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JOHN BOOKER WILLINGHAM Jr.

1918 - 2019

JOHN BOOKER WILLINGHAM Jr. obituary, 1918-2019, El Centro, CA

BORN

1918

DIED

2019

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JOHN WILLINGHAM Obituary


John Booker Willingham, Jr. aka Papa John passed away December 20, 2019 at his home in Brawley, CA. He was born in Goodwater, Oklahoma to Cora Lee (Jacobs) and John Booker Willingham, Sr. on March 9, 1918. He grew up in Oklahoma and it was there at age 10 he met the love of his life, Gladys Nadine Jackson. A quote from an earlier article those eyes looked at me - they werent brown, they were black because she was a quarter Cherokee, and she was the beautifulest woman Id ever see. I knew right then I was going to marry her. Course she made me wait eleven years. They were married November 1939 In Goodwater, Oklahoma. Just before the war John and Gladys relocated to California where he planned to raise his growing family. He heard that Consolidated Aircraft in San Diego was hiring. He started working at Consolidated Aircraft on June 23, 1941 making B-24 Liberators. He was very proud that he was helping the war effort. When the war actually began in December 1941, he once worked double shifts without a day off for 17 weeks. Just before the end of the war he was drafted by the army. Even though he was married and had four children and a wife that was expecting a fifth child, he answered the call. However days after reporting to Camp Roberts, Japan surrendered. He would quip later I could never be sure if the Japanese heard that I was coming or the dropping of the atomic bomb made the Japanese surrender. We will never be sure. After the war he moved to Brawley where he worked in the hay business, built several homes, operated a service station and eventually built and owned/operated the Paragon Service Station in Calipatria, a position he held until he retired. However he did not stay retired for long. For several years he was a trouble shooter for the Planters Hotel in Brawley. Upon his second retirement he traveled through seventeen states where he visited Yellowstone National Park, Devils Tower, Mount Rushmore and more. Papa John is survived by his children, Patricia Ann Edmondson of Santee, CA., John Douglas (Lana) Willingham of San Diego, CA., Martha Willingham of Brawley, CA., Robert (Elizabeth) Willingham of Brawley, CA. and daughter-in-law, Scarlett Willingham of Coeur d Alene, ID.; 12 grandchildren, 17 great- grandchildren, 11 great- great-grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews. Papa John was preceded in death by his parents; beloved wife, Gladys; daughter, Patsy aka Mike Willingham; sons, Joe and Phillip Willingham; grandsons, Britt Edmondson and Craig Willingham; son-in-law, James Homer Edmondson. Services will be held on Saturday, January 11, 2020 at Frye Chapel and Mortuary viewing at 9 a.m., Services at 10 a.m. with burial at Riverview Cemetery in Brawley, CA.

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Published by Imperial Valley Press Online from Jan. 5 to Jan. 10, 2020.

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January 11, 2020

To my Cousins, and the rest of the Willingham Family, my Deepest Sympathy, on the passing of your Dad, Grandpa, Papa John.
May he now Rest in Peace as he joins his Wife Gladys, and the other Willingham's in Heaven. God Bless you all.

Sally (Willingham) Schwettmann

Lemon Grove, CA
San Diego County

JERRY HILL

January 11, 2020

GOD BLESS YOUR SOUL MR. WILLINGHAM.I HAVE NEVER FOREGOTTEN ALL THE DAYS OVER THE YEARS DROPPING BY THE STATION AND TALKING AND THE FAMOUS SILVER DOLLAR COIN TOSSES FOR A SODA. I REMEMBER SOME OF THE MANY STORIES YOU WOULD TELL,I ENJOYED THEM. SO KIND AND RESPECTFUL TO EVERY PERSON YOU MET OR TALKED TO, YOU WERE A GOOD MAN.I WILL MISS YOU, YOU WILL ALWAYS LIVE IN MY MEMEORIES AND THE MEMORIES OF MANY OTHERS. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND LOVED ONES DURING THIS TIME OF TRANSITION. YOUR CROWN AWAITS YOU IN HEAVEN. PEACE TO THE ENTIRE WILLINGHAM FAMILIES.

Cheryl S.

January 10, 2020

You were such a interesting, kind person and so full of life. I loved hearing your stories. Rest in Paradise

maggie dagnino

January 9, 2020

mr Willingham was such a wonderful person.
when I was a young kid he use to let up kids charge our candies, we always paid him back.
I have many fond memories of going to see him and pulling cokes out of the bottle machine. I ran into him years later and said thank you to him. he was so humble and kind
rip mr willingham

Beatrice Atondo

January 5, 2020

I lived on Barbara St. All my life were the Atondo Family, we have some many beautiful memories of your dad, my sister's , brothers and all the kids on the block would hang out with him at the gas station he had. I know he will be playing he's coin games, with friends that are greeting him in Heaven. So sorry for your lost,ba very good man.

M Alcantar

January 5, 2020

Dear Martha, I am so sorry to hear of your Father's passing. The scenery on W C just won't be the same without Mr. Willingham. My condolences to your family. May GOD bless you and give you peace and comfort.

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