so saddened to hear of her passing. My thoughts and prayers with everyone who knew and loved her.
Chrissy Graz.
July 8, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with the kids and the family in there time of need...
Tina Ault
July 8, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with your family, and my deepest sympathy for their children!
Marie (ree-Ree)
July 8, 2007
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
With deepest sympathy
Michelle Malandra
July 8, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. Stacey is finally at peace.
The Krause Family (Scattergood Street)
July 8, 2007
Our thoughts are with your family.
Terry Barr - The Williams Family
July 6, 2007
Empty-handed we entered
the world
Barefoot we leave it.
Our coming, our going --
Two simple happenings entangled.
Coming, all is clear, no doubt about it.
Going, all is clear, without a doubt.
What, then, is all ?
Tara Davis(M.),Joe Mulharan
July 6, 2007
To Stacey's family, we can only wish you a heart felt sympathy, we will never be able to understand the pain, youre all going threw right now. We all feel the pain as friends, but never as bad as you all must feel! We all know shes in a better place, but still wish she could be here. We hope her children grow to be as sweet and caring as their mother and father. Again our deepest sympathy!
Chi Chi
July 6, 2007
My thoughts & prayers are with your family. My deepest sympathy.
kristina vetter
July 6, 2007
Deepest sympathy goes to the helms & mclean families.
Kristina Vetter & family
childhood friend of Stacey
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