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James MELINSON Obituary

MELINSON Honorable James Robert The Honorable James R. Melinson, former Chief United States Magistrate Judge in the United States District Court for the Eastern District of Pennsylvania, died peacefully on May 6, 2025, surrounded by his loving family, after a prolonged battle with pulmonary fibrosis. Judge Melinson, born in 1939 in the Juniata Park section of Northeast Philadelphia, lived a remarkable life defined by love, laughter, family, faith, and friendship – and enjoyed a diverse and rewarding career spanning many different roles, all of which involved serving others and building strong and deep relationships with everyone he encountered. One of five children of Stanley and Margaret Melinson, he met his wife Monica when he was only 16 years old and they were both part of the parish community at Holy Innocents. That relationship would last for almost 70 years, resulting in three children and eight grandchildren. He won a scholarship to La Salle College High School, where he met passionate and dedicated educators whom he credited for changing the trajectory of his life. His education at the hands of the Christian Brothers continued at La Salle College -- and upon his graduation from college, he became a lieutenant in the United States Army's field artillery division, beginning a career which would be dominated by public service. When he returned from his Army service, he became an English teacher at Olney High School, and later Olney's vice principal. While serving full-time in that capacity, he was awarded a scholarship to law school at Temple University's evening division, graduating in 1968. Upon graduation, he was randomly assigned to serve a preceptorship under the then-leader of Philadelphia's Republican Party, William Austin Meehan. His relationship with Billy Meehan, and his association with the law firm of Meehan and Stoelker was something of which he was inordinately proud. He became a citizen-lawyer who embraced the term "politician" because he believed in constituent service and believed he could make the world better for others. He also believed in working hard to find common ground with everyone, including his political rivals. He ran unsuccessfully for City Council in Philadelphia in 1975, but went on to practice law for many years, including serving as the Chief Labor Negotiator for the School District of Philadelphia. It was during the 1970s that he began wearing three-piece suits – a practice he continued for so long that they briefly came back into style several times thereafter (and he regularly carried a small, booklet-form copy of the United States Constitution in his vest pocket to re-read during lulls in the action). In the late 1980's, he was appointed by Democratic Governor Robert Casey to fill a vacancy on the Superior Court of Pennsylvania. After completing that term, he was appointed by the judges of the Eastern District to become a Magistrate Judge, a role which he described as his dream job. He enjoyed a varied docket, but more than anything else, he enjoyed working with litigants to resolve cases before trial via mediation. He turned out to be a natural-born mediator, whose gift for building rapport with litigants and lawyers alike made him the top choice for countless parties (including Don King, Master P, and the City of Scranton…) who wanted their complex matters resolved expeditiously. He became famous for his unique brand of shuttle diplomacy, which often involved sequestering parties for hours on end, depriving them of cell phones, and working through the night to understand the needs and motivations of each party and each lawyer. It was no surprise, then, that upon his retirement from the bench at age 65, he opened the Philadelphia office of JAMS Dispute Resolution (the Judicial Arbitration and Mediation Service) and expanded its Philadelphia presence for the next 18 years, adding more talented mediators. He retired from JAMS at the age of 83. Judge Melinson managed to weave his busy career in public service seamlessly into a rich and fulfilling personal life. With his wife Monica (whom he regularly described as "my trophy wife of 62 years"), he raised three children whose careers all included stints in public service. He was particularly proud of his late son Keith's graduation from the United States Military Academy at West Point and his career of service to our country in the U.S. Army and the Federal Bureau of Investigation. He and Monica were blessed with eight grandchildren, whose exploits were often the cause for loud and memorable laughter from the man they knew only as "Jimmer." He was an enthusiastic (if not particularly gifted) golfer, who invented the concept of the "preferred judicial lie," by which anyone finding his ball (often a difficult task) was encouraged to feel free to move it thirty or forty feet and place it on a particularly attractive tuft of grass. There was not a part of life he did not enjoy, and there was not a funny story he did not relish retelling numerous times. His Irish baritone could be heard in the next county, and he spent a significant portion of the day before his passing debating whether the word "Herculean" should most appropriately be pronounced with the emphasis on the second syllable or the third. He would tell you that he lived a charmed existence, and he truly did. Those who were lucky enough to cross paths with him did as well…. Judge Melinson is survived by his wife Monica; his son Gregg Melinson (Pamela) of Gwynedd Valley, PA; daughter Megan McDonough (William) of Glenside, PA; grandchildren JP Melinson, Austin Melinson, Aidan Melinson, Luke Melinson, Kaitlyn Melinson, MollyKate McDonough, Liam McDonough, and Mairead McDonough; sister Mary Louise Hoelscher; brother Dennis (MaryAnn); and many beloved nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his son, Keith T. Melinson; his parents, Stanley G. and Margaret Reardon Melinson; his brother Stanley G. Melinson, Jr. (Mary); and his sister, Margaret "Peggy" Sweeney. The family will welcome visitors at St. Helena Roman Catholic Church, 1489 DeKalb Pike, Blue Bell, PA 19422 on Wednesday, May 14, 2025 from 9:30 A.M. to 11:00 A.M., after which a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Donations in Judge Melinson's memory may be made to La Salle College High School (Keith Melinson Wrestling Center), 8605 Cheltenham Avenue, Wyndmoor, PA 19038. www.lownes.com


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Published by The Philadelphia Inquirer on May 11, 2025.

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Owen and Kimberly Kelly

May 15, 2025

Dear Mrs. Melinson, Gregg, Megan and Family: We are very sorry to hear of Judge Melinson's passing. He was truly a great judge and even greater human being. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Owen and Kimberly Kelly and Family

Michael D Rubin, Esquire

May 15, 2025

Judge Melinson was a great judge and person. He was my high school vice principal at Olney. He became a lawyer and so did I. We always crossed paths through out our careers. I was so proud when he became a Federal Judge. I would always see him at the Bench Bar conferences. We would always reminisce about the great times. He was a real role model. So sorry for his passing. He left a beautiful legacy.Rest in peace.
Michael D Rubin,Esquire

Phyllis Budnick Goldbloom

May 12, 2025

I loved Judge Melinson as my teacher at Olney High.
I was his monitor when he was the Disciplinarian.
He was a great teacher .
I contacted him when he became a judge. We had a good conversation.
RIP

Judge William J Mazzola (Ret)

May 11, 2025

A wise, patient and respected Judge and friend.

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