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Stuart Spikes Obituary

Stuart Dale Spikes, 26

Stuart Dale Spikes was reunited with his beloved son, Jeremy on March 13, 2013. Stuart was born in Lafayette on November 24, 1986, to Leo Spikes and Brenda Davenport Spikes. Stuart is survived by his parents; paternal grandmother, Helen L. Spikes, and maternal grandfather, Richard Bolyard; daughters, Olivia Marie (mother Allie Wilkins) and Alexandra Pruitt (mother Jodi Pruitt). Siblings, Misty Snapp (Tim), Wesley Sanders, and Evan Spikes (Kim). He was preceded in death by his son, Jeremy Scott Spikes; maternal grandmother, Beatrice Bolyard, and paternal grandfather, Leo F. Spikes.

Also surviving are uncles, Ronnie Davenport (Becky), Elroy Davenport (Missy) and aunts, Cindy Schweiger, Dolly Brown (Steve), Louise Darling and Catherine Peacock (Tom). Stuart is also survived by many cousins; and nieces and nephews.

Stuart was a registered member of the Little Traverse Bay Bands of Odawa Indians, he was very proud of his Native American Heritage. He received his GED with honors. Stuart enjoyed bingo and cards with his mother. He also loved debating any subject with his dad and each always thought they won. He enjoyed watching and supporting the Indianapolis Colts. Stuart was a beautiful child and grew into a handsome young man with a smile that could light up a room. His laugh was contagious and made others around him laugh. Stuart will be missed by many. He had resided in Lafayette with Michelle Wooten.

The family will receive friends one hour prior to the noon funeral service on Monday at Hippensteel Funeral Home. Pastor Don Sager officiating. Memorial contributions may be made to Riley Hospital for Children. Hippensteel Funeral Home entrusted with care. Share memories and condolences online at www.hippensteelfuneralservice.com.

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Published by Journal & Courier from Mar. 15 to Mar. 16, 2013.

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Allison Wilkins

August 6, 2015

Can you believe our baby girl started first grade today?! It seems like yesterday when we brought her home from the hospital. I wish you could have been there to see the smile on her face. I'm sure you're proud of our little girl - she is everything we dreamed for her to be plus more. I often look at her and it's just like looking at you. I miss you so much Stuart. One day we will meet again.

I love you, always.

Allison Wilkins

June 19, 2015

Oh Stuart, where do I begin? As days pass, your loss only gets harder. My heart breaks for our sweet Olivia. She is really struggling with your death these days. I don't have all the answers for her but I'm doing the best I can. I ask that you please pray for her.
I love you. I miss you.

Until we meet again...

Allison Wilkins

March 16, 2015

Two years already, how did that happen? I miss you so very much. I pray for your peace. I love you Stuart.

natalie Sparger

January 2, 2015

I hope that you had a good Christmas and Happy New Year in heaven. I know you are happy and whole. I'm sure you were happy to celebrate with Grammie, Aunt Dolly, and Jeremy. Love you to the moon and back.

Allison Wilkins

December 17, 2014

I'm looking forward to spending the weekend with your family and visiting your resting place in LA. Olivia can't wait to see everyone! It's not the same without you, but I know you're always with us.

Olivia has been asking a lot about you lately. She always wants to see new pictures, ask what your favorites were, etc. It's very bittersweet; we miss you so much.

Love you, miss you.

natalie Sparger

November 29, 2014

Happy Late Birthday and Thanksgiving. I miss you so much and I must say I'm jealous that you got to spend the Holidays with Grammie. Please give her and Aunt Dolly all my love

Allie Wilkins

November 28, 2014

You've been on my mind so much recently with your birthday on Monday and your favorite holiday yesterday. I miss you so, so much.

I know you were happy to celebrate this birthday with Grandma Helen. I bet that was a beautiful reunion. She is very loved and will be greatly missed.

I love you Stuart Dale, always and forever.

Allison Wilkins

November 12, 2014

You would be so proud of Olivia, she is so smart for her age! She looks and acts so much like you, it's so bittersweet. Livvy likes to ask me questions about you, she is very curious about her daddy. I wish you could be here but I promise you will always be very much alive in our hearts.

We are heading to Lafayette in our two weeks to visit our family. Livvy is counting down the days! Catherine and Natalie are huge blessings in our lives; I feel so close to you when I'm around them.

Give our little man a big hug from his momma. I love you both to the moon and back.

Until we meet again,

natalie Sparger

September 26, 2014

I love you to the moon and back. I hope all your days in heaven are joyful.

Allie Wilkins

September 23, 2014

Missing you today and everyday.

Rest in love Stuart.

Allie Wilkins

August 22, 2014

It still doesn't seem possible that you're gone. My heart aches for you Stuart. I miss you every single second of every single day. Please pray for us and we continue to learn to live without you.
I love you, always have and always will.

natalie Sparger

April 24, 2014

Gone but certainly never forgotten. I miss you so very much. Not a day goes by u don't cross my mind. To the moon and backm

Allison Wilkins

March 19, 2014

I can't believe it's been a year. I love you, so very much. Fly high babe.

Natty Sparger

March 13, 2014

Can it really be true you have been an angel for a whole year. I love you to the moon and back

Natty Sparger

February 27, 2014

Not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind. I still remember your smile and I pray I never forget it. I love you to the moon and back.

Allie Wilkins

February 26, 2014

An hour doesn't go by that you don't cross my mind. The pain of loosing you has been unreal and at times unbearable. You're an amazing man who will forever be missed. Give our little man hugs for me.

Love you always!

Allie Wilkins

February 18, 2014

Olivia and I spent the weekend with some of your family. It's so nice to be around them, I feel so close to you. Going to Lafayette isn't the same without you there, but Catherine, Natalie, Mazie, and the kids make it so enjoyable for Livvy and I.

I love you, and always will. Please pray for us!

Allie Wilkins

February 5, 2014

I miss you more and more with each passing day. Olivia told me a joke that had me in tears from laughing. I KNOW you would've enjoyed it. "How do you wake up Lady Gaga? Poke her face!"
We made an amazing little girl, Stuart. There are so many times I look at her and see you, it's bittersweet. Give our little man a kiss for me; I miss you both so much.

Love you always!

January 4, 2014

Olivia was precious at her birthday party, we missed you and Nat and I talked about you on the way home. We stopped by and visited you and Jerp. Aunt C

Allie Wilkins

January 3, 2014

Yesterday we celebrated our Olivia's 5th birthday. It was a beautiful day filled with happiness and memory making. I hate that you weren't there to enjoy it with us, but I know you were with us in spirit. I love you Stuart, always have and always will. Rest in love.

Angel Henry

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas my dear sweet friend. I miss you so much

Natty Sparger

November 29, 2013

Not a second goes by that you don't pass thru my thoughts. It was nice to have Olivia and Allie here last weeekend for your birthday. I hope you know you mean the world to me.

Allie Wilkins

November 26, 2013

I know I'm a few days late, but HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Livvy and I had a great time in Lafayette and got several great pictures with your family and we included a picture of you and Jeremy in ours.
Life isn't the same without you, but you will live forever in my heart.
I love you.

Allie Wilkins

November 19, 2013

Not a day goes by where I does miss you Stuart, you took part of my heart to Heaven with you. I'm thankful for the seven years we had together and I'll never forget the amazing memories we created together. Olivia and I are going to spend with weekend in Lafayette with Aunt Catherine and Natalie for your birthday. We are very excited although it won't be the same without you there. Traveling north on 65 is not that same now that you're not at our destination, like you have been hundreds of times before. I miss you like hell...fly high and PLEASE give our angel our kiss from Momma.

I love you!

Allie Wilkins

October 29, 2013

Livvy has been asking about you a lot, it's so bittersweet. She said she thinks you have a sports car in Heaven! ;) We love and miss you SO much, and we always will.

Fly high babe.<3

Natty Sparger

October 19, 2013

I hope you know how loved you are. We miss you so much, Cella was just talking about you holding her up when she was little. Love you to the moon and back.

Natty Sparger

September 28, 2013

Doesn't seem possible that you are really gone. I set the stone we bought for you in my yard today it states how I feel everyday only God knows why he choose to take you so soon. I will never in my life forget you or all our memories. Love you

Allie Wilkins

September 24, 2013

Missing you more then ever. This just doesn't seem real, even six months later. A great person, friend, brother, son, and father was lost on March 13. You'll live forever in our hearts.

Fly high babe, I love you.

Allie Wilkins

September 12, 2013

Just want to say I love you. Olivia has been talking about you a lot; I promise to keep you in alive in our hearts. You're amazing Stuart Dale, THANK YOU for loving me and helping me bring two perfect children into this world. Hug our Jeremy for me and kiss my favorite spot on the bridge of his nose! ;) Love you both, always.

Rachel Battering

September 11, 2013

There isnt a day that goes by i dont think of our last memory together. Your always gonna be apart of me and there is always gonnab a spot in my heart for you. Love n miss u sooo much..<3

Allie Wilkins

September 6, 2013

It's so hard to believe that it was seven years ago yesterday when we became a couple. So much has changed in those seven years, except for our love. Olivia and I miss you very much and talk about you daily. You'll forever live in our hearts! We love you!

Natty Sparger

September 3, 2013

Thought about you all weeked but I always think about you. I miss you more then words.

Allison Wilkins

August 28, 2013

Can't get you off my mind today after seeing you in my dreams last night. Miss you babe, I'll love you forever.

Natty Sparger

August 19, 2013

Miss u so much still does not seem real you are gone. Not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind.

Allie Wilkins

August 16, 2013

I miss you so much it hurts. Please give our little man this biggest hug and kiss from his Momma. I love you Stuart Dale, forever and always!

We love you SDS.

Olivia & Allie

August 5, 2013

Missing you today and always. Our love for you will never die...

Your girls forever.

natalie Sparger

July 26, 2013

Love u so much not a day goes by that I don't think about you.

July 25, 2013

We didn't know each other for long. As a matter of fact you thought I hated you for a while. When in fact you were always one of my favorites. You will be missed!!!

Allison Wilkins

July 15, 2013

I knew I loved you before I met you, and I'll continue loving you after you're gone.
Please pray for us!

natalie Sparger

July 13, 2013

Missing u like crazy I hope that your spirit is free. I love u to the moon and back.

Aunt Catherine

July 12, 2013

I will never ever forget loving you!!

Allie Wilkins

July 1, 2013

Gone but never, ever forgotten.

Love always.

Allie Wilkins

June 14, 2013

Missing you so much, all day, every day.

Love always.

Allie Wilkins

June 7, 2013

Oh Stuart, I still can't believe you're gone. My heart aches for you. Olivia cried for you last night for the first time since you grew your wings. For the first time, she wanted you, and I couldn't pick up the phone and call you. Please pray for our sweet baby girl.
I love you Stuart, I always will.

Until we meet again.<3

June 2, 2013

So many things left unsaid, so many memories to cherish, I find myself forgetting for a millisecond that you are gone and then a big dose of reality slaps me in the face! I pass by the last place I saw you and my heart aches, you were and will always in my heart and I will love you forever and a day, till we meet again...Aunt C

natalie Sparger

May 27, 2013

Love you I have been having many dreams about you

Allie Wilkins

May 16, 2013

Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around during the daytime, and falling in at night.
I miss you like hell.

I love you Stuart Dale Spikes.<3

Allison Wilkins

May 14, 2013

I can't believe yesterday marked two months since the last time I heard your voice, I still can't wrap my head around the fact that you're gone. Stuart, please pray for us. We miss you with every part of our being, this is just too hard sometimes. I love you, and I always will...you know that.
xoxo

natalie Sparger

May 13, 2013

Love u and miss you this just doesn't seem real and it's been two months and my heart has healed none.

natalie Sparger

May 7, 2013

I love u to the moon and back I never thought a day would come that I wouldn't be able to call u and chat or walk into grammies and u say hey nat. Miss u more then I can even explain.

May 5, 2013

Stopped by to visit this evening...missing you and wondering why this had to happen. I have such a hard time believing that this is real and just wanted you to know how much I loved you.

A. Catherine

Our Prince in Heaven & Princess on Earth

Allie Wilkins

May 3, 2013

I sit here again, can't get you off my mind again...I can't believe you're gone. True love never dies.
Please give J a hug for me!

natalie Sparger

May 2, 2013

Just was sitting here missing you im so mad your gone it isn't fair. I hope you know how loved you are. Miss u

angel henry(salazar)

May 2, 2013

I cant sleep, just thinking bout all of our memories we had together. I go and visit you next to your grandpa often. I remember the first time i met u, ever since we have ben 6 years old you have never ben out of my life for more then a few months at a time. Its hard to believe that its going to be longer then that befor i can share a laugh with you or just see your face. Im so sorry i broke our promise , but i will always love you..

Allie Wilkins

April 25, 2013

I can't get you out of my mind today after seeing your handsome face in my dreams last night. You're so loved Stuart, and missed by so many.

Love Always.

April 23, 2013

The moment that you left my heart split in two. One side filled with tears, the other went with you. I often lie awake at night when the world is fast asleep. and take a walk down memory lane with tears upon my cheek. Remembering you is easy, for I do it every day. But missing you is a heartache that never goes away. Life has gone on without you - but it will never be the same. Please forgive a silent tear - a sincere wish that you were still here. I love you baby. Aunt Catherine

Allison Wilkins

April 12, 2013

You've been on my mind all morning Stuart. Now I'm sitting at work typing away and one of our 100 song's came on...I miss you babe, Fly high.

Love always...I promise.

natalie Sparger

April 8, 2013

Just three worda to say I love you

Rachel Dye

April 8, 2013

U are on my mind everyday n i miss u more than ever but todays just one of those days that ur all i think about...love ya...

April 7, 2013

...And I believe that love is stronger than death
R Fulgrum

natalie Sparger

April 3, 2013

You have been on my mind so much today so many tears. I miss u so much and wish I could talk with yoy one more time.

Father & Son, together again.

Allie Wilkins

April 2, 2013

Missing you more with each passing day. We love you babe! xoxo

natalie Sparger

March 31, 2013

Happy Easter love and miss u. I hope that you and Jeremy had a great day. I love you both untill we talk later rest in love.

natalie Sparger

March 29, 2013

Miss u so much today hope ur having fun today with jerpy

M Corwin

March 25, 2013

Rip I miss you so very much, I know ur at rest with ur lill man keep watching over all of your family n friends I just still can't belive your gone, its hard to think about it and all I Do is think about you& your family I love you Stuart always and forever

Nat and Stuart

March 22, 2013

natalie Sparger

March 21, 2013

I know you heard us telling memories today and u were laughing right along with us. Miss u and love you.

Rita (stoker) Hurst

March 21, 2013

My deepest sympathies to the family.

These memories will last forever. Fly high babe<3

Allie Wilkins

March 21, 2013

Stuart,

I still can't wrap my head around this, I can't believe you're really gone. We had some wonderful times together in our five years, I'll never forget the memories we made. You have a personality that is one of a kind, I've never met a funnier person in my whole life and I probably never will.
I ask that you please pray for us Stuart. Today, we lay you to rest with our little man on his three year angelversary. This will be extremely hard, but our family has been through a lot, we're going to be okay. Please send your guidance and peace, we need it now more then ever. I promise to always take care of our Livvy to the best of my ability. Give Jeremy a kiss from his Momma.
Love you, always & forever

arianna Salazar

March 20, 2013

Stuart I love u and miss u so much u was to young to go I love u stuart always and forever

crystal mize

March 19, 2013

My condolices to the family. RIP

S Darbro

March 19, 2013

Such a tragic loss of life. My deepest sympathies

natalie Sparger

March 18, 2013

I just want u to know that I am so proud of you stuart. I love u with all my heart and will always be proud of you. You were an amazing person with great traits that anyone could love.

m keegan

March 17, 2013

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

By Lamaretta Simmons

Michelle Corwin

March 17, 2013

I'm going to miss you more than you will ever know, you & I had a very strong bond in our child hood you were more to a brother to me than anything love you always & forever

Tommy Simmons

March 16, 2013

man brother remember meetin our younger days at pcf wasnt the funnest but we tried me you and mike rhoades just to thing that was just 12 years ago n i never thought this is what life would bring bro but now you and jermey can look down on all of us must say tho bro i miss you and wish we could have done more the last few months may you rest in peace

angel henry(salazar)

March 16, 2013

im gonna miss you more then u will ever know,we always had a very special bond that was one of a kind. i love you very much and i always will.

Corrine Wert

March 16, 2013

R.I.H

shantaya kirk

March 16, 2013

My condolensce to your entire family . May god keep his Angel's with u all Dureing these dificult times

Donna Snapp

March 16, 2013

Prayers to you and your whole family Misty! We were so sorry to here of your loss!

michelle wooten (spikes)

March 16, 2013

Your the most amazing man ever and even though we didn't have much time together I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU ? MY HEART AND SOUL ARE EMPTY BUT YOUR LOVE WILL ALWAYS REMAIN. YOUR PAIN IS OVER AND YOUR BABY BOY IS IN YOUR ARMS... I WILL MISS YOU FOR EVER AND ALWAYS TILL I SEE YOU AGAIN ?

shantaya kirk

March 16, 2013

My condolensce to your entire family . May god keep his Angel's with u all Dureing these dificult times

Jeff Burke

March 16, 2013

As I grew up Stuart's smile is what I remember. My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.

Kelly Huey

March 16, 2013

You will be missed Stuart. Prayer go out to his family.

vicci steele

March 16, 2013

i am so sorry to hear this god bless you ll and he was a very handsome kind young man you well be sadly missed hugggs

Tammy Harris

March 16, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this very difficult time...RIP Stuart...God bless

sondra alm

March 16, 2013

So sorry for your loss God bless you all

Natalie Sparger

March 16, 2013

I miss you so much Stuart u were my best friend and cousin. I hope u are playing with Jerpy

Misty Snapp

March 16, 2013

My little brother u are so missed and loved by so many!! You were one of a kind and so special to me I love u and miss u so much until we meet again! I LOVE U!!

Sally Murray

March 16, 2013

I AM DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS THE FAMILY WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS MAY LOVE CARRY U THROUGH THE NEXT COUPLE OF WEEKS AND MAY STUARTS MEMORY ALWAYS LIVE IN OUR HEARTS REST IN PEACE BUDDY

The Pattengale family

March 16, 2013

Helen, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.

Kari Hopkins

March 16, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with Stuart's family during this difficult time.

jonna jusko

March 16, 2013

Brenda & family, sorry for your loss. thoughts & prayers are with you,

Jackie Stacey

March 16, 2013

R.I.P. Stuart! My love, thoughts, prayers, sympathy, & deepest condolences go out 2 all the family! May God be with you during this difficult time!

Rachel Dye

March 16, 2013

RIP Stuart..U will remain in many peoples hearts as well as their memories.

corinna cortes

March 16, 2013

You will forever be in our hearts and thoughts!

Jackie Stacey

March 16, 2013

Still can't believe you're gone but I know you're n a better place! My condolences and deepest sympathy goes out 2 ?the family may God b with you during this difficult time!

Debra Neal

March 15, 2013

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

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