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Seth Herschfeld Obituary

HERSCHFELD
SETH Beloved son of Pamela Herschfeld, and Jerry and Sherri Herschfeld. Loving brother of Arielle Herschfeld, Brittney Agger and Ryan Agger. Devoted grandson of Estelle Herschfeld and Norman Grossman. Nephew of Matthew Blank, Lee Blank, Margaret Holly, Larry and Carol Herschfeld, Joe and Bonnie Grossman. Great nephew of Shirley Glussman and Yetta Hecht. Relatives and friends are invited to funeral Services Sunday 2 P.M. precisely GOLDSTEINS' ROSENBERG'S RAPHAEL SACKS SUBURBAN NORTH, 310 Second St. Pike, Southampton. Int. private. Shiva will be observed at the Jerry and Sherri Herschfeld residence. Contributions in his memory may be made to a charity of the donor's choice.

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Published by Philadelphia Inquirer/Philadelphia Daily News from Dec. 1 to Dec. 2, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Seth Herschfeld

Sponsored by Seth's friends from NES.

114 Entries

Pam (Herschfeld) Jones

November 28, 2023

This is how I love to remember you...happy, surrounded by friends, truly living and not just existing. I miss you every day and wish I could hear your laugh again. With my love now and always. Mom

Britt

March 17, 2021

Happy belated birthday by just a minute. I wish I could hear you pulling up from a mile away. Love you xoxo

Aunt Lee

November 25, 2020

There’s nothing left but good memories now dear boy. Playing with slimy booger toys, covering my ceiling fan with cookie dough with enthusiastic use of the mixer, laughing until we cried. Love you so.

Pamela Jones

November 25, 2019

Like the song says...I'll always remember you young. Loving you and missing you every day, Mom

Pamela Jones

November 25, 2019

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November 25, 2019

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November 25, 2019

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November 25, 2019

Jerry Herschfeld

November 25, 2019

yo yo yo. Just a quick shout out. 13 years and it seems like only yesterday. Your nephew looks like you , talks gibberish like you and has to do thing his way just like you. Never a day goes by that I, we don't think about you. You'll always be here You'll always be part of us. You'll always be in our hearts having been bigger than life . Miss you mucho . Rest well where you are. I know that I will see you once it's my turn. No doubt, absolutely no doubt abo9ut it. Much love now and always. Dad.

May 18, 2018

Seth! I miss you everyday. I talk about you all of the time, and the awesome times we had. I wish we got to spend more time together. Please continue to look over me/us this riding season, i'll be on a different bike so dont get confused! I still have your sticker on my helmet and everything that I remember you by!

Brittney McKenna

November 30, 2017

Love you Seth. This Thanksgiving was especially bitter sweet- missing you, but got to enjoy the time with our nephew. Hope you are watching over us xoxoxo

Pamela Jones

November 29, 2017

Another year...can it really be 11 already? Your nephew and namesake Seth is here now and a constant reminder of the love that endures. Giid night, my sweet son...and sweet dreams. Live always, xoxo Mom

Pamela Jones

November 29, 2016

My precious son...10 years gone...and not a day passes that you are not remembered, cherished, and loved. I miss you so much. Your sister just told us that she and Ryan are expecting your very first niece or nephew on June 30. I hope that wherever you are, you'll be with us on this new journey...always a part of our lives and forever in our hearts. All my love always, Mom.

Pam Jones

November 29, 2015

My precious son,
9 years today...where does the time go? Ellie came up to York with us this weekend to help Jack's nephew Tim finish the shed at the house he recently purchased. We laughed and shared memories of so many happy times with you. You are missed...and loved...every day. So wish you were here. Always in my heart, Mom

Brittney McKenna

November 28, 2015

This time of year always sucks. Each Thanksgiving is another year anniversary of when I last saw you and spoke to you. I'm so grateful I did see you that day and that we had a nice time together given how difficult that year was. El and I were talking about the last voicemail you left her and how even though she doesn't have it anymore it's an amazing last interaction. Everything about it. Love you and miss you.

Nicholas Wahl

September 25, 2012

Missing you kiddo!

Lee Blank

November 30, 2011

Looking at lots of pictures of you this morning and feeling less sad seeing your sweet smile. Aunt Lee.

Pam Herschfeld-Jones

November 30, 2011

It's my next-to-the-last day at Lexington Court; tomorrow I'll close the door I carried you through when you were two days old...the door you last closed behind you at age 26. So many days, so many times that door opened and closed, so many memories.

You wouldn't recognize the house, Chuckie. It's all been redone and updated and ready to sell. I probably could have had it ready sooner if I'd really tried, but somehow I just had to hold on until one more November 29 had come and gone. Your friend and mentor Lady Di will do the listing later today and it seems only right that she be the one to sell it.

Yesterday, I thought about you all day as I went from room to room finishing up the last details. As the sun was going down, I climbed into the attic to finally extend the light chain that we struggled to reach all these years. I thought I'd make sure the cleanout was complete and as I looked around, something caught my eye, poking up through the insulation, way back in the corner. Acutely aware of the balance and coordination "issues" that necessitated a large bathroom ceiling repair the last time I lost my footing on an attic joist, I managed to reach the object. It turned out to be an amazing gift of love so sorely needed on a truly difficult day...the little latch hook rug with the dancing bear and your name, made for you by someone who loved you very much, to welcome you into the world.

I like to think that you (and those with you) put it there for me to find. I just wanted to thank you, for that and so much more.

Love always, Mom

Tom Mellett

November 29, 2011

Can't believe it's been 5 years already, seems like yesterday. It's amazing how much some of us have changed since you left us and amazing how much some of us haven't too I guess. I wonder what you would be up to now, whatever it would be I'm sure you would be enjoying the hell out of it. Miss you bro!

Ryan Agger

February 11, 2011

I miss you man.

Kristen

November 20, 2009

Seth,

You would be surprised how much your passing has affected me. I never truly got to know you, and I suppose I took for granted the opportunity to do so. This is often the case when young, though I find myself repeating the same mistake. I try to remind myself that it works both ways.

Your funeral was the first that I ever found difficult. It felt terrible to lose someone that was once part of my life, and it felt nearly as bad not knowing what to say to my family. I'll never forget the moment I saw Uncle Jerry, I can't describe the feeling. I couldn't get anything worth saying out, and felt that whatever I could say would be worthless in light of the situation. The same went for Aunt Sherri, Brit, Ryan and so on. At that time and to this current moment, I feel as though I'm incapable of conveying those thoughts other than within myself. I do regret my silence.

Your death particularly hard for me as you were the first young person I knew to pass. Nowadays, there are so many things we have in common. I think about you all the time.. I have such a hard time watching my boyfriend, friends and other loved ones on their bikes. I constantly worry, with you in mind, and every single time I cry.

After you passed I swore that I would never get on a bike, but that didn't last too long. I went to Bike Week for the first time this year, both Delmarva and Ocean City. It was awesome, you should have been there, and I probably would have seen ya.

I'll never understand how or why you have affected me THIS much, but that's life. I try to think of you it a personal reminder; while I live my life to the fullest, constantly on the edge, I must never take it for granted.

Every time I see the family I know that something and someone is missing. You're very, sincerely, truly missed.

I wish you were still here, and that I could get to know you better. Wish I was able to tell everyone how I felt, and that the way I feel inside could be conveyed easier in words.. It hurts, and I'm sorry. I'm sorry that your life was tragically cut short, and for my silenced compassion.

Love and miss you cuz. Have a good Holiday.
-Kristen

Judi Buckalew

November 12, 2009

I've been thinking of you alot lately, realizing you are looking at the third anniversary of your son's death in a few short weeks. I know it does not get any easier as time goes by...perhaps it gets harder. In either case I am thinking of you and your family Pam.

A big splash at Bryan's graduation party, 1997!

Pam Herschfeld

July 28, 2009

My sweet boy,
I've been thinking about you so much...especially at Bryan Hazlett's 30th birthday party last Saturday. Today, when I picked up the photo of you at Bry's graduation party in 1997 after it fell off of the fridge for the umpteenth time, I needed to let you know how much you are missed. I love to hear your laugh and see your sparkling smile in my mind...those memories are still as fresh as they ever were and they will never fade. I love you, Chuckie Boots. Mom

Matt Jusino

May 15, 2009

Seth. Your business card still hangs in my kitchen. I miss you and wish you were still around. I always think about how this world has lost one of the great ones way too early.

Diane Gable

March 19, 2009

Just wanted to say we all keep your buisness card with us so your always close by. Love Ya X O Lady Di

Jerry Herschfeld

March 18, 2009

just wanted to take a moment and tell you that I love you and that there isn;t a day that goes by where we don't miss you. While it will be three years since the accident, you're never really gone and that's because you're only as close as a thought away. Just felt like saying that and to wish that wherever you are, I'm hoping you're having a really good day. All our love, dad

Diane Gable

November 30, 2008

You will always be remembered and never forgotton,Love Always Lady Di XOXO

Britt

November 29, 2008

Love you xoxo

Jerry Herschfeld

November 27, 2008

Seth, love always, Dad

Ericka "Special Girl" Smith

May 16, 2008

I was thinking the other day as I saw some people out with bikes that it make me smile and frown at the same time. As much as you enjoyed being on your bike, I saw a different side of you and enjoyed being close to you. You are truly missed each day and just seeing a bike is a reminder to me that you are looking over all of us smiling. I will NEVER forget you - you were a light in eyes and I will never forget the times we shared.

April 29, 2008

Please continue to watch over all of us as we ride into another season. Your memory is still so strongly with all of us. John and Steve have opened Coolaid Customs named in your honor - their business will be sure to flourish with you looking over it. Not a day goes by that youre not thought about, talked about, or missed by everybody. We love you bro, and thank you for keeping an eye out. RIP boy!

Cindy Britland

March 26, 2008

I'l never get over losing you. I'm so impressed by all the entries in the guest book ...still to this day and enjoy re=reading. We may not have a guest book in 5---10 50 years from now....but we will always remeber you. Everyone we meet thru life we have different experiences with and different memories to enjoy. You are 1 of my top 2!!

Nick Marker

March 24, 2008

RIP!!

Eleanor Kerr

November 30, 2007

To Seth's Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Seth is so often thought about here at the office. I miss our chats about cooking among other things. He was such an amesome person and he is so sadly missed today and always.

Cindy Britland

November 27, 2007

To Seth's family and friends,
Here at Century 21 Alliance we still think of Seth often. We spoke of him today. We miss him and remember him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ericka Smith

November 26, 2007

I remember this week last year like it was yesterday. It is very hard for me to imagine that Seth has been gone for almost a year now. He was honestly one of the best things that happened to me and I definitely miss him SOOOOOOOOOO much.

Tom Mellett

November 22, 2007

Thinking about you buddy. Make sure you stop in the Raven with us next week, it'll be a good time.

Di Gable

November 21, 2007

Dear Jerry and Pam,
I want you both to know Im thinking of you and every one in our office talks about Sir Seth!
HUGS AND KISSIES LADY DI XO

Brittney

November 18, 2007

still so weird :`( love and miss you.... dreading Thanksgiving xoxo

Kev & Megan Shaw

July 10, 2007

Seth - we're always thinking about you. We were laughing the other day about the whole experience of buying our house and dealing with your boy Ko. You always cracked me up with those messages. We miss you all the time, like MB just wrote. You're one of the best people i've ever met and you'll never be forgotten. Rest easy.

Greg & Mary Beth Davis

June 15, 2007

Dear Seth,
I know you were with us in spirit at the wedding- we remembered you. It is obvious that something is missing at all of the big events (weddings, picnics, poker games) with our friends- you. Gone, but never forgotten.
Greg & Mary Beth

Dude

Matt Blank

March 15, 2007

Dear Seth-
I'm writing because I think that tomorrow will be a difficult day for your mom, and your sister, and your dad, as well as the rest of your family. My thoughts go out to Pam, Arielle and Jerry, and the rest of your family tomorrow -- the first of your birthdays that you won't be there with them. Please give them strength and hope by letting them know you are in a peaceful, safe place, beyond any suffering or pain. Help them, and me, get through the pain of missing you. Happy Birthday. Long live the Doughboy!
Uncle Matt

Krista Stull (Kevins Daughter)

March 1, 2007

To Seths family,I am so sorry for your loss of Seth.I know how it feels to lose somebody because I also went through it again I am very very sorry for your loss of Seth

Your father captured the real you in this photo, my son.

Pam Herschfeld

February 28, 2007

Three months ago today, I last saw your smiling blue eyes, shared your infectious laughter, marvelled as I hugged you at how big and strong you'd become...so much a man after all. Your 27th birthday is nearly here and I can only hope that the pain of facing that day without you will somehow be tempered by the memory of the joy and excitement of that day so many fleeting years ago. I love you, my precious son, and I miss you to the very core of my being.

Dear, devilish boy

Lee Blank

February 6, 2007

Dearest Seth, I held you in your first weeks of life, your tiny fingers grabbing mine so tight. I watched you struggle so to fit in as a small boy and better still watched you learn that fitting in was not to be your style. Your smile could fill a room and so could your appetite. As you were just becoming a man, still playful and daring, you're gone. I think you lived with an ease that I have yet to discover at almost twice your age. I'm really missing you today and wish I could log on and IM to see what you're up to. xxoo Aunt Lee

Mike Mauro

January 24, 2007

Seth,

Its a shame I didn't get to this earlier. Today I was looking through my messages on Northeast Sportbikes and I noticed I got one from you. After your accident I didn't realize it was you until today. We never got to go out riding in that big Phila. ride. :( My condolences go out again to your family. You will be missed brother

S S

January 12, 2007

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the path of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

Georgeanna Meyer

December 20, 2006

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Edie Eileen & Matt Elkan

December 17, 2006

Dear Jerry, Sherri, Pam, Arielle, Michelle and Josh,

Matt and I send our love and prayers to you. We have many fond memories of Seth—the one that stands out in my mind though, is when he was …what—11, 12 years old and taking piano lessons with me. Right from his first lessons, it was clear to me he wanted to play more—immediately. I don’t know if it was his third, fourth or fifth lesson, but I know it was early on when he marched into my studio and announced that he wanted to play Mozart. And not just any Mozart—the first piano sonata!! I blinked a few times but saw how serious he was about this. So the first piano sonata it was! We played other pieces, but week after week, he worked on the first part—two measures at a time—of the Mozart Sonata and by gum, a couple of months later, he was playing two lines of it!! Well, I never got to tell him, but Ive been telling that story about Seth to my students for years, as an example of how, if you really want to do something, even if it seems impossible to everyone else around you, you can!
And so I want you to know that to honor dear Seth and to inspire others to believe in themselves and their dreams, we are establishing a Seth Herschfeld Memorial Instructional Scholarship at Bedside Harp.
Sending our love to you,

Laura Sikowitz

December 13, 2006

Dear Jerry,

I was deeply saddened and upset when I learned about Seth. I know we joke a lot when I come in for my appointments, but this really is an ultimate tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and pray that you have many good memories of Seth. Mine is when I drove him to camp one year. He was a happy go lucky kid. Condolences to you and your family.

Pam Herschfeld

December 8, 2006

Just an apology to NES, which is NORTHEAST SPORTBIKES (not streetbikes). I'm sorry I got your name wrong in the earlier posting. Guess you can see where Seth got his absentmindedness from!!

Cathy Gonzalez

December 8, 2006

If tears could build a heaven
And memories build a lane
I walk right up to heaven
And bring you home again.
R.I.P. Seth

Daniel Yowell

December 8, 2006

2AM over one week later and I'm finally sitting down to write in here. It is not that I couldn't find the time or that I didn't have the words but that I just wish having the option to right in your memorial guestbook wasn’t an option. I wish the option were to call you on the phone and tell you "Hey Seth, thanks for being part of NES." And "Hey Seth, thanks for being part of my life." But that’s not an option. The only option is to type in here, not for you, but for myself. As if typing in here was some sort of comfort to myself, as though typing in here would allow me to say thanks and goodbye because I didn't when I had the chance.

Unfortunately this guest book is all there is for me and many others to say those things we wish we could have expressed before such a good thing came to an end. Before a good person was taken from earth.

As much ruckus as you may have caused you were a good person. You always just wanted to have fun and let those around you enjoy a moment of enjoyment here and there. I will be the first to admit that I did not know you nearly as well as many. I only wish that I had taken a little more time to talk to you, hang with you, and of course ride with you.

If you’re up there and you watched us ride on your funeral ride you’d be amazed. The beauty of it all is that you affected so many people only you never tried to do that and you probably didn’t realize just how many people you had an effect on. But you did, you’re presence was always appreciated and enjoyed by so many. I hope you know that now.

Seth, you were there from the first NES official event and if I can, I'll make sure you're on NES's last event too.

Thanks for being you.

NESSPORTBIKES

December 7, 2006

In Memory Of Seth
You left the earth so sudden your time not fully spent the love you shared is not forgotten,the pain has left a dent. We hear the words that you have spoken,as your soul floats to the sky,but in our hearts it hurts cause we never said good-bye.In years to come your soul will touch our hearts, and that's enough to convince us that we will never part.When we look up you'll look down and on your face won't be a frown.
Rest In Peace GSXRSeth
Gone But Not Forgotten

Cathy Gonzalez

December 7, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

Pam Herschfeld

December 7, 2006

Dear, dear friends,

I just wanted to take a minute to express my gratitude to each and every one of you. The outpouring of love and support has been overwhelmingly wonderful! Speaking of overwhelming, I don't think that Goldstein's was at all prepared for the huge crowd at Seth's funeral, so many people who came were unable to see us or, in one case at least, even get inside. The haste to reduce the number of people in the building also meant that I was unable to let many of our friends know that:

1. Jerry, Sherri, Ellie, Brit, Ryan and I would like very much to have you share your favorite "Seth stories" with us. I'll be happy to mail or email you one of our memory book pages for you to fill out and return; just send your name and mailing address and/or email address to the "Contact me" link below my name. You could also leave your stories here in the guestbook, if you'd rather.

2. We will be printing small (4x6)professionally designed memorial car window decals in two designs, 'Doughboy' and 'Seth's Suzuki cycle', and would be happy to send you one or the other or both. Just provide your mailing address with your request to the "Contact me" link below if you didn't have the opportunity to fill out a label at the funeral or at Jerry's house during Shiva.

3. We are very moved to learn that both Seth's cycle club, Northeast Street Bikes and our Lexington Court neighbors will be making very generous donations in memory of Seth. Each group has chosen METC/New Hope Academy in Yardley as the recipient of their gift, and we are very moved and appreciative, since this is the alternative high school that restored the spirit of our daughter Arielle and returned her, whole and happy once again, to her big brother Seth and the rest of her very grateful family.

4. I've received several requests, from people who were unable to attend the funeral, for copies of the email to my friend that I read as my eulogy. David had never met Seth. I have pasted it below:
From: Herschfeld, Pam
Sent: Thu 11/30/2006 6:19 AM
To: My dear friend David
Subject: I have terrible, terrible news

It's 5:50 a.m. and I've just returned from the hospital. The unthinkable has happened; my son is gone. I never imagined, even in my darkest nightmares, that there could be sadness this profound or emptiness so complete. My mind has gone completely wooden. I have no idea what to do or think or feel, and I don't even want to try to sleep, knowing that waking up will just force me to confront the reality of Seth's death.

There is some small comfort in knowing that he almost certainly died instantly upon impact with the car that pulled out into his path, causing the accident, and that the car's occupants were not injured.

I'm sorry that you never got to meet Seth. His personality was radiant and larger than life, and I honestly cannot say that I ever knew of anyone, with the possible exception of his second grade teacher, who didn't like him, even if he drove them crazy on occasion. That in itself is a testament, I suppose, to the kind of person he was. Oh God, I already miss him so very much.

Seth somehow managed to squeeze absolutely everything he loved into the last week of his life... most of which I can tell you about. Starting with Thanksgiving, he went downtown to visit a friend who had no family to be with, then spent much of the day as he always did with his very best friend Anthony, celebrating with 'Ant's' family, who embraced him as one of their own. Then Seth went to his loving father and second mother's home for yet another family dinner, and finally came back to be with me and his sister Arielle for his third Thanksgiving dinner of the day. The two of them made plans for an early morning "Black Friday" shopping adventure and the last thing he did before he went to bed that night was help me pack up a complete homemade turkey dinner to take to his lonely friend Pat.

Arielle and Seth embarked on their shopping excursion in the wee hours of Friday morning, and had the time of their lives in the madness of the sale frenzy that hits on the day after Thanksgiving. By their own accounts, I don't think a brother and sister ever had so much fun. Between then and now, he also managed to deliver Pat's belated Thanksgiving dinner, show several houses, spend the night with a special new girl he'd been seeing lately, go to Atlantic City and win $600 playing poker, construct a new habitat for his precious lizards, watch the Sunday football games with friends, get me laughing hysterically with his stories and antics, eat Tuesday night wings at Bella, restock his supply of his very favorite herb, and go motorcycle riding with 'Ant' on an unseasonably warm evening...probably the thing he liked doing more than anything else in the world. His last meal...veal from Georgine's. I am certain that even if Seth had known this was going to be the last week of his life, he'd have chosen to live it exactly as he did.

How many of us can look at the past week and say that? I wonder...

Fondly,
Pam

Matthew W Blank

December 7, 2006

Dear (Nephew) Seth –
I am deeply saddened that I’ll never get to know you more. Most of my sharpest memories of you are from when you were just a boy. But, they are still very strong and will live with me always. I wish I had known you better and seen you more during the past few years as you grew into an adult, but, as we get older life seems to get increasingly busy and complex and we don’t seem to make the time to get together like we probably should. As virtually everyone in this guest book and who was at the funeral seems to say, you are an impossible guy to forget. You were always a good spirit, never cruel or mean (except to Arielle when you’d give her noogies, or the finger, of course), and everyone felt better about themselves while being around you. There’s another more important thing that you did for me that I never really understood until you were gone, and that I, therefore, was never able to thank you for. You relieved any concerns I had about my sister Pam being all right. Going through a divorce and being a single mom has got to be an unbelievably tough thing to do, especially when having to raise two, shall I say, “independent souls” like you and Arielle! But, as soon as you were old enough to take care of yourself and you had started to get your life together, I always knew I could count on you to make sure my sister Pam would be all right. Whatever life threw at her, however difficult life might be, I could count on you to be there to cheer her up, to take her out to dinner (even if she did end up paying the bill), or to help her with her ever growing, never ending “to do” lists (like at Cherry Lane, or as the Hortitutor). I’ve had some difficult times in my life and Pam has always there for me. So, it was so good to know that, even if I couldn’t physically be there for her, I knew you were there to help her through. It’s funny, but, as I told Pam at the funeral, I just can’t seem to cry for you. You were almost always happy, lived life at you saw fit, and had a great time doing everything you did. I don’t think that you’d really regret any major thing about your life. You probably learned what you needed to learn while you were here, and are probably just as engaged in whatever you have to learn in the new place you’re in now. But, I can cry for your family. I know that they will miss you terribly, and will always have an emptiness in their life that you used to fill. Anyway, for being there always for my sister, and for everything you’ve been for all of your many friends and family, thank you for having been my nephew. I love you. I miss you. Uncle Matt

Candace Blake

December 7, 2006

Dear Mr. & Ms. Herschfeld,

Your son was the most beautiful person I have ever known. I hadn't spoken with him in a few years but he was always in my heart and he always held a special place there and he always will. He will be missed.

Anthony & Denise

December 7, 2006

Seth,
I don't know where to start. It feels like it was just yesterday that I was pulling you through Neshaminy Valley from the back bumper of my '89 Chevy Cavalier in the snow. We've been friends ever since, and it's been a crazy ride. Sitting around watching football on Sundays, riding down South Street so black chicks could check us out, stopping for Lorenzo's pizza, going out to the bars in the middle of the afternoon...late night Playstation marathons of Tiger Woods, Grand Theft Auto, and ESPN Football. We talked about buying our bikes for so long and we finally got them. I remember I had to ride your bike home that first day because you didn't know how to, and I had to wait for mine because it was getting ordered. I knew that when my bike came in, I was going to let you ride it home so we could both say we rode brand new bikes off the show room floor. I'm so sorry it had to end so soon. Riding my bike will never be the same without your beat-up bike next to mine. Thanksgiving will never be the same without you there; remember when we deep fried the turkey and almost burned my house down? We couldn't help but crack up because it was so funny. But that was just us. Even our late night cook offs in my kitchen after a good night of hangin out were a great time. Bro, my life will never be the same without you. It feels like you are on vaction with your family and I can't wait for you to get back so I can call you because I have so much to tell you, then I realize that won't ever happen. Seth, you where not only my friend, but you where my brother and I am so sorry that the fun ended so soon. When we meet up in the future we are getting bikes again and I can't wait for that day. I want you to know that I will always look out for your family. That is my promise to you as a friend, as a brother...RIP...you're my roll dawg.
Your boy, Ant
AKA Fat Joe

Seth- I'm so glad that you lived your life to the fullest and that you enjoyed every little bit of it. I'm grateful to have met someone who could crack me up like no other. Thank you for being my partner when we played Spades at Ant's house, when no one wanted to be my partner because I was such a horrible player. I'll miss our Burger King runs at 1am. I'll miss the Cartman impressions. I'll miss the visits to the Chinese Buffet. God, we ate a lot. I'm so sorry that your life ended so soon. You will be missed terribly...

Rich Solomon

December 7, 2006

Dear Jerry, It has been 15 years since we left Pennsylvania and since we have seen you. We never knew anyone in your family other than you but you know we always enjoyed seeing you and we always left your company with a big smile on our faces. You had a knack of making people feel that you genuinely liked and respected them. After reading these tributes to Seth we are sure that you passed your positive outlook on to your son. It is apparent that he became a "goodwill" ambassador to everyone he met, just as we remember you doing. We are truly sorry for your loss and we hope you can find some relief from your sorrow in knowing that Seth found true friends wherever he went. We are sorry we never knew Seth and we will keep you in our thoughts and in our hearts.

Rich and Joan Solomon, Simi Valley, CA

Avi Wildenberg

December 6, 2006

This is so tragic & painful.
Dearest Pam, I didn't get to know Seth, but knowing he had you as his loving mother, coupled with an overwhelming attendance at his funeral, is testament to a person who grew up to be a fine and very much loved young man. Please know that all of your support & love during my father's prolonged illness is not forgotten & still very much appreciated. You were like a ray of hope for me during those dark days, and now my thoughts are with you & your family during this very difficult time.
Much love,
Avi Wildenberg

Dan Chaponis

December 6, 2006

Pam,

I am sorry to hear about the sudden and tragic death of your son. I never met Seth, but knowing what he meant to you, and after reading all these memories from those who knew and loved him, his death has left me saddened. He was a son you can be proud of.

I wish that the clock could be turned back...knowing that, that is not possible, my pray is that your grief will find some peace & comfort in fond memories of him, and I hope that he remains strong in the hearts & minds of his family and friends.

Love, Dan

Matt Blank

December 5, 2006

To: The Herschfelds (Pam, Jerry and Arielle)

I am writing to let you know how proud and grateful I am to be able to call you family. I think that it’s become abundantly clear by
everything that’s occurred since Seth’s death what a wonderful human
being you nurtured and helped to grow. Seth was who he was because of
the love and caring and guidance you gave him during his relatively
short life. As strong, and defiant and original as his personality
might have been, he couldn’t have been the much-loved guy he was
without you. I wanted to commend you all on your commitment to your
family, and to your living your lives as an on-going illustration of
the concept of unconditional love (which is especially appreciated by
those who might not have experienced the same while growing up). I have
always been amazed at how strong your family bond has been, and how you have maintained those bonds of love and commitment even through times of divorce, frustration, exasperation, anger, loneliness or despair. When facing difficult times, your family didn’t break down or crumble, it simply grew to become more inclusive, adapted, and/or took on a different shape. You’ve always maintained focus on what’s important in life—to be kind to others, to do your best, and to leave the world a
better place for having been here. That’s definitely how Seth lead his
life. Just as the befitting standing-room-only turnout at the funeral was a tribute to Seth’s existence, his short but extraordinary life was a tribute to, and a celebration of, your family’s success.
Love,
Matt
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Matt Blank

December 5, 2006

Dear (Nephew) Seth –
I am deeply saddened that I’ll never get to know you more. Most of my sharpest memories of you are from when you were just a boy. But, they are still very strong and will live with me always. I wish I had known you better and seen you more during the past few years as you grew into an adult, but, as we get older life seems to get increasingly busy and complex and we don’t seem to make the time to get together like we probably should. As virtually everyone in this guest book and who was at the funeral seems to say, you are an impossible guy to forget. You were always a good spirit, never cruel or mean, and everyone felt better about themselves while being around you. There’s another more important thing that you did for me that I never really understood until you were gone, and that I, therefore, was never able to thank you for. You relieved any concerns I had about my sister Pam being all right. Going through a divorce and being a single mom has got to be an unbelievably tough thing to do, especially when having to raise two, shall I say, “independent souls” like you and Arielle! But, as soon as you were old enough to take care of yourself and you had started to get your life together, I always knew I could count on you to make sure my sister Pam would be all right. Whatever life threw at her, however difficult life might be, I could count on you to be there to cheer her up, to take her out to dinner (even if she did end up paying the bill), or to help her with her ever growing, never ending “to do” lists (like at Cherry Lane, or as the Hortitutor©). I’ve had some difficult times in my life and Pam has always there for me. So, it was so good to know that, even if I couldn’t physically be there for her, I knew you were there to help her through. It’s funny, but, as I told Pam at the funeral, I just can’t seem to cry for you. You were almost always happy, lived life at you saw fit, and had a great time doing everything you did. I don’t think that you’d really regret any major thing about your life. You probably learned what you needed to learn while you were here, and are probably just as engaged in whatever you have to learn in the new place you’re in now. But, I can cry for your family. I know that they will miss you terribly, and will always have an emptiness in their life that you used to fill. Anyway, for being there always for my sister, and for everything you’ve been for all of your many friends and family, thank you for having been my nephew. I love you. I miss you. Uncle Matt

Mary Beth & Greg

December 5, 2006

We are so sorry for your loss.

Seth was a dear friend. A few of his qualities that made him so dear... he was adventureous- always "in" for a good time, he was funny, he was polite and friendly, he was generous, he was good-natured, he was laid back, and he could cheer anyone up... just to name a few.

Seth, we will always love you and miss you. "Aarrrww-in baby." [poker lingo]

Barry and Joan Perlman

December 4, 2006

Dear Jerry, Pam and Family,

You know all too well that at times like this, words fail to adequately express one's feelings. Yet, the overwhelming number of people who attended Seth's funeral (and the many others who could not attend) demonstrates, in no small measure, an outpouring of love. Love not only for Seth, but a love for his parents, sister and blended family.
May that love and respect help you all to know how many people hurt for and with you.

Dan and Hillary Pring

December 4, 2006

Dr Herschfeld and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your sons passing.
Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Janet Ortiz

December 4, 2006

Dear Pam,
I was shocked to hear about Seth. (Sheryl told me today.) I wish I could have been there yesterday. Words can't express how sorry I am for you. Only the peace & love of God will bring you through this. No one understands like Jesus. You were always there for both your kids. I know how hard it is being a single mother. You done a good job, Mom!
God bless you & your family,
Janet

Andrea (McCain) & Anthony Siegfried

December 4, 2006

I can not believe you are gone. It's been a few years since we last hung out but the memories seem like yesterday. You were the funniest person I have ever met and such a sweetheart. You have touched so many people lives and we will never forget you. RIP "Doughboy" Love ya and will always miss ya.

Jerry Herschfeld

December 4, 2006

It is now the day after the funeral. I was told by the funeral parlor, which is one of the, if not the largest funeral home in and around Philadelphia, that this was the largest funeral with the biggest turnout they ever had for someone under thirty years of age. Ever! I think that was the finest tribute that could have been paid to my son and I thank, from the bottom of my heart, all of his friends, old and new, for coming out to support Seth's memory.
After yesterday one of the things that saddens me is that I didn't know the vast majority of the friends Seth made in the last fifteen years since his mother and I divorced. The separation of life's normal flow is one of the tragedies of divorce. Seth was a very private person. He knew that as his father I would be most critical of people he knew and actions and stuff he did that may have been risky, harmful, dangerous or simply not in his best interests. I guess to spare me the uncomfortable thoughts and to spare him my criticisms, it was "out of sight-out of mind." In the showing yesterday I know now that I really had nothing to worry about. I was so impressed with all of the people from NES who came out to show what true friendship and comradship is all about. I'm so sorry I couldn't personally greet and talk with each and every one of you but for me that would have been too difficult. But please know that while I didn't know any of you, I love deeply each and every one of you for how happy and how valued each of you made my son feel. For all of Seth's old friends, new friends,and anyone who just wanted to be with us please accept our family's heartfelt thanks for how proud you made us feel by caring enough to just be there. As a parent one always wonders if the job he or she does in raising a child is enough. One can seldom know if the values that you as a parent try to instill in your child will be enough to get them through life. Thank you all for letting both me and his mom know that we did a good job. From all your support and for the turnout that came yesterday,well, I guess we did a very good job indeed. Love to you all, Seth's dad.

Christopher Fritz

December 4, 2006

Seth, you were one of the funniest people I ever met.

I really only knew you because of Ant, and while I never got to know you as well as him, the times the three of us spent together were always memorable. When you and Ant got together, you both could make me laugh harder than anyone else.

You always tested the limits of the golf carts when we played a round together and when you were behind the wheel, I was usually laughing too hard to be scared. Though unsubstantiated, you probably dented an SUV by swinging a bag of ice into it in the Acme parking lot. Despite my best efforts, I could never catch you or Ant in “Tiger Woods” -- even that round where I had two holes-in-one. And you always schooled me in those games of ATV ice hockey.

I remember stopping off in Port Richmond to pick someone up when we were on our way to a Phillies game. While waiting, you hopped out of the car, ran down the block and got in line with a dozen little kids to get yourself some soft-serve from the ice cream man. Then after the game, you finished two sandwiches at Tony Lukes. That memory, to me, says “Seth” more than any other.

I never remember a time seeing you when you weren’t happy, and that’s how I’ll always remember you. I’ll miss you.

Luis and Heather Velez

December 3, 2006

To all of Seth's family and Friends,
Luis and I would like to express our deepest sympathy for your loss. Although we only knew Seth briefly, we are so deeply saddened by this tragity. He was an amazing person and so great to be around. We will miss him terribly. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Michelle Ormont

December 3, 2006

Pam, Jerry, Sheri and Arielle, I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. There is no bond greater then a parent and child! Our thoughts are with you.

Michelle and Jansen Ormont

Kristen Grossman

December 3, 2006

To my family,
I'm sincerely sorry for your (our) loss. I love you all dearly.

I hope events such as these may only bring us closer. You're always in my thoughts.

Seth,
I love you to death, only wish we had more time. There are so many things I imagined of the future in regards to our family. You were and will remain a special part of it all. Life in general, and holidays moreso will never be the same. I miss you already.

Love your cousin,
Kristen Grossman

Rich Meyer

December 3, 2006

Seth, I'll never forget the times riding and hanging with ya. You were truly one of a kind and will be missed by everyone that knew you...I'm just glad I was able to be one of them

Kelly Carroll

December 3, 2006

Second place Seth, miss ya already buddy. NEVER FORGOTTEN..RIP BROTHER. Stay strong El Dog and the rest of the family!

Donna Patti

December 2, 2006

Dear Pam, Jerry and Arielle,
Many years have passed since we have met and talked about Seth. The times we spent together were full of love, care and concern for your son and brother. As he grew older and became more independent, you took a step back and watched him grow into adulthood with the same great personality and drive for his own goals, many of which we could not understand 15 years ago and you may not now either. He became his own person who loved life and had a magical way of making everyone laugh with him and love him. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you and I am ever so grateful to have shared in your lives so much in Seth's middle school years - some of his best and yours too. Thanks for being so caring and concerned parents and taking the time for your son. Seth knew you were always there for him and that is the BEST parents can do for their son. God bless and please take care of you for Seth.
Donna M. Patti

Gene & Maryanne Kern

December 2, 2006

Dear Jerry and Family
It is with our deepest sympathy that we write this. The loss of our children is always our greatest fear. We hold you and your family in our hearts and prayers.

Jane Viau

December 2, 2006

Pam, Matt, Lee and Arielle -
Please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss.

May all your memories of happy and comfortable times together bring you comfort in the trying months ahead.

Love, Jane and Mike Viau

Alyssa Janssen nee Maxwell

December 2, 2006

A few more memories that came to my mind after I clicked submit....
His mini van, hydraulics, car models, his love of music and "Pimping his Ride", and lastly I will never forget you "Doughboy"- REST IN PEACE!

Jaimie Plescia

December 2, 2006

I had the pleasure of knowing Seth only a short time. In that short time he brought many big smiles and great laughs into the office.Seth will be greatly missed but never forgotten

Sharon Perlman

December 2, 2006

Dear Jerry, Pam and Family,

My deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.

Sincerely,

TRICIA HORNBAKER

December 2, 2006

To The Loved Ones of Seth:
How proud you must be to have had such a great person in your life. I just happy that for a short time I was one of the many who enjoyed Seth's fun loving attitude - he actually lit up our office when ever he was around - We will keep his memory alive and when thinking of him - he will still bring a smile to our faces. May your many memories do the same for you.

Bethann Devoll

December 2, 2006

What a wonderful person Seth(Sir Syth)! Words are not enough! I will always remember you cheerful & happpy! I All ready Miss you so much!I fell so lucky and glad to have known you!

Sincerly,
Bethann Devoll

Alyssa Janssen nee Maxwell

December 2, 2006

I had the pleasure of knowing Seth several years ago, and I must say he is still to this day one of the funniest guys I have ever met. He had a great sense of humor and a fun loving personality that it was hard not to enjoy his company. He always had a way to get you laughing and your attention. So many memories of the years I did have the pleasure of knowing him I will treasure forever. The summer we all rented the Wildwood apt after he graduated, when the porch caught on fire; or waking up finding him asleep on the porch using a bottle as a pillow; to the tire falling off his Explorer on the way to the Englishtown car show, his stereo systems and light shows, to his cooking expertise- or his many crazy ideas- PA to Wildwood NJ to Rhode Island to Maryland- Playstation matches and many nights of hanging out-and driving around of course- the air horns. He will be sadly missed. My deepest condolences and sympathy to his family and friends. Rest In Peace Forever Seth...

Thomas Rivera (NREMT-P)

December 2, 2006

Seth,
I thank you for your kind personality, and your forgiveness. I am glad that you came to Kev's service, and you were my wingman that day, I will never forget you friend, one of the last true good people out there. Keep a Wheel to the sky!

*** NES ***

Pam Herschfeld

December 2, 2006

March 16, 1980 was both the most exhilirating and the most sobering day of my life. I looked into those beautiful blue eyes and saw that all of my hopes and dreams were within my grasp. Yet, as Seth all too often reminded me, that day I also began serving my first mandatory minimum sentence: 18 years-to-life. Even with time off for good behavior, I was hoping to get to serve at least 60 or 70 years, but that was, sadly not to be.

I lack the eloquence to adequately express my gratitude to my son for the many ways he changed me for the better. To love and to live with Seth I had to develop patience I didn't know I could possess, abandon perfectionism and all of my long held imperatives and expectations, and learn to welcome each day as a new adventure. The roller coaster analogy in the movie 'Parenthood' perfectly describes my journey as Seth's mom; our family's life has had the highest highs, lowest lows, hysterical laughter, amazing speed, sudden turns, screams, excitement, and trepidation...but always, always the certain knowledge that we'd arrive, somehow, together, safely home.

With the possible exception of his second grade teacher, who shall remain nameless, I cannot think of a single person who knew Seth and did not like him, including even the law enforcement officers, in multiple jurisdictions, who took, shall we say, an "official" interest in him.

It is truly heartwarming to read the loving messages that have been posted here and to know that I might have had some small part in bringing this good and caring man into your lives. Please accept his mother's deepest heartfelt gratitude for showing Seth your acceptance, loyalty, and friendship throughout his all too brief life.

Jacek Kornas

December 2, 2006

Seth,
I have never met you in person, but from what I have heard from other NES riders, you were a great guy to be around. I'm sorry I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you. Keep on riding brother.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends.
R.I.P.

Margo Wayda

December 1, 2006

To the family of Seth Herschfeld, I wish to have known Seth better than just a quick hello, how are you doing. And listening to our fellow collegues who have known him well, speak of him as such a wonderful, funny, and just all around great person, it is a blessing to have had the chance to know him as an acquintance. You have certainly raised a son who has touched many lives. My deepest sympathy for your family.

Stephanie Trotman

December 1, 2006

To Mr. and Mrs. Herschfeld,
My deepest condolences for your loss. Seth will be missed,both at work and at the gym. I still remember him as the red cheeked ninth grader.
We have passed many times through out his short life.I hope that there will be some comfort to know that he truly was a amazing person.

Stephen Yale

December 1, 2006

Seth I only just met u a few months ago, but i think of u like a brother. When I met u on that first NeS ride, I could tell u just got your bike, but by the time we took our last ride together you were rite behind me pushin me. I will deffinitely miss our city rides in the summer, trips down to Wildwood, and our 4:30am trips to AC. You were truely a great person and I feel lucky to have known you. Ridin will never be the same for me knowing that we can never do it together again. The world is definitely worse off now that a fine person like you is gone. I can still hear your voice in my head, and I hope that I always will. You will be missed.

Cindy Britland

December 1, 2006

Seth, We miss you terribly at the office. I only wish we could have taken that ride together on our bikes that we kept talking about. I enjoyed the milkshake with you and your culinary expertise at the office BBQ's. I'll see you another day and we will go on that ride. My prayers and deepest sympathy go out to your family. I will always remember you and keep you in my heart. I am blessed to have known you.

Eileen Crescenzo

December 1, 2006

To Seth's Family:

I have know Seth certainly not long enough. For those of us at the office, you could know him just by looking above his desk. There are pictures of friends, family, vacations, and everyday life. It would make you realize that he was a person who loved being around friends and family and how important they were to him. He had an energy that was contagious! Having him be a part of my life has made many of my own moments better. I am certain he was, and still is, surrounded by love. We are all lucky to have known him.

Tom Mellett

December 1, 2006

Seth, I don't know where to begin. I can honestly say you were one of the most genuine people I ever met and I really consider you a great friend. We had so much fun together this summer. Steve, John, Rich and I were talking last night and I was saying how much work I missed this summer from being out riding with you so damn late. Wouldn't have traded it for the world. I hope you see how many lives you made better. I've never heard anyone say anyhting but kind words about you. That speaks volumes to the person you are. I miss you buddy. Dropped a couple car bombs in your name last night and left one on the bar for you. Until we meet again.

Diane Gable

December 1, 2006

To Seths MOM and DAD,What a wonderful job you both did in raising your SON.He will never be forgotten in all our hearts,he made our office full of fun and laughter,he always got the clients with little children and made us all laugh,he was a Legend in his own time and what a great COOK.He said the last day he was here that I was the queen of Croydon and he was gonna be the KING of Port Richman.What he didn't know was he already was KING in all our hearts.I also lost my son David 8 yrs ago ,its not easy but we really never die if we hold on to our memories and keep the
funny story's about Seth alive.Im so thankfull I knew your son.All my love hugs and kisses.Lady Di XO

Wayne Tingle

December 1, 2006

Seth, you brought so many good times and laughs to our office. I miss you already.

Janet Spoon

December 1, 2006

Dr. Herschfeld,
We are sorry to hear of the lose of your son,words somehow seem inadequate. Our condolences to your family.
Janet and Stan Spoon and Family

Stephanie Sobel

December 1, 2006

From the day we met, we became the best of friends, we shared a lot of things in common and you became like a big brother to me. Whenever I was with you, I knew I was going to be safe, laughing, and enjoying non-stop conversation. I'm not sure that everyone knows how much time we spent together, but I valued every second of it. From ridin around, to chillin out, or takin pictures, or eating, I always looked forward to you being the first person I called when I was out of work, or bored.. I hated when you called and woke me in the wee hours of the morning, but now all I do is lay there with tears in my eyes wishin you would jus call me back... We all know you want us to live on in your huge spirit, and we will, but it wont be the same without you. May you be givin them hell up there, wherever it is you are.. Poppin wheelies and doin stoppies with the best of 'em.. Please look after me, and the rest of us as we continue to ride, and remember you forever.

Anthony Simek

December 1, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the family. Seth was a good guy with a great personality. He will be missed.

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