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STEPHEN MURPHY

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STEPHEN MURPHY obituary, 1959-2023, Philadelphia, PA

BORN

1959

DIED

2023

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STEPHEN MURPHY Obituary

MURPHY STEPHEN M. Age 64 of Roxborough,passed away on Friday June 30, 2023, after a hard-fought battle with cancer. Steve was born on June 5th, 1959 in East Falls,Pa. A proud alumnus of Roman Catholic High School,Class of 1977. Steve had many nicknames -Eggy, "Unc" and Murph just to name a few. The beach was his happy place, spending every minute he could with his feet in the sand in Sea Isle. He loved meeting new people and making new friends and made everyone feel special.His impact extends far beyond his circle of family and friends. Not only was Steve one of 6 children, but he also married into another big Irish family in the Carrolls. To say he will be missed by many is an understatement.Survived by his loving wife of 37 years Debbie (nee Carroll) and his cherished daughter Erin (Alex) Mitton, as well as his siblings John (Peggie), Bill "Shag" (Linda), Cathy (Frank) and Lori (Bruce). He is pre-deceased by his parents Dolores and Jake Murphy and his brother Richard. Relatives and friends are invited to Call on Wednesday July 5th from 5 to 8 P.M. and on Thursday July 6 from 9 to 10:30 A.M. followed by his Funeral Mass 11 A.M. at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, 819 Cathedral Rd., Phila., Pa. Int. Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in Steve's honor to the Sea Isle VFW Post 1963, 301 JFK Boulevard, Sea Isle City, NJ 08243. CLARE MCILVAINE MUNDY FH 215-482-8878

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Published by The Philadelphia Inquirer on Jul. 2, 2023.

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Bert Balliet

June 30, 2025

4th of July , Jackie and I always remember the Crab fest party! Hopefully the party continues in heaven.

Dolores Miller

June 26, 2024

We miss you dear Steven
But know you are in peace in heaven
You were always so much fun! Dolores

Stephen Dacri

July 10, 2023

I'm pretty sure that Eggy was one of about 12 of us guys who rented motel rooms in Wildwood for senior week. I remember coming back to the motel our first night of the week, and the motel owner was in the process of evicting us. And evicted we were. After that week Steve and I didn't keep in touch. But I'm sure that throughout his life , he would have stayed the same person I got to know throughout the 12 years of school we attended together. He had a way about him that becoming friends with him was the easiest thing in the world to do. And for that I am thankful and proud to say Stephen was my friend.

Mark and Claire Dugan

July 7, 2023

So sorry for your loss. Eggy was such a genuinely nice person and will be missed by many. We hope the love of family and friends will help all of you with your journey through the grieving process. Remembering all the good times may also help. Again we are truly sorry for the loss of your husband and father and a friend to many. Rest in peace Eggy.

Alexa Keckler

July 7, 2023

Alexa Keckler

July 7, 2023

Alexa Keckler

July 7, 2023

Debbie and Erin! Praying for both of you during this difficult time. Steve was the life of the party and a wonderful person to be around. He clearly loved his girls! He will be dearly missed and thought of often!

Alexa Keckler and family

Mary Foley

July 5, 2023

Dear Debbie and Erin, We were so sad when we learned of Steve's passing. He definitely lit up a room with his larger than life personality. He was easy to get to know; always so friendly. We are happy that we got to know him. He will surely be missed. May you and your extended family know God's loving Peace through this very difficult time for all of you.
Jack and Mary Foley

Ted and Linda Minda

July 5, 2023

Steve was an amazing guy to be around! Met him at Clover and I had sooo much fun and got into so much trouble at the same time with him! Just a guy you want to be around.

Patty Moriarty

July 5, 2023

Deb and Erin,
So sorry to hear about Steve. He was such a positive and happy person that made everyone around him happy. We are praying for Steve and your family.
~The Moriartys

Marie Wilkinson

July 5, 2023

Steven was a tall thin young baseball player around 14 years of age who not only stole the coaches heart but mine also our guys were little then and he made them feel like they were part of the team they really looked up to Eggy ! He will always be in our hearts as we loved him so much Mrs Wilkinson

Peter Roithmayr

July 5, 2023

Deb- Both Murph and you were such a big part of our lives when we were younger, thank you for those wonderful memories. May Steve rest in peace. Please know that we are thinking of you and praying for you and your family during this difficult time. Love, Pete and Alison Roithmayr

Nancy Rounbehler

July 5, 2023

We were saddened to hear of Steve´s passing upon our return to the states. His sense of humor and kindness was unmatched. And ... his love for his family was known to everyone who met the Murphy´s. May he rest in peace. The Rounbehler´s

Garrison Family

July 5, 2023

So saddened to hear of Steve's passing. We have so many great memories of Murph from our travels together following the Muhlenberg volleyball team. Our deepest sympathy to Debbie, Erin and the entire family. The Garrison family.

Pulice Family

July 4, 2023

Our deepest condolences to Debbie, Erin, Alex and the whole extended family. We know he put up a great fight against the C monster and loved you all very much. I'll always remember his genuine kindness and humor. It was our honor to sit on the benches of Mules volleyball and pregame bar stools with Steve and Debbie. We wish peace to his family in his eternal hugs.
With Love,
Carin Rick Christiana and Vanessa

Patrice Williams Feldman

July 4, 2023

I barely knew Steven and Debbie and at this moment I couldn´t be more sorry that we didn´t spend more time together. I live a few houses down in Sea isle City. I went to the beach yesterday and it was just a gut punch to me to see his lovely memorial. I feel somewhat devastated about losing him. The day he wore his lemons, we had lemons too and he bounced over to take pictures. He coined the phrase Steamboat Willie! So we could find our way home.. and if we missed that, we always had his flag! Just a lovely, lovely man. The world is a little less interesting without him in it, Debbie, I can´t imagine your sorrow

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Brian and Michele Hubert

July 3, 2023

Debbie, Erin and Alex,
Brian, Shannon and I were all so sad to hear of Steve´s passing! He brought such joy to everyone he met- we had so many great memories with him making us all laugh. Hugs to you all at this difficult time .... We know the entire Mules volleyball family will miss him. The Hubert family

Mike Stevens

July 3, 2023

Dear Debbie and Erin,
My sincere condolences on the loss
of Stephen a loving husband and father!

Warren Cohen

July 3, 2023

I was proud to have Steve as a vital member of our Rio Brands team for many many years. He was a beloved personality who brought a smile and can-do attitude to work every day that inspired respect from those who worked for and with him. I actually remember his job interview and thinking "I should take a chance on this guy" and surprising him by offering him the job right on the spot. I was proud to watch his career develop, handle change like a pro, and always demonstrate care and concern for those around him. Steve was very loyal to me and knew that I felt the same towards him. My sincere condolences to the family. I, among many, will miss him.

Rosalie T. Mitton

July 3, 2023

Dear Deb, Erin, and Alex,
Please know that others share the heartache of your loss as Steve meant so much to so many. He truly left a strong legacy that you can be so very proud of. May God wrap each of you in the arms of His Love and Compassion.
With deepest sympathy, love and prayers,
Grandma (Rosalie) Mitton

Angelo Fiumara

July 3, 2023

John, my sincere condolences on the loss of Stephen. May God bless you and the entire family at this time of great sadness.

Bob Direso

July 3, 2023

Eggy will be missed, He was always upbeat and had a dry sense of humor. On the facade he never took life too seriously. RIP ........ Bob Direso

JoAnn Trezza

July 3, 2023

It was a privilege to know and work with you. I will always remember your smile and positive attitude. On behalf of the ShelterLogic Group family our deepest condolences to Debbie and Erin.

Ralph Altomare

July 3, 2023

So sorry to hear of Steve passing. The world is a different place without "EGGY" . RIP my old friend.

Gus DiStefano Sr

July 3, 2023

To the entire Murphy family,
My sincere condolences on Steve's passing away. Extremely sad news. RIP STEPHEN.

Jason Foisy

July 2, 2023

Steve always was ready to make a joke or funny comment. He was one of the nicest people I´ve ever met and he always made people feel welcomed. I know he loved his wife and was a loving father. He told me he cried like a baby when his daughter got married and I loved that. He will be greatly missed. So sorry for your loss

Joanie Berry

July 2, 2023

It was such a blessing having you and your family as neighbors growing up. Couldn't ask for anything better that that. God Bless

Pat Smith

July 2, 2023

Rest in peace Eggy

Keith Jones

July 2, 2023

I had the absolute honor to work with "Murph" for 25 years. He was a true friend to me through all those years. Though, I have never met Debbie or Erin, I certainly felt like I knew you well. Steve was so proud of both of you.
He was such a good man.
Keith Jones
The Moscoe Group

Dolores Miller

July 2, 2023

Steven
You were fun and a good man with a kind heart. We will all miss you! My kids
Felt the same and my husband Love Dolores miller

Your cousins will miss you
Love Dolores

Stephen and Patti Kilp

July 2, 2023

Murph, you were one in a million person and great guy. Your smile and attitude was like turning on the light switch in a room, it illuminated the place and made all there feel brighter. Your friendship and help were always appreciated. Thank you for being a good heart and friend.

Bill Bannar (73rd St)

July 2, 2023

So sorry to hear about Murphy's passing. His quick wit & charm was second to none. He made you feel like you knew him forever. I am sure the angels in heaven will have a new Mayor to deal with now !

Diane Bannar

July 2, 2023

Deb I am so saddened to hear about Murph. He definitely was the unofficial mayor of SIC , but the official mayor of 73rd st. How his smile will be missed. RIP Murph.

Bert Balliet

July 2, 2023

So saddened to hear about the passing of Steve. I was just thinking about my Clover friends the other day and my wife Jackie and I have such great memories with the Murphy's. My sincere condolences.

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