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Robert A. Skochdopole 84, Kansas City, formerly of Omaha, died Sunday (3/1/09). Born in Ravenna, Neb. J.D. from University of Nebraska 1954. U.S. Navy Veteran - WWII and Korean Conflict.
Survivors include wife, Marylois Gibbs Skochdopole; and five children: Sara Holman, John Skochdopole, Joe Skochdopole, Steve Skochdopole, Abbie McKnight; brother, Richard Skochdopole; and 12 grandchildren.
Visitation 6-8 p.m. Thursday (3/5/09) at John A. Gentleman Westside Chapel. Funeral 1:30 p.m. Friday at St. Margaret Mary's Catholic Church. Private graveside service. Memorials to Creighton Prep, Duchesne Academy or University Alzheimers Research Fund.



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Published by Lincoln Journal Star on Mar. 4, 2009.

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Abbie Skochdopole McKnight

March 28, 2009

Dear Dad,
Having been without you for a few weeks now, I realize the things about you that impacted me most: Your twinkling eye when I entered the room telling me that I was still someone special; the memory of your sage advice - always cutting to the chase and giving me the straight answer; your steady sense of humor - I think I took comfort in your predictable verses. Your grandkids miss you terribly and I can't express the emptiness that I fell when I think that you are away forever. You left an amazing impact on your family and your community. You certainly had a life well-lived and can feel content in knowing that you helped nurture some pretty amazing people. Have a cocktail in Heaven and watch over us! I'll take good care of Mom for you. Love, Dr. Miss Ab

Amy Skochdopole

March 24, 2009

This was written the day Skoch passed by his 6 year old granddaughter...

March 1, 2009
My Dad's Dad died today.

I never thought that it would be this way. My Dad was trying to go see him again.
Grandpa Skochy was a great grandpa. I really miss him now, that's why we are going to go see his grave and see my cousins.
I am quite sad that he died. The doctors couldn't do anything about it.
Daddy was there just a few weeks ago for Grandpa's 84th birthday.
I wanted to go back and see him too, and I am really sad that he died.
My family misses him.

Barney Skochdopole

March 11, 2009

My admirable father left me with some guiding principles and some priceless witticisms, much more impressive than his personal accomplishments, in my eyes. Although who the heck gets three holes-in-one with a perpetual 14 handicap!
He taught me to always deal with integrity, to be accountable, to be fair, to be honorable, to be prepared, to be flexible, to be accessible and to always be formidable. He practiced and preached to never turn away from any challenge (aim for the moon and you might make it over the stump!) to be out front with courage and conviction and to earn respect. He taught me to revel in the success of others with sincerity. I learned to trust people more than I might, to cater to my audience and to the occasion, and to enjoy any event for what it is. Skoch believed to be above no one, interesting to everyone and to not accept being a lesser man to anyone. He taught me to give. He taught me that stumbling is acceptable and always forgivable, and that a person's character is what really matters. Bring a sharp wit and an empathethic ear in each pocket and learn when to use which. To bring levity to every situation you can, to make full use of the gifts God gave you in particular and live a well-rounded life. Oh and also, pay others to manage your money properly.
If I have half the impact on my children and their cousins and friends that he left on me I will consider my legacy a successful one.
I want to thank all that came to the celebration, and all that couldn't, but were there in spirit, and all who wrote in and phoned in and offered support and memories. He was proud of all of you in his life as well!
Joe said it well. Enjoy the friends and family that had gone on before you Daddio. I'm sure they are anxious to see you again!
I will miss you more than is comfortable, for a while here anyway, my friend.
I'll be seeking your advice often.
Bye bye, Pop...

BABETTE & JIM FEIBEL

March 9, 2009

SARA,

JULIE FORWARDED US YOUR LETTER AND YOUR DAD'S OBIT. WE ONLY KNEW HIM BRIEFLY BUT WE HEAR ALL ABOUT YOU AND WILL AND KNOW WHAT A GOOD DAD HE MUST HAVE BEEN TO HAVE BEEN YOUR FATHER. OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ESPECIALLY YOUR MOM. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

FONDLY,

BABETTE & JIM FEIBEL (JULIE'S MOM & DAD)

Brian Curtis

March 9, 2009

Marylois and the entire Skochdopole family....my heart goes out to each of you at the loss of your husband and father. Skoch was a terrific man who made friends with everyone he came in contact with. Although I only knew him for a brief time when he and Marylois lived at Pacific Springs Village, I will always be touched by the love he showed to his entire family. He loved each of you very much and was most happy when all of you were together on your family outings. Although he is gone from his earthly home he is at peace in heaven and living the life he truly deserves. May God continue to bless you with his memories and may He comfort your hearts in the days, weeks and months ahead. God's blessing to each of you.

Joe Skochdopole

March 9, 2009

A son could not ask for a better father. He taught me to fish, hunt, and play golf. I always had a companion when it came time to do something outdoors.
He instilled a sense of honor and integrity in me as a youngster.
His life was a storybook one. With the military service and contributions to his family and the community, he was a philanthropist and a pillar of his community.
I will miss you Dad, but know that you are in a better place with your old buddies and family members.
Your grateful son-Joe

Jane Lemmers

March 9, 2009

Dear Marylois, Sara, John, Joe, Steve and Abbie,
I have such fond memories of him cooking weekend breakfast. I have never laughed so hard before lunchtime. He was a master of wit and one-liners. Turk always spoke fondly of him.
I send heartfelt condolences, love and prayers to you all,

sara holman

March 8, 2009

I'll sure miss you dad - but I know you're at peace now after many years with such a debilitating illness. You had a bountiful life surrounded by incredible people who love you. You lit up a room when you entered it and had a gift of understanding the essence of things....endlessly pragmatic and logical but balanced with humor. You would have wanted to be at your own memorial service, wake, burial and reception - we did you proud! I promise we'll take good care of your Loysey. With much love, your daughter,

Sally Teagle

March 7, 2009

Thinking of all of you. I have not been back to Omaha for any LSU games since 2000, but fondly remember the times we shared. My mother Erma was so fond of all of you. Enjoyed every moment I spent with you and your family. MaryLois - I so enjoyed your book. Sally Ely Teagle - first cousin, Monroe, Louisiana

Bill Fead

March 5, 2009

Thanks for your Military Service.
Past Commander V.F.W.

Pat Shannon

March 5, 2009

Mrs. Skochdopole, John, Joe, Steve and the rest of the family, my condolences on the loss of your husband, father and friend. May "Skoch" rest in peace!

H. David Neely, Sr.

March 5, 2009

Skoch was a good friend and a fine lawyer, with a wonderful sense of humor. He will be greatly missed!

Julie and Randy Friedlander

March 5, 2009

Skochdopole Family,
Our thoughts are with you as we heard the sad news. Your father, husband and grandfather had so much spunk and really seemed to love life as we remember him.
Love,
The Friedlanders

Paula Bunce

March 4, 2009

Dear MaryLois,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tricia Brundo Sharrar

March 4, 2009

Abbie,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gates Minnick

March 4, 2009

Skoch was a good friend and will be sorely missed by many.

Joan and Don Cimpl

March 4, 2009

What a great gift to be able to give someone -- a hearty laugh and a good story. This was Skoch. We lost track of him the past few years, but always remember him and his wife as friendly, fun loving people. Our love and prayers.

Anne Rohling

March 4, 2009

Dear Marylois, Abbie, and Beautiful Skochdopole Family:

Tom and I have heavy hearts this week, as we pray for your treasured husband and father ("Skoch"), and as we pray for each of you during this difficult time.

Though I don't have direct, "over the fence" memories of the fun-loving, faith-filled community that Bob and Marylois built throughout their lives, I (Anne) have heard plenty of fond memories! I have also witnessed how friendship can resonate over the years, through people like the Skochdopoles.

And we want Marylois to know how much LOVE and faithful, cheerful energy we feel, every time we get the special chance to interact with any member of the Skochdopole family.

Bob and Marylois's loving words and kind acts are known to many, and I trust each their children know how meaningful you are to every Rohling, far and wide.

Great love can truly begin in your own back yard...

We wish we could be with you this week and we send our prayers for "Skoch" and for each member of his lovely family.

Tom, Anne & Elle Rohling
Leawood, KS

VICKI AND JIM DINSMORE

March 4, 2009

DEAR MARY LOIS,
WE ARE THINKING OF YOU AND SEND OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS. SKOCH WAS A DEAR FRIEND AND NEIGHBOR.

Dodie and Fred Cloninger and the Billig Family

March 3, 2009

Marylois and Family,
We will all miss him and his little anecdotes. He was quite the storyteller. Our sympathy and prayers are with you.

Suzy Kratochvil

March 3, 2009

On behalf of the Associated Alumnae and Alumni of the Sacred Heart (AASH), I want to express our deepest sympathy on the recent passing of Robert.

Know that your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

In the Heart,
Suzy Kratochvil
Corresponding Secretary
AASH (Associated Alumnae and Alumni of the Sacred Heart)

Tom Kaczmarowski

March 3, 2009

Our sincere condolences to the entire Skochdopole family - I know Bob will be sorely missed. I've had the extreme pleasure of meeting most, if not all, of the Skochdopole siblings (and some spouses - thru my very good friend Steve) as well as Bob and Marylois the very few times I was in Omaha. All good people - great senses of humor - all very important in this life. I still convey the story of when we were over for dinner and Bob shared with me his Gary Larson comic on the refrigerator ("No, I'm Al Tilly - the bumb" - insert his laugh here) and his hunting dog that could swallow golf balls, but not pass them.

Our very sincere condolences.

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