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Love, Mom
October 3, 2024
My blessed son, I love and miss you so much.
Ellie
October 4, 2023
I´ve been thinking about Ben this fall, missing him and his sweet smile. -Ellie B
Timmy
October 2, 2023
Always and forever in our prayers and minds! Miss ya
Schmitty
September 30, 2023
Miss ya Benny
Love, Mom
October 3, 2011
Dear Ben,
A year has gone by since I've seen your smiling face and been able to talk with you. I miss our dinners in your kitchen that you made for me with your loving hands when I was done with work. You were such a wonderful gift to me, I hope you knew that. I miss you more each day and always will.
Til we meet again, my beloved son.
Mike Culhane
December 4, 2010
Ben, I will carry this weight with me for a long time. We were best men at each others weddings and you gave me gifts in life I could never expect to repay in full. The old saying works well here: they just dont make ones like you anymore. While you were with us you were many things to many people. To me you were my best friend, always in my mind's eye as you are now. I can only hope to see you again. Jim and Kathy: I just hope you never feel alone in dealing with Ben's loss. We all share it with you.
October 14, 2010
Dear Kathy, my deepest sympathy at this difficult time. I was out of the country and just heard of your tragic loss of Ben from Trina. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. He will be greatly missed but never forgotten. Love to you. Sue Lass
Ellie Baumgartner
October 10, 2010
"It is still so new & all we see is the empty space, but that is not how it is in the landscape of the heart. There, there is no empty space & he still laughs & grapples with ideas & plans & nods wisely with each of us in turn. We are proud to have known him. We are proud to have called him friend." ~ Brian Andreas
Ben was generous, gifted, and loyal. In his short time he managed to influence many lives including my own. He is and will be missed by so many of us. Sending love and comfort.
Mari DeWees
October 8, 2010
Kathy, our deepest sympathy at this terrible time. I know how loved Ben was and how much you'll miss him. We are sending much love and many prayers your way right now. If you need anything at all please let us know. xo
Jean Waid
October 8, 2010
Kathy, you are in my thoughts a prayers! I just heard about the loss of your son, Ben. I cannot imagine what you and all your family are all going through. I have no words to express my sorrow for your loss. Lots of love going out to you!
Matt Losee
October 8, 2010
Some of my first memories from when I was young are "playing star wars" with Ben. He was a great friend over the years and was a thoughtful and caring person to all who crossed his path, he will be greatly missed and never forgotten! My deepest sympathy and prayers to the Hock family.
Lindsay Shoemaker
October 8, 2010
Dear Hock family,
It is with heavy hearts that my family heard the news. My first, and fondest memories of Ben, go all the way back to elementary school when we rode the bus together, and my brother and Ben played soccer together. Ben always had a presence about him that made people smile and laugh. My entire family sends our thoughts and prayers to your family at this difficult time.
(The Shoemaker family)
Katie Tschudy
October 8, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of sorrow. I'm so so sorry to hear about Ben. My deepest sympathies go out to you all. Kathy, if there's anything I can do for you please don't hesitate to call. Sending love and hugs to you all.
October 8, 2010
My deepest sympathies to your family. You will be missed terribly, but never forgotten.
Katie Coleman
October 8, 2010
Hi Kathy, I was so very sorry to read about the loss of Benjamin today and also found out the loss of Adam. I send my deepest sympathy to you. I know you were a great mother to them. All mothers feel your pain today. Our sons were close in age. I have a 5 year old grandson named Ben, I hope he grows to be a fine man like your Ben. Love Marlene Berlinski
Antonella Alferi Macke
October 7, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with the Hock Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Ben, may you rest in peace.
Garrett Thorpe
October 7, 2010
Thoughts and prayers go out to the Hock family. Ben was a great man and had a very big heart. Although I have not seen Ben since highschool I consider him a friend and he will be missed by everyone!He is in good hands and good company now, reunited with Adam. Rest in peace Ben from all the people you are friends with and all the people you have touched in some many ways!
Dave Barlin
October 7, 2010
Jim:
After talking with you a week ago, I could still feel your sorrow over the loss of Adam. I can't imagine the pain you are going through again after losing Ben. My heart-felt sympathies and prayers go out to you and your family.
Brad Cantwell
October 7, 2010
Jim, Kathy and Nicole, you all are in my thoughts & prayers during this incredibly difficult time. While I hadn't been in touch with Ben recently, I always considered it an honor to call him my friend. We shared some great memories over the years -- I'll always remember his laugh, generosity, quick wit, and kindness. He's gone entirely too early and will be dearly missed by all who knew him.
Garrett Thorpe
October 7, 2010
Ben you were a great man who always had his heart in the right place. Even though we have not seen each other since high school I still consider you a friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Hock family. You will truely be missed by all!
Judy Williams
October 7, 2010
My sincere sympathies to all of your family
Becky Lawrentz
October 7, 2010
A THOUSAND WINDS
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow;
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain;
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awake in the morning bush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet in circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there; I did not die.
Kathy, sending you my love and hoping that memories of your Ben will keep you smiling. I will say a prayer for Ben, you and your entire family. Peace.
Lana and Mike Meade
October 7, 2010
Kathy and Jim,
We can't imagine what you are going through right now but please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Our families spent many happy times together and those are cherished memories. Our deepest sympathy to you for your heartbreaking loss.
Dan,Bz,Jami, Shanna Doucette
October 7, 2010
Jim/Marcia
There are no words---
Our thoughts are with you
Dan, Bz, Jami and Shanna Doucette
Keith & Wendy Black
October 7, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to Kathy and the entire family.
The Black family.
Keith & Wendy Black
October 7, 2010
Our deepest sympathy from the Black family next door.
Jen Calemine
October 7, 2010
Sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with Nicole and the entire family during this difficult time.
Valerie Brown
October 7, 2010
Love you Kathy .... sending you prayers for peace and strength.
mike schmitt
October 7, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hock family!
The Schmitt Family
Brian Dillig
October 6, 2010
Was so sorry to hear about Ben - my thoughts go out to his family. Although we haven't stayed in touch often in years, I remember our friendship when I first moved to Brookfield and what a great athlete and well-liked person he was growing up. You will be missed, Ben.
October 6, 2010
Dear Jim,
I cannot comprehend your anguish.
Please know that we are praying that God will comfort you.
Sincerely Jim and Paula Lumsden
AKA Ashippun Nursery
Jim and Robin High
October 6, 2010
Nicole and family, Words can not express how terrible we feel. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you always. The High Family
Carrie Duffy
October 6, 2010
I am so saddened to hear of Ben's passing. This is Danny Basso's sister, Carrie, and I pray for your strength at this time.
Gabrielle & Bryan Schram
October 6, 2010
Nicole and family-
You are in our thoughts and prayers
Nancy Gengembre
October 6, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Barbara Jones
October 6, 2010
Jim, Kathy and family,
I just got a call from Steve who is in Arizona with the army national guard at this time with the awful news of his friend Ben. There is nothing to be said at this time except let you know we are praying for you that you might have the strength to weather this storm. Time heals wounds they say, but our children are with us wherever they are, if even in spirit. I remember the good times with the soccer team and the friends that Steve, Ben and Chris were. I have a wonderful picture that I will treasure always. If Steve could be there for you, you know he would be. He is in thought and prayer. For many years, he was at your house more than at home and thought of you as his second family. Thank you for being there for him. God Bless You!!!
October 6, 2010
Dear Jim and Marcia,
We send our deepest sympathy to you both and your family. Sorry we cannot be with you on Friday.
Cheryl and John Kraak
Rachel Quirk
October 6, 2010
"Death leaves a heartache
no one can heal;
Love leaves a memory no
one can steal"
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
October 6, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are very sorry to hear about Ben. Jim & Sara Harwood and Family
Timmy Clark
October 6, 2010
My dear friend Benny....the feelings of distraught have engulfed me and feelings of pure sadness flow for the entire Hock Family and those of us who had the great pleasure of knowing you. Your intelligence and ease about life will always be remembered. The days of watching non-stop Fox News and days of playing Playstation will always be the memories most cherished. Your bright smile and quick wit are characteristics that surpass any others I have been in contact with. My heart breaks....and I only wish that I could have been more in contact over the last 8 years. The times we spent in recent years on Sanibel will be memories not easily let go. Each time I watch a Badger, Packer, Bucks, or Brewers game, I will ALWAYS remember the times we spent at the field or arena. The Hock Family has ALWAYS had a special place in my heart and will continue to do so. So many times we go through life forgetting what true friendship means.....You had my undivided friendship and you always will. Make sure to give a BIG hug to your brother for me and tug on that rope with Blu, as well. Though the best place is here on earth, the better place you are experiencing. We will meet on the otherside and save a spot for me, so I can have more GREAT times with you and Adam. I am at a loss of words for Kathy, Jim and Nicole....my heart will forever be broken. LOVE YOU GUYS!
Jessica Greer & Michael Prokop
October 6, 2010
Our condolences to the family. Ben was a wonderful person and will be missed.
Anne-Marie Horkheimer
October 6, 2010
So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers go out to your family!
Robin Erickson
October 6, 2010
Ben, you will be missed forever! Now you will be with your brother again. My heart goes out to the entire family who have suffered such great loss within the past several years. You are all in my thoughts and prayers!
Jennifer Polinski
October 6, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
The Heikkila's
October 6, 2010
So sorry for your loss. Ben's entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Matthew Felker
October 6, 2010
where do i begin? Ben in middle school and highschool was one of the most influential people i knew.. guys wanted to be like him and girls wanted to be with him.. he was also the first kid i knew to get facial hair. A talented soccer player and a wit at an early age that was almost unreal. I hadn't kept in contact with him much after highschool, but rediscovered him soon after on facebook where we would chat every now and then. I almost met up with him last february in sanibel but got too busy.. and i regret that now more than ever. As we aged.. Ben still kept his wit and charm.. and i could always count on his sarcastic witty banter on my facebook photos. I had my first experience with chewing tobacco with him.. and i have a fond memory of throwing up all over myself and having him laugh hysterically at me... thats what life is about.. memories.. no matter how little or trivial they are.. 15 years later i still remember with a smile.. ben made me smile and 100s of others to.. I thank him for that and his memories.. I will keep them a lifetime.. you were loved by many my friend, and will be missed Matthew Felker (Los Angeles, Ca)
sandy gillespie
October 6, 2010
My condolences to your family and friends. My thoughts are with you.
Howard liu
October 6, 2010
I remember riding the school bus with you in elementary school. You always had a smile on your face....
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