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Madelyn Thalken Obituary

MADELYN T. THALKEN
(1923 - 2014)
Madelyn T. Thalken, a beloved Chaffey High School home economics teacher from 1972 to 1989, died peacefully at home in San Diego on October 29, following a brief illness. She was 91.
A longtime Ontario resident, Madelyn was born in Pittsburgh on February 26, 1923, to Rocchina (Donnoli) and Tito Tomassetti. She attended Mount Mercy College and earned a Master's in home economics at Penn State in 1947. She soon moved West, working in the Bay Area, then in Los Angeles as a home economist for Sunkist Growers. She married Francis "Buzz" Thalken in 1954, settling in Ontario where they raised five children.
Madelyn was a voracious reader (from books to the many letters written by her eldest brother, a Capuchin missionary in Papua New Guinea). She was also an avid traveler, dedicated volunteer and a cook who poured her heart and soul into memorable meals for family and friends. She will be remembered for her incredible homemade cannelloni, ravioli and Easter calzones. She was at heart a most loving wife, mother, sister, aunt and grandmother who will be missed beyond words.
Madelyn is survived by Buzz, her husband of 60 years, her children and their spouses—Theresa and Giancarlo Losi (of Rivergaro, Italy), Mary Thalken (LaVerne), Joanie and Riccardo Bonazza (Madison, WI), Joseph Thalken (New York City), and Clare and Chris Harrington (San Diego)—and seven grandchildren: Brian, Nigel, Patrick, Daniel, Gabriel, Jula and Billy.
A funeral mass will be held Thursday, November 20, at 10:00 a.m. at St. George Parish, 505 N. Palm Ave., Ontario, followed by a reception in the church hall. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her name to the Capuchin Province of Mid-America, P.O. Box 11605, Denver, CO 80211.

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Published by Daily Bulletin on Nov. 16, 2014.

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Tara Randol

April 14, 2015

Mrs. Thalken taught me home economics at Vina Danks. So sorry to hear of her passing. I hope her family has peace and comfort in this difficult time.

Faye Kent

November 24, 2014

I feel so honored to be part of your family. It was a privilege to know and love your Mother, she was a gift to all of us.

November 22, 2014

Beautiful Sweet Soul - My lovely Aunt Madelyn: We Love You and celebrate your wonderful life, years of service and the kind moments you shared with so many young people, and with your loving family. May you Love your heavenly crown, and be surrounded by Joy, Peace, and Light until we meet again. Your Loving Niece : ) Janet Thalken-Gleason

Gloria Garcia

November 18, 2014

Such a sweet dear lady, Madelyn lit up the hall when she walked. She graciously chatted with me every time we met at Chaffey High School and I enjoyed her company immensely.

Madelyn's kind words settled my nerves in my early years of teaching and later I modeled my interactions with beginning teachers after her. A conversation with Madelyn made challenging days amusing with her smiles and easy laughter.

Madelyn is a treasure and is always remembered with a smile. My prayers are with you and I thank you for sharing her with the rest of us.

Sincerely,
Gloria Garcia

Tony Sciortino

November 18, 2014

What a beautiful and loving person. I also was a student of hers in the early 70's. We would meet numerous of times years afterward just to talk only to realize years later she was a concern person. 35 plus years later I still mention Mrs. Thalken to my wife. Mrs. Thalken still lives and have always been blessed by God

Steve Blue

November 18, 2014

So sorry to hear about Mrs. Thalkens passing. I had her for two classes at Chaffey and she was one of my favorite teachers. The Thalken Family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Mike and Magdalena Pacheco

November 17, 2014

You will always be a lovely memory for Mike and me at St. Church. You always had a smile and always encouraged us with our work at St. George. Rest In Peace dear friend. Mike and Magdalena Pacheco

Dane Mutters

November 16, 2014

I love you, Aunt Madelyn. You will be greatly missed. We'll meet again.

Tim Collier

November 16, 2014

So sorry for your lost Joseph. She sounds like a wonderful mother.

November 16, 2014

I always appreciated the work you had us write. I never forgot the piece of what we expected our lives to be like in the future.thank you so much

Nat Chandler

November 16, 2014

Sending my condolences to the Thalken family, and remembering a wonderful lady who lived a full life!

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