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Mary Patricia Dess

1920 - 2016

Mary Patricia Dess obituary, 1920-2016, Brookfield, WI

BORN

1920

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

Harder Funeral Home - Brookfield

18700 W. Capitol Drive

Brookfield, Wisconsin

Mary Dess Obituary

Dess, Mary Patricia (Nee Gallagher ) Reunited with her husband of 60 years Richard Carl Dess and her daughter Ann Marie Dess Bernath on Tuesday, October 25, 2016 at the age of 96 years. She will always be remembered and loved by her family Mary B. Krygiel, John P., Richard P., William E. (Chris) Dess, Peggy (Pat) McGuire and Robert J. (Mary E.) Dess. She will be further remembered and cherished by her grandchildren David (Amber) Krygiel, Bridget (Steven) Adlen, Patrick (Hannah) Krygiel, Tim (Lisa) Dess, Jennifer (Dan) Popovich, John C. (Monica), Becky, Maggie and Ryan Dess, Emily (Todd) Esteban, Michael, Tom and Lisa Bernath, Leslie and Sam Dess and great-grandchildren Nathan, Gordana and Lucas Popovich, Calvin Krygiel, Mia and Clare Adlen and Lucy Mae Krygiel. She will also be remembered by her sister-in-law Georgia Dess, son-in-law Greg Bernath, cousin Beverly Seroogy and many other relatives and dear friends. Visitation Friday, November 4th, 2016 at ST. JUDE THE APOSTLE CHURCH, 734 GLENVIEW AVE., WAUWATOSA from 4:00 PM until the time of Mass of Christian Burial at 6:00 PM followed immediately by a reception for family and friends. Private interment St. Adalbert's Cemetery. Mary was a resident of Wauwatosa and an active member of St. Jude the Apostle Parish for over 67 years. She loved playing bridge, cheering for the Milwaukee Braves and later the Brewers, Marquette University Basketball and the Green Bay Packers. She was a true sports enthusiast. Mary also loved working crossword puzzles, reading and preparing the family's favorite dishes. She along with her husband had a deep love not only for their family but dear friends. The family wishes to thank the staff at Hawthorne Terrace and St. Anne's and the members of the Salvatorian Campus for their mother's care. Memorials in her name to St. Jude the Apostle School Fund are deeply appreciated.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Oct. 30 to Nov. 2, 2016.

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Donna Maccani

November 12, 2016

Bob, Mary and family,
Sorry to be so late in sending our condolences for the loss of your mother. It is so difficult losing one's Mother at any phase of our lives. May your many memories and the support of family and friends help you to cope, especially Sam.
Donna, Bob and Cathy Maccani

LISA NEILL-GRULKE

November 2, 2016

Hello Dess Family, I did your mother's hair for a some years and I enjoyed error immensely .Her delightful laugh, fun loving ways,her fur coat, her reddish hair,and great love of family ALWAYS impressed me. I think of her often.Especially when I go past her old place on Bluemound.Prayers and thoughts to you all.Sincerely ,Lisa Neill-Grulke

Dick & Leanne Laubusch

November 2, 2016

To the family of Mary Patricia:

Mary was a very special lady, we were very fortunate to have known. We always enjoyed visiting with her at family gatherings of Patrick, Hannah and Lucy Mae.

Just to let you know we are keeping all of you in our hearts and minds during this difficult time.

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal
Love leaves a memory no one can steal.

Most Sincerely,
Dick and Leanne Laubusch
Warrens, WI

v

November 2, 2016

Our prayers go out to you Jeremiah 29. 11 & 12.

Bill Gute

October 31, 2016

Mrs Dess

I knew her for many years. My parents were also family friends. John was my best friend for many years. I remember Mary as a generous and very friendly lady. Best wishes to all of the Dess family

Tom HAYDEN

October 31, 2016

Mrs Dess and their family are A #1..Thoughts and prayers are with the Dess gang..

Russ Gonnering

October 30, 2016

My sincere condolences to the family. Her son, John, was my classmate in grade school and high school. She was one of the most friendly people I have met and I would love going to their home on Portland Avenue. I always felt special around her, never just "a kid". She made this great olive-nut sandwich spread. I would trade John for a half. Wish I had the recipe, as I have told my own children and grandchildren what a special treat that was!

Ellen Bomhack

October 29, 2016

Dear Dess Family,
What an amazing lady!!! Thinking of you at this difficult time

Patrick Daley

October 29, 2016

Although it has been years, I will never forget how wonderful Mrs. Dess was, what a woman.

Sofia Walz-Chojnacki

October 29, 2016

I am so sorry about your loss I will keep her in my prayers

Jody Linn

October 28, 2016

Mary Pat was loving, kind, funny and warm. I am so grateful I knew her for over 30 years. Mary Pat will be greatly missed.

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Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

ST. JUDE THE APOSTLE CHURCH

734 GLENVIEW AVE, WAUWATOSA, WI

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Mass of Christian Burial

6:00 p.m.

ST. JUDE THE APOSTLE CHURCH

734 GLENVIEW AVE, WAUWATOSA, WI

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