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Nicholas Ross Obituary

Ross Nicholas Eugene Ross, 77, of Upland passed away on August 19, 2007. He was born August 17, 1930 in Auburn, New York to Mary and Eugene Ross. Nick came to California in 1949 and attended the California College of Mortuary Science. He met and married Gretchen Krueger in 1952. He served from 1952 to 1954 in the U.S. Army as a member of the 187th Airborne during the Korean War. Upon his discharge f rom the Army, he worked as an embalmer and funeral director for Pierce Brothers Mortuary in Los Angeles. After 3 years, Nick left the mortuary business and started his sales career at Squibb Pharmaceuticals selling medical equipment and surgical supplies. In 1970, Nick found his niche in the oil and gas business and while working for Geotek Oil and in 1972, formed his own oil and gas syndication company and managed many successful drilling ventures up until the time of his death. Nick was a member of Red Hill Country Club since 1973. His interests included golf, fishing, hunting, sailing, gardening and he was an accomplished pianist. Often Nick could be found at the piano creating and playing his own unique arrangements of his favorite songs. But most of all, Nick enjoyed spending time with his wife, children and grandchildren. He is survived by his beloved wife of 55 years, Gretchen Ann, his mother, Mary Ross, 97, his children, David Ross, Victoria (Kym) Nicholas, Cathy (Mike) Wolters, Toni (Doug) Hollo way, Gigi (Mark) Tundis and Debbie (Matt) Burdick; 12 grandchildren, John, Derek, Allison, Marissa, Lisa, Matt, Nick, Alec, Valerie, Jill, Mikey and Gretchen. Memorial contributions can be made to Steven's Hope for Children, 1014 West Foothill Blvd., Upland, CA 91786 (866) 378-3836. Funeral arrangements are pending with Stone Funeral Home, Upland, (909) 982-1369.

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Published by Daily Bulletin on Aug. 23, 2007.

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nancy tennant

August 14, 2008

Gretchen and family.......Well, I was saddened this time last year, when I heard the news of Nick's passing and now here it is a year ago.....Time is such a special gift....

Even though we don't see each other often, you are in my prayers....This is the time in our lives when we hold on closely to our Lord, for strength and courage...for when our love ones die, a piece of us dies also but our memories keep us alive...

So, I am thinking of all of you, and yes, we still celebrate His life, his birthday - and thankful for all the love Nick shared and the good times...May he rest in peace............

So, with God's Blessings and my gift
of friendship..and my love

Nancy Tennant

Caroline Weaver

September 12, 2007

Dear Coma Mary, Gretchen & Family,

I just learned of Nick's passing & was shocked & saddened. Please express my deepest sympathy to all.

Best Regards,
Caroline Ferro Weaver & Family

Kathy Beardsworth (Marker)

September 8, 2007

Dear Gretchen, I was so sorry to hear of Nick's passing. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I miss my Mom, Shirley Marker, every single day, as I'm sure you will miss your dear Nick. My Mom always enjoyed and loved her friends and I know she had some great times with the two of you. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.

Jill Wagner

August 30, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Jack and Merf Jones

August 30, 2007

Dear Gretchen and Family
We are both very sorry for your loss of Nick. I lost gin money to him every month, should I just send you a check every month? Seriously he will be very much missed.
With Love

August 29, 2007

Gretchen, Kids and Grandkids,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time!
With Love,
Brian, Kathy, Gary, Dominic, Aaron and Marissa

Catharine Slover

August 27, 2007

Dear Aunt Gretchen, David, Victoria, Cathy, Gigi, and Debbie,

Our family was so sorry to hear of Uncle Nick's death. He was a great guy and I can't imagine how much you will miss him. Nick and all of your family will be in our prayers. God bless you.

Earl Phares

August 27, 2007

My sympathy to the family I served as a mailman for 22 years. Nick was a great guy and I am shocked to hear of his passing

Lori Terry

August 27, 2007

To Gretchen and Family,

First of all, I can't tell you how sorry I am for your loss and the pain you are going through. There is nothing harder to go through in life than the loss of a loved one. But I do want to say that I have many great memories over the years of friendships, birthday parties and beach trips than I could ever hope for. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and I hope you can find some kind of peace in your heart to get you through.

Love,

Lorraine Holtzman

Gordon & Ursula Houston

August 27, 2007

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

The DeFrank Family

August 26, 2007

To the Ross Family,
Our hearts go out to you and our prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. We know the pain that can come with the loss of a loved one. What we can share is that memories of good times and a lifetime of love will comfort you in the future and will get you through. We love you and are with you.

CRISTINA PETARRA

August 26, 2007

Mrs. Ross, & Family,
I can't find the words to express my deepest sympathy. When I think of the connection the Ross/Escoto families have, we have always been one family. I have alot of great memories. Not only did the Ross/Escoto kids grow up together, but because of such a great friendship, our children have grown up together. Mr. Ross not only welcomed us into his home, but he was also kind to my husband Tony. At family parties, they were always able to find eachother and strike a conversation.
You know we are here for you.

Love,
Cristina (Escoto) Petarra, Tony, Michael & Juliana

Lee & Evie La Vallee & Family

August 26, 2007

Gretchen,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.We have memories of the times we were out boating together.

Maria Stevens

August 26, 2007

Gigi and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God comfort you during this time of sorrow.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

Fran Mullens

August 26, 2007

My sympathy and prayer's go to you and your family.

Ellen Smith

August 25, 2007

Debbie & Family,
I feel for you. Your father was always generous & attentive, and also gave us our space to grow up when we were kids. I have the fondest memories of being at your home & with all of you. I'm with you during this difficult time, please know you're in my thoughts.

John Canale

August 25, 2007

Gretchen, you know how i feel after our phone call the other day. its hard for me to believe, I always thought the world of nick. He was a great person and a great friend. I will never forget him.

Shirley Sutton

August 24, 2007

Dear Gretchen,
So sorry for your loss, my prayers for you and your family.
A classmate from SMA,
Shirley Thomas Sutton
Huntington Beach, Ca

Amy Mason

August 24, 2007

Gretchen, Dave, Vicki, Kathy, Toni, Gigi and Debbie,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Nick Ross was a great man and I remember him very fondly. My heartfelt prayers are with you all. May you be comforted by the love of friends and family.

Love, Amy (Crow) Mason

Kim & Ken Earl

August 23, 2007

Gigi and Family,
We're so sorry to hear of your loss.
Our hearts are breaking for you.
Just know we're thinking and praying for you.
We are just a phone call away and our door is always open.
God Bless You.
Love,
Kim & Ken Earl

Larry Minor

August 23, 2007

Dear Gretchen and Family
Our entire family extends to your family our deepest sympathies at this most difficult time. May God grant you peace and comfort.
Larry Minor and Minor Family

gloria (Trujillo) Brogley

August 23, 2007

Dear Gretchen ~ My thoughts and prayers are with you. Until you and Nicholas meet again, may you find consolation with the passing of time.
Your classmate from St Mary's, Gloria Trujillo Brogley

Karla Mellinger

August 23, 2007

I am so sorry to hear about Nick, my love goes out to all of you, and you are all in my prayers. Love Karla Mellinger, Max and Leo

Sandie Tomer

August 23, 2007

Dear Gretchen - I am so sorry about Nick's passing. I know we lost track of each other here & there over the years, but I will always remember Nick, the first time I met him, playing the piano at your family's home. Loved his talent & his humor.
Sandie Tomer (Speed, Geraughty)
just in case you don't remember who I am.

Noreen Callahan

August 23, 2007

My most sincere condolences on your loss. My prayers are with Gretchen, my St. Mary's Academy classmate, and family.

Kim Kietzman

August 23, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time.
What wonderful memories we have of visiting CA over the years. You know our hearts are with you across the miles.

Aunt Theresa, Kim, Jim, Tanner and Braden

Mary Grasso

August 23, 2007

Gretchen and family
My heart goes out to all at a time of sorrow. My you fine comfort from your friends, and love ones
Mary Grasso

Helen Burch

August 23, 2007

My love and prayer to all in the Ross family, especially to Gretchen who was my high school classmate at St. Mary's Academy.

Linda Knight

August 23, 2007

My heart felt love and sympathy go out to all of you from North Carolina (Helping my Mother).
You are such a special Family.
God Bless you.

Tara Wolters

August 23, 2007

All our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love Always,
Tara, Alex & Dylan

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