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Jay von Werlhof Obituary

JAY C. VON
WERLHOF

Sept. 13, 1923 - Dec. 10, 2009


A memorial service will be held Thursday, December 17 at 1 p.m. at Hems Brothers Mortuary in El Centro for Jay C. von Werlhof, 86, of Ocotillo who died Thursday, December 10 of after battling a long term kidney illness. Burial will be held at a later date.
Jay was born September 13, 1923 in Red Bluff, California. Jay was drafted into the US Army from high school at the age of 20; he served in the Army during WWII as a Sergeant. Most of his time was spent in Europe, intercepting, decoding and translating messages during many battles, including the Battle of the Bulge. In 1946 he entered the University of California, Berkeley majoring in History. He was a student of famed historians Herbert Bolton and Robert Stamp, and archaeologist Robert Heizer. He taught college at the San Francisco School of Fine Arts, Chico State University, California Poly San Luis Obispo, and various California community colleges and high schools. He received his Masters Degree from Berkeley in 1954. He was an incredible artist and illustrated archaeological site records and articles for Berkeley. He spent several years at UCLA working on his PhD in Intellectual History. In 1973 Jay was offered a job teaching archaeology, history, and Indian studies at the San Diego State campus and at Imperial Valley Community College. He wrote many important books and articles on the archaeology and Indian history of the California Deserts and documented more than 10,000 archaeological sites in Imperial County. He conducted archaeological research in all of California's 58 counties. He was largely responsible for establishing the Imperial Valley College Desert Museum and was an emeritus director. As an archaeologist Jay was very proud of his work with local Native Americans to save their history. Among many honors he received were the Lifetime Achievement Award and the Mark R. Harrington Awards from the Society for California Archaeology and a Congressional Proclamation from Congressman Bob Filner. He was also past president of the Society for California Archeology.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Victor and Bess von Werlhof and various siblings.
Survivors include his loving wife, Sherilee Torrence von Werlhof of Ocotillo, California; son, Mark Lincoln and his wife, Stephanie of Santa Rosa, California and their children, Jessica and Kevin Brenk and Brian and Heather Lincoln and great-grandchildren, Matthew Brenk and Billy Lincoln; and son Erik von Werlhof and his wife Betty of Sacramento, CA. and their children Evan and Emily, "adopted son" Steve Lucas as well as his mother-in-law Dorothy Torrence of El Centro; and numerous nieces and nephews and cousins throughout the world.
The family suggests that in lieu of flowers donations be made to: the Imperial Valley Humane Society, 1575 Pico Street, El Centro, CA 92243 and to ASM PARC, The Jay von Werlhof Research Fund for the Study of Earthen Art, 2034 Corte Del Nogal, Carlsbad, CA 92011.

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Published by Imperial Valley Press Online from Dec. 15 to Dec. 17, 2009.

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Marilyn Reames

January 10, 2010

My memory of Jay was a tall man with beautiful blue eyes and a big smile. He was very nice to me. I've heard so much about what he did through the years, a very remarkable man! If I'm not mistaken he made something important for the military before I was born and was awarded for it. Very intelligent man my cousin was.

Karen & Richard Holsclaw

January 10, 2010

My uncle Jay was the best and my favorite. I remember him at our house telling me stories of where he had been and what he had done. He knew I loved history in school and was always trying to convince me to join him and study archaeology at college. He used to drive me around in this old beat up jeep -- I loved that car. He wore something around his neck I loved and he promised it would always be mine and a neat compass in a leather case. I remember him always being big and muscular and wore levis and levi shirts, half buttoned, with that big gold necklace. He looked so much like my dad; his facial expressions, his hands, and his laugh. When my dad died, he said that he would be my dad now, whatever and whenever I needed him. It was sad not to be able to speak with him on the phone anymore. Aunt Sherilee, Erik, Mark,....I have walked in these moccaschins and I'm so sorry he is gone. Even my husband, Richard, just loved Uncle Jay! I'm miss him terrible and am so devastated. But his big hugs will be missed the most!!

Michel Remington

December 22, 2009

Jay was an outstanding Archaeology Instructor, but also a caring individual. I will always remember our site study out near Pilot Knob in the middle of summer and I became sick with heat prostration. Jay quickly got me into some shade, cooled me down and had someone take me home. While I had an early interest in Archaeology back in New York and Florida as a child, Jay really peeked my interest in cultural resources of Southeastern California. Even today when conducting field research out in the desert I will instinctively look down for artifacts and think of Jay. My condolence to his family and friends.

SYLVIA LEON

December 22, 2009

"Mr. Wonderwolf" as I would call him in my history class as he would call me "walking brainstorm". He was an very good person and motivator. He was my history teacher in 1984, he will be missed. A good teacher always leaves footprint in your brain.

Marilyn Werlhof

December 20, 2009

Jay was the first member of the Werlhof family I met when I started dating his brother Bruce. Jay and Bruce were only 10 months apart. Some of their antics are impressed in the memories of their family. He was a wonderful brother-in-law. Loved to come to the house and the first thing he would say is, "What are we having for dinner?" He loved to eat, he loved his work, and he loved all of his family. I will miss him terribly.

russell kaldenbrerg

December 18, 2009

Jay and Sherilee-incredible human beings. I talked with Jay regularly over the decades and as the years went by more regularly, nearly daily over the past several years. He was an incredible influence on California archaeology and on my life. I talked with him the day before he went to the hospital for the last and the last thing he wanted was not to be around; he needed to live to be 120, but his body just did not have the capacity to do that, even though his mind did; just too many things to learn, too many unanswered questions waiting for an explanation. Even during his illness I would always start out with a how are you today Jay, and he would say, "a bit better...I am coming right along; and then he would add, thanks so much for asking Russell." Then we would get on with our stories and talks. He will be greatly missed by all those he touched, which number in the tens of thousands. His and Sherilee's friends for nearly 40 years. Russ Kaldenberg and Judyth

Liz Roberts

December 18, 2009

I was so fortunate to have a chance to meet Jay. I am sorry that I will not have the chance to sit and chat with him again. Sherilee, you are in my thoughts. Jay had more passion for archaeology, and the Imperal Valley in one finger, then most of us do in our whole being. He will be missed, but leaves a leagacy of passion and devotion behind. His name will forever be synonymous with Imperial Valley archaeology.

December 17, 2009

Uncle Jay - everyone who knew him was richer for the experience. He will find his answer's now,and be with his brothers; Norman, Victor and Bruce

Michael Werlhof
Huntington Beach

December 17, 2009

Dear Sherilee:
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I so enjoyed getting to meet Jay at our 50th reunion and getting to have lunch with both of you. Please know I think of you often and will be thinking of you and praying for you in the days to come.
Love, Charlene

Ed Collins

December 16, 2009

Jay was my introduction to archaeology and the reason I became an archaeologist. He was my mentor. I literally followed in his footsteps becoming the IVC archaeology instructor when he retired. Jay was like an uncle to me. He introduced me to my wife Karen at the museum. When all is said and done we were collages and friends. He will be missed

Dave & Cindy Lambrix

December 16, 2009

We fist meet Jay and Sherilee in late 80's when we became their next door neighbors on Vine St. Our older kids loved the Tortoises and Jay told them several stories about them. Jay introduced us to the onion salad which we still enjoy. Things will not be the same, RIP Jay.

Karen Collins

December 16, 2009

Jay was a friend. We worked together on many archaeological projects. His knowledge of the prehistoric sites and culture of Imperial County was phenomenal. He was always willing to share his knowledge with others. Things just will not be the same without him.

Jody Wickson

December 16, 2009

Jay and I used to have good long chats when I was his neighbor on Vine St. years ago. I was just thinking of him the other day. I'm sorry to hear of his passing. I'll miss him greatly. He was quite a remarkable man.

Bruce Werlhof

December 15, 2009

Uncle Jay was such a nice wonderful man. I think everybody loved Uncle Jay. It was alays such a great time to visit with Jay and Sherilee. Great fun times! We all love you Uncle Jay.

Bruce Werlhof

December 15, 2009

Uncle Jay was such a nice wonderful man. I think everybody loved Uncle Jay. It was always such a great time to visit Jay and Sherilee. Great fun times! We all love you Uncle Jay.

Ralph Smith

December 15, 2009

I remember Jay and his wife since they moved to Ocotillo many years ago. I was the resident deputy sheriff at the time. We had a great group of friends at the time and were members of the first chapter of the Lyons Club in Ocotillo. I miss many of our friends who have now past.
Jay always had a smile and was always there to help the community. He made many field trips out in the desert with residents showing them the art left behind.

Tom Barrington

December 15, 2009

Jay was a fine man and a good friend. He was always happy to share his knoledge and insights. I learned much from him in the 10+ years that I worked with him. He had a sharp wit and a never-ending sense of wonder. His background was incredibly broad; he was the only other person I ever met who was a fan of Bowers, a Jefferson biographer. He is truly irreplacable. I regret that I will be out of town on Thursday, but I will be there in spirit.

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