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John Terrence Hayes M.D.

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John Terrence Hayes, M.D. Dr. John Terrence Hayes was born December 8, 1923 in Howard City, Michigan and died at home on Hilton Head Island, SC on December 31, 2013.He was predeceased by his parents, Dr. Laurence William Hayes and Freda Augusta Schanz and his brother Dr. Laurence William Hayes, Jr.He is survived by his beloved wife, Marilyn Hrobar Hayes and nine children; Karen Smyth (Pete), Dr. Colleen Hayes (Shane), Anne Knuth (Earl), John Terrence Hayes, Jr., Laurie Deffenbaugh (Marty), Brian Hayes (Frankie), John Michael Hayes, Catherine Dux (Marcus) and Jaison Hrobar (Traci) and his brother Dr. Thomas Hayes (Geneva). In addition, John leaves grandchildren Matthew, Heather, Erin, Arthur, Elysia, David, Echo, Chloe, Kegan, Ivy, Ellie, Mackenzie, Logan, Jaiden and Torin and great grandchildren Tyrian, Allyndreth, Evya, Nathaniel and Collin.John was a proud Navy Veteran of WWII, having served as a Gunnery Officer aboard the U.S.S. Bunker Hill, CV-17, an aircraft carrier. At age 21, he earned a Bronze Star for "distinguishing himself by heroic and meritorious achievement...He organized his gun crew into an effective fighting team which distinguished itself by its outstanding record of alertness and accuracy." He was honored to tell his story in a documentary film made for PBS entitled Wounded in Action - Legacy of Heroes.After the war, John returned to the University of Michigan where he earned his M.D. in 1951, interned from 1952-53 and completed his residency in Orthopaedic Surgery under Dr. Carl Badgley from 1953-56. In all, he dedicated over 50 years of his life to serving the infirm through his practice of Orthopaedic Surgery and to training over 70 medical residents to do the same. In 1966 he left his position as Associate Professor, Department of Surgery, Section of Orthopaedic Surgery and, with his family, moved to Winston-Salem, NC where he accepted the position of Chairman of the Department of Orthopaedic Surgery and Rehabilitation at Bowman Gray School of Medicine. He maintained that position until 1971 when he opened his private practice office. Dr. Hayes retired in 2003 and, in 2005, he and Marilyn settled on Hilton Head Island, Marilyn's former home.A celebration of his life and redemption will be held at 2:30pm on Sunday, January 5 at Grace Community Church, 450 Spanish Wells Road, Hilton Head, 29926 (843-681-6698) with a burial service at 4:00pm at Six Oaks Cemetery in Sea Pines, Hilton Head. Friends and family will gather at the family home following the services. It is requested that memorial contributions be offered to Grace Community Church.

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Published by The Island Packet from Jan. 3 to Feb. 3, 2014.

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Jenny and Mike Morgan

January 8, 2014

Marilyn and family,
We celebrate with you John's life and legacy. We ask that The Lord will comfort you as we wait for the great reunion day when we see Jesus face to face!

Ruth Ann Biggs

January 8, 2014

Dearest Marilyn: May you feel the Comfort & Love of Our Heavenly Father wrapping you in HIS Presence as Your Kind and Gentle Husband did! He was a Blessing to all who spent any time with him! In HIS Precious Love, & Mine, Ruth Ann Biggs

Eva Fulk

January 8, 2014

Marilyn, much love to you. May you have peace in your heart. I always had the highest respect for Dr. Hayes. He contributed much.

Debbie Mayes-Cartier

January 7, 2014

I Love You my sweet cousin Marilyn!.....I am terribly sorry for your loss....prayers to all! xoxoxo ?

Andra and Craig Ostergard

January 6, 2014

Dearest Marilyn, Jaison and family, So sorry to learn about John's passing. I'm praying for you and knowing God is walking with you through this day and every one ahead. Love to you...Andra and Craig Ostergard

Harlan Daubert

January 5, 2014

Dr. Hayes was a compassionate man. I have had the opportunity to follow some of his patients over the years and they all had great respect and admiration for him.

Wendy Holleman

January 4, 2014

Dr. Hayes was my orthopedist for over 30 years, starting when I was only 2. I was born with Spina Bifida, and because of this amazing man and his groundbreaking work, I am still walking today (something other doctors said I would never do). He was a true visionary and servant to mankind. Words cannot express the gratitude I feel. I am blessed and honored to have known this incredible man. Continued prayers for his family during this sacred time.

Dan and Eileen Schuder

January 3, 2014

He was a good man, a good doctor and an interesting person. We will miss him.

J R bALDANZA

January 3, 2014

our sympathy to all the Hayes family.

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