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Sterling Laffitte Obituary

Sterling Jinks Usher Laffitte Estill, S.C. - Sterling Jinks Usher Laffitte passed away February 13, 2015. A memorial service was held graveside at Lawtonville Cemetery, Monday, February 16, 2015 at 2:00 p.m. Mr. Laffitte was born June 8, 1955, a son of Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Montague Laffitte. He attended Estill Public Schools and was a 1976 graduate of the Citadel, as well as a graduate of the South Carolina Bankers School and the Graduate School of Banking at LSU. He is survived by his wife Lin, son Usher, daughters Sydney and MaryMadison, his parents, R. Montague "Monk" and Elizabeth "Lib" Usher Laffitte, brother Dr. R. M. "Monty" Laffitte and his wife Carol Wienges Laffitte of Greenville, S.C. (their children and grandchildren), sister Elizabeth "Liz" Laffitte Malinowski and her husband Jan M. Malinowski (their children) and multitudes of other family members. He was pre-deceased by his treasured grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Moses Tucker Laffitte and Mr. and Mrs. Sterling Jinks Usher.

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Published by The Island Packet from Feb. 18 to Mar. 18, 2015.

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Jackie Farley

December 22, 2023

I just was reading about Sterling. He and my husband, Steve Farley worked together at Bankers Trust and we had several memorable ski trips together up in NC. I´m so sorry. He was a great guy.

Harry Morales

February 22, 2015

Liz, Monty my sincere condolences. Sterling was always so bright and warm in our dealings. My prayers to you and the entire family during this time of sorrow.

Danny Lucas

February 20, 2015

Lin:
I was thoroughly saddened to learn last night of Sterling's passing. I was proud to have known him as a compassionate and fair leader of the community.

Anne Cook

February 19, 2015

Dear Jenksie and Monk: I am so saddened to hear of your beloved son, Sterling, passing from this earth. Surely he will be greatly missed. We are keeping you in our prayers. Cousin Anne

Erin Tackett

February 17, 2015

Thoughts and prayers to your family during this very sad time. He was a very kind and caring person, nothing but good memories of him. We will continue to pray for you all in the days to come. The Tacketts

Carolina Bryan

February 16, 2015

Monty and Carol, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers of peace.

Clay Dyar

February 16, 2015

Sterling was one of my favorite people. My condolences to Monty and Carol and Mr and Mrs Laffitte.

Ron and Donna Harter

February 16, 2015

Simply put, Sterling was the BEST! And each of us should pay tribute to him by trying to be a little more like him each day to our families and friends.

Don Beasley

February 16, 2015

Although we did not know Sterling,Monty and Carol are dear friends and we know how much Sterling was loved by his family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless; Don & jeanine Beasley

February 16, 2015

Our granddaughter, Jennifer Harvey, was a classmate to
MaryMadison at Patrick Henry. MaryMadison is a lovely young
lady, representative of proper and Christain rearing. We are all
so, so sorry for your heartache. Dorothy and Don Harvey Allendale
South Carolina

Liz Palles

February 16, 2015

I have so many great memories of growing up with Squirrel. He was always fun loving and devoted to his friends and family.
Liz Bowers Palles

Sherri Murphy

February 16, 2015

Lin and Mary Madison, you and your family are in my prayers! May God's peace and grace be with you in the days ahead.

Polly Morris

February 15, 2015

So sorry for your family,s loss. You are in our prayers.

Mia Kendrick

February 15, 2015

My dear Lin,
It is with a heavy heart I write these words. I am so sorry for your loss. Sterling truly was " the most wonderful man in the world". You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you,
Mia and Bill Kendrick

Tom & Fedda Owens

February 15, 2015

Lin and family. Fredda and I were sad to hear about Sterling. He was a true southern gentleman. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.

February 15, 2015

All in Theta Commission and Kappa Alpha Order grieve the loss of our Life Member Brother Sterling Laffitte. He was an inspiration to us and he now resides with the Saints in Chapter Eternal.
Fratres Fideles,
Brother Ron Plunkett
III, Theta Commission (The Citadel)
Kappa Alpha Order

Belk Daughtridge

February 15, 2015

I am deeply sadden by the loss of such a great man.
Your family is in my prayers.

Sallie & Byron

February 15, 2015

Sterling was a fine and generous soul. May the golden light of God's love surround my sister, nephew and nieces and give them peace in this time of sorrow. We love you all.

February 15, 2015

Sending our deepest sympathy to the Laffitte family. I grew up on Hilton Head Island in the summers with Liz and have the fondest memories of Sterling. What fun he was to be around. I know he is making everyone in heaven laugh right now.
Persis and John Tinsley
Lynchburg, Va.

February 15, 2015

Although I did not know Sterling very well Monty was a good friend and fraternity brother when I was at Wofford. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.

Respectably

Roy C. Smith

Ron Merricks

February 15, 2015

Lin and Mary Madison, I will lift you and your family up in prayer. May God give you the peace that only He can give during this difficult time. Love you all!

Ora E. Smith

February 15, 2015

My Mom and I are so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of all of you.

Larry/Sally/Mikee/Sally Williams

February 15, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Steve Bennett

February 15, 2015

We were across-the-street neighbors and high school-best buddies! Where you saw one, you saw the other ! As I told someone lately, when we were growing up, if Sterling threw a rock, I handed it to him ! I will cherish those days, growing up in Estill with Sterling and his family. I will miss my friend, but know he is now free from pain and at peace. Our sympathy to Lin, the children, Miss Lib, Mr. Monk, and family. With Love, Steve & Bonnie Bennett.

February 15, 2015

Sterling was a great person.I remember him well-always so friendly and never met a stranger.He will be missed by all especially you, his family.
Most sincerely, Dick MacMillan

Kathryn Stuart

February 14, 2015

Our hearts are broken! We love y'all so much and cherish the times we had with Sterlling! He was a true gentleman. Prayers and peace to you all. Love, Kathryn, Gene, Sara & Caroline

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