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Shaine
April 15, 2008
Hi Mom,
I was just thinking about you and wanted to let you know that I miss you deeply. We all miss you.
Dad is doing OK. I am sure he tries to hide a lot of his hurt and he has been staying busy around the house and at work. But I can tell he feels lost without you.
Oliver was down here this past weekend. He told me, as soon as he got off the plane, "I miss Grandma". We talked and he said that he knows you are in a better place now and that you are always with him.
Oliver got into trouble last week at school. He and another boy got into an argument, the boy said something about his grandmother, so Oliver punched him in the ribs. Thye were both waiting in the cafeteria lunch line. Needless to say he was sent to the principals office and Andrea had to pick him up from school. The next day Oliver and Andrea had to meet with the Principal and Assistant Principal. I was present through a conference call. It was agreed upon that, as punishment, Oliver would have to sit out of one of his three remaining Honor Choir performances. I talked with him about it and he has been doing better (behavior wise).
Oliver recently got his grades. He brought of his reading grade and ended up getting three "A", one "B", and one "C". His "C" was in handwriting. He always rushes to try to finish his work. I told him he needed to slow down.
I will be going to Las Vegas May 19 and 20. Oliver's school has a Fourth Grade field trip to Mt. Potosi. The school needed chaperones and volunteers, so I decided it would be a good time for Oliver and I.
Kelly and the kids are doing OK. Kelly recently applied for an Assistant Principal position, and got the job. I think it is at the school she is currently at, but it is a promotion for her. I am so proud of her. I know you and dad are too.
This past Sunday, Kelly, Angie, Tanya, Victoria, Hailey, Alec, and Brooke went to Palm Springs for the day. They went out to Angie and Mondo's Timeshare to go swimming. They seemed to have a good time, although Tanya came back looking like a lobster. I joked with her and told he I was going to start calling her Sebastian, after the red crab in "The little Mermaid". However, she told me she didn't like that. Therefore, because I would rather sleep in the bed than on the couch, I stopped.
Tanya has taken the talk you had with her to heart. She has become the "Lady of the House". She is always cleaning and making dinner (when dad doesn't beat her to it). Dad even jokeed with her the other night because she was laying where you used to lay on the couch, in the same position. I guess Tanya must have told dad about the talk you had with her.
I know that all these things that I have written to you, you already know. After all, you are always with us. But I miss talking to you. I miss coming home and saying hi to you. I definitely miss saying ggodnight to you, telling you I love you, and giving you a kiss. You were always there when I needed someone to talk to. Most of the time I didn't even need to say anything, you just knew. Tanya and I have a picture of you, her and Victoria on our dresser. Every night I light a candle next to that picture and before I go to bed, I say goodnight to you, rub my fingers across that picture, and blow out the candle. I know you are there with me and that you can hear me.
I love you mom and miss you so much. I know that you said that you would always be with me when I wanted to talk to you, and I know you will lead me in the right direction or help me when I face difficult times of challenging decisions, but I miss hearing your voice and feeling you touch my face. I miss you telling me everything will be alright.
I will write you again in a few days. Until then continue to help each of us through this difficult time and that some may need more comforting than others.
I Love You Mom.
Your Son, Shaine
Bonnie Palfy
March 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Steve, at this very difficult time in your life.
Angela Olivas
March 28, 2008
I will miss my sister Duby very much. Only a lady like her could pull off a name like Duby. The doctor in Tennessee spelled her name on her birth certificate as Duby instead of Ruby.
I will miss her blond teased hair, her beautiful eyes lined with black eye liner and her dark lips always ready for a kiss. And who can't forget the smell of L'air du Temps as she entered the room.
I want to thank my brother-in-law Steve for taking such good care of her. She lived longer because of your love and care. I know you will miss her, but she will always be looking over your shoulders and helping you make it through the day.
A big thank you to Kelly for giving her Mom a bath and making sure her teeth were brushed. She loved you very much and wanted us to take care of you after she entered Heaven. She will always be by your side guiding you along the way. Just remember her beautiful smile and her gruffly voice telling you exactly what she is thinking.
Thank you Shaine for being there for your Dad and Mom. She is looking down on you and telling you to take care of and to give big hugs and kisses to Oliver and your new wife, Tatyana and Vicka.
She is in Heaven now with Daddy talking about the good times and catching-up on the gossip. Wally is nipping at her white satin long gown as she dances to the "Chicken Dance". I will miss her very much and miss hearing her say, "I love you and will miss you too."
Sue & Ken Kelley
March 28, 2008
Dear Steve,
We have fond memories of time spent with you and Duby at RRF. Steve, it was obvious how devoted you were to your beloved, Duby. She was a special person. She and I always spent time sharing stories of our beautiful grandchildren. Make sure they always remember how much she loves them, and that now she will watch over them even more. May God be with you and and your family at this time of loss, and sustain you with your many fond memories.
Sincerely,
Ken and Sue
Ed and Cindy
March 28, 2008
Steve and family,
Knowing you and Duby thru RedRockFantasy was and is a blessing, and will always bring back fond memories. We will miss her and send our condolences to you and your family. Our love and prayers to you, Ed and Cindy
Julie McKenna & Keith Enerle
March 27, 2008
To Steve, Shaine and Kelly. When we moved to Las Vegas, we were so lucky to find friends like you and Duby. Our years of bowling and laughs together were such fun--Pepe La Pew, her nails clicking on the bowling ball, her great laugh and her big hugs. We miss seeing you and send all our love to you and your wonderful family.
Joline McCown
March 27, 2008
I first met Duby in December of 1968 on the flight to Germany to join our husbands overseas. I knew Steve from high school. We ended up sitting up all night in the Rhine Main Airbase, Steve made us feel safe, as the lobby was filled with Military Men waiting to go home. Little did we know that our lives would cross again in so many way. Our sons grew up being best of friends. It was a pleasure knowing Duby, and I so enjoyed the times we spent together. I am blessed to have her son Shaine as a part of our extended family. My prayers go out to Steve, Shaine, Kelly and the rest of the family. There are no words to say to lessen the loss that you feel now, and may you be conforted with fond memories of your good times together. Know that she is watching over you from above.
Pam Ozment
March 27, 2008
To Steve, Shane, & Kelly: I am so sorry for your loss of your wife and mother. She was such a special person that will be greatly missed. Steve you are such a wonderful person. The love you two have for each other is priceless.
To Aunt Laverne: My heart and love goes out to you. I have asked God to give you strength. I only wished I could be there to help comfort you. Just remember I am there with you in spirit.
Pam Ozment
March 27, 2008
My memory of my cousin Duby will be forever cherished. I loved her so much. The last time I talked to Duby we both cried together but I will never forget her last words to me was, "Please don't be sad for me." Well Duby I am so glad you are at peace now. Please give my mom, grandma, grandaddy, and Uncle J.T. a big hug and kiss for me and we will all be together again someday in Heaven. I love all of you, my cousins and their families, and you will all be in my prayers and most of all in my heart.
Carol McCown Family
March 27, 2008
Just to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Keep your special memories close to your heart and ask God to give you strength. God bless you all.
Jim McCown
March 27, 2008
To the Bodnar family I;m truly sorry for your loss. I too recently loss my mother and I know there no words to make it easier. Be strong and know she is in a better place. My thoughts are with you.
Louie West
March 27, 2008
I remember Douby mostley as a young girl always cheerful and vibrant as she was through life.We all will surely miss her.
Louie West
Jim McCown
March 27, 2008
My most heartfelt condolences go out to the family. To know Duby was to love her, she deeply touched a great many people. I feel trluy blessed for having been welcomed into this wonderful family and treated like another son. I´ll always carry the friendship and love with me.
Cathy Cris
March 27, 2008
Duby and I met and were instantly like two peas in a pod...best friends, confidante and soulmates forever. Duby is the kindest, sweetest and most thoghtful person I have ever known. She never met a stranger and was instantly a bright spot in the life of everyone who met her. She was always thinking and doing for others, her love and pride in her family surpassing all else. In my adult life I have never before, nor will ever again, be blessed with a friend like my Duby. Her presence in our lives was a great blessing for each one of us and we know that she will be with us always, helping God watch over us and protect us. Duby, you will be with us always in our hearts and in our thoughts.
Kristen Binyon
March 27, 2008
I will miss Aunt Duby for many reasons. I will miss her laugh and her smile, but the thing I will miss the most is being able to call and talk to her, because no matter what was going on she was always there with loving words and support.
Bernie & Peggy Gillotte
March 27, 2008
Duby - Thank you for being such a beautiful example to all of us. God must have taken you to be our angel to guide us through our lives. We will miss your smiles at RRF.
Steve - you were a wonderful husband and caregiver for Duby.
Our love and prayers are with you.
DIANE
March 27, 2008
MY SISTER DUBY WAS VERY BLESSED TO HAVE A BEAUTIFUL HUSBAN . STEVE IS ONE OF A KIND.YOU ALWAYS FELT WECOME IN THERE HOME AND THEY WERE ALWAYS THEIR FOR THOSE WHO NEEDED HELP. THANK YOU STEVE FOR TAKING SUCH GOOD CARE OF MY SISTER AND GIVING HER A BEAUTIFUL LIFE AND TWO GREAT KIDS SHAINE AND KELLY. I WILL MISS HER,BUT WILL SEE HER AGAIN IN HEAVEN.SHE BUSY DANCING WITH ARE FATHER JT NOW.
Rosemary Hogue
March 27, 2008
Duby had an affinity for angels. Anyone who was a guest in the Bodnar home couldn’t miss the beautiful display of angels. Angels made of crystal, silver, porcelain, wood, and straw. I have never see an angel without thinking of Duby.
Living life as cousins, schoolmates, neighbors, best friends, Maids of Honor
in each others wedding was a blessing for me. My best childhood memories are filled with fond and funny thoughts of Duby.
How fortunate all of us who knew Duby were to have her in our lives. Duby blessed us with her grace in the last weeks. Duby comforted us, consoled us, and loved us to the end.
BEHOLD! A GATHERING OF ANGELS; I KNOW WILL INCLUDE DUBY.
Rosemary Hogue
March 27, 2008
Duby had an affinity for angels. Anyone who was a guest in the Bodnar home couldn’t miss the beautiful display of angels. Angels made of crystal, silver, porcelain, wood, and straw. I never see an angel without thinking of Duby.
Living life as cousins, schoolmates, neighbors, best friends, Maids of Honor in each others wedding was a blessing for me. My best childhood memories are filled with fond and funny thoughts of Duby.
How fortunate all of us were who knew Duby, to have her in our lives. Duby blessed us with her grace in the last weeks. Duby comforted us, consoled us, and loved us to the end.
BEHOLD! A GATHERING OF ANGELS; I KNOW WILL INCLUDE DUBY.
Heather & Brandon Park
March 27, 2008
When visiting my cousin Duby when I was younger I always remember her welcoming arms. She gave the best hugs and kisses on the cheek. I love her laugh! What a very special person. I will always cherish her memory!
Cynthia Connolly
March 27, 2008
Duby was such a special friend to me and although we only saw each other a couple of times a year those times were great. It may have been a friendship short in years but long in loving, caring and fun. I will always remember Duby as the person I could go talk to and she would bring me comfort and possible solutions for my problems. She will be greatly missed by Ivan & I and our Red Rock Fantasy Family. Steve, you know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl FIeld
March 27, 2008
I wish I knew what to say to make things better but sometimes words just aren't enough. Please know that you are not alone and that we hold you all close in our thoughts and prayers. The wonderful memories we hold dear and close in our hearts will forever bring smiles to our faces.
ALL MY LOVE Cheryl
Tina Hesse
March 27, 2008
Words can't explain how much I loved my Aunt Duby. She was a great Mom and wife. Uncle Steve Thanks for being such a great Husband to Aunt Duby. I can only wish and hope my marriage at 40 years will be just like yours. Shaine and Kelly I’m sorry for your great loss, I love you both.
Raymond & Leona Reece
March 27, 2008
Duby was such a giving and loving person, everyone is blessed to have known her. She will be missed by everyone that knew her. Our love and our prayers are with you.
Raymond and Leona Reece
Sonda Reece
March 26, 2008
My sister was a beautiful person. If you were hungry she would feed you, if you needed a place to sleep there was always a bed for you. If you needed to talk she would always listen. I will truly miss this special person in my life.
Cathy Cris
March 26, 2008
Duby will always be with me...She is my best friend and my soulmate. I have never experienced in any other person the degree of love, thoughtfulness, caring and consideration that Duby exhibited with her family and everyone she came in contact with. She never met a stranger and offered everyone that beautiful smile and warmth that only Duby could give. Duby, we were blessed to have you in our lives, we will miss you but we will remember all the joy you brought to each of us and know that you will always be with us and watching over us.
CINDY MCCLEISTER
March 26, 2008
DUBY WAS LIKE A BIG SISTER TO ME. WE HAD SO MUCH FUN WORKING TOGETHER-LAUGH, LAUGH, LAUGH-WE DID ALOT OF THAT (WE DID GET SOME WORK DONE). I LOVE HER TO PIECES AND WILL CHERISH MY MEMORIES OF OUR TIMES TOGETHER. MY LOVE TO ALL OF HER FAMILY.
Yvette Driggs
March 26, 2008
My Aunt Duby was one of my favorite aunt's. We will miss her. My daughter Desiree's favorite memory was when Aunt Duby made cookies with her when she was about 4yrs old. Desiree looks at the picture and laughs about all the flour on her face.
George Hesse
March 26, 2008
I was honored to refer to Duby as my Aunt after marrying into the family. I will always remember how Duby greeted me when I called or went to her home. She was a wonderful person, and I know that God has a special place for her in heaven.
Shaine Bodnar
March 26, 2008
To all my mom's family and friends:
On behalf of my family and I, we would like to thank each of you for your love, support, and prayers over the past several months. It has been trying and difficult at times, but with the help and support of our friends and family, we can and will make it through this together. A couple of weeks ago my mother told me that she was blessed to have such wonderful and caring friends and family. Furthermore, she wanted me to remind each of you that she is watching over each of us. As she told me, "If you miss me and want to talk to me, I will always be there to listen and guide you".
Thank you all so much. We love each one of you. God Bless
Al and Janis Rutledge
March 26, 2008
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Barbara Lopez
March 26, 2008
Spread your wings and fly
No more pain, our hearts sigh.
An angel taken from earth
now with God, living a new birth.
Memories embedded in our mind,
Love surrounds you for all time
Fly the heavens above the clouds
Have known you, I feel so proud.
Markne' Wright
March 26, 2008
Steve: I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. You and your family are in my prayers. Markne'
Diane McAlister
March 26, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Susie Farr
March 26, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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