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al kupchunos
January 16, 2025
Father Rohan would have one sermon he would save for the hottest Sunday each summer and I remember it word for word: "Whatever you are doing right, keep doing it. Whatever you are doing wrong STOP it! Amen"
Followed by a great laugh from the congregation.
What a Priest! (and friend).
Al Kupchunos
John Macdonald
January 16, 2021
John was a great friend and a great man. He by far the most gifted homlist i have ever known. I can still hear his booming voice. Feel so fortunate to have known him. God bless
John Macdonald
January 16, 2020
Such and great friend. Loved our monthly meals. Would often spend thanksgiving with ius. When john walked into a room he owned it. I really miss hearing his bomming voice and great life insights. He just made my life better. Miss you john
Barbara Andriks
June 19, 2013
Fr. Rohan was a wonderful person who helped me through my husband's unexpected death in 1998; I will never forget his kindness; St. Francis of Assisi parish still misses you to this day!

Vince Ambrosetti
March 27, 2013
What a wonderful priest of God! It was my great honor to know and serve with you, Father John.
Vince Ambrosetti
ParishMission.Org
Charlotte Riley-Thuwanger
March 10, 2013
To my childhood friend that lived across the street from me in Manchester, Ct. I was the last on his paper route so we'd talk at length.
God bless your service to The Lord & those you guided. Be at peace Fr Rohan, my friend.
Michael Riley
March 10, 2013
God Bless you Father Rohan. My condolences to all Family and Friends.
James Bartalotta
February 2, 2013
I extend my most heartfelt condolences to all who mourn this terrible loss. Father Rohan was nothing less than a dedicated, intelligent and thoughtful spiritual counsellor, whose sermons inspired, whose noble actions set an honoured example, and whose effulgent presence, physical and spiritual, was and remains beyond appraisal. I am tremendously thankful to have known the Rev. in my lifetime, and to his family, I extend my firmest prayers and best wishes during this trying time. "For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor anything else in creation, will separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 8:38-39)
Kathleen Chase
January 28, 2013
Father Rohan was a wonderful pastor and a dear friend. The world was a better place because of him. He was an outstanding homilist and touched so many lives in ways he would never have known. He was the best the church offered to all who were fortunate enough to have known him.
Karen and Lorraine
January 27, 2013
Father, you are now an angel in Heaven. God Bless you and your family.
January 27, 2013
God needed a Gifted Person when he called you home to Heaven.
I will miss your lovely sermons.
Ann Devine
Weston, MA
Mary Millstein
January 26, 2013
Tracy, Michael, Tim and Barbara,
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your uncle and cousin. He spoke of you all often, and loved you deeply.
I had the privilege to know Father for years. One day he reached out to me for help in the Cluster Office. Father and his office staff (who are dear friends now) welcomed me with open hearts. For the first time, I was really able to give back, and witness all that was done on a daily basis for our “cluster family”.
The days were busy, phones were ringing, door bells, people coming and going, and father running in and out. As busy as it was, every day we came together for lunch at the kitchen table, the heart of the rectory. We shared prayer, food, stories and lots of laughter, we were a family. It will be those precious times spent with Father that I will remember always.
When it was time for me to leave, it was very difficult. I knew I helped him, but he helped me and my family even more. He believed in me, guided me spiritually and challenged me to reach out and do things that I never would have thought of. He helped me be a better person. Father was strong willed as we all know, intelligent, spiritual and worked tirelessly for us. He was a good Shepherd, he guided his flock, nurtured us spiritually with his teachings, his presence and his love. His homilies speak for themselves; he captivated the young people as well as the adults. You left mass knowing you could face whatever life handed you that week because you received his message.
I saw him 3 weeks ago, not knowing that would be my last good bye. Our Shepherd is now out of pain, no more suffering, and with Jesus reaping rewards for all his hard work here on earth. I will miss him greatly, but will have him in my heart forever. Rest in Peace Father.
Love, Mary aka Bubby
john macdonald
January 24, 2013
I can hear that booming voice coming from heaven tonight
Fr Brian Jeffries
January 23, 2013
Dear father John since our childhood in the Newman street and center st neighborhood you have always been an inspiration. We served as altar boys at st James church and you brought me to my first vocation day at St Thomas Seminary.
May you rest in the peace of our dear Lord whom you always loved so much. Requescat in pace Amen
January 23, 2013
Father Rohan you simply were the best priest we ever knew.
May you rest in peace.
We have all lost a good friend.
Al and Sue Kupchunos
Sheila Gilligan
January 23, 2013
Father Rohan was a wonderful person, generous with his kindness and wit. I will never forget him.
Leo and Rita Gagliarone
January 23, 2013
Deeply saddened by the loss of my cousin, Father John. I remember him well from decades ago when he frequently visited my mother and father on Gardner Street. My mother was delighted to have a priest in the family who was a source of inspiration and devotion. He will be greatly missed.
Brittney Vail
January 23, 2013
I served on the altar with Father Rohan because I was an altar server for many years. He was such a passionate and wonderful person who taught me so much about God and being a better person. I will never forget that he said the mass that I dedicated to my grandfather and it was so beautiful. His soul definitely rose up straight to heaven. He's finally with God and the angels. Rest in peace and thank you for everything you've done, not just for me, but for the Catholic Communities of East Hartford North.
Mary Walton
January 23, 2013
Father Rohan you will be missed. Thank you for all your hard work and dedication to our cluster. Rest in peace.
Patricia Brown
January 23, 2013
I first met Fr. Rohan when he helped out at St. Bartholomew's in Manchester. I will always remember his wonderful homilies and his delightful sense of humor. My late husband, Deacon Bill Brown was fortunate to have Father as his Homiletic Instructor in the Deaconate program. The archdiocese has lost a wonderful priest.
Gary Tallerdy
January 23, 2013
God bless you,You will be mlssed But,never forgotten.
Victoria Gaudette Brinius
January 23, 2013
Father Rohan is now an angel in heaven with the god he spent his life worshipping. I will never forget he married my hubby and I with father sledeski. He wa a warm funny guy, that made church inviting. He did a beautful job with my loved ones funerals (Gaudette's of East Hartford) and my father in Law (Brinius). So many early sunday masses. I will never forget that weathery day when the air system wasn't working! My prayers go out to his family.
Kevin Lawlor
January 22, 2013
Father John , you were always there for us, for every Baptism and Wedding and Funeral you were a part of our family. You connected to each of us in your own way ,sometimes teasing, sometimes comforting,sometimes encouraging. Your own frailties became a strength connecting you to all of us. Thank you for all you did. Rest in Peace my friend. We know you are with The Risen Lord who always was your source of strength and now welcomes you home!
Terry &Dan McDonald
January 22, 2013
Father Rohan, Words can't express the loss wie felt upon hearing of your passing. Your presence, your wonderful sense of humor as well as your booming laughter all lit up a room. You will always be with us and you resting peacefully up above will be our comfort. Love,
January 22, 2013
Dear Father...thank you for caring for my heart when my brother died, by welcoming me into your rectory for many talks. you had a similar experience when your brother died and the care of your mother rested in your hands. I always felt lighter when I left. God grant that you feel all the joy of the Ultimate Light and Love for eternity.
Sharon Parent Fournier
January 22, 2013
Father Rohan your dedication to God's Word is something we will always be grateful for. Your wisdom, guidance, loving concern and encouragement meant so much to us. Especially the beautiful mass you gave for our mother at St Rose almost 7 years ago.
The Parent-Fournier Family
Traci Washburn
January 22, 2013
As sad as I was to hear the passing of Father Rohan, who bravely smiled through many painful and hard days of illness, I am also lightened knowing peace had finally come to him. What joys have been opened to him now that he is free from this earthly place? All of us can imagine and almost hear another of his lovely sermons enriching us to the newest wonders of the Lord! God Bless his family & friends during these difficult transitions ahead.
January 22, 2013
Father Rohan is at peace now but will be missed by many. The gifts he shared with us will be his legacy and our comfort for now. Elaine Cooley, South Windsor
Peggy & Rich Kenney
January 22, 2013
Fr. Rohan (aka "Cupcake") was a wonderful man and so full of wit, charm and a way to make people feel special. He was a real gem who can never be replaced.
We miss you already.
Love always,
Di Napoli Family
January 22, 2013
Father Rohan will be missed by alot who know him. Are Prays and thoughts are with you all at this time.
Vilma Canales
January 22, 2013
Heaven has received a magnificent Angel in Father Rohan! ... Dear Father Rohan, thank you so much for having placed your trust in me for six years inviting me to join of the Pastoral Council at St. Rose. You always believed that the Hispanic community had so much to give to St. Rose, in East Hartford. You predicted how the community would flourish and indeed, we went from a very few parishioners, to well over 500 under your leadership! You were always a great leader and such an inspiration to all of us! While my mother has been battling a very aggressive cancer for the past four and a half years, I often thought of how brave you were! You were always in my prayers and now I know you must be smiling up in Heaven with our Lord, resting in peace. Our community will be forever grateful to you and will miss your charismatic laughter ...
Cathy (and Brian) Hartley
January 22, 2013
Our prayers are with you, Fr. Rohan. We are glad you do not have to deal with that terrible cancer any longer.
God our Father,
Your power brings us to birth,
Your providence guides our lives,
and by Your command we return to dust.
Lord, those who die still live in Your presence, their lives change but do not end. I pray for Fr. Rohan's soul and in hope, peace and love for Fr. Rohan's family, relatives and friends in this time of loss.
Laura
January 22, 2013
Father Rohan was a huge comfort and support to me in 1988 when my first husband died unexpectedly at Hartford Hospital. I will always remember him.
Cindy Clark
January 22, 2013
Father Rohan was a great man and pastor. He will be deeply missed.
Alice & Rick D'Attilio
January 22, 2013
Rest in Peace Father. We thank you for all your work for St.Mary's church and will miss your big booming voice.
Mary Dignoti
January 22, 2013
Father Rohan was a dear pastor and friend to all that knew him. I will miss talking to him and pray that he is in a better place with God.
Helen DuPerry
January 22, 2013
May you rest in peace Father. You will be missed by all.
The Brennan Family
January 22, 2013
You have ment so much to so many, may your rest peacefully as God cradles you in the palms of his hands.
john macdonald
January 22, 2013
This is a sad day for all of us we lost a great man.No one could deliver a better homily. Very good friend and mentor. He was simply the best
Ellis Paulman
January 22, 2013
Father Rohan's homilies were always inspiring to my mother and me. He delivered them with a clear, strong voice and he used that voice to great effect when singing the hymns during Mass. He had a wonderful singing voice! Our cluster of churches in East Hartford was blessed to have him as our pastor because his leadership skills and business sense helped to make the linking of the three churches in our cluster a success. Other churches in the Greater Hartford area invited him to speak to them so he could share his clustering experiences with them. He will be greatly missed, and we are grateful that we had him as our pastor during a critical time in the life of our parish (St. Isaac Jogues).
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