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Jeanine McCarthy Obituary

Jeanine L. McCarthy, 50, of Ellington died at Yale New Haven Hospital. She was born Sept. 16, 1958, in Hartford.

A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 15, 2008, at the Ellington Congregational Church, 72 Main St., in Ellington.

Arrangements are entrusted to Small & Pietras Funeral Home, 65 Elm Street, Rockville.

For online condolences, please visit:

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Published by Journal Inquirer from Nov. 13 to Nov. 17, 2008.

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Barbara Grey

November 15, 2008

Jeanine was my cousin, she was a beautiful child with golden hair, blue eyes and a smile that made you smile back.

During the summer of '69 I spent a few weeks at my aunt Ginny's with "the girls". During the 60's I was writing poetry, who wasn't. Jeanine loved to listen to my poetry and prior to my going home she wrote me a poem on a torn of piece of orange construction paper. (Which I still have and have attached to this note.) In many ways Jeanine was the best of us - a sensitive soul, a beautiful soul and I loved her. My mother's people, the Brown's, were never a close family, people who talked each other down rather than blessing and edifying.

So, we lost touch along the way, although I often thought of her.

Two months ago I Googled her, wrote her name in my appointment book, and planned to call her for a visit. I did not make that call and then on Wednesday I received the news of her passing. I am going to frame the poem and the sticky note with her name on it to remind me to always do what your heart tells you.

Nini, I am sorry for the pain you endured, I am saddened that I did not know of your joys in life as well.

Go in peace fair child, until we meet again....

With love-your cousin,

Barbara Russell Grey

Carol,

Thanks for keeping my mom and others in the family loop.

Love you. B

November 15, 2008

Terry,
My thought's are with you, peace.
Walter,
Tolland,ct.

Richard

November 14, 2008

Terry, both Jeanine and you have touched my life and those of many others. She will live on in the lives of those to whom she gave so much strength, hope, and love.

Karen Madore

November 14, 2008

Jeanine, You will be missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God Speed. My love to you, Cousin Karen.

John Guevin

November 14, 2008

Terry,
We were sad to hear of your loss, Jeanine will be missed. You both are still in our prayers.
John & Mary

David Cornell

November 14, 2008

Terry
My thoughts are with you

Susan Stevenson

November 14, 2008

I'm so sad to hear about Jeanine's passing. I have fond memories about her late night calls and the laughs we shared.

Betty Styran

November 14, 2008

Terry,

Jim and I are so sorry for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. With Deepest sympathy, Betty and Jim

The Staff of Small & Pietras and Coventry Funeral Homes

November 14, 2008

With deepest sympathy during this difficult time.

Emy

November 13, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. Jeanine touched my life as she did so many others. God Bless

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