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Your pumpkin
July 7, 2024
Many years later and there isn´t a day that goes by that I don´t think about you! I miss you dad! Until we meet again!
Your pumpkin
July 4, 2023
I visited you the other day, and I still miss you more than you could ever imagine
your pumpkin
July 6, 2022
I miss you dad.
Jon Sweet
December 16, 2020
I hate that your gone ...
Terry Politoski
July 6, 2009
Tommy,
It was 1 year ago you left us and you are still in our thoughts. You will always be remembered for you smile and thoughts.
Love Auntie Terry
Netty Z
July 5, 2009
7-6-09
It was a year ago
you left us all behind,
You have gone to heaven,
but you're still here in our heats,
soul and mind.
I can still see your smile
that would brighten all our days
You have gone to heaven
but you're still here in many ways.
Whether it be at a softball game or
sitting in the bar
You have gone to heaven
but your laughter isn't far.
I may not have known you long
but our memories I will treasure
You have gone to heaven
but your memory lives on forever.
Miss you Tommy!
james schneck
December 30, 2008
happy early new year tom it's so hard to do it without u, x mas was not the same and neither will new year b the same without u, u r forever in my heart and thoughts evey single day all day hope u and dad have a few togather i will raise my glass to you and dad. forever loving brother and dad
james schneck
December 26, 2008
merry christmas brother i know u r with us, ur family we love u and mis u so much love u tom
james schneck
November 24, 2008
miss u so much everyday tom, you r in my thoughts every day love u brother
J Sweet
November 19, 2008
Forever Thinking Of You Brother !
Terry Politoski
October 19, 2008
I remember babaysitting for Tommy for the first time.He was 5yrs old and he hardly even knew who I was,but as years went on we had gotten closer because I married into the family,and yes Tommy stood up for our wedding. He did alot of things for us and he even lived with us for awhile. We did alot together at times,good and bad times but mostly good. Tommy had a heart of gold. he is deeply missed and today he is 31,so HAPPY BIRTHDAY Tommy.
Love Auntie Terry We all miss you
29th
October 6, 2008
We Miss You
Caryn Schneck
September 16, 2008
72 days...who's counting? Seems like a lot less or a lot more depending on what day it is. Wasn't it just yesterday that he was walking into mom's backyard shouting 'What's up C-Bags!'. If you knew Tommy, you know what that is. He's still missed every day and probably will be forever.
james schneck
August 19, 2008
tommy will always be in our hearts and thoughts forever and forever be missed love u tom
Ashley Wambold
August 16, 2008
I did not get a chance to meet Tommy but i know Ellen very well. We work together at the nursing home, she is like a mother to me. She called me the day he passed, i could tell something is wrong she never calls crying. My heart dropped when she told me. I knew how hard it was gonna be for her, let alone her whole family. I called everyday to check up on Ellen and she would call me in the middle of the night just to talk. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family Ellen. Rest in Peace Tommy. Know that your family still thinks about you everyday!!!1
james schneck
August 15, 2008
there is so much i wish i could tell tommy i think about him every day all day long. iam pretty sure he came to see me about 2 weeks ago,i sleped by my moms and i was just about to fall asleep looking into the closet my cloths wer hanging in there and all the sudden it looked like tommy was going through my cloths to see if i had any of his stuff, i got so scared but then i got thhis feeling over me it felt like tommy was telling me that he was ok but iam not sure what happed but i do know in the past i used to take his cloths and he would get so mad at me so i think he was checking if i had any of his stuff. wow i mis him so much tommy love u
J. Sweet
August 9, 2008
You will not be forgotten !
Kayla Schneck
July 26, 2008
i remember the day my mom called me. and told me to sit my sister and brothers on the couch. i had no idea what was going on. my auntie katie called me and was crying asking where my mom was so i told she was on her way home. i asked her what was going on. and she said tommy died. when i heard them two words i dropped the phone and cryed on my knee's. and seeing how hard it is for my nana and seeing her cry and how she could not stand made me really realize my uncle is gone and wont get to see him untill my day comes. when i was at the funeral i could barley breath and when i had to say my last goodbye's was one of the hardest things i had to do. i remember one day he took me on my first bike ride. that is a day i will never forget when he was rideing the motorcycle i told him not to go fast but he did anyway it was better going fast anyways but i remember holding on to him and rideing down the street. there is nothing anyone can to to bring him back i wish he was here today but i know he looking down at us all. I AM MISSING YOU AND I LOVE YOU UNCLE TOMMY † RIP †
Sara Politoski
July 23, 2008
wow where do i even begin 2 say about tommy. he was a great and loving son, father, and one of the best cousins a gurl could ever have. i will always cherish the good times we spent 2gether deep in my heart.
i remember a couple sumers ago when i was about mayb 13 or 14 and tommy and my dad were putting up dry wall in my room and at the time my dad wasnt home so tommy came over 2 finish it. and so b4 he left the house he threw something at my butt and i swear i chased him around the whole house for about a half hour with a broom stick. it was hilarious and i will never forget it.
when me and my mom got the news at work about wut happend i swear i felt my heart skip a beat because it did not seem real 2 me at all considering that we have all just seen you a week before for baby jaiden's birthday party!! but im pretty sure that the family was glad that you got 2 c us one last time and that you were there 2 help us celebrate his first birthday.
at the funeral all i kept thinkn about was wut if i lose my brother or my dad next?? i dont kno wut i would do if anything ever happend 2 either of them. my brother is my best friend in the whole world and my dad is my dad and i need both parents in my life.
now i kno everyone is sayn that your gone now and in a better place but in my perspective our not gone at all. u may b in a better place but never gone. your with me everywhere i go. always by my side and of course always on my heart. i just wished we could of spent alot more time together as the years went on. i'll always love and miss you 4ever and i'll never 4get you!!!
I LOVE YOU TOMMY!!!!
I MISS YOU!!!!
p.s i'll meet you up there one day but dnt worry i'll bring the party favors!!!love you always....lil cousin sara!!!!
My deepest sympathies to THE WHOLE FAMILY!!!!!! i love you all!!!
Caryn Schneck
July 19, 2008
What is there to say that hasn't already been said about Tommy. He had an infectious personality and the minute you met him, you had to love him. No matter how busy he was he always had time for his family and although he'd never say it out loud I think the times spent at family gatherings were his favorite. On my 26th birthday he came out with me and my friends (even though he didn't have to) and everyone there was just drawn to him. I remember he grabbed my arm in front of everyone and danced with me while singing Simple Man at the top of his lungs. Tommy was 'that guy'. The one who didn't care who was watching or listening. When I found out that he was gone I knew I wasn't just losing my big brother, I was losing a friend, a protector and one of the only guys in my life that never let me down. Love you always & miss you forever Tommy. <3
Marina Pavlopoulos
July 19, 2008
I keep thinking about when Caryn called me and told me not to 'Freak Out', when she told me all I could think about was the last time I saw Tommy. Caryn and I were getting ready to go to Karaoke and Tommy was moving his things in by her, and I kept telling him, to come out with us, and see this hot bartender. When we were leaving he was trying to get us to help him carry his stuff up and I'm sure we said something like 'you can do it'. As I was passing his car, I noticed he dropped a hanger with ties in the snow and I remember picking it up and saying 'Dork' as I through it in his car. Tommy did end up meeting us at Karaoke, and we tried to get him to sing. Caryn sang and I remember looking at Tommy and he just had that grin, watching her.
The first time I ever meet Tommy, I instantly had a crush, and he pronounced my name "Ma-Ray-Nuh". I will never forget that. Or the time Caryn and I were at Sassy Fox and I made Tommy dance with me.
Knowing the Schnecks now for 10 years, they've become my family, I was there when we got the call about Grandma, I was there when Dennis passed away, and now the shock and the unrealness of Tommy.
I'll Miss You Tommy, I am grateful that I had the chance to know you, And thanks for 'hanging out' with us.
xoxo
james schneck
July 16, 2008
I am not much of a writer but i feel everybody needs to hear this story about tommy and i. One day when we wer kids mabe 10 or 11 we went fishing at the domes i dident catch anything but tommy did a bullhead mabe 6 inches long so there was an old man fishing next to us with all his tackle and fishing gear we thought it was funny like he was going to catch "the big one" anyways tommy kept that small fish on his hook and threw it back in the water and acted like he kept catching fish but it was the same one the old man said "wow u guys r lucky we wer fighting back tears we wer laughing so hard by the time tommy stopped messing with the guy the fish was dead. tommy was so fun to be arround he had a way with every body its so hard to cope with the fact that he is gone he will always b in my heart love u tom see u on the other side ill bring the beers
Mikey Politoski
July 16, 2008
I love you Uncle Tommy.Soon as I heard the news I was Crying so hard. You rock Uncle Tommy and you are the best Uncle out there. I cryed at the funeral home and I just want to say sorry to:Alex, Angie, Aunt Caryn, Aunt Amy, Kaylla, Kiley, Aunt Katie, Uncle Jamie, My Dad, Nana, Uncle Ric, Aunt Terry, Chris, and Sara...
Deapest Sympothy,
Micheal Christopher Politoski The 2nd
Taylor Politoski <33
July 15, 2008
Uncle Tommy,
Even though I only saw you a couple times...
Alot of people told me really amazing stories about you.... You sound like you really AWESOME!!! <3
If you're wondering I will make you that bracelet you wanted Me and my friend to make for you at My brotherss birthday party!!!!
Love You and Wish I could of Hung Out With you Way MORE!!!,
Taylor <333 XoXo
P.S. I'll Never Forget you <3333
michael politoski
July 15, 2008
tommy was about 7,maybe 8,i remember taking him to the park,the school playground across the street,almost everyday-just to whip the ball at him,to practice groundballs...i'd yell in his face-"dont be afraid of the ball"...the kid never complained,never back-talked me,& never quit..didnt put up a fight-because i wanted him to bat lefty,when i nailed him a good one with the ball-he'd shag the next one with tears in his eyes...that was tommy...as years went by,i coached him/his friends-in leagues,tournaments,etc...never had to say a word to him-he knew what i wanted from him,he knew how to win,& the team followed him...that was tommy...over the years,we grew apart,did our own things...disagreements,fights,just different ways of looking at life,& doing things,now...i wish we had more moments,more memories...just more...i got to hangout with him one last time-caught a rock show,called him outta the blue,hadnt seen/talked to him for awhile,just had the urge to have him there-it was my favorite band & i wanted him to like them-& he did...i'm so sorry tommy...i'll miss you & you'll always be with me-love you bro...
Michelle Sweet
July 15, 2008
Dont know what to say but Tom was like a big brother to me for many years, he an my brother Jon were best friends as a grew up. Loved him dearly. He will always be in my heart and in my thoughts. May he rest in peace. Love Ya Tom. You'll be missed by many. An my heart an sympathy goes out tt all the Schneck family
Michelle Sweet
July 15, 2008
Dont what to say but Tom was like a big brother to me, my brother Jon an him were best friends as I grew up. He was a great person and will always be in my heart and in my thoughts. Love Ya Tom, you'll be missed by many.
JAMES SCHNECK
July 14, 2008
TOMMY IS A GREAT BROTHER I HAD SO MANY GREAT TIMES WITH HIM TOM IS ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS I WILL MISS HIM DEEPELY LOVE U TOMMY TUNES BROTHER T
Antonia,Katie,Kristy,Grace and Neil
July 13, 2008
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief. May your memeories bring you comfort. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends..
We all grew up together, and had great times like block tag, kick the can and Tommy's favorite was CHINESE CHASE!!! :} We miss you and you will forever be in our hearts.
Rivera Family (Danielle, Nick, Eriana, Benjamin & Naiya)
July 12, 2008
To the Schneck & Politoski Families,
My family does not know your family, but my son, Ben, is friends with Alex.
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you and may God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Your families are in our prayers!
Note from Ben:
Alex,
I am very sorry to hear about your dad. If there is anything I can do for you, let me know. Hope to see you soon at Grandma Barb's house!
Ben
Jeanne Scorsone (Kohn)
July 12, 2008
A dear friend of your Mother, Ellen. Lisa, Mike and Bob, my kids played with you when you lived on 31st street. My deepest thoughts and prays for your family,
John Moran
July 12, 2008
Almighty God, Father of all mercies and giver of all comfort: Deal graciously, we pray thee, with those who mourn, that casting every care on thee, they may know the consolation of thy love, through Jesus Christ our Lord.
You were a great childhood friend and will be missed by many.
Annamarie, Mark, Benjamin, and Noel Zimmerman
July 11, 2008
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
Your families are in our hearts, our thoughts, and our prayers as you walk though this time of sorrow.
Shandell Harmon
July 11, 2008
I don't know where to start. I haven't seen Tom in how long. I used to live on 31st. st on the corner.Johnny and Tom would help boost me up to get at my porch because I would sneak out the house to play block tag. We were always playing some kind of games. He was a funny guy to be around. I had heard that he had a daughter and she will be the one that is going to be suffering the most. My prayers and thoughts go out to the family.
ANN MARIE REWOLINSKI
July 10, 2008
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE ENTIRE FAMILY OF TOMMY. I'M SORRY NOT TO BE THERE. I AM IN COLORADO. LOVE, AUNTIE ANN & JIM
Becky & Joe Kroll
July 10, 2008
Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Schneck and Politoski family. I'm so sorry to hear about Tommy.
Kim Hoefer
July 10, 2008
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE FAMILY ESPECIALLY TO LITTLE ALEX SHE WILL MISS HER DAD VERY MUCH HE WAS VERY SPECIAL TO HER.
AUNT KIM
Rick, Zora, and Amanda Szada
July 10, 2008
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest sympathy goes to our Grandaughter and niece Alexandria and to Tom's family. We will never forget all the times spent together, especially with Alley. You will be missed.
kayla schneck
July 10, 2008
i am going to miss you ungle tommy. im going to miss everything about you. i remember when you took me on my first bike ride that is a day i will never forget. you will always be in my heart ♥
Jon Sweet
July 10, 2008
Where do I start ? I have 20 years of memorys.
I wanna share with you the 1st day I met Tommy . I just moved to the neighborhood on 31st and Mitchell and there was this kid sitting on the porch of the house next door. He kindly asked me " Hey whats your name? Are you moving in here"? I replied " Yes, My names Jon and I am moving in here ". He introduced himself to me and asked if he could help , from there on out , we were pretty much unseparable.
As kids we did a lot of things together , rode bikes , played baseball together at Burnham Park , went fishing , camping , played kick the can, and can't forget block tag , with everyone in the neighborhood (you know who you are). As we got older we got into mini bikes and motorcycles. I remember purchasing my first motorcycle, and Tommy insisted on getting a motorcycle as well , so he bought an old Honda , I believe it was a 70 something 754 . That thing had some get up and go ! I remember him coming around the corner where a good friend of ours lived. He came barreling at us like a bat out of hell as we watched him fly by us from the garage. He couldn't stop in time and ran into some of those big green garbage cans and fell over. He was quick to reply, " Hey come help me pick this thing up, it weighs a ton " !
Ill never forget that moment.
I had a great time with him and a few other friends that were working and living in Wisconsin Dells for a summer. It was so fun, alot of us made the local news paper !
I could go on for hours.
I shared many laughs and many tears with Tommy. He will forever remain in my thoughts.
Farewell my friend , untill we meet again . . .
kayla schneck
July 10, 2008
im going to miss you ungle tommy i will pray for you everyday. i remember when you took me on my first bike ride i had the time of my life i cant believe your gone. i also rememeber when you were their when i had a hard time with my mom and you would talk to me me to make me feel better. i will miss you ungle tommy you will always be in my heart ♥
Kelly Castillo (Coughlin)
July 10, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Tommy's family and friends. It has been a long time since I have seen Tommy, we grew up on 31st and had some good times that I will never forget.
Kathy & Joe
July 10, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to all of Tommy's friends and family. We will miss his smiling face and funny comments at the softball games and hanging out afterwards.
Jon, Sara and Leia Sweet
July 10, 2008
Our sincere condolences to the Schneck family for the loss of a good hearted guy. Tom will forever remain in our hearts. We've all got one more angel to watch over and protect us.
stephanie latona
July 10, 2008
Tommy......man I havent seen you since we lived on the same block on 31st and Mitchell. You and your sister Amy went to school with my brother Tony and me at St. Ignatious..... It saddened me to hear your gone now... I hope your family finds peace. And I will see you on the other side!
Stephanie Latona and Tony Latona
Andy & Angeli
July 10, 2008
Our deepest sympathies go out to Tommy's family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Nicole & David
July 10, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to Tommy's family and to all that loved him and who are left mourning. Tommy will be missed by a lot of people but he will never be forgotten! Rest Peacefully T Bag!
Kevin and Jackie Trebe
July 10, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out for Tommy's family. He was a great guy and fun to always be around. He will truely be missed by all that knew and loved him.
Netty Ziegler
July 10, 2008
My heart goes out to Tommy's family. He was a great guy with a big heart. He always made you smile as he was always smiling. He will truly be missed by all that knew him. God bless.
Eileen & Marc Mc Ginnis
July 10, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Ellen and all of her children and family. Especially our Son-in-Law, Michael.
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