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John Steinhafel Obituary

Steinhafel, John A. Longtime resident of Mequon. Passed away after courageously battling colon cancer on Tuesday, May 4, 2010, at the age of 72 years. Devoted husband for 50 years of Maureen (nee Fogarty). Beloved father of Mark (Julie); Brother Mary Ambrose, Michael (Cathy), John David and Elizabeth (Chris) Quinlan. Cherished grandfather of David Joseph, Andrew, Nicholas, Christopher, Jeremy, Margaret, Ben, Louisa, William, David Anthony, John Matthew, Katie, Anneliese, Catherine, Madeleine and Maria. Dear brother of Elaine (Ray) Birck, Mary (Don) Lucas, the late James (Jean) and the late William (Barbara). Loving uncle of the late, Lisa Lucas Walsh. Further survived by other relatives and many, many dear friends. John was a graduate of St. Elizabeth Grade School and Messmer High School. He proudly served his country during the Korean War in the Tank Corps. He was a longtime member of the Rotary Club of Milwaukee, was involved in many charitable organizations, committees and boards, including: the National Home Furnishings Association, Marquette University High School and the National Multiple Sclerosis Society -Wisconsin Chapter. John was a retired partner of Steinhafels Furniture working with his family for almost 50 years. John was a jazz and Jaguar car enthusiast. He was a warm, funny, generous, kind man. He had special gift with relationships. John will be remembered for his outgoing personality, his love of life, his sense of humor and his storytelling. Visitation Monday, May 10, from 4:00-7:00 PM at the FUNERAL HOME. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday at 10:30 AM, at LUMEN CHRISTI CATHOLIC CHURCH, 2700 W. Mequon Rd., corner of N. Range Line Rd., Mequon. Private Interment. In lieu of flowers, memorials to Marquette University High School or the National Multiple Sclerosis Society - Wisconsin Chapter appreciated. As his sister, Elaine said, "He brought fun to our family."

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from May 7 to May 8, 2010.

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Stephen Stickler

May 11, 2010

To The Entire Steinhafel Family,

I am deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. He left in indelible mark on my life for many reasons...the drum set, the morning carpool drives to MUHS, ski trips, boating in Door County, and most of all that engaging personality. A month doesn't go by when I do not say to someone "I had to walk to school...uphill...both ways!"
Many are blessed because he touched so many lives. John will always be a part of mine.

May 11, 2010

Pam and I are so sorry to hear about John passing. We had the pleasure of getting to know him and many family members because of our connection to the furniture industry. He was a really fun guy and great story teller. God bless him and family.
Jim and Pam Wimbish

May 10, 2010

Maureen and your family
Mike and I are so sorry that we were unable to attend
because my dad {Gordon Wisniewski} died last week and
we are still handling our emotions.
Please accept our sincere condolences
and give our love to your entire family
Mike truly enjoyed working for John because of his kindness to his employees. He will be missed
Nancy {Wisniewski} and Mike Matancsi

Ed & Pat Balint

May 10, 2010

My many years of employment with Steinhafels was often highlighted by John's unique character. Certainly one of a kind. Peace and comfort to his family.

May 10, 2010

JOHN AND HIS FAMILY WILL BE REMEMBERED IN OUR PRAYERS. HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL HE KNEW AND TOUCHED. WHAT A GUY!!

ANDY AND DONNA STOLTMAN

May 9, 2010

As we offer our condolences to the Steinhafel clan, you should know that John's endearing personality and infectious laughter will remain with us for our lives. He made dreary ski slopes all over the world, glow with the light of love. Though we are sad, we will celebrate John's life at every opportunity and remember him always. Love from Camille Canzone and Ron Tarrson.

Ron & Judi Hintzman

May 9, 2010

Our deepest sympathies to John's Family. He will be remembered in our prayers.

Carol Hack

May 9, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

May 8, 2010

Renie and Family,
My deepest sympathy in your loss. John will be fondly remembered and most certainly with a smile! Good memories endure. My thoughts and prayers to you all. Mary Johnson Fischer

May 8, 2010

RENIE AND FAMILY -- OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU -- MAY JOHN REST WITH THE LORD --- WE WILL ALL MISS HIM --- SUCH A GREAT MAN --- RUTH AND DAVE MANN

May 7, 2010

Maureen & Family,
Sorry to hear that John has lost his battle to cancer. I will always remember the fun times I had with John at Messmer High. Your family is in our prayers and thoughts.
Jackie Krueger Leitel & Don

Bridget & Andrew Kurt

May 7, 2010

Aunt Renie and Family:
I'm so sorry for your loss. I will always treasure the fond memories of spending so many holidays at your home. Uncle John was such a funny, generous, and humble man. We will keep you all in our prayers.

May 7, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of John’s passing away. Our sympathies to John’s entire family. He was a treasured fellow Messmer classmate & friend!
Jerome & Joan Perry, Cambridge, WI.

Tom VanRens

May 7, 2010

We are sorry to hear that John lost his battle. Our prayers and thoughts are with the whole family.
Tom, Stacey, Samantha and Adam Van Rens

Sister Lourdette Van Driel

May 7, 2010

Maureen and family,
My sympathy and prayers are with you at this time of loss. John was really a wonderfully congenial man. I always enjoyed visiting with him. May he rest in peace.

Tom, Chris & Emily Fogarty

May 7, 2010

John-
You will always be remembered as a loving father and uncle. Your home was always filled with family and good times for all those special occasions.

May 7, 2010

I'm sorry to hear of the passing of John. I always looked forward to seeing the Steinhafel's every summer in the town of Elkhart Lake. John will live on in our memories.

Best Wishes,
Rick Gebhardt

May 7, 2010

I am really sorry to hear of John's death. Our sympathy to your whole family, and of course to you Maureen.
Ed & Maria Bartz,
Chandler, Arizona

Gene Laguban

May 7, 2010

One of the nicest people you could ever hope to meet. He will be missed.

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