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Jacob Brian Cassell

2001 - 2019

Jacob Brian Cassell obituary, 2001-2019, Lafayette, MD

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2001

DIED

2019

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Jacob Cassell Obituary

Jacob Brian Cassell (aka, "Jake")

Lafayette - Jacob Brian Cassell (aka, "Jake"), son of Steven Cassell (West Lafayette HS Class of 89, Purdue University Class of 93) was born with autism and a number of special needs which attempted to limit and define him, but instead, he overcame them all. He lived his life spreading endless amounts of joy, love and affection to everyone who had the privilege of meeting him. Jake taught us to love greater, to be kind and considerate to everyone and to look at this world with wide eyes full of wonder and excitement. He became a role model for other kids within the Bethesda special needs community in dancing, theatre, bocci ball, softball and other endeavors and those with special needs in Rockbridge County, VA he served for the past three summers. Jake's happiness was infectious and he spread cheer everywhere he went, especially on the sidelines of Churchill High School. But what defined Jake Cassell was his love for his savior, Jesus Christ, and his passion for worship and service. Jake reflected the face of Jesus in all that he did and wore that warmth, love and affection on his sleeve. He truly was an angel in our midst.

Jake was born in Washington, DC at Sibley Hospital six weeks early on October 10th, 2001. When the family received the diagnosis of Autism, from that moment, they dedicated themselves to doing everything possible to help Jake life a healthy, rewarding life. Despite his special needs, Jake exhibited an unusual joy and happiness from an early age. He was enormously sweet and empathic, an attribute that became a defining characteristic as he continued to develop. The challenges in the early years were significant and the therapy exhaustive. Jake was joined by younger brother Owen in November 2003 and the family moved back to the DC area and settled in the Wyngate neighborhood of Bethesda, MD in the fall of 2004.

By 3rd grade, it was apparent that Jake needed a smaller, more controlled and focused environment for kids with his particular set of challenges. He was enrolled at The Diener School, which had been founded just one year prior. Jake attended Diener for four years, during which time he exhibited incredible growth in social skills, language, confidence and intellectual capacity. It was during those years Jake began to show his great potential and inspire confidence in his family that he could overcome his significant challenges and pursue a high school degree and the possibility of independent adult life.

Jake returned to public school in 7th Grade and then moved on to Churchill High School which he attended the last two years, participating in the Autism inclusion program which enabled him to attend both small focused classes and mainstream classes. He was committed to his academics and made the honor roll multiple times during his two years at Churchill. Beyond academics, Jake served as the mascot for Churchill, donning the Bulldog costume and bringing his bountiful enthusiasm to virtually every school sport.

Boy Scouts gave Jake a perfect venue to push him to grow in ways that neither school nor typical extracurricular activities could. From the planning, dexterity and effort required for the many campouts to the task-oriented nature of the rank and merit badge system, Boy Scouts gave Jake a set of goals to consistently pursue, and a means by which he could feel a great sense of accomplishment when those milestones were met. During Jake's six years with Troop 233, he advanced to the rank of Life, just one rank shy of Eagle Scout, and had completed all of his requirements for Eagle with the exception of his Eagle Project, which was planned for early September.

Jake was a regular attendee of The Rock Youth Ministry at the Montgomery County, MD Campus of McLean Bible Church. We watched Jake grow in faith and spiritual maturity over the last few years and Jake's love for God and enthusiasm for worship defined him as a young man. During these last two summers, Jake attended the two-week Summer's Best Two Weeks outdoor Christian camp for teens on the Quemahoning Reservoir near Somerset, PA, which he absolutely loved.

Jake had a huge heart for serving others, which manifested itself in two mission trips in 2019, the first to Honduras with his mother and grandmother in support of their non-profit, Project Honduran Child and the second in July in the Dominican Republic with McLean Bible Church. Jake spent a week in Honduras in January, obtaining and preparing backpacks full of school supplies and distributing those and school uniforms to over 140 kids in 5 mountain villages so that they could attend school. While in the Dominican Republic, Jake helped lead a Vacation Bible School for young kids, worship and sharing the Gospel with many. It was in the DR where Jake gave the first public testimony of his faith in Jesus Christ.

Jacob Brian Cassell (17) of Bethesda, MD was tragically struck by a vehicle after falling off his bicycle on Old Georgetown Road in Bethesda, MD on Wednesday, July 31st. He died from his injuries the next morning. Jake is survived by his mother, Jennifer Fredricksen Cassell, his father Steven Craig Cassell and his Brother, Owen William Cassell. We were blessed beyond measure through the presence of Jacob Brian Cassell and will cherish the memory of this truly beautiful human being.

We would be honored if you took the time to celebrate Jake's Celebration of LifeService with us. Password is Cassell.

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Published by Journal & Courier on Aug. 18, 2019.

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Melissa Peters

August 21, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. My son is also Autistic. I am blessed everyday to have him in my life. Jake sounded like a beautiful man.

Shasha

August 20, 2019

Though I didn't know Jacob personally I have met his parents and brother and my heart is heavy for the tremendous loss they are facing right now. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers and I pray that your memories of your beautiful son and brother bring you comfort in these unimaginable times. With love and condolences to his family and friends and hoping to give support in any way I can. Stay strong ❤

Mary Beth Bauman -Johnson

August 19, 2019

Your family is in my prayers.

Philip Low

August 18, 2019

I was very touched to read this celebration of Jake's life. I can't imagine the pain, but was thankful to read of your faith, and I pray that it will sustain you through the times of darkness and grief until the sharpness of your suffering is more permanently tempered by the blessings of the time you spent together. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Phil Low

Dianne Randolph

August 18, 2019

I did not know Jake or his family but wow his obit was such a joy to read..What an incredible young man..He lived his life to the fullest..I drive a special needs bus & these kids are incredible..They win my heart over each & everyday.My condolences to his family..

Gail Jackson

August 18, 2019

What an incredible young man. I'm sorry I was never blessed to know your son. I pray for God's peace, comfort and strength for your family at this time. I'm so very sorry for your pain.

Gale Saler

August 12, 2019

Thinking of all of you at this moment of grief. May Jakes memory be a blessing to you and all who love him

Melissa Fee

August 9, 2019

Im a friend and former co-worker of Jakes mom, Jenn. It saddens me that I never had the honor of meeting Jake. After watching todays memorial service, its abundantly obvious what a special young man Jake was and how many lives he touched with his kindness, compassion, humor and presence. Jenn, Steve and Owen, words cant adequately express how incredibly sorry I am for you all and your extended family. I pray for your strength and that all the wonderful memories of your amazing son will bring you peace and comfort today, tomorrow and every day going forward. God Bless all of you and Jake and may he forever Rest In Peace.

Jake and I at Greenbelt Metro Station, 5/4/2019.

Brayden Bachlott

August 9, 2019

Jake was one of the most absolutely stunning people I got to meet in my whole life. Though I only knew him for approximately two years, the impact he made on me is one I won't forget anytime soon. Jake and I enjoyed exploring the world around us, and we both enjoyed riding the local Metro system. There's so much good I can say about Jake that I could speak about him for hours. R.I.P. old friend, you will be missed.

Stan Voudrie

August 9, 2019

I only had the pleasure to meet Jake a few times over the years but his joy was always evident. His life was a great example of love and service to his community. Jake will be truly missed.

diane allen

August 9, 2019

Although I did not know Jacob or his family...u heard his tragic incident on the news. I want to extend my condolences to his family and friends. I just read his obituary....what an amazing life he had even with all it's challenges. I can relate ad I have a nephew with high functioning autism. I am a family that has lots of Eagle Scouts too. I hope the Scouts still gives him his Eagle badge!!

Avi Grant

August 8, 2019

He was an amazing person, a great friend and an amazing teammate on both our bocce and softball teams. He will be forever missed but he will always be remembered as the Bulldog of WCHS. The whole community will miss him dearly every day.

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