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Thomas Coach "Whitey" Grafenauer

1943 - 2017

Thomas Coach "Whitey" Grafenauer obituary, 1943-2017, Milwaukee, WI

BORN

1943

DIED

2017

Thomas Grafenauer Obituary

Grafenauer, Thomas "Whitey" "Coach" Passed to Eternal Life, Tuesday, November 14, 2017. Age 74 years. Beloved husband of Carol (nee Schupp). Dear father of Thomas J. (Melissa) and Todd (Stacy) Grafenauer. Loving grandfather of Kyle, Max, Jayce, Bella, Bryce and Brinkley. Godfather of Susan Schupp. Brother-in-law of Mary Lynn Grafenauer, Richard (Nancy) and Ronald (Gloria) Schupp. Also survived by nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends. Visitation Tuesday, November 21, 2017, at St. James Catholic Church (830 E. Veterans Way, Mukwonago) 3 PM with Mass of Christian Burial 6 PM. Retired teacher and coach of Whitnall School District. In lieu of flowers, memorials to the Special Olympics or Leukemia And Lymphoma Society appreciated. Member of the Wisconsin Baseball Coaches Hall of Fame, District Coach of the Year, 1976, and Past President of the Baseball Coach Association. Former Whitnall High School baseball and football coach. Longtime referee for Wisconsin High School Basketball. Past President German Wirehaired Pointer Club of Wisconsin. Avid pheasant, duck, and rabbit hunter and outdoorsman.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Nov. 19, 2017.

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M & M Krusing

December 31, 2017

Whitey and I were classmates and sometimes teammates at St Rita and DBHS. We shared some real good times back in the day. He was a true standup guy who also knew how to have fun. Our condolences to his family.

James (J. R.) Hendrickson

November 24, 2017

I sat behind Tom in several classes at DB and while I didn't know him well, I always thought he was a true gentleman and a total class act. It sounds like he had a good life. I'm glad.

Tom Blattner

November 21, 2017

Tom was a star athlete and a friend to everyone. Please accept my sympathy.

John E. 'Gene' O'Connell

November 21, 2017

Carol,

I don't believe we ever met, but I am a Whitnall retiree (1984) and was in line to extend my condolences when it was time for mass to begin today.

First employed at the Hales Corners Elementary School in 1953 and I moved to Whitnall in 1960 and was an administrator from 1962 beginning as assistant high school principal, first middle school principal in 1970 and moved back to the Jefferson and Valley View in 1976. I closed Valley View in the early 80s and while I was in the process of closing Jefferson in 83-84, I was also the Co-principal of the high school.

While our association was limited in my final years, I valued our friendship, as his career began in the district.

All of you will be in my prayers.

John E. 'Gene' O'Connell

CW

November 21, 2017

My condolences to the Grafenauer 's family. Very sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort be with you at this difficult time, and be comfort , and be strengthen by God'sWord in John 6:40

Ryan Malkowski

November 21, 2017

Coach was a great man when I came to Whitnall in early 2000s. My greatest condolences. He will be surely missed.

Bob Tatalovich

November 19, 2017

Always remember his smooth fielding of bouncing balls hit toward third base. Condolences.

Fred Kopp

November 18, 2017

Talk about Throwback, what a joy he was on the baseball diamond. Memory treasures galore. Rest In Peace coach.

Stan and Kristina Azimov

November 17, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Our condolences to Grafenauer family.

Peggy Matuszak

November 17, 2017

Tom was a wonderful warm husband, father and grandfather. He was also a special role model for my son and all the other children. My prayers are with all of you. Peggy Matuszak

John Suess

November 17, 2017

I played ball with Tom and the Polish Associationin the early 1970s.
Sorry to see his passing.
Rest In Peace Tom.

Nate and Stacey Rebholz

November 16, 2017

We are so sorry to hear about Whitey's passing and sending prayers and love to the entire family.

Jim Hinckle

November 16, 2017

Condolences to the Grafenauer family.

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Memorial Events
for Thomas Grafenauer

Nov

21

Visitation

3:00 p.m.

St. James Catholic Church

830 E. Veterans Way, Mukwonago, WI

Nov

21

Mass of Christian Burial

6:00 p.m.

St. James Catholic Church

WI

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