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Robert Becker Obituary

Becker, Robert R. "Rob" APRN, BC Compassionate, caring and dedicated family man is the best way to describe Rob. Rob unexpectedly went to join his loving mother and other relatives on July 28, 2007, at the young age of 36. Rob was an Operating Room Nurse at Froedtert Hospital and was most proud of his new career as a Nurse Practitioner at the Medical College of Wisconsin. Rob believed in giving more than 110% in everything he did, especially in providing quality care to all of his patients. His world revolved around his wife Lori, their two sons Robert Michael and Joshua Robert, and his furry friend Gizmo. He was the son of the late Dr. Robert and the late Paula Becker. He is also survived by his sister Cheryl (Matt) Lauritch and soon to be baby Lauritch. Grandson of Mary Becker, FL. He will be missed by Don, Karen, Terry, Emma, and Chris Gesinski to whom he was more of a son, brother and uncle than an "in-law". Rob was also like family to many special friends and colleagues. Many of these special friends helped Rob transition from the world we know to where he is now. The visitation will be at St. Alexander's Church, 1568 West Holt Avenue from 9 AM until 10:45 AM on Saturday, August 4, with the Mass of Christian Burial at 11 AM. Interment will follow at Mount Olivet Cemetery. Rob's family wants to extend a special thank you to his "on call critical care team" from Froedtert Hospital, including Jason Rzepka, Dr. Jamie Baisden and Betsy Grimaldi. Your care and concern helped to comfort both Rob and his family. "A Sentimental Thought for a Sentimental Moment. You will be missed and forever remembered." JOSEPH E. SASS 1019 W. Oklahoma 414-744-3636

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Aug. 2 to Aug. 3, 2007.

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Kathy Karademas

August 17, 2007

Lori,
I just heard about Rob this evening from some University School parents. I am so so sorry. I wish I would have known sooner. Please know that we are here for you and the boys and that we will be thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers.

Dave and Kathy Karademas & Family

Zorka Novakovich

August 13, 2007

Lori and boys- your Rob was a great person. Please know that there are a ton of us who feel for you all, Not a day goes by without us mentioning you all in our prayers. We love and pray for your family. If you need anything, please call. Love Zorka Novakovich and family

rick & jeffrey hohler

August 10, 2007

our prayers and deepest sympathy to you and the boys.

Tammy Molter

August 10, 2007

Dear Lori,

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Rob was a very special person and a great teacher. The overnight program would not have been the same without him. You and your boys are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.

With deepest sympathy,
Tammy Molter

Maria Spenner

August 8, 2007

Dear Lori,
Just to let you know that we continue to surround you and your family in prayer and love. Maria

Lori Fote

August 6, 2007

Dear Lori,
I am deeply sorry to hear about Rob. We are praying for you during this loss. I remember when he would bring Robby to school, and always have a smile on his face and a cheery "good morning!" If you need a close "neighbor" to talk to, I'm here.
Love,
Lori Fote (and family)

Michele Dutkiewicz (Drollinger)

August 5, 2007

Lori,
You were always like a big sister to me when I was growing up. Now I wish I could find the words to give you strength. I was deeply saddened when I heard about your loss. I remember when you first started dating Rob and the two of you took me out for ice cream. Rob offered words of advice and encouragement as I was struggling with the adjustment of starting highschool. I knew he was a special guy for you. My heart goes out to you and to your boys. Love, Michele

Andrea, Mark, Ethan & Owen Bender

August 4, 2007

Lori, Robby, and Joshua

Sitting in mass today I realized that Rob was so much to everyone;a husband, a father, a brother, a son, a caregiver and a friend. He touched so many lives in such a short time. His compassion for his family and career was awesome. He is an inspiration to us all. We are here for you always.

Meg Drew

August 4, 2007

Lori, Robbie, & Josh -
Your husband and dad was an incredible man. It was a lot of fun being a class mate of his at Marquette because you knew it would be a lot more fun and interesting with him there. Although he may not walk among us now, he will never be forgotten by his many friends and patients to which he was so devoted.
God Bless you all.

Rita Wermers

August 4, 2007

Lori-
I know there are no words to truly comfort you in the this of loss. Like so many of Rob's classmates what I remember most is his love for you and the boys. I don't think a conversation went by without him speaking of the three of you. Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jodi Ann Filut-Hockerman

August 4, 2007

Lori,
My heart broke for you when I heard about Rob. Please know that your Riley family is here for you and can help you with anything you need. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God Bless you and help you through this difficult time.

A St. Roman Family

August 3, 2007

To the Becker family-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May all the beautiful memories help guide you through the days ahead. Rob will forever be at your side watching over you and the boys. God bless and stay strong.

Cheryl Oliva

August 3, 2007

Dear Lori,

We cannot imagine the void you must feel but may you find comfort in knowing that Rob's optimism and love of life have inspired many and that his untimely passing from this life to the next at such a young age will remind us how precious every moment with our loved ones is. May God send special love and blessings to you, Robby and Josh as you struggle to adjust to the emptiness in your hearts.

Love, Jim and Cheryl

Chris Pasinski

August 3, 2007

Dear Lori,
I will always remember how Rob adorned you and his boys at our single case design poster presentation at Marquette. I remember how he said that you did so much to help him get that project done. I am so sorry for your loss and pray that you and your boys are surrounded by family and friends as you find your way through this very sad time.

Todd, Kristin, and Brooklyn Higgins

August 3, 2007

Lori, Robby, and Josh-
Our prayers and deepest sympathy are with you and your family at this time. We pray that you feel comfort in knowing that Rob will forever be watching over you.

With sympathy...Drajkowski & Oliva Family

August 3, 2007

Dean, Julie, Danielle, & Dylan Drajkowski

August 3, 2007

Lori, Becker Boys, & Gesinski Family...

Rob was such an important part of our life and we all will miss him so much. We are grateful for all that he has taught us. We have so many fond memories, it is difficult to share them all here. So we will share our stories and try to smile and thank God that we were fortunate to have crossed his path.

For Only A Short Time
By Julie Drajkowski

For only a short time, Rob was a part of your life.
Luckily, you both meet and soon became his wife.

The two greatest gifts you received,
Certainly, Robby & Josh are it, I perceive.

These two boys are now your focus, strength and drive.
Each and every day you’re alive.

What's going on? This wasn't part of the plan.
I guess it's now your task to show those boys how to be a man.

Filling his shoes won't be an easy role,
His early leaving, is starting to take its' toll.

Lori, I will take special care of you now,
Some way, some time, some how.

If I could take away the pain and turn back the clock, I would
But this is not the time to say "I Should".

Why did God take him so fast?
This is the question we will always ask.

Lori, take your daily struggles to heart;
Remembering with God you're never far apart.

So, take comfort in Rob's protection from above.
I truly believe he continues to show everlasting love.

Family, friends and more are here.
Please let us help you and hold you dear.

Please do what you can to be okay,
You know Rob would want it that way.

All our love to you...

Cecilia Donegan (Kathy Gordon's sister)

August 3, 2007

Lori:
May you be surrounded by loved ones morning, noon and night ...

May the road rise up to meet you,
May the wind be ever at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
And the rain fall softly on your fields
And until you meet Rob again, May God hold
you in the palm of his hand

vickie koska

August 2, 2007

Lori, Robbie and Josh,

Please accept our deepest sympathies and prayers for your entire family. We are literally a stones throw away, and always available if you should need anything!
Sincerely, John, Vickie, Austin, Caitlin, and Alyssa Koska

Lori & Roberto Ramirez

August 2, 2007

Lori and Family,

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lori and Roberto Ramirez

Karen Grau

August 2, 2007

Lori, Robby and Joshua...
Our deepest sympathies to you and the boys. Rob was a wonderful man, husband and father, and will be sadly missed. We always enjoyed his upbeat personality at all the family gatherings...he was a pleasure to know. God bless you and your family during this very sad time, and we'll keep you in our prayers.
Love,
Karen and Eric Grau

Ann Wendt

August 2, 2007

Lori, Robby & Joshua,
May you take comfort in knowing how much people care about your family and share in your sadness. Rob's kindness and zest for life has left an indelible mark in the hearts of many people. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Ann & Rachel

Susan Plewa

August 2, 2007

Rob was truly a gifted man and a rare friend. Nursing was only one of his special skills. He was quite adept at mounting drapery rods, hanging party decorations, shopping for groceries when I was sick, cheering for my sons at sporting events, taking them to movies, or delivering home remedies. Rob and Lori shared their love with family and friends in the simple moments of life and we will always be eternally grateful. Love, Sue, Andy and Jeremy.

danielle and timmy strauss

August 2, 2007

Lori,
We always felt like we knew how very special Rob was the way you spoke so highly of him. Each and every time you had a smile on your face filled with such love and happiness. We are all so saddened for your tremendous loss. Our thoughts are with you, little Robby and Joshua. With much love

Paula Dahlman LPN

August 2, 2007

Dear Lori and family:

Please accept my deepest sympathy. I worked with Rob as a member of the transplant team. Rob's great smile, humor, attitude and respect toward patients/staff made on call shifts easier. It was a relief to know he was on duty. He will be missed. My prayers are with you.

Arthur Becker

August 2, 2007

Lori, Robby, & Joshua

We share your grief with the loss of someone so close. If there is anything we can do, please contact us.

Love, Uncle Art & Maureen

Paul, Heather, Ben & Nolan Burzlaff

August 2, 2007

Lori and boys,
We were so sorry to hear about Rob's passing. Unfortunately sometimes what we see in our future is not what God has planned for us. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers daily.

Jennifer Oliva

August 2, 2007

Lori, Rob, & Josh...Our deepest sympathy to your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God watch over you & may you be comforted by the memories of Rob. Love - JJ, Jennifer, Colton, & Dominic Oliva

Wendy Petzold

August 2, 2007

Lori and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God uphold you during this time.
Love, Andrew & Wendy Petzold

Anthony Sherman

August 2, 2007

Lori, Robby and Josh:

Robert was like a brother to me growing up next door to each other. I am deeply saddened at his death and my prayers are with you and your family. Rob was a great friend!

Jon and Andrea Gaines and Family

August 2, 2007

Lori,

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I knew of Rob thru Terri and she shared many warm thoughts and his passion for helping others in our conversations about life in general.

Again, deepest condolences to you, Josh, Rob and your family.

Bill Sommers

August 2, 2007

Lori:

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Bill Sommers
Ameriprise Financial

Kim McCann-Swanson

August 2, 2007

Dear Lori and boys

Rob was a vibrant, energetic and caring man. He touched so many lives with his warm heart and comforting smile. I am so grateful for time with him.
I love you dearly and will do anything you need.
all our love,
Kim, David and Emma OXOXO

Amy Grau

August 2, 2007

Lori,
Our prayers and deepest sympathy to you
and your two little boys.

Love,
Paul, Amy and Carter Grau

Angela Seager

August 2, 2007

Lori and family, My heart goes out to you. I have a poem that I keep at my desk from when my uncle past away. I hope this will bring you peace.
Imagine - stepping onto a shore and finding it heaven
Imagine - taking hold of a hand and finding it God's hand
Imagine - breathing new air and finding it celestial air
Imagine - feeling invigorated and finding it immortality
Imagine - passing from storm and tempest to an unknown calm
imagine - waking and finding it home.

Joni Ansfield

August 2, 2007

Lori, my heart and love are with you. I am so very saddened by your terrible loss.
Joni Ansfield..Justin and Riley Strauss' Noni

Leah Penkalski

August 2, 2007

Lori, Robby and Josh-
Our hearts are filled with sadness. Please know we are here for you all if you need anything.

Love...Leah, Randy, Justin and Sarah Penkalski

Carol Hinman

August 2, 2007

Please except our deepest Sympathy;Lori although nothing can make your loss any easier, I know that your Dad and Mom will be by your side to get you through this Love Bob and Carol !

Jennifer Chambers

August 2, 2007

Rob was an inspiration to us all and will be missed tremendously. Life here at Froedtert is not the same without his upbeat personality and smile. I cannot imagine what you are going through and pray that you get the strength to move forward in this difficult time. My prayers are with you.

Pamela Chumbley

August 2, 2007

Lori and family, this sadness spreads so far. My heart goes out to you and your family.

August 2, 2007

Lori, Robby & Josh -

Rob has touched our lives in ways we will always remember. You have been in our thoughts and prayers since the moment we heard. We love all of you. - Two Who Care

Mike Lied

August 2, 2007

To our "little brother" Rob,
you will be missed by all. May the Lord watch over Lori and the boys and comfort them. Prayers to all the family.
Mike

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