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Lilly Stillabower Obituary

Lilly May Stillabower, 91

Lilly May Stillabower, 91, of Lafayette, died peacefully at 10:05 am Monday, July 21, 2014 at Creasy Springs Health Campus. She was born July 10, 1923, in Tippecanoe County, to the late Jess Robertson and Amanda Brown Bonty. Lilly attended Dayton, Wea, and Jefferson and graduated from West Point High School. Her 44 year marriage to Opie R. "Bud" Stillabower began on December 12, 1942. He preceded Lilly in death on April 7, 1987. Always active socially, Lilly was a member of 40&8 LaFems, American Legion Post #11 and the VFW Auxiliaries. She enjoyed gardening and spending quality family time with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Surviving are two loyal and dedicated sons, Timothy Stillabower and wife Deborah of Lafayette and Terry Stillabower and wife Mayon of Katy, Texas; a sister Shirley Griffen of Winterhaven, Florida; nine grandchildren, fourteen great-grandchildren and five great-great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by a daughter Cheryl Stillabower, a son, Jerry Stillabower and three brothers. Visitation will be from 5:00 - 8:00 pm on Friday, July 25, 2014 at Soller-Baker Lafayette Chapel followed by the Funeral Service at 10:00 am on Saturday, July 26 at Soller-Baker Lafayette Chapel 400 Twyckenham Blvd Lafayette, IN 47909 with Pastor Rick Ryan officiating. Burial will follow at Spring Vale Cemetery. Those wishing may contribute to the 40&8 Nursing Scholarship. You may sign the guest book or leave memories at www.soller-baker.com

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Published by Journal & Courier on Jul. 23, 2014.

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Jan Myers (Stillabower)

July 17, 2022

Bud and Lil visited us often when I was very young. She always had a big smile, and was fun to be around!

August 1, 2014

Our Prayers are with the Family
God Bless,
Kenny & Linda Speight

Debby Green

July 30, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for your family.

July 26, 2014

Deb and Tim so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Connie Whitlock

Jack& Bonnie Fleming

July 25, 2014

Terry & Tim; You & your famlies are in our thoughts & prayers

Debbie Bush

July 25, 2014

I will miss you Lilly. You and I had a lot of good laughs, me trying to stear that wheelchair of yours. Rest easy pretty lady??

Your Creasy springs caregiver

Patricia Stillabower

July 25, 2014

I remember Lily as a beautiful, caring lady. God bless and comfort you.

Jan Myers

July 24, 2014

Terry and Tim, So sorry for your loss. Aunt Lill was such a happy person and loved by many. Bud and Lill came to visit us all the time when I was just a little girl so I've known her most of my life. You are in my prayers, but know that she is in a better place.

Jan Myers (Stillabower)

July 24, 2014

Terry, I am so sorry to hear that your mother passed away. May all your wonderful memories of her help get you through this difficult time. You and your family are in my prayers.

Linda Buckles Bergren

Dennis O'Brien

July 23, 2014

Terry, Sorry for your loss. What a great lady who always had a smile.

Denny Brady

July 23, 2014

Terry & Tim please don't cry
because we had to part
As long as you remember me
I'll live in your heart. ??

Peggy Hummell Hurt

July 23, 2014

Terry, I am so sorry for the passing of your mother. There is nothing as special as your mother, I still miss mine everyday and she passed in 2007.

Missy Stillabower

July 23, 2014

Heaven has definatly gained an angel! Rest in peace Grandma!

Claire Carll

July 23, 2014

Our sincere sympathy to the family. We remember Lil as a loving happy person.
Henry Meador an sister Claire Meador Carll

Marlene Strasburger

July 23, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I always enjoyed tagging along with my mom, Betty McDaniel and Grandma Bess to visit your family. Your mother was a sweet lady.

Rick Basham

July 23, 2014

Tim and family , sorry for your loss. Your in my thoughts....

Ed, Carolyn, Abi Watson

July 23, 2014

Tim, Deb, Jamie, Jenna, Jordan, may you know you have an angel in heaven watching over you. Grandma was a great lady. I loved talking to her. May God hold you and your family in his arms during this time of loss.

Jamie, Jordan, Jenna, Liam Patterson

July 23, 2014

We will all miss you grandma! Love you so much!

Kris Brower

July 23, 2014

May God surround you with His loving arms, comforting you in this time of grief and loss.

Karen Lancaster Simler

July 23, 2014

She was a great lady! Sorry to hear of her passing.

Jaynetta Robertson

July 23, 2014

Lilly was a great woman, always so pleasant to talk to when she came out to visit dad.

Dottie Steele

July 23, 2014

So sorry to read of Lil's passing. She was a fun lady and we had a lot of great times traveling with the color guard to 40 & 8 functions. I certainly enjoyed knowing her.

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