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Raymond Anthony Zapor

1934 - 2024

Raymond Anthony Zapor obituary, 1934-2024, Lexington, SC

BORN

1934

DIED

2024

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Blumenstein Funeral Home

142 East Center Street

Manchester, Connecticut

Raymond Zapor Obituary

Raymond Anthony Zapor
October 8, 1934 - October 3, 2024
Raymond Anthony Zapor ("Zip", to those who knew him) died peacefully, just shy of his 90th birthday on October 3rd, at the National Healthcare Center in Lexington, South Carolina. Born and raised in New Britain, Connecticut, Raymond was a 1952 graduate of New Britain High School, where he excelled as a saxophonist and led the band. He subsequently drove a city bus, before embarking on a twenty-six-year storied career as a corrections officer, first at Wethersfield State Prison and then at the maximum-security penitentiary in Somers, Connecticut, where he taught combatives and helped stand up the CERT (SWAT) team. Raymond had countless anecdotes from his time as a prison guard and delighted in regaling family with his stories. These included recounting numerous prison riots as well as time spent conversing with condemned inmate Joseph Taborsky.
Upon retiring from the prison, Raymond held a number of jobs, including working security and driving an armored car. Eventually, he retired fully and devoted his time to his wife and bragging about his children. Raymond leaves behind his wife of sixty-two years, Marsha Zapor (née Climan), three children, Mari' Schectman of Windsor, Connecticut, Scott Zapor of Lexington, South Carolina, and Dr. Michael Zapor of Kearneysville, West Virginia, as well as ten grandchildren.
Interment will consist of a small private graveside service in Connecticut. The family asks that anyone wishing to make a contribution in Zip's memory donate to the National Healthcare Center in Lexington, South Carolina or to the hospice of their choice.

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Published by Journal Inquirer on Oct. 5, 2024.

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Dennis Morgan

November 1, 2024

Ray was already a seasoned veteran when I started with the CT. Dept. Of Correction, and everyone knew Ray. The ultimate professional. Over the past few years, reconnecting with him on facebook was nice, and now sadness greets me and many of us who worked with Ray in learning of his passing. May God bless you, his family in this time of sorrow.

Scott Zapor

October 4, 2024

I love you dad. You still are my best friend and hero

Scott

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Lillian, Krystal and Morgan

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Rene' and Donald Brown

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Sharron Zapor

Sent Flowers

Shearree

October 3, 2024

Condolences from Shearree and Lew (Rachel´s in-law´s) to the family. We know he is resting peacefully.

Jeffrey Levine

October 3, 2024

Condolences from Nadia and myself to your family. May he rest in peace.

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11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Ellington Center Cemetery

95 Maple Street, Ellington, CT 06029

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Blumenstein Funeral Home

142 East Center Street, Manchester, CT 06040

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