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Alan Scott Barile

1961 - 2025

Alan Scott Barile obituary, 1961-2025, Lynn, MA

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1961

DIED

2025

Alan Barile Obituary

Alan Scott Barile, 63
10/4/1961 - 4/6/2025
Lynn - Alan Scott Barile, 63, originally of Lynn, MA, passed away peacefully at Brigham and Women's Hospital, with his wife, Nancy, at his side, on April 6, 2025. Born on October 4, 1961, Al was the much-loved and spoiled child of his parents, Aldo and Betty Barile. As a child, Al enjoyed performing daredevil stunts on his bike with his friends, making Dracula movies, and wreaking havoc. He loved playing sports, especially hockey, and he was fiercely devoted to his Boston sports teams. In high school, Al was on the ice hockey and golf teams and was a member of the Audio Visual Club and National Honor Society.
A huge music fan, Al grew up listening to AC/DC, Van Halen, and Cheap Trick. Rick Nielsen was Al's guitar hero. After hearing the Ramones, Al decided to put down his hockey stick and pick up a guitar. With Jaime Sciarappa, Chris Foley and Springa, he created Society System Decontrol (SSD). After learning about "straight edge," a term coined in a song by Ian MacKaye of the band Minor Threat, Al became a strong proponent of straight edge, embracing the no drinking/no drugs coda that provided kids with a CHOICE from the typical '70s suburban party lifestyle. Al worked to build a hardcore scene in Boston, one that featured all ages shows. The loyal supporters of SSD, called the Boston Crew, remained Al's lifelong friends. SSD played on the East Coast, including New York, Philadelphia, and Washington, DC., and later played in the Midwest, the West Coast, and Montreal and Quebec City. The band made its mark on music history, with bands like Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, and Nirvana, wearing SSD tees on stage and citing the band as an influence.
In the 1990s, Al decided to create another band, and Gage was born. Al played bass in Gage, and the band's strong songwriting quickly helped them develop a dedicated following, especially in the greater Boston area, where they played the Warped Tour several times and nearly every Boston music venue.
After high school, Al began working as a machinist at General Electric. Within a few years, he decided to become an engineer and attended Northeastern University, where he received his bachelor degree in mechanical engineering. Al's brilliant mind and way of approaching issues, made him an innovative and highly successful engineer. Al worked at GE for over 35 years, until back issues, which GE would not accommodate, forced him to retire on disability.
Through SSD, Al met the love of his life, Nancy, when she bought the SS Decontrol record in Philadelphia, and called Al, hoping to book the band into a show she was promoting in Philly. Nancy and Al were together 43 years, and their support of each other was legendary.
The friendships Al made in his life were so important to him, especially the ones he had with his band mates, Jaime Sciarappa and Chris Foley. It was Al's almost lifelong friendship with his childhood friend, Scott Brown, that truly sustained Al when he was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2022. Scott's devotion to Al, taking Al to chemotherapy appointments, and never leaving his side when he was hospitalized, was remarkable and so appreciated by both Al and Nancy. Al chronicled his journey with colon cancer on social media, urging his followers to get colonoscopies and to be proactive about their health.
Al was predeceased by his father, Aldo, his mother Pearl (Betty), and his beagle, Flippy. Nancy takes comfort in knowing that Flippy and Al are now reunited.

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Published by Daily Item on Apr. 11, 2025.

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Dave

August 27, 2025

Legends never die!

Kevin M.

May 1, 2025

Truly a credit to humanity.
Gone but not forgotten, my friend.

Stephanie Mydlowski

April 13, 2025

I'm so sorry for your loss. Alan and I were cousin's. His father was my God-father. Alan and I were third cousin's. I know he is in a better place with no more pains and getting sick from chemotherapy. Prayers go out for you, Nancy and all your family members.
God bless you,too.

Rick B

April 12, 2025

You will be missed big guy. The mark you have left on so many lives will be your legacy. Thank you for everything and I hope you are at peace

Matt DeBenedictis

April 11, 2025

Rest in peace my friend

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