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M. Butenhoff Obituary

Butenhoff, M. Thomas Age 69 years. Of Germantown. Saturday, August 6, 2011. Beloved husband of Vivian "Viv" (nee Hill). Loving father of Brooke (Greg) Britsch and Garrett (Brenda). Stepfather of Krystal (Tom) Finkbeiner and Tom (Jamie) Maassen. Further survived by his loving grandchildren, other relatives and friends. Visitation Wednesday, Aug. 10, at the Funeral Home, from 9AM until time of Service at 11AM. Burial to follow at Sunnyside Cemetery, Lannon. In lieu of flowers, memorials to the Life Church Building Fund in Germantown or the American Diabetes Assoc. appreciated.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Aug. 9, 2011.

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Eric Carmen

September 8, 2011

Tom was always the go to guy to "take care of business!"

Anne Catalane

August 20, 2011

Dear Garrett:
It's been many years since you and I (and your father) worked at WISN but I was sorry nonetheless to hear about your loss.
My best to you.
Anne Catalane

Margaret Zickuhr Zolp

August 16, 2011

Your dad was an incredible man. I learned so much from him and have wonderful memories of him. He will be greatly missed by so many. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

The Zimmerman Family

August 15, 2011

My condolences to the entire family. I wish I could've gotten to know him. May God comfort you at this difficult time.

Carl Biller

August 14, 2011

You do not even know who I am but when I was studying radio and television production in the late '70's - early '80's, I wanted to sound and have the mic presence of Tom Butenhoff. I studied his style for years and tried to incorporate it into my own. I never even listened to the radio station that carried him, but I knew when he was on and I tuned right in each day. I even listened to tape of his cantor and diction. God bless Tom and his family.

Eric Cooper

August 11, 2011

Rest in Peace Loving Father.

Tom Butenhoff accepted me for who I was —
Then, he shaped my life as I became a young man - well into adulthood.

Tom Butenhoff imparted his wisdom, kindness and generosity—
As if I was his own fresh and blood.

Tom Butenhoff shared his wisdom compassionately and it shown through every word.

Tom Butenhoff rewarded himself by helping others —
The father I am today is largely due to his unconditional love as a parent – as a role model.

Tom Butenhoff bestowed into me what cannot be replaced with worldly possessions—
There is no worldly value one can amass comparable to what he has done for me.

Tom Butenhoff, I hold very dear to me. Always.
~ Eric Cooper

Picture: Tom Butenhoff “Papa” and my son JohnRyan C. Cooper, circa 2001

Andrea Peckarsky

August 10, 2011

We have many great memories of Tom. He was a very honest and lovable person. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. We wish the best for the family during this difficult time. Peter and Andrea Peckarsky

August 10, 2011

Dear Garrett, Brenda & family,

I am so very sorry to learn of your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.

Jenny Coghlan

Tom and cousin, Ron, at the Polish Fest, June 2009

Ron Bradley

August 10, 2011

Larry & Deb Woldanski

August 10, 2011

To Viv, Garrett, Brook and the rest of the family:
We just want to add that we will miss Tom more than you can imagine. A great friend to us for many years we shared many an adventure. I will miss our monthly lunches at California Kitchen and the fun we always had with him. After 30 years, I can never remember a time when we didn't have fun. Whether it was sports, politics or family, we had so much in common. I remember the smile on his face the day he saw me and Deb cross his name off in our Bibles. The praying was worth it. We are going to miss the good times and I have lost a great friend. I know we will see him up the line.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

August 10, 2011

My name is Geoffrey Cooper, I spent my HighSchool years with Tom, Brook and Garrett. I learned the Buisness aspect of life, love and happiness ( The Free Enterprise ) way. Tom is a Great Man, taught me the 4 move checkmate when i was 14 yrs. old and he was a very good racquetball player. Booty will be missed. Cooper St. Cloud Fl.

Bethany Iverson

August 10, 2011

Your dad was an incredible and inspiring man. I loved his sense of humor, candor and genuine warmth. He'll be greatly missed - you're all in our hearts and thoughts as we hold you close during this impossibly difficult time.

August 10, 2011

To the Family of Mr. Butenhoff:
On behalf of myself and the Holiday Inn of Fond du Lac I would like to express our sincerest condolences to your family. We remember him for his seminars and the wonderful interaction he had with his guests. He was a nice man. Remember the good times.


Amy Sternat & The Holiday Inn of Fond du Lac

Richard Holcomb

August 10, 2011

I have lost not only our personal financial adviser of over 20 years but a best friend. From our radio days together at WISN he will always be "The Booter" ... with my signature line, "You've gotta love him!" My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Brooke, Garrett, Viv and their families. He is one very, very special man who always displayed high integrity and incredible loyalty.

Ron Bradley

August 9, 2011

All of our love, with fondest memories, to Viv, Brooke, Garret and family. Our time together with Tom was brief, but will always be cherished. Sincerely, your cousins in Florida.

Ken Schimpf and Tom at Zoo A La Carte 1989

Steve Barber

August 9, 2011

Tom was a warm, personable guy who was superb at his craft. He was a pleasure to work with back in the radio days and then later, in handling my portfolio. Sincere condolences.

david arieff

August 9, 2011

Our sympathies to all family & friends.Tom was agood friend with a great personality .
David Susan Arieff

David Arieff

August 9, 2011

Our sympathies to all family & friends.Tom was agood friend with a great personality .
David Susan Arieff

August 9, 2011

Dear Viv,
Steve came home tonight and told about Tom's passing away. I am so sad - what a great loss. He is in the care of our Lord Jesus now. Wishing you peace during this difficult time. He was a sweet, sweet man.
Steve and Vicki Wirth

Donna Westfahl

August 9, 2011

Garret,Brenda, and boys. Our condolences to you and your family for the loss of your father. You are in our prayers, take care. The Westfahl Family, Tom, Donna, Randy, and Teresa.

Maurice & Patricia Shirley

August 9, 2011

Our condolences to Brooke and Garret, as well as the rest of the family. We are former Bayside neighbors. We remember Tom as a delightful man with a wonderful smile, sense of humor and great dignity.

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