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Thomas D. McKay Jr.

1942 - 2022

Thomas D. McKay Jr. obituary, 1942-2022, Gilford, NH

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1942

DIED

2022

Thomas McKay Obituary

Thomas D. McKay Jr, 80

1942 - 2022

Gilford, New Hampshire - Thomas D. McKay Jr., of Gilford, New Hampshire died suddenly on Thursday, September 15th at the age of eighty. He suffered a fatal heart attack while on a fishing trip with some of his life-long friends.

Formerly of Lynn and Nahant, Massachusetts, Tom was a career-long GE employee. He was an Apprentice Program graduate who went on to become an Aviation Manager for the T700 engine assembly and the T700 military programs. He was immensely proud of the time he spent at GE and valued the many friendships he made while working there.

After his retirement in the late 1990s, Tom moved to Gilford, New Hampshire, to enjoy the things he loved, most especially spending time with his devoted wife Linda. Tom became an avid boater, fisherman, hunter, golfer, and car enthusiast. One of Tom's greatest loves was searching for homes to buy and renovate himself. He took the art of negotiation to a higher level.

Tom was tireless and enjoyed every day of his life. He was always the optimist, seeing the humor in every situation, no matter how discouraged others might be. Tom was a positive force, always joking with old friends and making new ones. The minute he walked into the room; everyone's mood improved. His life was well-lived, and he will be missed by all who knew him.

Tom is survived by his wife, Linda Read, of Gilford and his brother, Dennis McKay and his wife Susan of West Peabody, Massachusetts, as well as extended family, many close and wonderful friends, and his cat Lilly.

Linda would like to extend her gratitude to all their many friends who have offered help and advice during this difficult time. To honor Tom's memory, there will be a Celebration of Life held on Wednesday, October 5th, at the Laconia Country Club, 607 Elm Street, Laconia, from 12:30 to 3 pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to the Lakes Region Humane Society at www.lrhs.net or by mail to LRHS, PO Box 655, Ossipee, NH 03864.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Item from Sep. 21 to Sep. 22, 2022.

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Judie Sherwood

September 15, 2023

I enjoyed working with Tommy, we had a lot of laughs. He sure went too soon. RIP Tommy

Becky

October 10, 2022

I only knew Tom for a short time. He was a wonderful knowledgeable man and I enjoyed every conversation. I will miss seeing and talking with him when he walked or drove by.
I know he lived a full life.

Pat Woods

September 30, 2022

I was Tom's secretary in Bldg 29. He was a nice guy. Can't believe he is gone. Don't come any better than him.

Jackie and Mike Caplan

September 23, 2022

Linda I am so sorry and shocked to hear about Tom. We have known Tom and Denny for half a century. My heartbreaks for you. You had a wonderful life together. Please accept our prayers and condolences. We are planning to Join you for Toms Celebration of Life. We have such wonderful memories of Tom and You. RIP my longtime Friend Tom Jackie and Mike Caplan Wells ME

Paul Oberlander

September 23, 2022

Wow! Am proud to have been friends with Tom and Linda. Too many memories to count. Rest in peace, my friend!

Bob Bonner

September 22, 2022

Tom was my Manager in engine assembly during the 80s. He was a good friend as well. I'm sure he will be missed by many. R.I.P. Brother

Bob Bonner

September 22, 2022

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