Search by Name

Search by Name

DONNIE AMES Obituary

DONNIE E. AMES

Apr. 12, 1929 - Jan. 14, 2014



Donnie E. Ames, 84, of Henderson, NV passed away of Alzheimers on Tuesday, January 14, 2014 at A Hand of Hope care home.
Donnie was born on April 12, 1929 in Konowa, OK. Donnie had traveled and lived all over the southwest. She settled in Seeley, CA where she took over her mother's business, "Bessie's Cafe". She maintained her residency there until 2006 when she moved to Henderson, NV to be near her daughters.
She was preceded in death by her mother, Bessie Short; father, Earl Phelps; son, Dough Johnson, and brother, Carlos Phelps.
She is survived by her sisters, Dorothy Graesch of Edmond, OK, Mary Lou Mc Carthy of San Diego, CA, and Billi Janssen of Las Vegas, NV; daughters, Donna Gaffaney of Henderson, NV, Diana Wilson of San Anselmo, CA, Dorothy Lappin Hall of Henderson, NV; 6 grandchildren; and 8 great-grandchildren.
The family suggests memorials be sent to Alzheimers Research.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Imperial Valley Press Online on Jan. 23, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for DONNIE AMES

Not sure what to say?





Donnie 16 years old

Donna Gaffaney

January 23, 2014

2838 Winslow Springs Drive, Spring 2013

January 23, 2014

Donna, Diana, and Dorothy--

I will remember your mom through our over-the-fence and by-the-mailbox in Henderson. I found her to be a friendly, straight-forward lady who enjoyed the sunshine and Donna's dogs. I recall that she came to the Paseo Verde Library in October of 2006 with Donna when my husband, Bill, had an exhibit of his wood-lathe art. I will remember the good times and know that the three of you will find peace in your good memories.

Thinking of you and admiring the care that you gave your mom,

Kathy Hug, Donna's neighbor, 2001-2013

Anita Sherron-Farr

January 23, 2014

Donna, knowing you but not knowing your mom, make me realize that she was special… Just because you are so special… She did that right and you all can be so proud… I feel sure she is with loved ones gone on before and now she is the one waiting… God bless you all…

Just another day in the sunshine

Donna Gaffaney

January 23, 2014

Dorothy helping Donnie enjoy the desert sun

Donna Gaffaney

January 23, 2014

84th b-day party visitors

January 23, 2014

84th birthday cake 4-12-13

January 23, 2014

Dorothy Graesch

January 23, 2014

Your mother was like a second mother to me. I could not imagine what my life would have been without her. She protected me through many rough periods in my life, actually fought a few who were rough on me as I was not a fighter. No one could mistreat me on the school bus even through high school or she took care of them! I will certainly miss knowing that she is no longer here to chat with. You girls certainly took care of her well. Her younger sister, Dorothy.

Kathy Broucher

January 23, 2014

She is not really lost to you she has only gone away. She will be there in the morning of a brighter,fairer day.

Donnie on her 80th birthday

January 23, 2014

My Mother was a very simple lady and her good bye to her friends and family will remain that way. She went peacefully in her sleep and is with her loved ones that have gone before her. I will miss her..Donna

annie horne

January 23, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Showing 1 - 12 of 12 results

Make a Donation
in DONNIE AMES's name

Memorial Events
for DONNIE AMES

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support DONNIE's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor DONNIE AMES's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more