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John Arrigo
1954 - 2025
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John Arrigo Obituary
Born on November 2, 1954, in Lincoln, Neb., John earned a degree in Geology from the University of Nebraska and a Master's in Hydrogeology from the University of Idaho. He worked for the Montana Department of Environmental Quality for 33 years, retiring in 2018. John then began his most cherished role as a devoted stay-at-home father. John's love for his wife and sons was something he lived and celebrated every day.
John's vibrant personality was larger than life. He led countless adventures and was an avid sportsman, gifted handyman and talented potter. His humor, energy and love of life will be deeply missed by his family and friends. He touched everyone he met.
John is survived by his wife, Rachel; and twin sons, Talus Arrigo and Rowen Arrigo, all of Clancy. Other survivors include sisters: Kathy Merritt, Patty Valinch, Marilyn (Charles) Schmidt, Kris Scheer and Vicki (Mike) Valaika; brothers: Joe (Jeanine) Arrigo and Ron Arrigo; mother-in-law, Kathy Clark (Lee Sterner); sisters-in law, Stephanie Itzen (Wade) and Angela Sulzer (Stephen). Other survivors are many nieces and nephews who loved and adored John.
He is preceded in death by his parents, Victoria and Santo Arrigo; and brothers-in-law, Jerry Merritt and John Valinch.
A private service is planned for next summer.
John desired memorials in his name to be sent to the Prickly Pair Land Trust.
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Cinda Stewart
November 7, 2025
John was a class mate of the graduation class of 1972 Lincoln High. He loved life.
Mary beth linder
November 6, 2025
John was absolutely the best neighbor anyone could have on holter street. He helped our family be the "fun uncle" in raising our 3 sons. Much laughter, roly-poly activities in our backyards. A great man.
Jim Nolan
November 6, 2025
He was a very nice man. Played golf with him a few times. Always very much fun to be around. My prayers to his family
Sue Philipps
November 6, 2025
Patty, I think you and I met many years ago. My husband was Jim Philipps and best friends with Bill. Jim passed a year ago and I know that you lost John too. I'm so sorry to see you have now lost your brother. Wishing you blessings and peace on yet another grief journey for you. May he rest in peace.
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