Name: Visitation for Brett Valenciano Wiesner
Start: 2014-07-14T19:00:00.000Z
End: 2014-07-15T00:00:00.000Z
Location: BECKER RITTER ELMBROOK FUNERAL HOME

Wiesner, Brett Valenciano Passed to Our Father July 5, 2014, at the age of 31. Brett is survived by his mother, Linda, father, Francis, and his older sister, Rachel, his aunt Bonnie (Bob) Sheldon, uncles Mike, Tom, John, Joseph Wiesner and aunt Marianne (Ron) Wachowiak. Also remembered by many cousins, friends and teammates. Brett is preceded in death by his uncle Renard Valenciano. Brett excelled in soccer from an early age, being selected to the Olympic Development Program. He played in many countries at each level of the ODP ages U-13-U-20. In his senior year at Brookfield East High School he was selected Wisconsin Gatorade Player of the Year 2001, as well being selected a Parade All American player 2001. He received a full soccer scholarship to the University of Washington where he excelled in the Pac 10 conference. He signed on to the Seattle Sounders after graduation, and then was recruited to the Milwaukee Wave where he competed for a number of years. He played on the USA Futsol team in the 2008 World Cup of Futsol in Brazil under Coach Tozer. Following his active professional career in soccer he has coached at North Shore United and most recently at the Brookfield Soccer Association, where his soccer career got its start. Brett was passionate about soccer; coaching, interacting with soccer players of all levels, and helping develop the soccer potential in all the players he worked with. Brett was a loving, sensitive, son. His smile would light up a room. His many friends shared that he was just so competitive in everything he did. Brett helped those he could with support and kindness. Donated his long thick locks of hair numerous times to "Locks of Love" and did many appearances at the State Fair and at Children's Hospital as a professional player. Brett will be sorely missed. His wit, quick retorts on texts, and artistic postings on "Instagrams" were appreciated by many of his friends. His love of life, passion for competing, and sensitive kindness will be remembered forever. His love of his cousins and relatives was genuine and he so loved to play with the younger generations. Brett, we will miss you. You have left a hole in our lives and a hurt in our heart. Beyond your skills and awards, you were a truly beautiful person. We thank God for the years we had with you. May you rest in Peace. Visitation will be held at the Funeral Home on Monday, July 14, 2014 from 2 to 7 PM. Mass of Christian burial 11 AM, Saturday, July 19, and interment to follow at St. Bonifacius Church, St. Bonifacius, MN. Memorials appreciated. "He left it all on the field"

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Jul. 9 to Jul. 13, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for Brett Wiesner

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61 Entries

Leslie Smart

July 1, 2019

Never forgotten..... Linda and Brett always in our hearts

Larisa Bogunovic

July 20, 2014

Brett you will be greatly missed. You were such a great guy and amazing athlete that have touched so many. Your memory will live on. My thoughts and prayers to your family through this difficult time.

July 17, 2014

Fran, Linda and Rachel,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Your Son/Brother Brett. Please accept Our deepest condolenses and know that Our thoughts and prayers are with you all through this difficult time and beyond.

Love, Joe and Joanie Krebsbach

The Quinn Family

July 15, 2014

Dear Wiesner Family,

We are so deeply saddened by your loss. We had the pleasure of meeting Brett three years ago at a camp our two kids attended. He made a such a positive, enduring impression upon them and they remember that week as one of their favorite camps. He was a incredible coach, mentor and friend who will never be forgotten. Our thoughts are with you all.

In deepest sympathy,

Billy Kobin

July 14, 2014

Dear Wiesner Family,
I first met Brett when he bacame coach of my North Shore United club team in Cedarburg. Our team was going through a rough time on the field, but Brett came in and helped turned our team mentality and playing style around. I remember him saying "that's magic!" when he liked what he saw.
A favorite memory of Brett: North Shore United attended a Wave game, and Brett's players stood up behind the opposing goal. Brett smiled at us before the game, then scored early on. He pointed right to us, his boys, who went wild.
Bless you Brett; I miss you! All of your NSU guys are now off to college or the military. We will always remember you. Love, Billy

Roger Ludka

July 14, 2014

Linda, Fran & Rachel, My deepest condoloences to you as it was hard & surprising to read of Brett's passing. I have always had a picture on my wall at home of when I first met Brett in Las Vegas when Rachel brought him over to my condo for a visit. I was impressed with him then as I always was for his talents and kindness. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the perpetual light shine upon him. Roger A. Ludka

Kristin Reed

July 14, 2014

Dear Fran and Linda,

I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what a bright shining light Brett was, based on how wonderful and caring his parents are. You are in my thoughts and I hope you all find peace and comfort as you celebrate his life and the profound positive impact he made on others.

July 14, 2014

Dear Linda, Fran, and Rachel.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,

Andrea & Sharif Mansur

Arlene Wiemers

July 14, 2014

Linda and Fran--We are so sorry for your loss. We remember both of you from CYO and all of us were together up north when we heard about it. You've raised a wonderful son. Gordy Wanasek, Susie (Heidenreich)Hamlett, Jerry Metz, Nancy (Przybyszewski) Dolougy. We would have let Judy (Owen)Kilvinger and Madeline (Tooher) Wollemann know about it, but they both died this past year. Please accept our sincere sympathies. Arlene (Wiemers) Skover

Suzi Ribish

July 14, 2014

Brett was the guy who always had a smile on his face and was a friend to everyone. He will be missed by so many. Thoughts and prayers for Brett and to all that loved and knew him as they deal with the loss of such a wonderful and beautiful person.

July 13, 2014

Dear Brett,

Last winter on one of our "off" weekends for ODP prior to competition, we showed up at the Barn. The weather was less than favorable; we'd been used to traveling in the winter and you were there. And, you worked with Big Al, or Shoeless Ally, as she is known to some that day and generously invited her to train with your team when it worked with her schedule. We had no idea you spent so much time in the ODP program at the time; and when we left and I reminded her of how fortunate she was to have such wonderful mentors and role models in her life.

Thank you for that day. She was scored against 3x yet put 3 in the net 2nd half. And I mention this not simply for the benefit of those who may be reading but I see your grin, your eyes light up, your smile in knowing this -- which everpresent regardless of whether your hair was long or short -- which, by the way always had me doing a double-take in recognizing you in passing -- and now we know the story of your hair! And how many lives you have touched in that way!

So, this weekend was Regionals. The week passed by, when to tell Big Al. I thought after would be best, yet, Thursday nite I prayed out loud just before announcing your accident that the timing was the right time.

So, this weekend, Big Al played for you. It was a bit more responsibility but she handled it well. We brought you along and I reminded her, like so many of those whose lives you have touched yet may still be young in understanding the cycle of life --

--that an ending isn't necessarily an end. And, your spirit, just as it did this weekend and with so many others in so many ways -- will continue to remain, to be -- a part of who we are.

Remig Raffanti

July 13, 2014

Brett made such an impact on my son as his coach. Although, it was only for one season Brett exhibited a passion for the game that could only be described as contagious. His passion is what fueled my son's desire to continue to develop and compete in the sport he now calls his own. Thank you Brett for being such an inspiration and mentor to not only my son but to so many others. You will be missed. God Bless!

Kay Oeding

July 12, 2014

I was lucky enough to be Brett's fifth grade teacher at Hillside. Several years ago, my kids' school attended a Wave game and had a private autograph session after the game. I asked our representative if Brett would be part of the session. I told the rep to tell him his former teacher wanted to say hi. Not only did Brett sign autographs, but he gave me a big hug! Yes, he was an amazing man and I am glad I got to be a small part of his life. I can't imagine your sorrow, but take joy in what a positive, warm soul Brett shared with all who knew him.

July 12, 2014

Fran and Linda, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Fran bringing pictures into work at Lee Hecht Harrison all the time with his soccer successes. My thoughts and prayers are with you and may God bless you and your family. Debi Leaman (Kiser)

Rosie Rosario

July 12, 2014

After reading about this remarkable young man who did such wonderful work with young people to teach them the game that he loved; I like to think that God needed an excellent soccer coach for all of his little angels, that have gone before us. God chose Brett to be the coach in heaven. To Mr. and Mrs. Wiesner; you raised a fine young man, that was loved by many people. I truly appreciate his gift of working with a special young man that I love. I hope he will always remember Brett for his kindness and smiles and encouragement. God Bless your family, and hold you in his hands.

July 11, 2014

Dear Linda and Fran,

My deepest sympathy to you during this difficult time. I pray that God will comfort you and I will keep your family in my prayers.

Sincerely,
Tom Vesely

Colin Sedushak and Kristin Stamper

July 11, 2014

Fran, Linda, and Rachel,

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this difficult time. We had the great pleasure in knowing Brett and spending many wonderful moments with him. He will never be forgotten

Vicki & Dave Krystowiak

July 11, 2014

Fran & Linda, We remember Brett as a classmate of our daughter, Abbey, at Hillside and also many years of tennis lessons & drills at the Highlander where he excelled at tennis, as well. Brett was known for his leadership, friendships and great soccer ability. He was the "one" they all wanted to be with. He accomplished so much in his short life. From now on whenever we hear rumblings from above on a stormy night we will surmise that Brett has organized a soccer game or has hit a booming serve in heaven. We send you our deep sympathy.

Jodi Wittig

July 10, 2014

I hadn't known Brett very long but he was by far one of my favorite people in Milwaukee. He's so funny and easy-going. We would sit and talk for hours and now I can barely remember what all our conversations were about because it just flowed so naturally. I think that's why he had So many friends.

For all of Brett's friends and family, my prayers are with you. I can't imagine your grief.

I once commented on Brett's perfectly clipped clean fingernails. He asked to see mine and scoffed a little :). After little inquiry, he proudly told me that his mom taught him to do his nails every Monday morning and he did. :) I started the tradition as well and I think that's when I'll think of him the most. Monday mornings, clipping my nails.

My sincerest condolences,

Jodi Wittig

July 10, 2014

fran...a horrible loss, yet what a man he was as the obit attests...congratulations to you and your wife for having produced such an outstanding human being...wayne wolski

Paul Mirabella

July 10, 2014

Brett was one of my Son Joe's closest friends. I can remember many times that he was over at our house on Barrington Woods Dr. playing ball with both Lucas and Joe ...and their many other mutual friends. Brett was a success at everything he did and he will always be remembered fondly in our hearts. Our deepest sympathy to the Wiesner family. His passing has affected us all.

Anna Heyden

July 10, 2014

Brett, you were a great coach and one of my favorites. Words can't explain how much you taught me. I miss you so much. You are greatly missed.

Mary Watters

July 10, 2014

I only met Brett once at the Wiesner family reunion and enjoyed my conversation with him about Washington and soccer. I am very sorry to learn of his passing.

Cheryl Podlesnik

July 10, 2014

My deepest sympathy to the Wiesner family for your loss. May you find comfort and peace from the love and memories shared.

joe wiesner

July 10, 2014

Tears fall as I write this. What a beautiful soul. How I miss you, Brett.

Uncle Joe

AnneMarie Lucas

July 9, 2014

So sorry for your loss. I have went to games and talked with him a lot. Very pleasant man

Kris Ricigliano

July 9, 2014

Brett made every kid and every fan feel special. He had a wonderful way with people, and so many of us are better for having known him. He will be sorely missed by the Wisconsin soccer community.

Nicole, Kevin,Ian and Ellery Nelson

July 9, 2014

words are unable to express the depth of the sorrow that we know you are feeling. Brett had a smile that lit up the world. he had a caring heart and a kind and generous soul. he loved the "guys" he coached and they are better for having known him. may you find comfort in knowing what an amazing shadow he cast in his short life. Our son is a better person for having had the amazing opportunity to be coached by and be a friend of your son. God grant you wings to fly high Brett. we will miss you always.

July 9, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss.

Our 10 yr son had the honor and priviledge of being coached by Brett. Brett was a source of inspiration and encouragement.

God's peace and comfort to you during this difficult time.

Brett will be missed.

Julie, Andy, Kai & Kayley Littaritz
Lisbon, WI

July 9, 2014

God bless you in this terrible time. God is good, and I'm sure Brett is experiencing His goodness. Love...Margaret Wiesner

July 9, 2014

I am so, so sorry to learn of Brett's passing. He was such a vital part of our extended family. I remember him as an intent and caring listener when we last visited. It's difficult for me to find words of condolence for such a huge loss. Just know my thoughts are with you all now and in whatever the future holds.
Sincerely, Jane Medd

Mark and Andrea Buselli

July 9, 2014

So, So sorry for your loss. We were so saddened to hear the news. We have you in our thoughts and prayers.

Jodi McMahon

July 9, 2014

Prayers of comfort for your family. Please allow me to share one Bible verse I think of in difficult times:
Joshua 1:9

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.

Colleen and Paul Poblocki

July 9, 2014

Dear Wiesner Family,
We are greatly sadden for your great loss of Brett!
He was an amazing guy! I pray that you seek comfort at some point, of how wonderful of a guy Brett is and how much he meant to the kids! Let alone mine, he would always make them feel on top of the world at and after the Wave Camps they attended over the years! He was a great man, friend and idol!!!
Love,
The Poblocki Family

Jason Kehlenbrink

July 9, 2014

Brett's positive energy was contagious. Truly a great person that touched so many lives. I remember playing youth basketball with Brett and realizing back then that he was an extraordinary athlete and leader. My thoughts and prayers are with Linda, Francis, and Rachel.

Antonio Paladino

July 9, 2014

Brett was a gifted individual on and off of the field. We have been lucky enough to witness both. His kindness and compassion when dealing with my boys will never be forgotten. His ability to bond with kids was special. They were drawn to him by his smile, and his kindness. We were fans of his not because of what he did as a player, but what he did as a person. A great man, he will be missed. Rest in Peace.

The Paladino Family

Tom and Barb Hood

July 9, 2014

Dear Fran, Linda and Rachel,
Words can't begin to express how deeply saddened we are for your loss of Brett. We have many fond memories of him when he played with the Brookfield Classic. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family and Brett's many friends at this difficult time.

July 9, 2014

Fran, Linda and Rachel, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. May you be comforted by wonderful memories. Peter and Maureen Beck

Leslie

July 9, 2014

Our hearts are broken . Such a tragedy. So many
thoughts and prayers for Fran and Linda .
Leslie and Rick

Gloria Becher

July 9, 2014

Brett, I will always remember you as a kind, sweet young man. I am so sad for your Family and friends. Linda, Fran and Rachel, my deepest sympathy to you.

July 9, 2014

I am very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. We enjoyed watching him during his time with the Wave. I'll never forget that smile that was ever present at after game gatherings. Mary Elln & Mike Imse.

Michael and Niko King

July 9, 2014

Francis, Linda & the Wiesner Family: Please accept our sincere condolences. It seems like just yesterday we were together singing Irish songs on St. Patty's Day or watching Brett and the Wave play in a game at the Cell. We love you and will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Kevin Touhey

July 9, 2014

Dear Fran, Linda, Rachel and Family

Our deepest condolences to your family.

I grew up with Brett and knew early-on that he was a special kid, on the soccer field and away from it.

Brett was such a fun-loving and positive person. His love for soccer and life was contagious. His smile could light up a room.

Brett, you will be sorely missed but never forgotten.

Kevin and Jenny Touhey

Stephanie Thiel

July 9, 2014

Brett you were a great friend and I am so thankful to have so many great memories of you. You'll be greatly missed.

My deepest sympathy to the Wiesner family.

Lotti Bluemner

July 9, 2014

Brett was such an inspiration to soo many. Everyone leaves footprints, but the ones who leave footprints in your heart are the ones you will truly remember. Our Brookfield East Class will never be the same. My heart goes out to everyone that knew him especially his family and close friends. What a tragic loss!!

Tom

July 8, 2014

I'm so saddened to hear about this. Brett was an amazing guy! My thoughts are with his family and dearest friends.

Michal/Gene Tallman

July 8, 2014

We are so sorry to hear about Brett's passing. Loved watching him play at UW. Take care.

Mike Schmitt & Family

July 8, 2014

Brett was a friend who could make almost anybody smile and laugh... You will be missed but never forgotten ... Peace , love and happiness ... My the fire winds blow you safety home !

Craig Pelnar

July 8, 2014

Dear Fran and Family:
I was saddened to read of your loss. My sincerest and heartfelt condolences to all of you. May God hold you in His comforting arms...

John and Pam Schrieffer

July 8, 2014

Having watched Brett grow up, He had turned into a great adult. I will miss his positive energy and beautiful smile. It was always great to see him and he always greeted us with a big smile,a warm hug and kisses. You left behind awesome memories, but not enough of them... God Bless you and your Family...I will miss you....

Ali Robinson

July 8, 2014

Brett was an amazing soccer player and friend. He was one of my favorite Milwaukee Wave players and he still is. He will be missed by many Wave fans! RIP Brett.

Jaclyn Lipovsek

July 8, 2014

Brett you truly were an inspiration to others. On the field we all wished we had the skill and talent that you made look so easy. Off the field, that smile, it was contagious. May you rest in peace and never be forgotten.

To the Wiesner Family, may you find strength in the beautiful son you raised. I will never forget seeing you Mr. Wiesner at all of the brook east soccer games giving us high fives and rooting us on. Brett was your world and I hope during this difficult time you can smile because you raised one hell of a man. Prayers to you all !!!

Timothy Hood

July 8, 2014

Bretts love for the Game will always be remembered. Being from Rival Tosa East he was always the main focal point when we played against him. But at the end of every game it was friendships do hard fought games. He will be missed and I am Happy to have had the pleasure of playing against and meeting him. Thoughts and Prayers to the family and friends who have truely lost a good man.

Ian

July 8, 2014

He was a great soccer player, and from everyone I've talked to that knew him on a personal level he was an even greater person. Brett didn't know me very well, but I knew a lot about him. I think that shows how much of an impact he had on the entire soccer community. I hope Brett and his family can find peace through all of this.

Bill Armstrong

July 7, 2014

I will always remember you gliding with a ball at your feet as if you were on skates....never saw anything so fluid. That and the way you were warm to others. God bless and help your family in these difficult times.

July 7, 2014

Brett was an inspiration for the young kids that came to watch him play at the Milwaukee WAVE games. Many of the Milwaukee WAVE Booster Club members got to know Brett and soon learned of his kindness, compassion, and his great smile. The Milwaukee WAVE Booster Club extends our condolences to Brett's family and friends. We will keep Brett's family in our thoughts and prayers

Demitrius White

July 7, 2014

The last moment I remember was just this past Wednesday.I played with him and he scored 4 goals, 3 of his goals were from my assist. We were so happy to play with each other again. It was beautiful! Brett was a great guy and will be missed. God Bless you, Wiesner family.

Sinisa Angelovski

July 7, 2014

Brett,

It was my privelage to work with you on a soccer field. It was my privilege to play soccer with you.And it was my privelage to be your friend.Hope you are in a better place.Rest in peace.

American Heart Association

July 7, 2014

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Jim and Robin High

July 7, 2014

We remember Brett from the Hillside days and how much fun they had as kids. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

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