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Allen Belonger Obituary

Belonger, Allen J. Of Waukesha, died suddenly on July 11, 2009, at the age of 62 while biking his newest passion. Beloved husband of Bonnie, loving father of Philip (fiancé Margaret) Belonger. Treasured and beloved son of Elaine and the late Ivan Belonger. Cherished step-father of Shelly and step grandfather of Lauren, Genna, and Drew. Dear brother of David (Kathy), Brian (Dorothy), Chris (Anita), Linda (Tony), Warren (Terri), Ann (Scott) and Paul (Richey) Belonger. Also lovingly survived by Kay, nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends. Visitation Thursday, July 16, at the funeral home from 3:00PM until the time of services at 6:00PM. Private family cemetery services. In lieu of flowers, memorials to Compassion International (a Christian children's sponsorship ministry), would be appreciated. After serving in Vietnam, Allen graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison, School of Pharmacy. He then went on to become a well-known healthcare executive. "Allen was not a man of many words, but he was a man of words, when he spoke, you listened." Sympathy Expressions www.BeckerRitter.com BECKER RITTER Michael Feerick Associate 14075 W. North Ave. Brookfield (262)782-5330

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Jul. 14 to Jul. 16, 2009.

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Torben Pedersen

December 28, 2011

I had the pleasure to stay with Allen in the summer of 1977 as a young student from Denmark.
I've been trying for years to get back to Allen, because I had so many fond memories of Allan and what we did together.
May I express my condolences to the family.
Torben H. Pedersen - Denmark

February 7, 2010

Bonnie and Family:

I had the pleasure of working with Allen for 12 years at Stein Medical. In that time, he was my supervisor, mentor and a great sounding block as we grew and grew. He had a wicked sense of humor and a quietness when you needed to vent. I have since left the area and spent many years overseas. I only recently learned of this tragic event and want to offer all prayers and condolences to you and your family.

Jacqueline Tort-Johansson

December 18, 2009

Hi, this may not belong here but I had to try. I recently found a oil painting, painted by I.J. Belonger so I was wondering if Ivan Belonger did some painting. It was painted in 1950 said it was his first oil painting called "heart of the shanty" feel free to email me [email protected] and sorry for your lose. also sorry if I have the wrong family.

genevieve koster

November 28, 2009

allen, i miss you so much and there isn't a day that goes by where we don't think of you. Nana's getting better but will never be healed. We had our first thanksgiving without you and let me tell you, it isn't the same. We toasted to you and had a moment. I love you so much and I hope your doing well.
love,
your grand-daughter
genevieve

September 1, 2009

I worked for Allen for a few years and was completely shocked to hear of his untimely death. He had an amazing spirit and I hope that's one of the special things about him that his family will carry on.

Mike Schneider

July 20, 2009

My thoughts are with you. I have had the extreme pleasure to work with Allen over the last 16 years. His wisdom and open door will be missed.

Chris Beloin

July 20, 2009

We will miss Allen greatly! He is my wife's cousin and we saw him frequently during his visits to Two Rivers.

Allen and I rode to Point Beach State Park and Mishicot two weeks before his accident and planned on riding from Grafton to Two Rivers the last week of July.

John S

July 17, 2009

To the family of Allen Belonger, I never met Allen, yet I know him in the sense that cycling was his passion. I too am a cyclist that was on the same ride as Allen on that fateful day.

As a now grown man who suddenly and unexpectedly lost his father at age 12, I understand the shock at suddenly losing someone you love. In the blink of an eye, they're gone.

The sudden death of my father took its toll on me for many years. Too many years to count.

One day I finally came to understand something very important. I realized that if my dad could look down and see me, his biggest disappointment would be that I was not happy. I was still mourning his passing, concentrating on what I had lost.

My life changed the day I realized that the best way to honor my dad was to celebrate the life I had with him.

I no longer miss him, because wherever I go, whatever I do, I take his spirit with me. I no longer mourn his passing, but celebrate his life. I count myself as one of the luckiest men on earth to have had such a fine father for those 12 years.

When that time to mourn has passed, please celebrate who Allen was and what he meant to you.

As a father, a son and a husband, that is what I would want for my own family.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Allen sounds like the kind of husband, father, son and friend that everyone would be fortunate to have known.

July 17, 2009

My prayers are with you all. I had the good fortune to work with Allen many years ago at Stein Medical. His quiet leadership, quick wit and compassion for all has positively impacted countless lives.

With care,
Lynne Wichmann, Wild Rose

Cody Abrahamson

July 16, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Lorraine McGraham

July 16, 2009

You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard the terrible news. He was a very kind man and very easy to talk to. I will miss seeing him coming into our office

Martin Del Tio

July 16, 2009

To the Belonger family: My heart and prayers are extended to you during this difficult time. I was fortunate enough to work with Allen and get to know him as well. He was a great mentor and friend. He will truly be missed.

Mary Ruppenthal

July 16, 2009

My Dearest Friend Bonnie ~
I know how shocking and difficult this is for you and Allen's family and friends. Allen had to be a wonderful man to have won your heart. He will be greatly missed my one and all. My thoughts are with you.

Brenda Panten

July 16, 2009

I have known Allen for over 10 years, when I became employed with UPC. He was always there to listen and you really felt like you had somebody in your corner where Allen was concerned. He will be greatly missed by so many and my deepest sympathies and condolences go out to his family and to every life that he touched. We are all lucky to have known him, if only for awhile.

Tom Lindl

July 16, 2009

I am so sorry for your family's loss. I worked briefly with Allen and he left such a strong impression of decency and knowledge. A gentleman, truly.

Nancy Goebel

July 16, 2009

I had the pleasure of working with Allen for several years at Walgreens. He was a mentor and friend to many of us. Thoughtful, considerate, compassionate and kind are words that come to mind.
I will remember his smile and twinkle in his eye.
He was a man of few words, but when he spoke, you listened (and learned).
My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

July 16, 2009

Bonnie,

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love,

Chas

July 15, 2009

Bonnie, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I am so sorry for your loss.

Chris Moreira (a co-worker at Luci's)

Gail and Brad Kimmes

July 15, 2009

Allen was a great guy and my cousin. I really enjoyed talking with him and he was always quick to lend a hand. My dad adored Allen and if you knew my dad you know what great praise that is. Gail's and my thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. May God Bless.

Connie Meyer,RN

July 15, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Gwendolyn Roby

July 15, 2009

Allen will definately be missed! My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Allen was always someone I can talk to regarding any problems or issues that I may have had. He was a great person that I had the pleasure to work with!

Madeline Schroeder

July 15, 2009

Dear Mrs Belonger and family, my condolences are with your family. I would like to say that Mr. Belonger was a gentle,kind man which would listen when you would go to him with work related concerns. He would think of others before himself and he would take action at that moment address obstacles that he felt were unfare. I'll never forget when I first met him I was walking to the lunch room and by the corner of my eye I notice a tall gentleman sitting quietly typing into his laptop at the moment I was feeling a strong panic attack and did not know what to do all of a sudden a little voice said to me go and talk to that man and a second voice said don't do it, but the first voice was much stronger so I was obedient and I walked into his office at that moment I saw in his eyes a soft and gentle spirit which allowed me to feel aburden that was lifted of me when I poured out my concerns and worries to this loving and wonderful man. I will always remember Mr. Belonger may God Bless the family and that the perfect peace of God keep you strong through these painful time of pain.

God Bless

Madeline Schroeder
Psalms 23

Diane (Elfner) Ayers

July 15, 2009

I was totally shocked to hear of Allen's tragic accident.  Having known him years ago, I know he was a wonderful person and had a smile for everyone.My sincerest condonences to his family and my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad and trying time.

Stan van der Kooy

July 15, 2009

Bonnie and family;
Although I have not seen Allen for several years I will always cherish the fond memories of all the hours we spent together on the volleyball court. I will remember him as a quiet respectful man of many talents, with a good sense of humor and a heart of gold. He will surely be missed. My deepest sympathy for your lose.

Candy Curtis

July 15, 2009

There are never the right words to express your feelings when something like this happens. I will always remember Allen's sense of calm and patience and appreciate his willingness to lend an ear whenever needed. My heart goes out to his family and friends.

Cheryl Moll

July 15, 2009

My heart goes out to Allen's family. Nothing can take away the pain of losing Allen but hopefully the friends and family he had can comfort each other now. He was a leader with a great heart. Always willing to help in any way he could. Always trying to find a way to make it work for everyone. I knew of him through mutual friends since 1988 and had the pleasure of working for/with him since 1991. He has always been an inspiration. He will be greatly missed in the many circles of friends and colleagues he made and the family he left.

Tom Rout

July 15, 2009

Walgreens won't be the same without Allen's kindness, leadership, humor, intelligence, and honesty. I pray to God to save his soul and for his family in their loss.

Kevin Serio

July 15, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jane Conarchy

July 14, 2009

The life of one we love is never lost . . . but lives on through all the lives it ever touched. Allen has touched many lives, he will be remembered and missed by many. Thinking of his wife, mother, family and friends and wishing you comfort and peace. From a long time friend who met AJ at Family Hospital. I'm glad to have been apart of his life.

Jeff Wills

July 14, 2009

I was so shocked to learn of the loss of Allen this week. Simply said, Allen was the man I strive to be. After selling our company to the Walgreen Co. a few years back, we met Allen as our Regional Manager. He became our friend and held our hands through all the changes. He provided wisdom and a wonderful listening ear. Always consistent and clear. I cherish the memories with Allen.

Brad & Chris Kobs

July 14, 2009

Our hearts go out to the Belonger family and AJ's friends. We were shocked and saddened by the news of his passing. We worked with AJ at Stein medical until 1989. He was a quiet, compassionate man who always wore a smile, and will be missed by many.

Andy Olivares

July 14, 2009

I have known Allen for four years and have learned to appreciate his knowledge and unique leadership style. I use to stop by his office and talk about his time during vietnam war. He also, gave me useful advise on how to improve my professional career. Allen was respected as a professional and beloved as a person. My deepest condolences to the Belonger family. Allen will be missed but not forgotten.

Tracey Guthrie

July 14, 2009

To The Belonger Family you are in My Prayers. I met Allen at upc Stein Medical and he was a very kind and soft spoken man. May God Bless You!

July 14, 2009

I'm sosorry to learn of Allen's tragic death. He was a classmate of mine from Washington High School and we are planning our 45th reunion for next month. He will be remembered fondly as we gather. May God be with you in the days ahead to give you strength and peace.
Judy (Boltz) Ray, Two Rivers, WI

Deb Schmelling

July 14, 2009

In our live time we met people that just being around them makes us better, Allen was on of those people. Having him as a mentor and friend is a gift that will always be with me.

Alana (Graycarek) Matheys

July 14, 2009

Allen and I were friends from grade school through high school back in our home town, Two Rivers, Wisconsin. I will always remember his great, warm smile. My sincere condolences to the Belonger family.

July 14, 2009

Bonnie & Family,
I did not have the opportunity to get to know Allen that well, but I do know losing a loved one is painful. My thoughts and understanding sympathies are with you.
Vickie Golden Messing, Hayden, CO

Angela Moore

July 14, 2009

I was shocked by this terrible news. Allen was a wonderful person, and my life was better just for having known him. My condolences to the Belonger family, and my prayers are with you all.

Howard Messerman

July 14, 2009

To the Belonger family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. I have lots of Two Rivers memories. I'm very sorry that Dave won't be with the family. Shari and Howard Messerman

Denise Hussinger

July 14, 2009

My dearest Friend Bonnie, I have no words to express the grief I feel for you and your family. You have always been there for me to lean on since my husband became ill with cancer...I want you to know I'm here for you. Let me know if I can do anything. I wanted to bring by a prepared meal but just realized I don't have your home address. I will pray for Allen, you and your family during this time of sorrow. Try to remember the good times together. God be with you friend!

Robin Kosiek

July 14, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss and will pray all of his family and friends. I worked with Allen and thought him to be a great man and good listener to every employee, regardless of title or position. I will miss him.

Ben Carrier

July 14, 2009

To me Allen was someone I looked up to a great deal. He was the type of leader that others wanted to follow. He will be greatly missed My most heartfelt Sympathy to all of you.

Pete Mortimer

July 14, 2009

I knew Allen quite well as a youngster being very good friends with his son Phil and he was never anything but a friendly, funny, and kind hearted man to me and all of us kids. My deepest sympathies go out to his family and to all who mourn for his loss.

Mark Westen

July 14, 2009

I graduated with Allen from pharmacy school in 1975 but I remember him best for the time we spent together as pharmacy interns at (now long gone) Family hosptal. Allen and myself as the interns and Conny Sobczak, Hans Muller and Wayne Oberlander (Rocky) spent a great year together and I remember it with fondness. Even then Allen was a man of few words and I can still picture him trying to decide what to say after we interns had to taste all the liquid potassium preperations so we could tell the pharmacists what one was tasted the best.
Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Roland DeRosier

July 14, 2009

Condolences to the family. I just lost my one and only sister Delores (derosier) Rabe july 8. I'm related to the Belongia family here in the Oconto wisconsin area. also the belanger(canadian spelling). Doing the DeRosier family tree I came across lots of spellings of the Belongia(belonga) family. God Bless You. [email protected].

Tami Maine

July 14, 2009

Allen will be greatly missed. We enjoyed his sense of humor and words of wisdom. There is a quote at our facility from Allen " It is what it is". We feel very lucky to have known and worked with Allen. Oklahoma City will miss him. Our best to Allen's family.

Chris Avila

July 14, 2009

My condolences to the Belonger Family, and my prayers also. Allen was alway a gentlemen in everything he did, and from my view he was a man of Character. He will be greatly missed here at Walgreens but his legecy, compassion and that great smile will be remembered for years to come. God Bless.

Cody Abrahamson

July 14, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Sandy Vanderbloemen(Elfner)

July 14, 2009

Bonnie & Family, so sorry to hear about Allen......what a really NICE person he was.. always a smile for everyone, even back in his high school days. Was hoping he was coming home to Two Rivers for his class reunion this yr.cause it would have been great to see and talk to him again after all these yrs. Our thoughts are with you all at this very sad and trying time......Sandy Vanderbloemen(Elfner)

Rhonda Demarest

July 14, 2009

My sincerest condolences to the Belonger Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Allen was very well respected and admired by all who knew him. He will be missed.

Amy Kirby

July 14, 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Of the few times I have met Allen, he was very kind and sweet and will be missed greatly by everyone.

July 14, 2009

CANT IMAGINE THE SHOCK OF THE LOSS OF SUCH A LOVED MAN...........MY SINCEREST CONDOLENCES TO YOU ALL.

Thomas Freeney

July 14, 2009

I'm deeply sadden to have lost a good friend and co-worker. I'm sure that this kind spirted man has touched many lives every where he has gone. My work experience started with Allen in September of 2007-2008, until my job position was elimanated a year afterward, and I remember that Allen once refered to me as his favorite liaison, and I could allways count on Allen to help me on all my questions.

I did remind with that same company doing another job and everytime I saw allen, he allways had kind words to say to me, and he still called me his favorite liaison.

My sincere condolences to his wife Bonnie and Family.

Wayne Oberlander

July 14, 2009

The profession of Pharmacy lost a good man on Saturday. I have known Allen for over 30 years since he came out of Pharmacy School. I never saw him get upset or angry. His passion for Pharmacy was equalled by few. Even though he was not working directly in pharmacy for Walgreens he never forgot his roots. His compassion, sense of humor and inquiring mind will be missed by many. I am lucky to have known and worked with Allen and will miss him. My best to his family.

July 14, 2009

I've only met Allen a few times, but he left quite an impression on me. My condolences to all of his friends and family. Loved one are never gone as long as they remain in your heart.
Cindy B., an Extendicare employee

Aaron Douglas

July 14, 2009

Bonnie, Mike and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Susie (Matt's mom) let us know and we're so upset to hear about this. Know that we're thinking of you.

Shelly Slendebroek

July 14, 2009

Allen was a boss of both my husband and I years ago when UPC became Walgreens. He was a man of compassion and patience and assisted our family when he really did not have to. We will remember him with a smile on his face and a confidence like no other. Our condolences are with the family.

July 14, 2009

I have only known Allen for the 5 years I have worked at Walgreens Option Care and he was always cordial and smiling, he will be greatly missed Jill Konz

Jeri Schweikert

July 14, 2009

Bonnie and family:
I wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Allen was such a wonderful person, and I will miss working with him so much. Allen always made you smile, and always had the best attitude-no matter what My prayers are with all of you -

Kari Retz

July 14, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. I worked for Allen at Stein Medical in the late 80's.
May God comfort you during this most difficult time.

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