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Tad Kapitke Obituary

Tad Kapitke, 39, of Tolland, passed away unexpectedly Sunday, June 14, 2009, at Hartford Hospital.

Tad was born on Jan. 28, 1970, son of Arthur and Donna Kapitke of Williston, Fla., formerly of Manchester. He was survived by his siblings, Darcy White and her husband, Troy, of Tolland, and Kory Kapitke of Seattle, Wash. He also leaves his cherished niece and nephew, Jordan and Miranda White of Tolland.

He was an Eagle Scout from Troop 25 in Manchester.

A celebration of his life will gather at Darcy Whites, 40 Peter Green Road, Tolland, on Thursday, June 18, 2009, from 2 to 7 p.m.

The arrangements have been entrusted to Tolland Memorial Funeral Home. For online condolences, please visit

www.pietrasfuneralhome.com

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Published by Journal Inquirer from Jun. 17 to Jun. 21, 2009.

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June 14, 2010

Thinking of you today....a year later.

Michael Dore

August 18, 2009

My deepest condolences to the Kapitke family in your time of grief. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Hal Brown

July 11, 2009

My condolences on your loss, I remember Tad from Keeney St School as well as Troop 25. I am sure heaven is a bit brighter with his wit and humor.

Christine Hurst

June 24, 2009

Tad, to my childhood classmate at Keeney ST School...that smile & sense of humor, at such a young age, would make everyone laugh at school, even the teachers. May we all unite under that smile and think of our dear friend for whom will sadly be missed.

Jim Burns

June 23, 2009

Darcy/Troy I'm sorry to here of your loss, find strength in each other and cherish the memories that you shared.

Karen Perry (Hubley)

June 19, 2009

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Kapitke
I pray that the Lord gives you comfort in this time of sorrow. May Tad and your family find the peace that can come from above. He will be missed but not forgotten. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. Take care and God bless.

Lisa DeLisle-Young

June 18, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

June 18, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cathy (Kalinauskas) Mynahan

June 18, 2009

May memories bring a smile to your face and mend the empty hole in your hearts. Tad, I hope that you have found peace...shine on!

Phil & Peg Nolan

June 18, 2009

The ones we have loved remain with us always and the beautiful memories go on forever. May you all find strength and peace in the knowledge that life is eternal.

Lisa Lombardo

June 18, 2009

Tad, you were taken too soon from us, which is hard for us to understand, but I know God has other plans for you. You will be sadly missed!

Your Friend

Lisa Lombardo

Melissa Yarnot

June 18, 2009

It is with great sorrow that I express my heartfelt condolences to the Kapitke family. Having known Tad since Keeney Street School, I was always fond of his sense of humor and genuine good nature. We reconnected a year or so ago and had great conversations about all manner of things. I take solace that he is healed, in the realm of the lord and looking down over us all.

Kelly Maly

June 17, 2009

Tad will be missed dearly by all. He was always a kidder and had a great sense of humor that made High School bearable. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Kelley (Jennings) Landry

June 17, 2009

Kapitke Family,

A star has been added up in Heaven. When we look up and see the brightest twinkling star we will all know it is Tad smiling down at us.

My deepest sympathy,

Pat & Dave McNally and family

June 17, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

denise voog

June 17, 2009

my prayers are with the Kaptike family at this time of loss. Tad will deeply be missed, always in my heart.

Lisa Mendez

June 17, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of mourning and celebration of Tad's life. with deepest sympathy....

Julie (Kot) Parkyn

June 17, 2009

Remembrance is a golden chain
Death tries to break,
but all in vain.
To have, to love, and then to part
Is the greatest sorrow of one's heart.
The years may wipe out many things
But some they wipe out never.
Like memories of those happy times
When we were all together.

~ Author Unknown

Godspeed, Tad.

My thoughts are with the family.

Jennifer Baver Ranallo

June 17, 2009

I was so shocked to hear of Tad's passing. I hadn't seen him since High School, but I always remembered him fondly. He was such a fun person to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with you and with Tad.

Heidi Haddock

June 17, 2009

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Kapitke family. Tad you will be missed deeply and im honored to have memories of you and our times together. You always seem to brighten a room. We will never forget you. you will forever be in our hearts.

robert sullivan

June 17, 2009

tad u wil be missed. i am so sorry for your loss and my deepest sympathy to the kapitke family.
tad u are gone but never forgotten!!!!!!!

June 17, 2009

tad you will be missed my deepest sympathy goes out to the kapitke family tad you are now with your savior in peace you are gone but never forgotten

MILDRED SANTIAGO

June 17, 2009

tad you will be missed my deepest sympathy goes out to the kapitke family tad you are now with your savior in peace you are gone but never forgotten

Christina N.

June 17, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies to you and your family and my prayers are with you.

Irene Arabek

June 17, 2009

Dear Art, Donna, Kory, Darcy, Troy, Jordan and Miranda:
Please accept my sincerest sympathy on the loss of your most beloved child, brother and uncle, he is your shining star in the sky now, who will be looking down at you all now. He will remember all you ever did for him and the love you all shared. He is now able to dance with the ANGELS and be happy. May you rest in peace Tad until we all meet again.

Ashley Bonetti

June 17, 2009

My thoughts & prayers are with you. Rest in peace.

<3 Ashley

Tina Bonetti

June 17, 2009

My heart is torn that angles came to take you home Tad, but i try to find comfort that you are no longer suffering. Now you lay in the arms of Jesus and can become an angle to watch over me. My most tender sympathy goes out to his family. No words can express the pain you are going through. Just remember you were truely loved by so many people. I will never forget your beautiful smile. Till we meet again.......

Love Tina Bonetti

Lynn Banaeige

June 17, 2009

The entire Kapitke family,
I am so very sorry for your loss.My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Love Lynn Banaeige

Tina Madore

June 17, 2009

I will always remember the good memories I was lucky enough to share with Tad and his family, his 30th birthday party, going to Vermont to see his mom and Poppy, road trips and of course the races. I know words can never express my sympathy or make this any easier. Please know that you are all in my thoughts.

mildred santaigo

June 17, 2009

Tad you will be missed I love you now you are with your savior we have a angel in heaven

Colin C

June 17, 2009

Tad, you are home where the worries and wears of this world can no longer hurt you. May you find joy in the company of Angels. You will be missed.

Barb Mozzer

June 17, 2009

Donna and Art,

Although at times of sorrow there's so little words can say, still may these words of sympathy help comfort you today. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Chief Bob Bycholski

June 17, 2009

On behalf of the men and women of the Manchester Fire Rescue EMS Department, we join in extending heartfelt sympathy to you and your family at this time of sorrow.

The Bonetti Family

June 17, 2009

Our prayers are with all of you.May God bless you in your time of grief.

jeff nelson

June 17, 2009

I have fond memories of Troop 25 days . My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Dan Huppe

June 17, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

June 17, 2009

My heart is torn that angles came to take you home Tad, but i try to find comfort that you are no longer suffering. Now you lay in the arms of Jesus and can become an angle to watch over me. My most tender sympathy goes out to his family. No words can express the pain you are going through. Just remember he was truely loved by so many people. I will never forget his beautiful smile. Till we meet again.......

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