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John Lacey Obituary

LACEY
JOHN, suddenly on May 4, 2003, age 21 years of Upper Darby, PA. Beloved son of Ann Lacey; loving and devoted twin brother of Richard Lacey; also survived by his sister Julie Ann Bair, his grandfather Richard (the late Marion) Lacey as well as several aunts, uncles and cousins. Relatives, friends and classmates of Widener University are invited to attend John's viewing and Life Celebration on Thurs. May 8, 2003 from 4 P.M. - 9 P.M. and on Friday from 9:30 A.M. - 10:30 A.M. at SPENCER T. VIDEON F.H., Garrett Rd. at Shadeland Ave. Drexel Hill, PA 19026 followed by his Mass of Christian Burial 11 A.M. at St. Charles Borromeo R.C. Church, 3422 Dennison Ave, Drexel Hill, PA. Int. SS. Peter & Paul Cem. In lieu of flowers, donations in John's memory may be made to The John Lacey Fund, c/o Widener Univ. 1 University Place, Chester, PA 19013

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Published by Philadelphia Inquirer/Philadelphia Daily News on May 7, 2003.

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Nancy Dugan

May 22, 2003

John- you will be loved and missed, in the hearts of many, and never forgotten.



I'm so happy we got to meet each other and become as close as we did. Thank you for making me smile and for being a great friend... <3



Rich- I'm so sorry. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if you need anything.



The Lacey Family- My condolences go out to you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers also.

Colleen Mahoney

May 10, 2003

Tragedy strikes everywhere, but has never so close to home until now. John will never be forgotten.. the family will be kept in all of our prayers! I think I can speak for everyone when I say thank god that this world was blessed with the lacey TWINS, we know John will forever live through Rich, as well as in all of our hearts.



Rich- I will NEVER forget the things you said to me, thank you for helping me realize what we truely have to cherish. Much love & sympathy to you and all that are faced to mourne this loss. We will always love you John Lacey.

Holly Grande

May 9, 2003

Such a horrific loss. You will be terribly missed, always in our hearts, and never forgotten. WE LOVE YOU!

Ashley Ripper

May 9, 2003

John was a great guy who always had a smile on his face and knew how to make others smile as well. It was great getting to know him and be in his classes. He will forever be in my heart, prayers, and be missed. Rich, we are all here for you if you anything... just ask. R.I.P John Lacey.

Sarah Nelson

May 9, 2003

I am terribly sorry for the loss of such a great guy who always made people laugh and had a continous smile on his face. It was wonderful being your classmate as well as friend. John, you will always be in my prayers. Rich, know that we are here for you. R.I.P. Lacey

Jill Carey

May 9, 2003

Rich and family,

I was terribly shocked and saddened to hear about the horrific act bestowed upon John. He was a great guy, always had a smile and something nice to say. I enjoyed class with john and feel honored to have known him. Rich, know that we all grieve with you and we all pray for you. John will be greatly missed. RIP JOHN PAUL LACEY



.... Jill Carey UDHS class of 2000

Connie Kehner

May 8, 2003

I'm very sorry for your loss. I didn't know him,only through the news. From what I heard of him he seemed like a very nice person. The family is in my thoughts and payers

Erin Nemshick

May 8, 2003

you will be missed and always in our thoughts and prayers.

Erin Nemshick

May 8, 2003

you will be missed and in our thoughts and prayers.

Mark Cooper

May 7, 2003

My deepest sympathy and condolences go out to the Lacey family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of grief. I am sorry but did not have the opportunity to Know the Lacey family, but had heard the story from the media. I am a twin and can only imagine your loss at this time. I know how I felt when my own twin had undergone open-heart surgery, some time ago. Pardon the note, but as one twin to another, I offer my deepest sympathy at this time.

Best Regards,

Mark C. Cooper

May 7, 2003

To The Lacey Family: May God be with you at this time of Lost....

You have a beautiful Angel watching over you.....Richard he will always be with you.......Look deep inside your heart...and he is there...







Weep not for me

now that I have passed.

Remember the laughter, the affection, the joy

not just the recent tears.

Cherish the memories, our hopes and dreams.

Hold fast to the love that we shared.

Be happy with the time we spent together

and being anew.

For I am not really gone,

I am closer than ever before.

As the morning sun rises

and throughout the busy day...I am with you.

Until the setting sun disappears on the horizon

and we watch the day turn into night...I am here.

You may feel a faint breeze stir round your head, while you slumber

as I gently kiss your forehead, "Good night."

The stars that shine so brightly in my heavenly sky

help me watch over you and keep you from harm.

I am the wind in the trees

and the song of a bird.

I am moonbeams in a midnight sky

and a glorious rainbow after the storm.

I am morning dew

and freshly-fallen snow.

I am a butterfly flying overhead

and a puppy happily at play.

I am a smile on a stranger's face

a gentle touch

a warm embrace.

Listen to the wind for my message of love.

Watch the sun rise and set in the sky with me.

Feel my essence encircle you with warm memories.

Open your heart to know...I am not gone.

Reach deep into your soul...You will find me.

I am here.

Have no fear.

I am with you,

Always.

Krissy Krakovitz

May 7, 2003

Luv ya John, and gonna miss ya. I went to school with you all my life and I'll never forget how sweet and how much of a great friend and person you were. Especially having all 4 years of high school homeroom with you and Rich. And also hanging out outside of school! We always had fun! And always had classes together. You always did so good and tried your best in everything you did. You always had a smile and were a sweetheart. I'm so sorry it had to be like this-you of all people-but your memory and spirit will remain in our hearts with all of us forever. R.I.P. Lacey. I'll miss ya.

Monica Sockwell

May 7, 2003

I remember him from my years in DECA, especially the kindness and generosity he always showed. Coming to my house to get help on the manual with Rich, they were always very thankful and cute :) I know everyone will miss him.

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