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Darlene Hamilton Obituary

Darlene Hamilton

August 16, 2024

Hilton Head Island, South Carolina - Mary Darlene Hamilton passed away at home on Friday evening, August 16, 2024, on Hilton Head Island, SC. She was 73.

Darlene was born on April 8, 1951, in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania to her parents, Joseph and Mary Jane Rent. She graduated from Penn State University with a Bachelor's degree in social work, followed by a Master's degree in Business Administration from the University of Pittsburgh. She married Harry Hamilton, on June 8, 1974. Harry and Darlene called Pittsburgh their home for many years, and eventually, Darlene fell in love with the beauty of Hilton Head, where they relocated for retirement. Darlene considered herself a Hilton Head girl.

Darlene was the director of Child Care Partnerships at the Pittsburgh YWCA. It was her expert leadership that guided the impressive expansion of childcare in 2005. She took a leadership role with the YWCA as an Associate Executive Director, then became a director with the Northwest Institute of Research. Darlene worked on the national level as the Director at ICF International, managing the federal Child Care Bureau's technical assistance grant.

Her area of expertise was childcare finance and state quality improvement programs, and it was from ICF where Darlene retired. Darlene's career passion was early childcare and education. Her love for children and her respect and care for families were the foundation of her work. She always considered Fred Rogers an esteemed mentor.

Darlene was a vibrant, intelligent, and compassionate woman. She was a devoted wife and mother; her husband, two children, and granddaughter were her greatest blessings in life. Darlene was an avid reader and gardener; loved shopping, home decorating, and animals (especially dogs); and she became quite accomplished at needlepoint. She worked and chatted alongside her network of friends for several years at Needlepoint Junction in Hilton Head, where she stitched countless pieces for family and friends. Darlene was never one to shy away from sharing an opinion, or as those who knew her well, "the look," and she was loved all the more for it. Her positivity in life, sharp intelligence, and fun-loving spirit were inspirations to everyone who was fortunate enough to know her.

Darlene is survived by her husband Harry; daughters Megan Gottlieb and Sarah (Josef) Chlebowski; and granddaughter Maya Gottlieb.

Darlene will be honored at Island Funeral Home on Hilton Head Island, SC on Saturday, August 24, 2024, with a visitation from 1:00-3:00 PM and a memorial service at 3:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to the National Scleroderma Foundation.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Island Packet from Aug. 21 to Aug. 23, 2024.

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Mae Graziano

April 3, 2025

Miss you on the street.

Diane Thompson

September 4, 2024

Harry & Family,
Deepest condolences. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.

Jim Ziegler

September 4, 2024

Harry so sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you and your family. Much love to you my friend

Sara (Fulton) Majetich

September 3, 2024

I saw the notice in the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette and wanted to reach out. My mother, Jane Fulton, worked with Darlene at Louise Child Care. I remember her mentioning Darlene often, and saying how sharp and dedicated she was. My mother was in poor health and unable to connect with others for many years prior to her death in 2023, but I know that Darlene was a valued colleague at Louise. I remember the Fred Rogers visits and the booths with one-way mirrors that child development experts used to observe the kids. It was a special place because of a lot of special people who cared about kids.

Kevin Young

August 30, 2024

Harry & Family,

So very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Tim Kaiser

August 30, 2024

Harry Please accept my condolences on your loss. Regards

Bill "Giff"" Gifford

August 26, 2024

My Deepest Sympathy...We had some great times at Sigma Chi!

Bruce Karper

August 26, 2024

Harry - condolences from the Karper family. We are very sorry for your loss. Stay strong.

The Macurak Family

August 23, 2024

Harry, Megan and Sarah,

So very sorry for your loss. We have fond memories of sharing bleacher seats with Darlene at many softball games. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Dick & Kathy Macurak and Family

Mae Graziano

August 22, 2024

A wonderful friend who will be missed but remembered forever.

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