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Robert Dilks Obituary
ROBERT "SMOKIE", age 60, of Williamstown, died Oct. 10, 2008, at home. Born in Phila. He lived in Camden before moving to Williamstown 36 years ago. He was a telephone tech for Verizon in Phila. for 38 years and he was a loyal Veteran of the Vietnam War. He is the husband of Rita (nee O'Toole), father of Ryan (Chris) Dilks, Tobey (Terry) Realley, and Kieran (Christina) Dilks, brother of Susan Adcock and proud Pop-Pop of Keegan, Hailey, Kayla and Shawn. Relatives and friends are invited to his Viewing on Tues. eve. from 7 to 9 P.M. at the NORTON FUNERAL HOME, 1232 S. Black Horse Pike, Williamstown, NJ and Wed. 9:30 A.M. at St. Mary Church, Carroll Ave. and Main St., Williamstown where Mass will be at 11 A.M. Burial with Military Honors will be in Gloucester County Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Williamstown. Family requests donations to Vietnam Veterans of America, Post 955, P.O. Box 481, Wildwood, N.J. 08260.
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Jack Disque
December 3, 2024
Was Robert a boy I went to school with in Philly?
I remember a Robert Dilks from Redeemer Lutheran Day School. He lived in Frankford.
If anyone knows blessed text me at 540-525-1001
Betty & Frank DePaul
October 7, 2024
Mariners Cove at Diamond Beach is a much better place because Bob saw the Deck Project through. "It never rains in Diamond Beach."
Betty DePaul
October 8, 2022
We never referred to him as "Smokey"...but as "Bob" he was the best Friend, Neighbor & Beach Buddy. If you had a situation, and you needed help, all you had to do was let Bob know, and your situation became less of a problem & less of a headache, because he then took it on. Thanks, Bob, for always bringing Sunshine into our lives.
Betty & Frank DePaul
Mike Mellace
February 26, 2009
Mr. Dilks was one of the greatest guys that I ever knew. One has to look no deeper than the content of the character of his children to see what a class act that Mr. Dilks was. He may be gone, but his legacy of kindness and good nature will live on forever.
Nick Hand
December 9, 2008
Kieran, Christina and family,
I was so sorry to hear about your dad's passing. It was obvious from the few times I met him why you all are so tight - not that I really knew him, but he seemed like a great guy, and he had good reason for the obvious pride he felt towards his fine family.
Catfish, don't be a stranger. I have no idea how to reach you, but we should arrange that long overdue drink with Wes, and hoist a few in your dad's honor to boot.
You are all in my thoughts - sorry to be signing this so late in the game...
Susan Adcock
November 27, 2008
Smokey,
Miss you a bunch. Hope you, Ashly and all our families that are with you are having a great big Thanksgiving dinner!
Love you guys! Susan
Ernesto Campa
November 25, 2008
I just found out about Smokey's passing, I remember him from Vietnam. Our hearts and prayers are with your family.
Ernesto & Martha Campa
Jack Farmer
November 24, 2008
I am very sorry for your loss my prayers are with you and your family during this trying period.
Jack R Farmer
Bob Tullos
November 22, 2008
I knew Smoky from Recon in 1969. He was a standup guy who was liked and respected by all. Since Vietnam, I only saw him once at the 2002 Americal reunion in D.C.. I wish I could have spent more time with him and known his family. The world will be a lesser place without him.
Mary Rush Puschak
October 23, 2008
Dear Rita and Family,
We were extremely saddened to hear of Bob's loss. He was truely a special person who brought love, light and laughter to all those whose lives he touched. The wonderful love you both shared was beautiful to behold and I hope the memory of that love will comfort you in some way during this difficult time. Love, Carl, Mary & Family
voss samson
October 22, 2008
i am terribly sorry to hear that smokie is gone. i can say that i only remember meeting him only, but everything that i've ever heard has held ture to his character and my thoughts are with you.
Erik / Mandie + Kids Meyers
October 20, 2008
Dear Aunt Rita, Ryan/Chris,Tobey/Terry,Kieran/Christina....
Uncle Smokie is one of the people in my life that I highly respected. He is the defenition of a"#1 Dad." I hope that I can be 1/2 the Dad and Husband he was. He is on a short list of people in my life that I call "HERO!" I love you guys... Erik
Frank De Paul
October 20, 2008
Dear Rita and Family,
I spoke with Bob many times about his service to our country and what it meant to me. He truly was a hero, and I consider it an honor to have known him.
Eileen McCauley
October 19, 2008
Rita and Family,
Knowing Bob was a gift from God. I am sorry our gift was taken back too soon. God left us with a wonderful family and for that we are very grateful.
Bob made the morning sunshine brighter and now he lights the nighttime sky. Bob will be missed but never forgotten.
luther adcock
October 18, 2008
dear rita and family,
I am truly sorry about Bob's passing,and with the love and closeness of your beautiful family you will somehow be able to continue on in this terrible time. I'm proud to have known Bob ,and I'm glad to be a small part of the family Bob left behind.God bless you all
Gary
Frank and Betty DePaul
October 17, 2008
Dear Rita and Family,
Bob will forever be a part of our family. Lucky...that's how we feel to have known him, and for the privilege of having him touch our lives the way he did. "It never rains in Diamond Beach", Bob would always say. It was true...when Bob was around, so was the sunshine!
Bob, we'll do our best to keep that sun shining for you! With love and respect, The DePaul Family
MARIANNE BAKER
October 17, 2008
Dear Rita & family,
Please know that my thoughts & prayers are with all of you. Bob with his wonderful smile & genuine caring personality will be missed by many. I recall him & Steve DeJoseph coaching baseball to the boys & Bob affectionately giving them the nickname of "potato head". They were excellent coaches allowing the team to enjoy themselves & learn about the sport at the same time. God Bless & Keep all of you. You are a terrific family.
Walt Selfridge
October 17, 2008
Dear Rita and Family,
When Terri called me with the sad news I was heartbroken and will remain so for a while I'm sure...a wise person once said that "joy shared is twice the joy, and sorrow shared is half the sorrow." I share your sorrow. I probably haven't seen Bob in a decade or more, yet I feel his loss deeply - that's how great men affect you.
Peace,
Bobbie and Howie Taylor
October 16, 2008
Dearest Rita and Family,
Howie and I just want to say again what a lagacy Smokie has left behind,
and that is the most warm and loving family. What a comfort it must be for you to have such loving children and granchildren.You will always be in our prayers and Smokie will always be remembered by our family.
With heart felt sympathys ,
Howie and Bobbie
Susan Adcock
October 16, 2008
Rita, Kids and Grandkids,
There are no words except, that Smokie will be missed so much. Of all the brothers in the world, I am so happy that he was mine. I will keep you all in my prayers so God will give you strength. Smokie and Ashly will be hanging out together. It gives me comfort to know he will be with her.
I love all of you! Susan
Cass Cronin
October 15, 2008
Dear Rita and Family:
Paul and I are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Bob. Please know that he and all of you are in our prayers. Love, Paul & Cass
Lois Armon
October 14, 2008
Dear Tobey and Family,
Please accept my sincerest sympathy on the passing of your
dad.
Eugene Madden
October 13, 2008
Dear Rita, Ryan, Tobey and Kieran,
We were saddend to hear of Bob's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
May he rest in peace.
Love,
Eugene & Maureen Madden and Family
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