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Meredith Rix
February 22, 2014
I never got meet Greg and I wished so much that I had the opportunity to have met him. I still remember seeing every photo, story, status, update, and event that were in honor of Greg's battle through cancer. Every status update that I saw either on Facebook or Twitter or heard about by friend about ways that I could help support Greg, I did. I originally wrote something to Greg that explained about how I've seen my family experience many tough battles and doctors telling my family members that they wouldn't be able to do something normal again or live past a certain age. But they've been able to overcome their doctor's medical analysis and prove everyone wrong that told them "no". This includes myself as well in my life with the past. I had it signed and was going to send in the mail to Greg, but by the time I had it finished it was too late. I wanted Greg to realize that just because that at times his cancer may seem to keep coming back that he should never give up and keep fighting and pushing the odds. I wanted him to see that if my family and I were able to beat the odds, that he would be able to beat his cancer and prove his doctor's wrong. I'm sorry that I didn't do my letter sooner and I can only hope that Greg is looking down on all of us now to see the out pouring of support and love that he's receiving from this community and even complete strangers that supported him through Facebook or events that friends/family put together to raise awareness about his journey. Greg if your able to some how see this, then know you are still and always be much loved and remembered for not just your contagious smile, but your fighting spirit that brought an entire community together where each time that we wear yellow that we will remember you and how you never once gave up and kept fighting until the very end! To the entire Von Rueden family main & extended, you will continue to be in my prayers as will Greg. I know that the poster with a few pictures that I made in honor of Greg wasn't much, but it was something that I felt I could do in honor of him. Such an inspiration and will forever remember him. Thank you Greg Von Rueden! My prayers & thoughts are with you.
William Texeira
February 11, 2014
Denny, I just recently herd your son had passed i am so sorry for your loss.I can't imagine what your family is going though but know that you and family are in our thoughts and prayers.My older sister lost her daughter several years back and I know it can be overwhelming but lean on your family and faith and they will see you though.If you need anything reach out you have a lot of old friends who will be there for you.
Kim Hoag-Organ
February 2, 2014
Dear Von Rueden Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. From The Hoag family of St. Sebastian
Cathy Gasper
February 1, 2014
We never had the opportunity to meet Greg but we have witnessed the strong love our community and friends who were lucky to know him have for him and your family. He will be greatly missed but his memory will stay in many hearts forever. What a great accomplishment for someone so young.
The Flanagan Family
February 1, 2014
We never had the privilege of meeting Greg, however, we feel as though we've lost a loved one.
God Bless.
Steve, Lesa, Marisa Meulemans
January 31, 2014
Our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Proverbs 22 tells us that "a good name is better than riches" May your beloved son live on in the hearts he has touched. May God richest blessings be with you and your family.
Pat Ganzer
January 30, 2014
Greg was a handsome young boy who smiled through adversity, was patient with pain,accepted the consequences of treatment, while setting an example of courage and bravery for the rest of us. He was truly a gift from God for those who followed his battle. Thanks
Von Ruedens for sharing him with us. We won't forget him. Love and more prayers from Pat Ganzer.
Dave (Mouse) & Sandy Lakric
January 30, 2014
To the Von Rueden Family: We didn't personally know Greg, but heard about his courageous fight from his Uncle Dave. We are so sorry for your loss and continue to pray for all of you. Greg is at peace and will live in your hearts forever.
January 30, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss. May you find peace in all the wonderful memories that you have. May God bless you all. Our deepest sympathy, Michael, Tami, Rachel and Samantha White
Mike & Jean Adler
January 30, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless the entire Von Rueden family.
Todd Klukow
January 30, 2014
I know Greg through his Uncle Jeff. Greg has been an inspiration to many throughout his courageous battle against the scourge of cancer. Deepest condolences to all for the loss of Greg. He will live on in your hearts and memories forever.
Bob/Julie Kirchoff
January 30, 2014
I am extremely sorry for your loss Denny and Sharon. My heart sunk and I couldn't hold back the years when I heard. Our thoughts and prayers will forever be with you. Bob/Julie Kirchoff
Abigail
January 29, 2014
Though I did not know him personally, I know many people who were touched by Greg. Greg, his family, and all of those whom his life touched will remain in my prayers.
January 29, 2014
Sharon, My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Just heard what happened and my prayers goes out to you. God bless you! Pam Rollins(Frank) - Share Corp.
Alex
January 29, 2014
Deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. Greg's courage touched the lives of many and brought students together in ways unimaginable.
Bob & Jan Weiss
January 29, 2014
Denny,Sharon and boys, our deepest sympathy for the loss of Greg. Know that our thoughts are with you.
January 29, 2014
So sorry for your lose. I did not know Greg, but I do know many people that did know him. May God grant all of you peace in the upcoming months and years.
Janet Curtis
John Sweeney
January 29, 2014
Very sorry for your loss.
God Bless.
Jessica
January 29, 2014
I can't imagine the pain left from losing a child. I thought you may find comfort in a scriptural account of Jesus restoring life to a twelve year old little girl. The account is in Mark 5:22-24,35-43. This account is so encouraging because it shows what Jesus can do for our loved ones.
Sofia Garcia
January 29, 2014
I never met him but i have heard a lot good things about him he inspired me so much all my prayers are with you and your family .
Sue and Dan Opgenorth
January 29, 2014
Thank you Greg and thank you Von Rueden family for sharing your journey with all of us. We cannot feel the depth of your sorrow, but we all have a little piece of Greg in our hearts and in our memories now. We are so very sorry for your loss.
January 28, 2014
Greg truly changed my view on life. Everytime i feel as though i'm not giving my all i think of him and am so inspired. Even though i never met him, i felt his radiance shining so strong through the community. Honestly a beautiful person i will never forget. May God give you the strength to see his happiness and appreciate him being free of pain in his eternal home.
Becky Palmer-Selbach
January 28, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time and always.
The Mays Family - MUHS
January 28, 2014
We are deeply sorry for your loss. Please know your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Greg fought a courageous battle and served as an inspiration to us all. My God grant you peace during this difficult time.
January 28, 2014
What an inspiration Greg was to the New Berlin community and beyond. Although we never met Greg we followed his journey and were amazed at his courage and fight. Our prayers are with his family and friends.
Klusman family-- MUHS
January 28, 2014
Thinking of you and keeping your family in our daily thoughts and prayers. May all the beautiful memories of Greg help guide you through the days ahead. Greg will forever be at your side and in your hearts. God bless your family.
Craig, Colleen, Alec, Austin, and Alyssa Stuckart
January 28, 2014
Our sincere condolences to each of you. May you continue to turn to your faith to guide you through this difficult journey.
Jan C
January 28, 2014
So sad to hear of Greg's passing. I followed him via MUHS and Caring Bridge. Saw him at the state volleyball championship and Marquette baseball games and said extra prayers each time.
Rozina Charania
January 28, 2014
My condolences to the family and friends. RIP. Yellow for Greg.
Melissa, Steve, Emily Oberst
January 28, 2014
I just read this quote today and felt compelled to share…
"I was told that heroes are made when ordinary people face impossible challenges. Well, my story starts with an impossible challenge. I believe it ends with a lot of heroes." Written by Jack Bartosz who lost his earthy battle to cancer. Greg definitely had an ultimate challenge. He is now inspiring us all to be better people, fight for a cure of this disease, and live our daily lives to the fullest. Greg is definitely a hero. Our prayers for all of your family. Remember, no one can take away the memories of Greg. We specifically pray that you feel Greg's presence all around you and that he shines down on you always.
Lori Rondinelli Punko
January 28, 2014
Dennis,
You were probably Greg's age the last time we saw each other as you teased your sister Anne's friends. I have fond memories growing up around your wonderful family. And I know Greg was surrounded by that love and more throughout his struggle. I'm sure that was a great comfort to him and may that be a comfort to you and your family. My heart and my prayers go out to the entire Von Rueden clan.
Catie Janquart
January 28, 2014
My sympathy to the family. I never met your son but he is truly an inspiration to many. My best wishes.
Sylvia Porubsky
January 28, 2014
Our most sincere condolences to your families. May you all find comfort in knowing you were faith filled and strong for him as he battled his illness, and may the promise of salvation bring you peace. God's blessing's to you!
The Mark and Sylvia Porubsky family
Steve Morrison
January 28, 2014
My sympathy goes out to Dennis, Sharon, Bob, Jake, and extended family for the loss of a son, brother, and a friend to all he came into contact with. My prayers for all who have felt a loss with the passing of Greg. Peace
Tom, Mary, Lauren and Connor Bachman
January 28, 2014
Greg will never be forgotten...he has been an inspiration to our family. Our deepest sympathies to you all. He will be greatly missed.
missy kuick
January 28, 2014
sorry our prays are in you families
Jodi Sowinski
January 28, 2014
May all the memories of Greg warm your hearts.Take care of each other, and know that Greg is watching over you.
Mark,Jodi, Darrin and Cheyenne Sowinski
January 27, 2014
My Deepest Sympathy to Greg's Family.
This note is for His Grandmother,Marion.
It has been many years since we have seen each other, but always think of you when I see your name.
You were cousins with Clifford Heuser, my late husband.
I had read the notice in the paper, of your Grandson's passing and wanted you to know I was thinking of you and your family in this very sad time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jane Heuser-Becker
Susan Finnegan Kiedrowski
January 27, 2014
Denny, Sharon, Bobby & Jake,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Hoping that your memories of Greg provide you some peace in knowing that he was truly loved and blessed. Sue & Mike Kiedrowski
January 27, 2014
Denny, Sharon, Bobby & Jake,
Greg was a wonderful young man who had a heart of gold and a great spirit. He will be forever remembered.
The Lord bless you and keep you.
The Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious unto you. The Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.
Michael and Cecelia Koester
Sue Galonski
January 27, 2014
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Kerri G
January 27, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of your loss...I have followed Greg's journey on CaringBridge for some time and could see how much he was loved by all. He was an inspiration and a fighter. My condolences to his family...
January 26, 2014
Our deepest sympathies to your family. We have crossed paths on many occasions over the years with our boys. We have been lucky to get to know your wonderful family. You have truly been blessed with compassionate, caring boys. Our prayers and God's blessings are with you all. Much love. Doug, Jane, Sammy and Matt Pedersen, Muskego, WI.
Judy Ortiz
January 26, 2014
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the I tire family
January 26, 2014
Greg, your bright, shining smile lite up this earth, and now is a shining down from heaven. You have so much strength, and have been through so much. You have taught us that life is to be enjoyed and never give up, no matter the situation. To Sharon, Denny, Jake and Bobby, I cant find the words to comfort you in your lose. Losing Greg is incomprehensible! I pray your faith, love and memories of Greg will help you live each day forward. Heaven obtained a special angel, that will never be forgotten! He has touch so many hearts! With prayers and love! Dawn, Jim, Trey and Grant Grassl
January 26, 2014
GVR on our shoes, yellow socks and yellow shoe laces on WVA 18 black today! We will continue to fight for others battling this awful disease. Your family is in our constant thoughts and prayers. Sending love and Peace.
Paul, Kathleen, Jordan (MUHS '13) Hohl
January 25, 2014
Your family has our sincere sympathy. We will pray for you and know that Greg was an inspiration to so many.
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