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Caity Bechtel
May 24, 2024
James Marks? Hi... I was at your mom´s funeral (the Quaker one- not sure if she had another); I worked with her at the Paoli library. I didn´t get to really talk as much to you as I wanted so I´m sure you don´t remember me- I was one of the younger librarians at the time, I had dyed red hair and cat-eye...vintage... everything. Everyone I worked w was amazed I didn´t speak up bc I am an absolute blabbermouth, but I know how Quaker functions work (my parents went to Meeting & I went to a Quaker HS). I had nothing to say bc after I heard you speak, anything I could add would be trivial... and funerals are for the family, and friends are secondary & should be there for support only, in my opinion (or, à mon AVIS, as your mom would have wanted me to say!).
I just saw this obituary for your dad while researching the Mark & Co apts (I separated from my husband... he is living at the apartment in Haverford where he´s been for awhile... it´s amicable- he came out! Happy for him, actually)! I wondered who owned them now because I recall your mom talking about the fun she & your dad had, acquiring these apts! I can´t BELIEVE that your dad was always around... until 2022? I´m so sorry that this just happened, and I know how it is, being an adult "orphan". It´s something people think no one should mind, but my mom died when I was a teen and recently, my dad, and I mind quite a bit! I didn´t know all these things about your dad, either... it´s mind blowing! I imagined he had gone on a long time ago, and that you´d sold off the properties.
Oh, and now my son is in one of your properties too! Your twins are maybe about to go to college by now? I saw them but didn´t get to say hello because the Boss (from the library) was there & she was nervous about getting back, even though she was appalled that I didn´t speak during the funeral (I don´t do that, simply because I love the sound of my own voice! I don´t know why everyone was so shocked- but honestly I didn´t think anything would be as important as what you had to say & I also didn´t want to make you any more sad than you already were. Again, I´m sorry about BOTH of your parents! My husband (we´re just separated- "divorce" seems scary and hard & so final!) has been at Haverford Gables since 2016, & I´ve been in the city (Fishtown).
Ugh- see what I mean? I can´t ever just SAY something! I have to go ON! I hope you see this anyway! Not sure if you live in PA now or if you are in NYC? If you ever want to say hello my email is [email protected] (oh and I hope it isn´t inappropriate to mention my email- I was raised in (several) BARNS!)
Again, condolences. I hope you´ve adjusted since this happened and are enjoying your life with your family- and I know being a parent is stressful! Your mom was the only one at that library who wasn´t always bugging me to have ANOTHER baby! I started there when my son was 5 and everyone else went one about how MISERABLE my son would be, being an only child- she was the one woman who worked there who stood behind me and would defend my decision to stop at one! I doubt I could have done more... too unorganized! I hate decisions & my entire life is always fluctuating. I am not an Only but WOW- I´ve often wished I were! The grass is OFTEN greener, behind ALL the other fences!
I hope you´re doing well & if you did keep all the properties I see around here, I might be renting from you, as well, at some point! If there are ever individual apts for sale I was looking for an affordable one to buy. I didn´t see any for sale so I guess not!
Sorry for this burst of blabulousness out of NOWHERE... I´m just now seeing this!
I hope you are content and your life is going really WELL! Sorry that I never met your dad!
Sweet wishes for you & yours,
Caitlin Bechtel
Loraine Benjamin (Nee Weiss)
September 11, 2022
Jamie, it's Loraine, do you remember me? My daddy Willard Weiss and our Dad James / Jim, were best buddies. We were just in Philly in July and were going to visit your Dad, but I could not get hold of him. I now know why. I feel sad and send my warmest wishes and I'm sorry for your loss. May your lovely memories comfort you.
My Dad passed away 9 years ago, at age 90.
Please reach out, if you want to. I remember your mom Merle so well. Lots of other memories.
Robin Pomerantz
August 12, 2022
Just heard of his passing. Although I didn't know him well, this saddens me. I worked at Marks & Co. for over a year in their office in Ardmore and enjoyed getting to know him and learning all about his musical background as my dad is 94 years old, still alive, and plays the piano daily on his grand piano at home. I wish they had had a chance to meet. Sorry for his passing.
MERIDITH GRAY
June 27, 2022
Hello to Jim's family. I live at 101 Cheswold lane and often saw Jim when I parked my car in the underground garage; he always complimented my parking skills. I enjoyed his humor, kindness and intelligence. I am so sorry for your loss - he brought energy and a sense of mischief to the world.
Meridith Gray
JOE PAQUETTE
June 25, 2022
To Jims son, grandson and family members. I met Jim years ago when we both served on Drexel Board. the last 10 years we´ve had a wonderful relationship. With Joe McLaughlin Former CEO of beneficial bank was also a regular dining friend. We had a standing dinner with Jim every week. he was a wonderful guy and I really love knowing him. He was a terrific guy real contributor to the friendship that we enjoy at Waverly. I know you have fond memories of Jim as well as I do. I hope that you get to enjoy those memories overtime.
sincerely, Joe paquette former CEO PECO energy
[email protected]
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